FabSwingers.com forum: The average amount of time

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51 weeks ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
51 weeks ago

A man last in bed is 5 and a half minutes according to a study done on fac*book. Apparently most men aren't happy with the amount of time they last. They are referring to actual fucking. Not including fourplay. Most men apparently feel a lot of pressure to last long.

So my question is guys how long do you last ? Do you think you last long enough? Do you feel a pressure to last longer than you do ?

Ladies how long do you expect a guy to last ?

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By *929Man
51 weeks ago

newcastle

I have never timed it but I’m sure it’s longer than 5 minutes haha, get past that initial urge to cum and normally you can last as long as want too

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
51 weeks ago

little house on the praire

Someone put this on last week. I don't see how you can have full and varied sex in 5minutes

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By *rozac_fairyCouple
51 weeks ago

Tamworth

20 mins or so if it's just a "standard/default" sex session, kinda timed in the sense that the Ms has music on most of the time and you kinda notice how many songs have played.

If we're in for a varied time though, an hour or two easily!

The 5 and a half minute thing really shocks me honestly, I'd assume the average was longer

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

doesn't matter if a guy lasts only five minutes if you have fourplay, by the time the other three have done the first ought to be ready to go again

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By *eliWoman
51 weeks ago

There's not a set amount of time. Until they're ready and want to come? I like when an orgasm catches a man by surprise, like he's so turned on he can't help but say fuck and come hard.

I like sex which is more free-flowing. When you can relax and enjoy it and get lost in each other. However long that is.

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By *ruceyyMan
51 weeks ago

London

I last long anyway. I ain't easy. You gotta work too gurl.

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

"I last long anyway. I ain't easy. You gotta work too gurl."

Out

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

I love it when you hear the 'oh shit' and you just know that one squeeze will send them over the cliff edge

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By *ensuallover1000Man
51 weeks ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

If we’re talking penetrative sex, I can make it last for a good amount of time but it requires me to slow the pace or even pause the motions if I feel that orgasm is imminent (and I’m specifically wishing to delay it)

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

"I love it when you hear the 'oh shit' and you just know that one squeeze will send them over the cliff edge

Oh shit can mean a multitude of things....

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By *ickshawedCouple
51 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

"I love it when you hear the 'oh shit' and you just know that one squeeze will send them over the cliff edge

Oh shit can mean a multitude of things....

And that is why they invented waterproof sheets

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

"I love it when you hear the 'oh shit' and you just know that one squeeze will send them over the cliff edge

Oh shit can mean a multitude of things....

If they are between my legs, it only has one meaning and you can bet I'm gonna squeeze

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

"I love it when you hear the 'oh shit' and you just know that one squeeze will send them over the cliff edge

Oh shit can mean a multitude of things....

And that is why they invented waterproof sheets"

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By *affeine DuskMan
51 weeks ago

Caerphilly

"I last long anyway. I ain't easy. You gotta work too gurl."

Just FYI Brucey, when you are white and you spell 'girl' like 'gurl', it means your 'gurl' likely has a penis, just an FYI pal.

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By *obra 327Man
51 weeks ago

Bromley

Depends on how old you are when I was a young buck I could not last but could go multiple times, oh how I wish I was young again.

Now I’m an old duffer I can go on for ever lol

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By *radleywigginsMan
51 weeks ago

northwest

Depends on the length of the video I’m watching

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By *hrista BellendWoman
51 weeks ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

No longer than 20 minutes, else I get sore and the condom can break

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By *hriscooperMan
51 weeks ago

Warrington

"I have never timed it but I’m sure it’s longer than 5 minutes haha, get past that initial urge to cum and normally you can last as long as want too"

Pretty much this..

What's your go to thing to stop thy urge so thy you can carry on? I'd be interested to see what other guys do for this too.

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By *ruceyyMan
51 weeks ago

London

"I last long anyway. I ain't easy. You gotta work too gurl.

Just FYI Brucey, when you are white and you spell 'girl' like 'gurl', it means your 'gurl' likely has a penis, just an FYI pal.

Gurlll what you chatting about it was just a big clit!

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By *929Man
51 weeks ago

newcastle

"I have never timed it but I’m sure it’s longer than 5 minutes haha, get past that initial urge to cum and normally you can last as long as want too

Pretty much this..

What's your go to thing to stop thy urge so thy you can carry on? I'd be interested to see what other guys do for this too. "

Usually doesent take long for it to go away so sometimes changing position and taking time kiss for a bit between changing other times (and preferably) stop and go back to giving oral for short while it normally tastes better after being fucking for a bit. Also helps to have a go to for making self cum as it can be harder after subduing the urge early on

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
51 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Depends. My partners who find themselves exhausted after they cum tend to make it last for hours. I feel bad that they only tend to get a maximum of two orgasms when we have an evening together but they're very happy and satisfying ones when they eventually arrive.

The ones who aren't phased by it cum pretty quick but carry on. And I love that probably more

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

Men put way too much pressure on theirselves to embrace their inner Lionel Richie but most women don't want it 'all night long'. As long as we both finish up satisfied, how long really doesn't matter.

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
51 weeks ago

Staffordshire

Faster the better.

Get it over with , pull my pyjamas back up and get back to writing my sexsaurus.

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

"A man last in bed is 5 and a half minutes …"

Boom. I can fit sex in during half time then.

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By *eroLondonMan
51 weeks ago

Mayfair

"Men put way too much pressure on theirselves to embrace their inner Lionel Richie but most women don't want it 'all night long'. As long as we both finish up satisfied, how long really doesn't matter."

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Your musings are often so delightfully convivial and philanthropic. If you were a pudding you would be a heartwarming Cherry Pie with Crème Anglaise.

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

The medical diagnostic time for premature ejaculation is under 1 minute of penetration. And it is quite common, estimated at 20-30% of men. So that would make the 5 minute average probable.

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By *echnosonic_BrummieMan
51 weeks ago

Willenhall

I like to think of myself as a sexual athlete.

I'll finish in under 4 minutes one day soon...

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

I don't have any expectations about length of time.

I think as long as the people that I'm fucking and vice versa are enjoying then it really doesn't matter. Sometimes they might be quicker than others. Some people are more sensitive than others, depends on mood, stress levels etc. Too many factors come into I think, much more than the just the physical sensation of the sex.

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By *apnDomMan
51 weeks ago

London

Well, I am the literal opposite. It often takes me very long to reach climax, and I can easily have sex for hours. Sounds like a brag, but it's not really as it has its own issues.

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By *ris GrayMan
51 weeks ago

Dorchester

"A man last in bed is 5 and a half minutes according to a study done on fac*book. Apparently most men aren't happy with the amount of time they last. They are referring to actual fucking. Not including fourplay. Most men apparently feel a lot of pressure to last long.

So my question is guys how long do you last ? Do you think you last long enough? Do you feel a pressure to last longer than you do ?

Ladies how long do you expect a guy to last ?"
i used to last for 8 hours but now 2 or 3

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

Sexy

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By *rHotNottsMan
51 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I mostly last ages, min 30-40 mins , sometimes much longer but every now and then I can bang one out in under 10 if she’s noisy and slippery !

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

Anything over 5 mins and the boredom kicks in.

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

"Anything over 5 mins and the boredom kicks in."

After 6 mins I get cramp

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By *rHotNottsMan
51 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Quickie is fine if you live with someone & can do it every day, but if it’s the someone I don’t see very often, I will literally keep her awake until sunrise.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
50 weeks ago

Love this

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By *inkyguyUKMan
50 weeks ago

worcester

Any man wants to last longer get a circumcision. I last too long

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By (user no longer on site)
50 weeks ago

I've never had shit enough sex to have the capacity to think about timing it..

"An evening"

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
50 weeks ago

all loved up

I'd say that's being generous. I've just been incredibly lucky with recent encounters..

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By (user no longer on site)
50 weeks ago

"Anything over 5 mins and the boredom kicks in."

What are you, a machine?

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By (user no longer on site)
50 weeks ago

Personally, I last way too long

I struggle to cum fairly often with just straight PIV sex

Some guys think it’s a blessing, but it really isn’t. It can really upset a long term partner when you consistently struggle to finish

I’d much rather be able to finish in 5 mins, then spend extra time on foreplay.

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By *eordieJeansCouple
50 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

30 seconds followed by 8 minutes of crying and apologising.

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By (user no longer on site)
50 weeks ago

"Personally, I last way too long

I struggle to cum fairly often with just straight PIV sex

Some guys think it’s a blessing, but it really isn’t. It can really upset a long term partner when you consistently struggle to finish

I’d much rather be able to finish in 5 mins, then spend extra time on foreplay. "

Positive Input Ventilation? I'm not sure how relevant that is in this context, but whatever floats your boat.

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By (user no longer on site)
50 weeks ago

"I love it when you hear the 'oh shit' and you just know that one squeeze will send them over the cliff edge

It may mean we forgot the condom..

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By (user no longer on site)
50 weeks ago

Being circumcised I struggle to ejaculate through penetration from a desensitised helmet. So there’s always an exception to every rule

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By *elshcouple18Couple
50 weeks ago

Cardiff

Hannah hates me lasting more than 7-10 mins, so I'm well adept at the 5 minute fuck!!

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By (user no longer on site)
50 weeks ago

"Personally, I last way too long

I struggle to cum fairly often with just straight PIV sex

Some guys think it’s a blessing, but it really isn’t. It can really upset a long term partner when you consistently struggle to finish

I’d much rather be able to finish in 5 mins, then spend extra time on foreplay.

Positive Input Ventilation? I'm not sure how relevant that is in this context, but whatever floats your boat."

It’s a suckjob not a blowjob !!

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By *ustamanMan
50 weeks ago

weymouth

Massively variable, anywhere from 30s to 20-30mins (sometimes longer). It all seems to depend on the foreplay, insufficient and it'll be short get it right and I can ride the feeling allowing it to build and subdue and then back up again.

However if it goes on too long then I desensitise and im unlikely to climax.

It's a tricky balancing act occasionally

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By *cnugatugMan
50 weeks ago

Chatham

Never timed myself but I'll be genuinely honest here and say it's probably about 5 to 8 ish minutes of actual penetration before I cum but in saying that I'm usually ready to go again in the same amount of time as well I genuinely can't help when I cum it just happens I think Im just one of those that get extremely turned on

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By (user no longer on site)
50 weeks ago

Last time I had sex we started a out 2 and finished at3:07.. I remember it well we, it was the night we turned the clocks forward an hour

If someones got a watch out I'm leaving

If we've got time to be clock watching we're both doing something wrong

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By *ex HolesMan
50 weeks ago

Up North

5 and 1/2mins??

that’s a relationship

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By *umblecutMan
50 weeks ago

Finchley

Yes and no. I've learned there's a lot I can do to make myself last longer.

Slowing down, changing positions etc. But what works best for me is to stop and return to foreplay. Giving oral, using my fingers, toys etc to give my self time to calm down whilst still making sure that the fun continues for her. And when I'm ready, I resume sex and repeat this cycle. I've lasted 45mins like this or until she cums, whichever happens sooner.

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By *mber SkiesWoman
50 weeks ago

Cwmderi

"Yes and no. I've learned there's a lot I can do to make myself last longer.

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By *umblecutMan
50 weeks ago

Finchley

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By *umblecutMan
50 weeks ago

Finchley

"Yes and no. I've learned there's a lot I can do to make myself last longer.

Aww thanks!

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By *ookie46Woman
50 weeks ago

Deepest darkest Peru

I enjoy long lasting sex that flows naturally and can go on for hours, the kind where you want each other, full of lust, passion and you just can’t get enough …..

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By *apnDomMan
50 weeks ago

London

"Personally, I last way too long

I struggle to cum fairly often with just straight PIV sex

Some guys think it’s a blessing, but it really isn’t. It can really upset a long term partner when you consistently struggle to finish

I’d much rather be able to finish in 5 mins, then spend extra time on foreplay.

Positive Input Ventilation? I'm not sure how relevant that is in this context, but whatever floats your boat."

It's relevant to the topic? I don't know what you're arguing here for. Sorry, that 5 minutes is your standard lol

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By *apnDomMan
50 weeks ago

London

"Last time I had sex we started a out 2 and finished at3:07.. I remember it well we, it was the night we turned the clocks forward an hour

If someones got a watch out I'm leaving

If we've got time to be clock watching we're both doing something wrong

Your sex life must have drastically reduce since the invention of smart phones!

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By *apnDomMan
50 weeks ago

London

"Anything over 5 mins and the boredom kicks in."

Pillow princess?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
50 weeks ago

"Last time I had sex we started a out 2 and finished at3:07.. I remember it well we, it was the night we turned the clocks forward an hour

If someones got a watch out I'm leaving

If we've got time to be clock watching we're both doing something wrong

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By *entlemanrogueMan
49 weeks ago

Motherwell

So my question is guys how long do you last ? Do you think you last long enough? Do you feel a pressure to last longer than you do ?

Ladies how long do you expect a guy to last ?"

Maybe they should have increased their test pool, as I am sure if the average was 5 1/2 minutes, Fab wouldn't even exist.

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By *aitonelMan
49 weeks ago

Liverpool

The trick is the make it seem like it was much longer than 5 minutes....

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago

"The trick is the make it seem like it was much longer than 5 minutes...."

By talking to them?

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By *aitonelMan
49 weeks ago

Liverpool

"The trick is the make it seem like it was much longer than 5 minutes....

By talking to them?"

Trying to say I'm boring?

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago

"The trick is the make it seem like it was much longer than 5 minutes....

By talking to them?

Trying to say I'm boring? "

Who me?

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
49 weeks ago

Leeds

I don't think there is a perfect amount of time, a quicky can be amazing as can taking your time.

I'm not into all night sessions mind, I just wanna sleep after a few orgasms.

Mrs

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