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By *aitonel OP   Man
52 weeks ago

Travelling

This comes up quite often, the whole things people do that we feel are sexy.

However this is not about that! It's not about the view of them doing it. The look over the arm while reversing the car? Nope none of that!

I want to know what so you find sexy that somebody else does that has nothing, absolutely nothing, to do with the visual appeal of them doing it.

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By *aitonel OP   Man
52 weeks ago

Travelling

Ignore the title! It's nothing to do with physical!l directly.

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By *ruceyyMan
52 weeks ago

London


"This comes up quite often, the whole things people do that we feel are sexy.

However this is not about that! It's not about the view of them doing it. The look over the arm while reversing the car? Nope none of that!

I want to know what so you find sexy that somebody else does that has nothing, absolutely nothing, to do with the visual appeal of them doing it. "

While we bring this up, I don't think I've ever reversed with an arm around the chair. Cause you know, you don't have to and it's actually not how you should do it at all.

Use mirrors people and both hands on wheels at all times! Bloody women!

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By *ensuallover1000Man
52 weeks ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

I find the way some ladies think to be a very sexy factor in itself.

I’m not necessarily referring to their specific thoughts on anything sexual either, rather innocent little idiosyncrasies and traits, interests and outlooks

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
52 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Those little unthought of touches. The way a finger moves over my hand when there's a certain thought crossing their mind. A hand brushing the small of my back.

That sort of thing?

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By *imi_RougeWoman
52 weeks ago

Portsmouth

Like the way they speak to you? Say your name?

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By *ealitybitesMan
52 weeks ago

Belfast

Their trust.

They trust my words.

They trust my promises.

They trust my actions.

They trust my touch.

They trust my trusts.

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By *hriscooperMan
52 weeks ago

Warrington

The way they look at you... There's nothing in the world quite like the look in a woman's eye when she really wants to rip your clothes off. Especially when you're in public and she can't.

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By *aitonel OP   Man
52 weeks ago

Travelling


"Those little unthought of touches. The way a finger moves over my hand when there's a certain thought crossing their mind. A hand brushing the small of my back.

That sort of thing?"

Sort of yes. Very similar to the "things that are sexy but not meant to be" but not quite, they tend to be quite samey and are often down to the visual of the action or the appearance of the person doing it - the pose etc. I don't want to know about that shit, it's done to death and boring.

I often get told by some (not all!) that when I explain something in detail (not mansplaining!) it's very sexy apparently. Not the visual of me doing it but just the way I do it.

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By *aitonel OP   Man
52 weeks ago

Travelling


"Like the way they speak to you? Say your name? "

Can be yes, see above for a better clarification I guess.

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By *aitonel OP   Man
52 weeks ago

Travelling


"This comes up quite often, the whole things people do that we feel are sexy.

However this is not about that! It's not about the view of them doing it. The look over the arm while reversing the car? Nope none of that!

I want to know what so you find sexy that somebody else does that has nothing, absolutely nothing, to do with the visual appeal of them doing it.

While we bring this up, I don't think I've ever reversed with an arm around the chair. Cause you know, you don't have to and it's actually not how you should do it at all.

Use mirrors people and both hands on wheels at all times! Bloody women!"

Oh the risk of that reversing sensor beep, getting faster and more intense the closer you get. Nothing quite like the thrill

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

Self awareness.

The way someone articulates things.

Emotional intelligence/maturity.

How passionate or excitable they get on subjects that interest them.

What makes them tick and why.

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By *ea monkeyMan
52 weeks ago

Manchester (he/him)


"Self awareness.

The way someone articulates things.

Emotional intelligence/maturity.

How passionate or excitable they get on subjects that interest them.

What makes them tick and why.

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I agree with this. Sadly it’s very lacking a lot of the time

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
52 weeks ago

Carlisle usually


"I often get told by some (not all!) that when I explain something in detail (not mansplaining!) it's very sexy apparently. Not the visual of me doing it but just the way I do it. "

I fucking love seeing someone I care about being excited and passionate about something. Doesn't matter what it is, just seeing them so engaged is very attractive to me

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By *rHotNottsMan
52 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"Their trust.

They trust my words.

They trust my promises.

They trust my actions.

They trust my touch.

They trust my trusts."

I guess that’s it , the only one I can think of. The number of firsts , not just sexual firsts.

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

A good listener. Someone who remembers things you told them a long time ago and checks in on random things that are happening.

Also, that moment when you're lying in bed together and they drop the macho shit, open up and tell you things.

Most of the scene is about the physical but when you see a real person infront of you, that's when a person is most sexiest to me.

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
52 weeks ago

Manchester-ish

Someone's ability to use words to paint a picture. It's not necessarily sexy in itself, but if it's someone I already find attractive then it definitely increases my interest and desire.

J

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
52 weeks ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Someone who cares about things.

Someone who knows themselves, the good and the bad, and owns it.

Someone being passionate and excited about something.

Someone who isn't afraid to be silly.

More specifically - when Mr closes his hand around my wrist. He doesn't need to grip it hard. It makes me melt.

Mrs TMN x

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By *emorefridaCouple
52 weeks ago

La la land

People who get excited about things they are passionate about.

When people listen and I mean properly listen, that isn't all that common I find.

Ability to make me think outside my own parameters. Making my cogs whirl is hot as.

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

I don't really know, huh, I'd have to think about this.

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

Something and nothing. I think it’s unique to a person. That X factor type thing that only they can do.

A persons laugh, maybe, the way they greet you it could be absolutely anything.

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By *ddie1966Man
52 weeks ago

Paper Town Central, Essex.

Intelligent conversation coupled with wittyness and a dollop of sarcasm.

In other words, someone who doesn't take life too seriously and knows it.

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

Oh. A woman cutting my hair. There’s something amazingly sexy about that I can’t explain.

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago


"Self awareness.

The way someone articulates things.

Emotional intelligence/maturity.

How passionate or excitable they get on subjects that interest them.

What makes them tick and why.

I agree with this. Sadly it’s very lacking a lot of the time"

That's very true...but it's the stuff I could fall in love with a person for, fuck the physical things, we age anyway.

But there's also the scenarios where people are like this, and they are beautiful and then they stop. And that's painful stuff.

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By *eronicaExplorerWoman
52 weeks ago

London


"The way they look at you... There's nothing in the world quite like the look in a woman's eye when she wants to rip your clothes off. Especially when you're in public and she can't. "

Agree, plus

Intelligence and irony drive me crazy. I'm in the Forum because of that.

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