FabSwingers.com forum: Planned or spontaneous meets

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

A few days messaging with the flirts and teasing or the are you free messages. Just curious on the views

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I only meet people I think I'm actually compatible with and interested in.

I'm free, you're convenient just doesn't sell it for me

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

Not as if I have options but always chats and flirts first given the choice

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

We want to build a connection - gets rid of chancers and we find out how keen people are if they are prepared to chat and chat.

If we’re away then maybe a lucky dip now and again but there’s nothing better than building the heat up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We want to build a connection - gets rid of chancers and we find out how keen people are if they are prepared to chat and chat.

If we’re away then maybe a lucky dip now and again but there’s nothing better than building the heat up.

I'm a lucky dipper

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Most messages I get assume immediate availability and readiness for sex. Invariably I am busy and will plan towards future meets.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Always planned x

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

A lot more than a few days for me.

I've only ever had one spontaneous meet after chatting the day before and I'm not in a hurry to repeat it.

When I am actually meeting I will chat for weeks and sometimes months before meeting for a social and even then nothing is guaranteed.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I agree. I rather the chats and cheaky banter in messages. Get a feel for the humor and who ur chatting to

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

I don't entertain spontaneous meets.

My chats are protracted over days, typically weeks and months before I meet someone for a social, before anything else is on the agenda.

I have been chatting to someone since 2022 and we are planning to meet in the new year. That, however, is the exception rather than the rule.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do I already like them?

I take a long time to get to know and like someone, so it’s probably planned. But if I’m planning months away, it’s probably going to fizzle out with someone new.

A spontaneous’ hey what are you up to’ would be great fun with someone I already know, not so much with someone new.

So, my top tip. Get to know me, I’m more likely to say yes to both planned and meet now!!

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Never do spontaneous for a first orc even second time of meeting. I might with an established fwb.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Never do spontaneous for a first orc even second time of meeting. I might with an established fwb.

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By *orphia2003Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.

Only ever done 2 spontaneous meets. Both with people I'd chatted to online for a while.

Much prefer planned ones.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

My most exciting meet was a spontaneous one and we still keep in contact.

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