FabSwingers.com forum: Face pics

By *rlando OP Man
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

If a couple say they want to meet and have a date in mind, but you ve not seen what they look like ?, even though they have verifications , is it not reasonable to request a face pic ?? Do People need to be more realistic?? And if you don t fancy them you can say ok, thanks but no thanks ??

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

If not seeing a face pic beforehand is a dealbreaker for you, and they don't want to do that, then how did it get as far as setting a date in the first place?

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By *rlando OP Man
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

"If not seeing a face pic beforehand is a dealbreaker for you, and they don't want to do that, then how did it get as far as setting a date in the first place?"

Good point ...

they ve seen me , I ve not seen them , it s not one way traffic , but its a deal breaker for me ? Im old enough to know an attraction is key to a fun time .

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

It's very reasonable.

I always ask for one first off, but plenty of guys will organise a social before seeing mine... Make of that what you will.

If you want one, ask for one.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Then just go with thanks but no thanks and find people more compatible

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

"If a couple say they want to meet and have a date in mind, but you ve not seen what they look like ?, even though they have verifications , is it not reasonable to request a face pic ?? Do People need to be more realistic?? And if you don t fancy them you can say ok, thanks but no thanks ?? "

It's very reasonable, as is often said on here "It's not Blind Date"!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You definitely need to see faces, otherwise how can you even really know if you fancy them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile you run it your way..

And most importantly anyone can say no at anytime

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By *rlando OP Man
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

It's very reasonable, as is often said on here "It's not Blind Date"!"

thank you

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By *rlando OP Man
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Your profile you run it your way..

And most importantly anyone can say no at anytime

thank you

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

I always ask for a face pic before even considering meeting someone

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By *rlando OP Man
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

Jeez I'd never meet without seeing a face pic & even when I did see face pics I was still cat fished....

I now either want a live photo on k*k in a special pose that I ask them to do or else video call....

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By *j1104Man
51 weeks ago

Rochdale

I don’t meet without seeing face first.

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

I don’t think it’s vain to want to see a face pic…

Attraction is generally a physical thing..

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By *glyBettyTV/TS
51 weeks ago

About 3 feet away from the fence

I'm not particularly bothered about facepics - BUT I do need to see something.

2 weeks ago some guy was trying to get me to agree to meet him outside but was being evasive about showing me any pics. He had several veris & was under the belief that this would be enough to get me to agree to meet him despite not having the faintest idea of what he looks like.

He was sorely mistaken.

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By *ink vixenCouple
51 weeks ago

Medway

We would normally send one and ask for one but perhaps if it was just a quick local first social?

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By *ealitybitesMan
51 weeks ago

Belfast

I don't have a facepic on here and won't share one with anyone unless we have already agreed to meet.

I've had my pic subsequently shared with too many others in the past so I just don't do it anymore.

I'm not meeting currently but when I was, I never met with the expectation that it would go any further than that initial social so physical attraction wasn't a deal breaker at that point.

I've had numerous socials without sharing facepics and it was still an enjoyable hour over coffee.

It's down to the individual and there's no hard and fast rule.

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By *eyeYCouple
50 weeks ago

Nr Leicester

No public face pics, plenty in our friends album and readily send at the start of a chat.

We would not even continue a conversation past a few messages if the other parties are not going to send one.

We state it on our profile, as well as we don't do blind date's!

Had plenty of 'body from Baywatch, face from crimewatch' moments.

#sorrynotsorry

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By (user no longer on site)
50 weeks ago

a live pic or a video call always deters fakes ….

I’m

More than happy to send a photo on here… but even then .. how do people know that’s actually you? A lot of people ‘fear’ the idea of video call at the risk of it being a ploy to have a quick wank… but to me it allows live & up to date looks rather than the 5 years younger version or the google image finder version

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