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"Get so crude so quickly? They don't know their audience so why do it? Instablock from me. " | |||
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"Get so crude so quickly? They don't know their audience so why do it? Instablock from me. " Good idea. Just block em. 
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"Get so crude so quickly? They don't know their audience so why do it? Instablock from me. " I think they let themselves down coming on when they're already horny. I get a few "do you want to meet now"? Messages and think really, does it seem like I'm sat indoors twiddling my thumbs  It's ridiculous | |||
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"Because they don't see people they see words and images on a screen and think we can be used for their own pleasures I got asked if I would wrestle with another woman! Er no - oh, why not? - if you have to ask then it's a waste of my crayons trying to explain it to you "Oh I've never been asked to wrestle a woman. Totally up for that if it involves rolling around in desert's! Pity my kness are buggered. The majority are crude men. When women get crude with me i get a nervous giggle. Intelligent crudesness can be highly entertaining. | |||
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"Surely it’s a good thing (in a strange way) better to find out early before you invest time and energy into them ?" This is how I see it too | |||
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"Because they don't see people they see words and images on a screen and think we can be used for their own pleasures I got asked if I would wrestle with another woman! Er no - oh, why not? - if you have to ask then it's a waste of my crayons trying to explain it to you
Oh I've never been asked to wrestle a woman.
Totally up for that if it involves rolling around in desert's! Pity my kness are buggered.
The majority are crude men. When women get crude with me i get a nervous giggle.
Intelligent crudesness can be highly entertaining. "Oooh if it was custard maybe! Or jelly  | |||
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"It’s not just men it’s everyone. I get crude and rude messages from females everyday. They just can’t be bothered reading my profile it’s awful, ruining my life " Damn, what am I doing wrong, I dont get any of those messages and my inbox is open! | |||
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"Because they don't see people they see words and images on a screen and think we can be used for their own pleasures I got asked if I would wrestle with another woman! Er no - oh, why not? - if you have to ask then it's a waste of my crayons trying to explain it to you
Oh I've never been asked to wrestle a woman.
Totally up for that if it involves rolling around in desert's! Pity my kness are buggered.
The majority are crude men. When women get crude with me i get a nervous giggle.
Intelligent crudesness can be highly entertaining.
Oooh if it was custard maybe! Or jelly "Yes ! Sorbets in the summer. Custards in the winter. Though i like cold custard and banana. Actually what a picture | |||
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" Totally up for that if it involves rolling around in desert's! Pity my kness are buggered. " But the sand will get in all the little cracks.
Now if we are talking desserts, what type? trifle? lots of custard? will there be alcohol in it? how about sticky toffee pudding? Please don't limit it to women, I am quite hungry now. | |||
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"Because they don't see people they see words and images on a screen and think we can be used for their own pleasures I got asked if I would wrestle with another woman! Er no - oh, why not? - if you have to ask then it's a waste of my crayons trying to explain it to you
Oh I've never been asked to wrestle a woman.
Totally up for that if it involves rolling around in desert's! Pity my kness are buggered.
The majority are crude men. When women get crude with me i get a nervous giggle.
Intelligent crudesness can be highly entertaining.
Oooh if it was custard maybe! Or jelly
Yes ! Sorbets in the summer. Custards in the winter.
Though i like cold custard and banana. Actually what a picture "I'll meet you there, I'll bring spoons | |||
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" Totally up for that if it involves rolling around in desert's! Pity my kness are buggered. But the sand will get in all the little cracks.
Now if we are talking desserts, what type? trifle? lots of custard? will there be alcohol in it? how about sticky toffee pudding? Please don't limit it to women, I am quite hungry now. "I love trifle! Oooh lump it all in, not fussy  | |||
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"Because they don't see people they see words and images on a screen and think we can be used for their own pleasures I got asked if I would wrestle with another woman! Er no - oh, why not? - if you have to ask then it's a waste of my crayons trying to explain it to you
Oh I've never been asked to wrestle a woman.
Totally up for that if it involves rolling around in desert's! Pity my kness are buggered.
The majority are crude men. When women get crude with me i get a nervous giggle.
Intelligent crudesness can be highly entertaining. "How frightfully spiffing of you, now be most indecent and suck my custsrd-covered cock | |||
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"I don't get the crudeness that other people seem to have. I feel like I'm missing out. "Get yourself on your knees so I blow my bollock batter all over your face. | |||
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"Get so crude so quickly? They don't know their audience so why do it? Instablock from me. " Its because most men not all have sex on the brain 24/7 and they think that you do to hence the pics and the crude chat | |||
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"Because they don't see people they see words and images on a screen and think we can be used for their own pleasures I got asked if I would wrestle with another woman! Er no - oh, why not? - if you have to ask then it's a waste of my crayons trying to explain it to you
Oh I've never been asked to wrestle a woman.
Totally up for that if it involves rolling around in desert's! Pity my kness are buggered.
The majority are crude men. When women get crude with me i get a nervous giggle.
Intelligent crudesness can be highly entertaining.
How frightfully spiffing of you, now be most indecent and suck my custsrd-covered cock "Like i say, my kness are shot | |||
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"Someone say custard?
You sploshing again? "Ya know, I don’t know if I could cope with doing anything other than eating it | |||
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"Someone say custard?
You sploshing again?
Ya know, I don’t know if I could cope with doing anything other than eating it "Fun finding out though | |||
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"You would be mortified at some of the vacuous crass that sullies my Inbøx: women are no different." You could have just told me to stop | |||
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"Someone say custard?
You sploshing again?
Ya know, I don’t know if I could cope with doing anything other than eating it "The words every man wants to hear. | |||
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"Get so crude so quickly? They don't know their audience so why do it? Instablock from me. " One handed typists. | |||
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"Someone say custard?
You sploshing again?
Ya know, I don’t know if I could cope with doing anything other than eating it
The words every man wants to hear. " | |||
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"You would be mortified at some of the vacuous crass that sullies my Inbøx: women are no different. · You could have just told me to stop "• I'm not quite ready for you to stop. Yet. | |||
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"Very few men that have messaged me have ever been crude. " That’s because it’s not crude in Ilfracombe, it’s art. Just ask Damien Hirst | |||
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"You would be mortified at some of the vacuous crass that sullies my Inbøx: women are no different. · You could have just told me to stop
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I'm not quite ready for you to stop. Yet. "Not cum yet? Oops... can't help myself | |||
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"Women cancel their block fingers if the bloke is like "him on the telly"." I'd never block Dicky Strawbridge ! | |||
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"I rarely get this. I don't know why though. Sometimes I do but it's very occasional. I tend to send a messages back that say 'I'm sorry but you don't fit what I'm looking for' They generally say thanks for the response and that's that. It's the ones that reply back with 'i do' that really make me laugh and then I block them." Unfortunately most women here on fabs pretend like if they say "sorry not interested" they get death threats all the time, and there is no arguing. Funny that your experience varies. Makes you wonder who is lying. | |||
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"If I’m honest I find it tiring that “men” get all the negativity directed towards them on here. Whilst the percentages may not be as high any group of people on here are equally capable of being disrespectful to each other. I totally accept that men send things that are “awful” and I really hope they would not say it to someone’s face but this is not just limited to men on here. I reported a profile that was sending my private photos I had sent them to others both on and off the site " How did you find out that was going on? | |||
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"This does happen with sone woman as well. Statistically I don’t know the comparison percentages but it does happen, but weirdly makes me question if they are catfishes " This has never happened with anyone I’ve ever met. I’ve only ever had a small number of people, mainly couples ask to see my cock. I’m always happy to send them a pic of a huge Rhode Island Red. Lol. | |||
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"If I’m honest I find it tiring that “men” get all the negativity directed towards them on here. Whilst the percentages may not be as high any group of people on here are equally capable of being disrespectful to each other. I totally accept that men send things that are “awful” and I really hope they would not say it to someone’s face but this is not just limited to men on here. I reported a profile that was sending my private photos I had sent them to others both on and off the site How did you find out that was going on?" She openly told me her friends thought I was “fit”, I asked how they knew and she proudly admitted to sending them everything. | |||
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"Get so crude so quickly? They don't know their audience so why do it? Instablock from me. " I said I was sorry | |||
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"Get so crude so quickly? They don't know their audience so why do it? Instablock from me. " We have had our fair share of these guys. And the pushy ones who want to meet and fuck asap.  | |||
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"Why do some women do the same? The answer is people. It's just what some people do. It's not really that complex " Oh enough with your common sense | |||
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"I rarely get this. I don't know why though. Sometimes I do but it's very occasional. I tend to send a messages back that say 'I'm sorry but you don't fit what I'm looking for' They generally say thanks for the response and that's that. It's the ones that reply back with 'i do' that really make me laugh and then I block them. Unfortunately most women here on fabs pretend like if they say "sorry not interested" they get death threats all the time, and there is no arguing. Funny that your experience varies. Makes you wonder who is lying." Are suggesting I'm lying? Really??? Why would I lie? What would actually be the point in that? | |||
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"I rarely get this. I don't know why though. Sometimes I do but it's very occasional. I tend to send a messages back that say 'I'm sorry but you don't fit what I'm looking for' They generally say thanks for the response and that's that. It's the ones that reply back with 'i do' that really make me laugh and then I block them. Unfortunately most women here on fabs pretend like if they say "sorry not interested" they get death threats all the time, and there is no arguing. Funny that your experience varies. Makes you wonder who is lying. Are suggesting I'm lying? Really??? Why would I lie? What would actually be the point in that? " I think he’s suggesting it’s a binary choice, either all women experience men being abusive, or none do. Looking at the tone of his post I’d say he’s insinuating that you are telling the truth and all women who say they receive abuse in reality don’t. If you were being cynical you might think his attitude is a little misogynistic, if you were being cynical of course. | |||
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"I rarely get this. I don't know why though. Sometimes I do but it's very occasional. I tend to send a messages back that say 'I'm sorry but you don't fit what I'm looking for' They generally say thanks for the response and that's that. It's the ones that reply back with 'i do' that really make me laugh and then I block them. Unfortunately most women here on fabs pretend like if they say "sorry not interested" they get death threats all the time, and there is no arguing. Funny that your experience varies. Makes you wonder who is lying. Are suggesting I'm lying? Really??? Why would I lie? What would actually be the point in that? " Don’t feed the troll | |||
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"Get so crude so quickly? They don't know their audience so why do it? Instablock from me. " I get paid by the word, I'm not going to start dropping gold in the Fab well.  | |||
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"Because they log in and message when they're already horny and distracted. " This, and "never go shopping on an empty stomach" are great pieces of advice. | |||
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"Why do some women do the same? The answer is people. It's just what some people do. It's not really that complex " Do you honestly think women are doing it to the same extent that men do? | |||
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"I rarely get this. I don't know why though. Sometimes I do but it's very occasional. I tend to send a messages back that say 'I'm sorry but you don't fit what I'm looking for' They generally say thanks for the response and that's that. It's the ones that reply back with 'i do' that really make me laugh and then I block them. Unfortunately most women here on fabs pretend like if they say "sorry not interested" they get death threats all the time, and there is no arguing. Funny that your experience varies. Makes you wonder who is lying. Are suggesting I'm lying? Really??? Why would I lie? What would actually be the point in that? " More the other way around | |||
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"Why do some women do the same? The answer is people. It's just what some people do. It's not really that complex Do you honestly think women are doing it to the same extent that men do?" Do you honestly think women don't? | |||
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"Get so crude so quickly? They don't know their audience so why do it? Instablock from me. " Another thread slagging off men....shock lol | |||
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"Why do some women do the same? The answer is people. It's just what some people do. It's not really that complex Do you honestly think women are doing it to the same extent that men do? Do you honestly think women don't?" I honestly don't think that women send crude messages to the same extent that men do | |||
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"I rarely get this. I don't know why though. Sometimes I do but it's very occasional. I tend to send a messages back that say 'I'm sorry but you don't fit what I'm looking for' They generally say thanks for the response and that's that. It's the ones that reply back with 'i do' that really make me laugh and then I block them. Unfortunately most women here on fabs pretend like if they say "sorry not interested" they get death threats all the time, and there is no arguing. Funny that your experience varies. Makes you wonder who is lying. Are suggesting I'm lying? Really??? Why would I lie? What would actually be the point in that? I think he’s suggesting it’s a binary choice, either all women experience men being abusive, or none do. Looking at the tone of his post I’d say he’s insinuating that you are telling the truth and all women who say they receive abuse in reality don’t. If you were being cynical you might think his attitude is a little misogynistic, if you were being cynical of course." Call me misogynistic all you want, I know that I don't hate women. But I also know that a lot of women here make up a lot of stuff like that. It's always this argument of "If I (as a woman) were to say "no, thank you. not interested" then I would most likely get death threats and insults hurled at me so I rather ignore men." So yeah, I heavily question that this happens regularly enough to count as the expected response, especially now that her experience differs by a lot from that. I think a little kindness wouldn't hurt anyone and a "sorry not interested" is just polite, especially if someone made the effort with a nice message. But the truth is: Many just can't be arsed to be nice unless they want something. Hence why you always look at how women treat the servers | |||
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"Why do some women do the same? The answer is people. It's just what some people do. It's not really that complex Do you honestly think women are doing it to the same extent that men do? Do you honestly think women don't? I honestly don't think that women send crude messages to the same extent that men do" What is "extent"? The amount of crude messages, or the percentage? Because we all know that there are 50 men for every women on here, if not worse, and that is an unfair comparision. But some women here just have an incredible attitude and don't even notice because it's so normalised. | |||
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"I have men send me the most disgusting messages right off the bat... and after I've had my wank, I find them really distasteful and disrespectful. " I am confused.. If you dislike it so much why do you have a wank over it?? | |||
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"As one of the “Good Guys” on here (you know the ones that the BAD guys ruin it all for) I can only apologise on behalf on menkind. I am respectable, friendly, engage in polite conversation and am a generally all round good guy. But, of course, this is a fuck site after all so I’m sure the ladies don’t mind when I ask them if they’ll spit in my arsehole and shit on my face come the third message. I mean, FFS, they all want it, right? That’s what we’re all here for. It’s only polite to give them what they want "why are you apologizing for others some see that as whiteknighting and creepy in its self .. also anyone one can call themselves a good guy ive had many so called good guy turn out to be a knob ...bad guys do not ruin it for good guys it just so called good guys using them as an excuse for themselves getting nowhere ...you ruin it foryourselves not others ... | |||
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"I have men send me the most disgusting messages right off the bat... and after I've had my wank, I find them really distasteful and disrespectful. " ...goddamnit that was better than mine  | |||
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"I have men send me the most disgusting messages right off the bat... and after I've had my wank, I find them really distasteful and disrespectful. I am confused.. If you dislike it so much why do you have a wank over it?? "I think they were taking the piss lol | |||
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"I have men send me the most disgusting messages right off the bat... and after I've had my wank, I find them really distasteful and disrespectful. I am confused.. If you dislike it so much why do you have a wank over it?? "I'm going to be real with you dude... Never take me or the Forums seriously There's no point to it | |||
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"I have men send me the most disgusting messages right off the bat... and after I've had my wank, I find them really distasteful and disrespectful. I am confused.. If you dislike it so much why do you have a wank over it??
I'm going to be real with you dude...
Never take me or the Forums seriously
There's no point to it "Sometimes I just run with the horses, even though I know what's going on | |||
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"I have men send me the most disgusting messages right off the bat... and after I've had my wank, I find them really distasteful and disrespectful. I am confused.. If you dislike it so much why do you have a wank over it??
I'm going to be real with you dude...
Never take me or the Forums seriously
There's no point to it "?????? keep it fun lol | |||
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"I have men send me the most disgusting messages right off the bat... and after I've had my wank, I find them really distasteful and disrespectful. ...goddamnit that was better than mine "I'm thinking about putting a stand up show together... ThePerkyPunchlines | |||
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"Surely it’s a good thing (in a strange way) better to find out early before you invest time and energy into them ? This is how I see it too " I'm not alone! The neutral "are you looking to meet?" knocks politely on the door and invites either a 'no', or a nice chat. Each message has to be a unique piece, crafted to entice, beguile and intrigue. Or it feels like that some days when you just want to be honest and ask if someone is okay, happy, and in the mood to have sex, or just wants a coffee and to vent. | |||
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"Surely it’s a good thing (in a strange way) better to find out early before you invest time and energy into them ? This is how I see it too I'm not alone! The neutral "are you looking to meet?" knocks politely on the door and invites either a 'no', or a nice chat. Each message has to be a unique piece, crafted to entice, beguile and intrigue. Or it feels like that some days when you just want to be honest and ask if someone is okay, happy, and in the mood to have sex, or just wants a coffee and to vent. " Can't be interested in meeting anyone on here before you found out they're your soulmate through messaging. ts ts ts | |||
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