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By *aptain Caveman41 OP   Man
over a year ago

Home

People demanding face pics in first message.

Is that the height of madness or is it just me.

Wouldn't it be safer to get to know the person first.

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By *hunky ChefMan
over a year ago

Norwich


"People demanding face pics in first message.

Is that the height of madness or is it just me.

Wouldn't it be safer to get to know the person first."

Mostly the ones who don't have any demanding it.

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By *archelCouple
over a year ago

A field somewhere


"People demanding face pics in first message.

Is that the height of madness or is it just me.

Wouldn't it be safer to get to know the person first.

Mostly the ones who don't have any demanding it.

"

We get this regular away...from couples who send us a naff 100m away grainy photo of them wearing sunglasses, and have the cheek to ask for close up face pics. Last couple who did it to us, I gave them a piece lol

Mrs M

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

If that's their prerequisite to engage in conversation with someone then you either accept it and oblige or simply bypass that profile.

People have preferences. You don't have to abide by them; just move on.

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By *aptain Caveman41 OP   Man
over a year ago

Home


"If that's their prerequisite to engage in conversation with someone then you either accept it and oblige or simply bypass that profile.

People have preferences. You don't have to abide by them; just move on."
the problem is safety would you give your bank details to someone you have never met

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If that's their prerequisite to engage in conversation with someone then you either accept it and oblige or simply bypass that profile.

People have preferences. You don't have to abide by them; just move on.the problem is safety would you give your bank details to someone you have never met "

Yes if there was a pigeon in my bank account.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never had any demands, or made any.

I do request them early on because faces are the most important part of attraction for me and I don't like wasting anyone's time.

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By *aptain Caveman41 OP   Man
over a year ago

Home


"I've never had any demands, or made any.

I do request them early on because faces are the most important part of attraction for me and I don't like wasting anyone's time."
I don't mind doing that as long as we have chatted for a while

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

What if you start chatting and it's going great, but then you see what they look like and realise you have no attraction to them?

Might as well rip that band aid as early as possible.

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By *coobyBoobyDooWoman
over a year ago

Markfield


"If that's their prerequisite to engage in conversation with someone then you either accept it and oblige or simply bypass that profile.

People have preferences. You don't have to abide by them; just move on.the problem is safety would you give your bank details to someone you have never met

Yes if there was a pigeon in my bank account. "

I see you

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By *aptain Caveman41 OP   Man
over a year ago

Home


"What if you start chatting and it's going great, but then you see what they look like and realise you have no attraction to them?

Might as well rip that band aid as early as possible. "
for me it's safety and I like to get to know the person first so I don't judge the book by the cover

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By *coobyBoobyDooWoman
over a year ago

Markfield


"If that's their prerequisite to engage in conversation with someone then you either accept it and oblige or simply bypass that profile.

People have preferences. You don't have to abide by them; just move on.the problem is safety would you give your bank details to someone you have never met "

Quite a few organisations have my bank details given to people I’ve never met! But I get what you’re saying, I think.

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol


"What if you start chatting and it's going great, but then you see what they look like and realise you have no attraction to them?

Might as well rip that band aid as early as possible. for me it's safety and I like to get to know the person first so I don't judge the book by the cover "

We judge the book by the cover in every other way we make initial contact with a person.

Why should here be any different?

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair


"I've never had any demands, or made any.

I do request them early on because faces are the most important part of attraction for me and I don't like wasting anyone's time."

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Indeed. That's an acceptable and reasonable approach.

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By *aptain Caveman41 OP   Man
over a year ago

Home


"What if you start chatting and it's going great, but then you see what they look like and realise you have no attraction to them?

Might as well rip that band aid as early as possible. for me it's safety and I like to get to know the person first so I don't judge the book by the cover

We judge the book by the cover in every other way we make initial contact with a person.

Why should here be any different? "
maybe I'm different so

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

A guy may as well know if it's his mum, or even someone who he doesn't fancy, early on, as there's no point in him wasting wanking time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If that's their prerequisite to engage in conversation with someone then you either accept it and oblige or simply bypass that profile.

People have preferences. You don't have to abide by them; just move on.the problem is safety would you give your bank details to someone you have never met

Yes if there was a pigeon in my bank account.

I see you "

Phone jacker was an elite show

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People demanding face pics in first message.

Is that the height of madness or is it just me.

Wouldn't it be safer to get to know the person first."

Why safer?

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By *i50kaCouple
over a year ago

Worcestershire

we allways like to see face pictures before we start to get into long chats

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely, all I ever ask for is a close-up iris picture, fingerprint, strand of hair, credit card details, expiry date and password.

These others who insist on faces. Tsk tsk.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't judge a book by its cover....ah the personality is more important bollocks.

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly


"Don't judge a book by its cover....ah the personality is more important bollocks.

"

Yeah I'd shag your personality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me there is no point in really engaging someone if I don't find them remotely attractive.

I don't demand anything it is their choice after all but if they have messaged me and they don't want to show me what they look then I'm unlikely to engage.

I want to be attracted to their face also their personality for me both is important.

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

I only meet new people on fab organised group socials so no need for a face pictures in that case, as you can instantly tell if there’s mutual attraction or not.

Maybe it’s the way to go for you as well, OP.

Works well for me and many others.

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By *imisugarWoman
over a year ago

Rugby


"What if you start chatting and it's going great, but then you see what they look like and realise you have no attraction to them?

Might as well rip that band aid as early as possible. for me it's safety and I like to get to know the person first so I don't judge the book by the cover

We judge the book by the cover in every other way we make initial contact with a person.

Why should here be any different? maybe I'm different so"

It's harder to say no thank you due to lack of physical attraction once you've been chatting a while.

Like others have said I'd hate to waste people's time. I'm a chatty person but I can imagine it's not the nicest suddenly being told yeah I'm happy to chat to you but I wouldn't fuck you.

For fab I wouldn't fuck personality only, I'm not looking for dating or a relationship here.

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