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By (user no longer on site) OP   
51 weeks ago

Been on here for about 8 months now and still haven't managed to get a meet. Had plenty of conversations then it goes dead. We are a genuine couple struggling here to reach the next step. Any suggestions please.

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By *ink vixenCouple
51 weeks ago

Medway

Get out to some clubs and get some people to verify that you’re a genuine couple?

Lots of twats on here pretending to be couples when they aren’t.

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By *ealitybitesMan
51 weeks ago

Belfast

You're looking for that elusive unicorn which so many couples are so you will always find it difficult.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
51 weeks ago

Apart from clubs any ideas on how to write your info, tried everything?

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago


"Apart from clubs any ideas on how to write your info, tried everything?"

Maybe lose the legal bit

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By *andadbodMan
51 weeks ago

Liverpool

You seem to be looking for the same thing most couples are wanting on here, that bisexual women.

When both my wife and myself had our couples profile here, we also struggled, but we were looking for couples and single men only, we found going to social events worked best for us in the end, meeting other swingers on a social level really helped networking, after that we started getting more interest and the sex quickly followed.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
51 weeks ago


"You seem to be looking for the same thing most couples are wanting on here, that bisexual women.

When both my wife and myself had our couples profile here, we also struggled, but we were looking for couples and single men only, we found going to social events worked best for us in the end, meeting other swingers on a social level really helped networking, after that we started getting more interest and the sex quickly followed."

Thank you

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By *ris GrayMan
51 weeks ago

Dorchester


"Apart from clubs any ideas on how to write your info, tried everything?"
could be because you're only looking for a woman a sought after commodity here

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By *uckslut and MCouple
51 weeks ago

Poole

I'm in B1 next Thursday. I'm looking for an F, for FF only.

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By *alandNitaCouple
51 weeks ago

Scunthorpe


"Apart from clubs any ideas on how to write your info, tried everything?"

Firstly, the "legal disclaimer" is total rubbish, it's just wasting space on your profile.

More importantly though, your profile is all about what you want and nothing about what you are offering. It's almost as though you feel that there's a massive queue of ladies that need whittling down to find your perfect candidate.

Cal

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago


"Been on here for about 8 months now and still haven't managed to get a meet. Had plenty of conversations then it goes dead. We are a genuine couple struggling here to reach the next step. Any suggestions please."

What exactly do you want the woman to do ? Let her lick you while husband watches?

Will he even be there? If so why is there only one pic of his bollock?

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago


"Apart from clubs any ideas on how to write your info, tried everything?

Firstly, the "legal disclaimer" is total rubbish, it's just wasting space on your profile.

More importantly though, your profile is all about what you want and nothing about what you are offering. It's almost as though you feel that there's a massive queue of ladies that need whittling down to find your perfect candidate.

Cal"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
51 weeks ago


"Been on here for about 8 months now and still haven't managed to get a meet. Had plenty of conversations then it goes dead. We are a genuine couple struggling here to reach the next step. Any suggestions please.

What exactly do you want the woman to do ? Let her lick you while husband watches?

Will he even be there? If so why is there only one pic of his bollock? "

We have pics of him there only open to friends only

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago


"Been on here for about 8 months now and still haven't managed to get a meet. Had plenty of conversations then it goes dead. We are a genuine couple struggling here to reach the next step. Any suggestions please.

What exactly do you want the woman to do ? Let her lick you while husband watches?

Will he even be there? If so why is there only one pic of his bollock?

We have pics of him there only open to friends only"

Good luck.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
51 weeks ago

East Sussex


"Been on here for about 8 months now and still haven't managed to get a meet. Had plenty of conversations then it goes dead. We are a genuine couple struggling here to reach the next step. Any suggestions please.

What exactly do you want the woman to do ? Let her lick you while husband watches?

Will he even be there? If so why is there only one pic of his bollock?

We have pics of him there only open to friends only"

Put yourself in the place of a single woman. Would you be tempted? From the safety aspect would you meet a couple who were only prepared to show you the woman once you were their friend?

Single bisexual women are in the minority on fab, that means the couples looking for them don't find it easy.

I wish you luck

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By *asycouple1971Couple
51 weeks ago

midlands

You be better off looking for couples with a bi fem.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
51 weeks ago

East Sussex


"Been on here for about 8 months now and still haven't managed to get a meet. Had plenty of conversations then it goes dead. We are a genuine couple struggling here to reach the next step. Any suggestions please.

What exactly do you want the woman to do ? Let her lick you while husband watches?

Will he even be there? If so why is there only one pic of his bollock?

We have pics of him there only open to friends only

Put yourself in the place of a single woman. Would you be tempted? From the safety aspect would you meet a couple who were only prepared to show you the woman once you were their friend?

Single bisexual women are in the minority on fab, that means the couples looking for them don't find it easy.

I wish you luck"

That should say 'show you the man'

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
51 weeks ago

ashford

Deffo look at going to swingers social! Been to a few! All very friendly pub setting just getting to know like minded people! Good luck x

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By *imi_RougeWoman
51 weeks ago

Portsmouth

Photos of you together on your profile might help... To prove you are actually a couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago


"Photos of you together on your profile might help... To prove you are actually a couple."

There's a bollock and a cock in a mouth.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
51 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

Have you played with a female before - it state bi-curious in your profile, so just wondering.

You will take every female to ‘pleasure heaven’ - that’s some statement before speaking to someone or not knowing them or just being curious about your bi-sexuality.

You’ve done well speaking to any females without any pics of Mr - as if I was were a single female looking to play with a couple I’d be looking at profiles with pics of them both so I could see them both and bypassing profiles with only one of them on display - no matter how attractive a bollock is

Good luck

K

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By *oodmessMan
51 weeks ago

yumsville

Just writing the same as the poster above. Your profile says two different things really.

On one hand you seem new, looking for a first experience with a woman, where you are bi curious. On the other you say you will push boundaries, explore fantasies and have unforgettable experiences.

It isn't a criticism, but you are either exploring yourself or you know what you're doing. If you're looking to explore, push boundaries, gain experience, try xyz just say so.

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By *aughty but nice...Man
51 weeks ago

Staffs

Go to clubs far better chance in meeting people

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By *ornycougaWoman
51 weeks ago

NORWAY Wherever I lay my hat


"Apart from clubs any ideas on how to write your info, tried everything?

Firstly, the "legal disclaimer" is total rubbish, it's just wasting space on your profile.

More importantly though, your profile is all about what you want and nothing about what you are offering. It's almost as though you feel that there's a massive queue of ladies that need whittling down to find your perfect candidate.

Cal"

This. No entitlement here. Most women want to build a rapport with both the F and the M. The messages I get from couples either want to try her bi side (I'm not a teacher or here to experiment) or they send banal messages like "do you fancy us?" (when only she is visible) or "are you free on Saturday? " (no)

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

Your a couple so some pictures of the male half will go far.

Your only looking for single ladies, known as *unicorns* for a reason as they are rare mythical creatures

Why don't you try some swinging clubs?

Miss S x

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By *alandNitaCouple
51 weeks ago

Scunthorpe


"Been on here for about 8 months now and still haven't managed to get a meet. Had plenty of conversations then it goes dead. We are a genuine couple struggling here to reach the next step. Any suggestions please."

I can only agree with others.

If I met couples alone, I would not be inclined to meet you based on many things... but mainly because my needs and wellbeing are seemingly of no interest or importance to you.

I'm sure that isn't the case, but it's the way that the profile comes across.

Nita

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By *naswingdressWoman
51 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

I find your profile demanding and apart from a bit of hyperbole "pleasure heaven" it's all about you.

You're looking for a single bisexual female and we have more choice than we could handle with ten of us. It's not right, necessarily, but you should bear that in mind when you're working out how to describe yourselves - you're looking for something highly in demand and in relatively low supply.

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

Ok, my take on this as a single experienced bisexual woman…..

You are both newbies to this lifestyle. F is looking for another woman to experiment with whilst husband joins in.

You promise an unforgettable experience.

On what grounds? You have nothing to base this on and it would be a major red flag for me and I’m guessing the majority of your target market.

I would have a rethink and a rewrite.

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By *naswingdressWoman
51 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Ok, my take on this as a single experienced bisexual woman…..

You are both newbies to this lifestyle. F is looking for another woman to experiment with whilst husband joins in.

You promise an unforgettable experience.

On what grounds? You have nothing to base this on and it would be a major red flag for me and I’m guessing the majority of your target market.

I would have a rethink and a rewrite.

"

Yes, I agree with this. The warning signs are all there for me of a pillow princess who wants to impress her man and won't actually be interested in me, but are very impressed with themselves. I'm not saying you are any of those things, but those are things that are marginally more attractive to me than a couple where the woman doesn't exist.

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By *arla SwingerWoman
51 weeks ago

Somewhere

It would be a hard pass from me if I received a message from your profile. I like to see both people in a couple, I like there to be some indication a social would be offered if we hit it off. If you're looking to explore your bi side maybe seek FF instead OP? It sounds, and reads more like you're a couple where the male is looking for a 'show' being put on.

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By *layfullsamMan
51 weeks ago

Solihull


"Been on here for about 8 months now and still haven't managed to get a meet. Had plenty of conversations then it goes dead. We are a genuine couple struggling here to reach the next step. Any suggestions please."

If you can’t get a meet we’re all doomed I tell you, doomed

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By *arla SwingerWoman
51 weeks ago

Somewhere

Maybe read your profile from the view of if you were a solo lady on here OP? What would pique your own interest to join a couple? It'd be a good starting point

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
51 weeks ago

Leeds


"Apart from clubs any ideas on how to write your info, tried everything?"

Loose the legal rubbish it means nothing.

I prefer to meet at organised social events it's much easier at face value, never ending small talk on here just irritates me.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago


"Apart from clubs any ideas on how to write your info, tried everything?"

Go in chat room as couple

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By *issmorganWoman
51 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

I'm not your target audience ops, but bi fems are really in demand and so many men and couples want to meet them.

Most would expect to see the guy too and wouldn't add you as a friend to see him. So I'd add a pic or 2 of him or some of you together.

Any fem that meets couples need to feel attraction to both and to feel safe meeting you.

Clubs can be better to meet bi ladies rather than just relying on here.

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