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By *ntrigued888 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Beds

If someone keeps messaging and you've never replied

Do you Ignore or Block?

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Block. I’d have blocked after first message though if I wasn’t interested. Unless it’s a forum person. I don’t block those

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I'd block after the first message wouldn't give them chance to send more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think block, if you are definitely not interested. Or a polite decline, but I guess if you get loads of messages you don't have time to say thanks but no thanks to all...

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

Wherever I lay my hat

Depends. I often inadvertently ignore someone who has repeatedly messaged me. But some are just annoyingly persistent and they get blocked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they become a pest I block. I only block them after one message if that message is disturbing.

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By *ntrigued888 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Beds


"I think block, if you are definitely not interested. Or a polite decline, but I guess if you get loads of messages you don't have time to say thanks but no thanks to all..."

I've learnt the hard way a polite no thanks in turn gets you an abusive message back.

I guess I'll start blocking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apologising on behalf of all men. Never a reason to be rude. They should just be kind and accept rejection as it happens to us all.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Screenshot them chatting to themselves, send it back and continue until they stop.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I generally just ignore them as they never message persistently enough for it to become an issue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Apologising on behalf of all men. Never a reason to be rude. They should just be kind and accept rejection as it happens to us all.

"

Word to the wise mate, apologising on behalf of an entire group of people is never a good look...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually I’d ignore them. I only block if they really get on my nerves.

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands


"If someone keeps messaging and you've never replied

Do you Ignore or Block?

"

Put in private notes when they messaged, and be amazed that they keep on sending pointless messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Apologising on behalf of all men. Never a reason to be rude. They should just be kind and accept rejection as it happens to us all.

"

As a man, please don't apologise for me

If I've done wrong I 'll apologise personally

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"Apologising on behalf of all men. Never a reason to be rude. They should just be kind and accept rejection as it happens to us all.

"

What they said above ^^^^

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I usually just ignore and delete.

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

Wherever I lay my hat


"Screenshot them chatting to themselves, send it back and continue until they stop.

Mrs "

This is genius. I'm so doing this!

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By *ourtney CocksWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

Block

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Block. I’d have blocked after first message though if I wasn’t interested. Unless it’s a forum person. I don’t block those "

It's fun if you do

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

It depends how long they wait. If it's three months then I just ignore and delete. We had one guy who kept messaging within a few seconds of us deleting his message. He got blocked.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Block. I’d have blocked after first message though if I wasn’t interested. Unless it’s a forum person. I don’t block those

It's fun if you do "

Had to check if you’d blocked me

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

I'd block subliminally

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By *xmcdTV/TS
over a year ago

Wrexham

I ignore the first then block on the second usually after sarcasm lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If someone keeps messaging and you've never replied

Do you Ignore or Block?

"

Block.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the message. There's some criteria that I'll delete without opening or checking the profile so I wouldn't know if they come back, they just get deleted again. I wouldn't recognise them in the sea of floating dicks and silhouettes.

If I've read it and I'm not interested I'll usually block, to save us both time in future. Polite rejections are too often met with rage and abuse so I don't bother anymore unless it's a very thoughtful message I want to thank them for and I sense he's someone who can handle it with some grace.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Block if only to cut down on the admin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If someone keeps messaging and you've never replied

Do you Ignore or Block?

"

If you’re not interested, you’re not interested. May as well block immediately and get on with finding someone you’re interested in.

If you back and forth with someone trying to explain why you’re not interested, they’re less likely to accept it and you’re more likely to create a pain in the arse for yourself. Just delete and block. Us men on fab are used to rejection.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I would say block immediately but if I'm in the mood it's often more fun to let them keep messaging because I know their history and how they are like a needy puppy and the chaos that has created.

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By *imisugarWoman
over a year ago

Rugby

Block if they continue to message.

I feel read and not replied is a clear indication you aren't interested on a singles profile.

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