FabSwingers.com forum: Am I in the wrong place?

By *harkie OP Man
over a year ago

wigan

I’m looking for a lady who wants to be cuddled and touched and caressed, sensual foreplay but seems everyone just wants a quick fuck!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Err you are on a swingers sure? Where mostly people wanna fuck and go??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone?

How long did your research take?

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By *harkie OP Man
over a year ago

wigan

I know but there must be ladies who are looking for a bit of tax also?

Thanks for the reply tho

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By *harkie OP Man
over a year ago

wigan

That’s should have said tlc not tax lol

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By *harkie OP Man
over a year ago

wigan

That’s just the impression I get

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"That’s just the impression I get"

If you use the quote button we'll know who you're replying to

I think a lot women want foreplay etc.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

If you're looking for deep and meaningful sex though that might be a bit more difficult to find. A lot of people are wary of forming too strong an attachment in a casual relationship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m looking for a lady who wants to be cuddled and touched and caressed, sensual foreplay but seems everyone just wants a quick fuck!!"

I think there are lots of people on here that look for different things.

It's just finding them, do you mean solely sensual foreplay with no penetration or the whole shebang ha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men are too emotional on here. What's a girl gotta do to get someone to pound that beaver, wipe it on the curtains and leave.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Men are too emotional on here. What's a girl gotta do to get someone to pound that beaver, wipe it on the curtains and leave."

It's you who's in the wrong place. Fab is for deep meaningful emotional love making

Mrs C

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

"Men are too emotional on here. What's a girl gotta do to get someone to pound that beaver, wipe it on the curtains and leave."

Just buy me a 4 pack of Tennant's super and I'm your man.

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By *esafinadOHolyNightMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I get what you want OP. Sometimes it's nice to have a bit of tenderness in the bedroom. However, as said above, most people here don't want to get emotionally attached or drop their guard and risk any feelings creeping in. They might view cuddling and caressing etc, as a doorway to feelings beyond that of a more carnal nature.

Keep looking, say as much in your profile as you have done here(if you haven't already), and you might find someone out there who wants what you want.

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By *esafinadOHolyNightMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"Men are too emotional on here. What's a girl gotta do to get someone to pound that beaver, wipe it on the curtains and leave."

That's alright most of the time, but sometimes everyone wants a cuddle during a meet. I would have thought anyway

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

From what I observe in forum threads a lot of people say they want a 'connection' with the people they meet. I always assume they mean a type of relationship experience but condensed into a couple of hours. Our experience has been that in practice this isn't what's wanted at all, possibly the op is finding that too.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Quick fucks do nothing for me on here unless it is with someone I meet regularly and we are rushed for time.Because I know later on we will spend plenty of time together.

In saying that though I wouldn't meet anyone I didn't know just for cuddles etc. Yes with the person I meet already but definitely not with a new person who was looking just for that.

There has to be a middle ground for me it's not one or the other as far as I'm concerned anyhow.

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"I’m looking for a lady who wants to be cuddled and touched and caressed, sensual foreplay but seems everyone just wants a quick fuck!!"
Definitely in the wrong place at the right time

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By *hunky ChefMan
over a year ago

Norwich

"Men are too emotional on here. What's a girl gotta do to get someone to pound that beaver, wipe it on the curtains and leave."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Men are too emotional on here. What's a girl gotta do to get someone to pound that beaver, wipe it on the curtains and leave."

Just ask me already.

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By *he ass man 666Man
over a year ago

paradise city

"Men are too emotional on here. What's a girl gotta do to get someone to pound that beaver, wipe it on the curtains and leave."

Damn right

none of that emotional shite

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By *ustamanMan
over a year ago

weymouth

Sensual foreplay, kissing, stroking and cuddling are for me all part of sex - I need them to generally get turned on.

Just turn up and fuck isn't in my vocabulary even in a club setting.

Perhaps I've been lucky in those folks that I've had sex with seem to respond to and return the sensual side of sex.

I'm not going to change I just see from profiles or meet requirements if I might fit before even attempting contact

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"….. but seems everyone just wants a quick fuck!!"

I wish.

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By *usie pTV/TS
over a year ago

taunton

OP please pm me details of these girls looking for a quick fuck. lol

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

I often get told I'm unusual for wanting exactly that OP.

There are a few men who prefer it over trying to renact what they've seen on their favourite porn channel.

We are out there! Keep looking.

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere else

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere else

"Everyone?

How long did your research take? "

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere else

"Men are too emotional on here. What's a girl gotta do to get someone to pound that beaver, wipe it on the curtains and leave."

ROTFLMAO

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

People want different things and it's especially difficult for single men to find meets for anything, so you must focus on that.

You can find sex, love and cuddles but you'll get a majority of people looking for no strings sexual activities.

If you market yourself in swinging clubs and here as only wanting 1 thing, then it will be a clear message. As it's difficult for single men anyway, follow all of the advice for them, as they struggle anyway.

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
over a year ago

Transsexual Transylvania

I prefer guys to keep away from my curtains!

They're a bugger to clean (the curtains, that is).

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"I’m looking for a lady who wants to be cuddled and touched and caressed, sensual foreplay but seems everyone just wants a quick fuck!!"
You're not up for a quick fcuk then?

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By *harkie OP Man
over a year ago

wigan

"I’m looking for a lady who wants to be cuddled and touched and caressed, sensual foreplay but seems everyone just wants a quick fuck!!You're not up for a quick fcuk then?

Well sometimes yeah but sometimes looking for that something different

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By *harkie OP Man
over a year ago

wigan

"I often get told I'm unusual for wanting exactly that OP.

There are a few men who prefer it over trying to renact what they've seen on their favourite porn channel.

We are out there! Keep looking."

Thanks mimi rouge I’m sure shes out there, hopefully not too far away like Portsmouth lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a lover of the FWB/boyfriend experience as some would term it.

I enjoy meets where I get a fix of a little of everything. The tactile side, affection, sexual, adult conversations, outings or meals out and more. And I'm quite good at reverting back to life afterwards till the next time.

OP I struggle to find men that are the same as me and don't just want a quick fuck. Though I can do that too with the right person. Sometimes I just want that and not the rest.

It takes searching and they are out there. I ended up in a two year relationship with one though. Don't regret it at all.

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