FabSwingers.com forum: I have sent

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

My first no thank u message was quite funny really coz they didn't actually mail me. All they did was look at me. The profile put me off so much I had to say something lol was not rude or condescending just said why I felt why I would not play their game lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My first no thank u message was quite funny really coz they didn't actually mail me. All they did was look at me. The profile put me off so much I had to say something lol was not rude or condescending just said why I felt why I would not play their game lol "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All they were doing was looking

Why would you say no thank you if they hadn't even messaged you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone's on a power trip...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this the new sport, selecting random profiles and messaging them NOT to meet

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By *aughty_kittyWoman
over a year ago

finger licking good

"Someone's on a power trip..."

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By *aughty_kittyWoman
over a year ago

finger licking good

Maybe they did not message you after looking at your profile because they actually did not want to meet u either? lol

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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

sheffield

Hahahahahahahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe they did not message you after looking at your profile because they actually did not want to meet u either? lol"

I was thinking this.... But your words are much better than the ones I was thinking

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By *raddersMan
over a year ago

manchester

Come on its hard for us single guys as it is without single guys upsetting people dam

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Pre-emptive strike

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By *raddersMan
over a year ago

manchester

"Maybe they did not message you after looking at your profile because they actually did not want to meet u either? lol

I was thinking this.... But your words are much better than the ones I was thinking

Haha come on tell us what your words was

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They may have simply looked at someones profile who they liked and started to read their feedback or you may have been on their/ her friends list and they were seeing who they have met or whos on their friends list?

I do this but it dont mean id meet them.

I just like to see what type of people they are and who else they meet or friends with.

They might not have wanted to meet you.

I think it was rude what you did and tells us all what kind of person you are.

Sending a message like the one you did was uncalled for and can stir up trouble.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ya gonna get a lot of meets doing that lol

It's no wonder blokes get a bad name in here , I've seen a few women's profiles in here where women complain about guys giving them abuse ,it seems for no reason.

Fat or thin beauty is from within...don't judge someone till you have met them

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By *raddersMan
over a year ago

manchester

"Ya gonna get a lot of meets doing that lol

It's no wonder blokes get a bad name in here , I've seen a few women's profiles in here where women complain about guys giving them abuse ,it seems for no reason.

Fat or thin beauty is from within...don't judge someone till you have met them

Well said

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

This thread has really made me smile. Do we have to start sending no thankyou messages to everyone that looks at our profile now.

People look at profiles for very different reasons.

It would have made me laugh to get a message from someone who i hadnt spoken to saying no thankyou lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe they did not message you after looking at your profile because they actually did not want to meet u either? lol"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nowt better to do then huh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup, well done that man..... For bolstering the stereotypical view of guy on here, pat on the back and here's a coconut for your trouble!!!!!

If I looked at a profile, it's not because I want to leap into bed, sometimes the avatar is eye catching and I want to see it a bit better, millions of reasons, now you made yourself look like you're a bit self obsessed to a degree and made guys look less appealing to that particar man/woman/couple!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh, and Julie, that avatar is simply........AWESOME. Good work lol!!

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

err oops bit premature mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I see I can't put a bit of tongue in cheek humour on here without it being taken seriously ffs will you lot lighten up was ment has humour not for any other reason

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

You obviously don't know me and certainly have never spoken to me I am not your typical stereotype bloke far from it but u have judged me already I thank you for your comment lol as I said tongue in cheek humour is wasted here lol

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

The key thing with posting a tongue in cheek thread is to give some indication that it is. Otherwise they are liable to go tits up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The key thing with posting a tongue in cheek thread is to give some indication that it is. Otherwise they are liable to go tits up "

You still not dressed yet ? Least I've had the decency to put some undies on lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"" I am not your typical stereotype bloke " "

And what is the criteria of those then ?

I take it as your trying to identify yourself as not being one, by your humouress thread, blokes don't have humour

Ohhhhhh your a right card you are ......

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The key thing with posting a tongue in cheek thread is to give some indication that it is. Otherwise they are liable to go tits up "

Ok so I have to spell it out that it's tongue in cheek will make a note on the next tongue in cheek thread lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"" I am not your typical stereotype bloke "

And what is the criteria of those then ?

I take it as your trying to identify yourself as not being one, by your humouress thread, blokes don't have humour

Ohhhhhh your a right card you are ......"

If you happened to read what I put properly it was not directed at any one or any gender but obviously that is my fault again sorry for being a peice of stiff paper

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I look at profiles of people I won't ever meet. And photos. For me, it's part of the fun.

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"The key thing with posting a tongue in cheek thread is to give some indication that it is. Otherwise they are liable to go tits up

Ok so I have to spell it out that it's tongue in cheek will make a note on the next tongue in cheek thread lol "

Obviously it's up to you, but if you don't its like telling a joke with no punch line. People won't get it.

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"The key thing with posting a tongue in cheek thread is to give some indication that it is. Otherwise they are liable to go tits up

You still not dressed yet ? Least I've had the decency to put some undies on lol

I will sort that out now. I'm up north today and its parky there.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The key thing with posting a tongue in cheek thread is to give some indication that it is. Otherwise they are liable to go tits up

Ok so I have to spell it out that it's tongue in cheek will make a note on the next tongue in cheek thread lol

Obviously it's up to you, but if you don't its like telling a joke with no punch line. People won't get it. "

Ok in other words shut up van crawl back under what ever stone you came out of fine no problem I got the message and the joke wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did think this was serious ... Funny though

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

"The key thing with posting a tongue in cheek thread is to give some indication that it is. Otherwise they are liable to go tits up

You still not dressed yet ? Least I've had the decency to put some undies on lol

I will sort that out now. I'm up north today and its parky there. "

how far North????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The key thing with posting a tongue in cheek thread is to give some indication that it is. Otherwise they are liable to go tits up

You still not dressed yet ? Least I've had the decency to put some undies on lol

I will sort that out now. I'm up north today and its parky there. "

Depends where your heading... Nice here.. Spring is in the air

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

Ok in other words shut up van crawl back under what ever stone you came out of fine no problem I got the message and the joke wrong "

oh ffs, nobody said that... If you want to turn this into a "woe is me" thread, then feel free to do so, but can you leave it till after 1pm please as some of us are trying to sleep

now THAT was tongue in cheek!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

was it a joke op as in it never happened but you thought you would try start a light hearted thread or in fact did you actually do it but in your mind you were having a joke while doing it in which case it wasnt actually a joke.

which is it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I saw this couple in the street today, I thought they looked like they could be swingers? So I went over and introduced myself and said to the guy "if you ever need a hand to DP her mate in your man?"

Anyway the doctors said my nose probably won't be permanently bent!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This thread was only funny when people thought it was serious

Can't see the OP writing for brass eye on the strength of it.

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"The key thing with posting a tongue in cheek thread is to give some indication that it is. Otherwise they are liable to go tits up

Ok so I have to spell it out that it's tongue in cheek will make a note on the next tongue in cheek thread lol

Obviously it's up to you, but if you don't its like telling a joke with no punch line. People won't get it.

Ok in other words shut up van crawl back under what ever stone you came out of fine no problem I got the message and the joke wrong "

Take it however you like. I'm just trying to explain why people haven't understood your "original intention"

I will back out now and let you sulk. Good luck for the rest of the thread.

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"The key thing with posting a tongue in cheek thread is to give some indication that it is. Otherwise they are liable to go tits up

You still not dressed yet ? Least I've had the decency to put some undies on lol

I will sort that out now. I'm up north today and its parky there.

how far North????

England north

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

Phew!!!!

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"The key thing with posting a tongue in cheek thread is to give some indication that it is. Otherwise they are liable to go tits up

You still not dressed yet ? Least I've had the decency to put some undies on lol

I will sort that out now. I'm up north today and its parky there.

Depends where your heading... Nice here.. Spring is in the air

I am in Blackpool

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The key thing with posting a tongue in cheek thread is to give some indication that it is. Otherwise they are liable to go tits up

You still not dressed yet ? Least I've had the decency to put some undies on lol

I will sort that out now. I'm up north today and its parky there.

how far North????

England north

Its a bit grim Up North today

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

It will be very grim if Ryan's there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The key thing with posting a tongue in cheek thread is to give some indication that it is. Otherwise they are liable to go tits up

You still not dressed yet ? Least I've had the decency to put some undies on lol

I will sort that out now. I'm up north today and its parky there.

Depends where your heading... Nice here.. Spring is in the air

I am in Blackpool "

My friend is working there at the moment... Been freeZing his balls of all week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It will be very grim if Ryan's there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never done it myself - but have in the past been contacted by people to say I'm not what they're looking for and in one case to say how 'arrogant' my profile was!

Good job they were so far outside my preferences (including being 20 yrs too old!) for me to take it to heart!

There are some odd folk around!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had the "you are so arrogant!" Comment on another site I am on. That site was full of people with absolutely no sense of humour and heads so far up their own arse they could see their tonsils. It's much nicer here

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

didnt realise this was a joke thread. liking the satire . trouble with text on here is its a bit of a blunt instrument.

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

My friend is working there at the moment... Been freeZing his balls of all week

Wonder what they eat up there?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My friend is working there at the moment... Been freeZing his balls of all week

Wonder what they eat up there? "

fish and chips

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

My friend is working there at the moment... Been freeZing his balls of all week

Wonder what they eat up there?

fish and chips"

Oh good, I thought it was their own offspring

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My friend is working there at the moment... Been freeZing his balls of all week

Wonder what they eat up there? "

Ryan when you see my sister again can you remind her it's my birthday this month and I want a better prezie than last year! Ta muchly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My friend is working there at the moment... Been freeZing his balls of all week

Wonder what they eat up there?

fish and chips

Oh good, I thought it was their own offspring

No that's Norfolk !

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

My friend is working there at the moment... Been freeZing his balls of all week

Wonder what they eat up there?

Ryan when you see my sister again can you remind her it's my birthday this month and I want a better prezie than last year! Ta muchly

I just remembered what happened to my clone a willy. Hope she doesn't wrap that up for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My friend is working there at the moment... Been freeZing his balls of all week

Wonder what they eat up there?

fish and chips

Oh good, I thought it was their own offspring

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My friend is working there at the moment... Been freeZing his balls of all week

Wonder what they eat up there?

Ryan when you see my sister again can you remind her it's my birthday this month and I want a better prezie than last year! Ta muchly

I just remembered what happened

to my clone a willy. Hope she doesn't wrap that up for you

Thus my " better prezzie than last year" comment !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My friend is working there at the moment... Been freeZing his balls of all week

Wonder what they eat up there?

fish and chips

Oh good, I thought it was their own offspring

They already ate the kids

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Oh, it was one of those threads that because it didnt go the way the op intended they thought they would back track and say it was a tongue in cheek thread,.

Its like me saying ive broken my leg then when people tell me its my own fault say i havent really

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

"Oh, it was one of those threads that because it didnt go the way the op intended they thought they would back track and say it was a tongue in cheek thread,.

Its like me saying ive broken my leg then when people tell me its my own fault say i havent really"

That's how I read it as well, it never struck me as a tongue in cheek first post to be honest, it was only described and defended as being tongue in cheek when it all backfired....

Well that's how I see it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So did u send the no thank you message or not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've never done it myself - but have in the past been contacted by people to say I'm not what they're looking for and in one case to say how 'arrogant' my profile was!

Good job they were so far outside my preferences (including being 20 yrs too old!) for me to take it to heart!

There are some odd folk around!

Haha

Well you are rather 'up your self' in many ways

Xxx

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Oh, it was one of those threads that because it didnt go the way the op intended they thought they would back track and say it was a tongue in cheek thread,.

Its like me saying ive broken my leg then when people tell me its my own fault say i havent really"

That was how I saw it too.

Didn't surprise me when the sulking started. Oh well, the daily dramas on Fab continue.

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