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By *eesside50 OP   Man
52 weeks ago

Stockton-On-Tees

Good Afternoon, just wondering about my profile as I dont get many females or couples viewing. Is there anythingni should consider changing?

When messaging, not getting much response. Not sure how to gauge the first message as this is a sex site, but I never just message "can I fuck you?" Haha xx

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
52 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Most women and couples live in ninja mode to avoid the constant "I saw you looked at my profile" messages. If they're interested, they'd reach out. If there's nothing there to interest them, they won't

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

52 weeks ago

East Sussex

The thing is it's not a sex site. A lot of people, especially the ones who use the forum are socialising a lot before meeting, if they meet at all.

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By *eesside50 OP   Man
52 weeks ago

Stockton-On-Tees


"Most women and couples live in ninja mode to avoid the constant "I saw you looked at my profile" messages. If they're interested, they'd reach out. If there's nothing there to interest them, they won't "

So there's nothing wrong with my profile? Xx

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By *eesside50 OP   Man
52 weeks ago

Stockton-On-Tees


"The thing is it's not a sex site. A lot of people, especially the ones who use the forum are socialising a lot before meeting, if they meet at all. "

Predominantly it's a sex site, but I agree that some do chat, hence me asking in here. Thankyou for your reply x

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By *ucka39Man
52 weeks ago

Newcastle

Hi op

I can only give you the same answer I did 4 months ago and whether you took any of that on board

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
52 weeks ago

Carlisle usually


"Most women and couples live in ninja mode to avoid the constant "I saw you looked at my profile" messages. If they're interested, they'd reach out. If there's nothing there to interest them, they won't

So there's nothing wrong with my profile? Xx"

If nobody is reaching out or responding then it likely doesn't contain anything that interests or excites.

Does it cover what you want and what you offer? At least a glimmer of personality? Pictures that showcase your favourite features and enough of you to give a viable idea of physical attraction on a background that is at least reasonably clean and tidy?

If not, that could be in your way. If it does, then you just haven't happened across the people that are compatible with you and what you want.

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By *aomilatteCouple
52 weeks ago

Midlands


"Good Afternoon, just wondering about my profile as I dont get many females or couples viewing. Is there anythingni should consider changing?

When messaging, not getting much response. Not sure how to gauge the first message as this is a sex site, but I never just message "can I fuck you?" Haha xx"

Maybe you should change your profile by removing "divorced". It's mentioned three times and nobody needs to know, "genuinely single" would be better. You could do with more photo's.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

52 weeks ago

East Sussex


"The thing is it's not a sex site. A lot of people, especially the ones who use the forum are socialising a lot before meeting, if they meet at all.

Predominantly it's a sex site, but I agree that some do chat, hence me asking in here. Thankyou for your reply x"

If as you say it's a sex site your profile should reflect that. What are you about sexually, what do you like, what do you hope the people you meet will be like and how would you like a meet to go?

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