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By (user no longer on site) OP
51 weeks ago

Hi guys I've been bi years I've topped always .I'd like to try taking but worried it will hurt .any tips would be welcome thank you x

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By *ruceyyMan
51 weeks ago

London

"Hi guys I've been bi years I've topped always .I'd like to try taking but worried it will hurt .any tips would be welcome thank you x"

Finger your own ass in the shower.

Didn't work for me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
51 weeks ago

I've do e that but want to feel a man in me .I want to know get rid of the curiosity. Best oos least pain lol

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
51 weeks ago

Bristol

Practice with toys until you're taking them easily.

Remember to relax your bum hole as much as possible.

Make sure you're in the mood, trying to stick a dildo up your bum when you don't really fancy it is just no fun.

Lube obviously

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

On your knees, head down. Pray

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
51 weeks ago

Transsexual Transylvania

"Hi guys I've been bi years I've topped always .I'd like to try taking but worried it will hurt .any tips would be welcome thank you x"

Be fussy who you do it with.

They need to be patient, gentle, communicative, and not hung like a blue whale.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
51 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Be into it. Don't overthink it. Do it with someone who knows what they're doing in that role

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By *ickyKlungespeareMan
51 weeks ago

St Leonards

"Hi guys I've been bi years I've topped always .I'd like to try taking but worried it will hurt .any tips would be welcome thank you x

Finger your own ass in the shower.

Didn't work for me."

Lol. I saw this thread title, thought instantly of your shower thread....and here you are with your confessions.

Comedy genius Brucey.

How do I do the animated laughing emoji - you've earned a load of those tonight

(gosh - hope the thumbs don't trigger nasty flashbacks for you

)

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By *mber SkiesWoman
51 weeks ago

Cwmderi

Once you get past the stinging bit it’s fine so just grit your teeth

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

Get with an understanding play partner. Take it slow with loads of lube. Be prepared that you may get a tare. Make sure extra strong condoms are used for safety

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By *lexV16Man
51 weeks ago

Welling

"On your knees, head down. Pray

Best advice given I these kind of threads ever

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
51 weeks ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Toys and lube to practice

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By *nnandElleCouple
51 weeks ago

Brackley

Learn to propelrly douche first, it'll help you relax.

Then find a patient top who isn't just in it for his own pleasure, take it slow and use plenty of lube.

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By *unkmiMan
51 weeks ago

Stalybridge

A partner who knows what they are doing , rimming always helps

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By *uri00620Woman
51 weeks ago

Croydon

I've never even considered the recipient in this scenario

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

Some good advice in here.

I'd emphasize that learning how to douche is important to give you confidence and comfort knowing that you won't have an embarrassing accident.

. Use plenty of lube.

Have an understanding partner.

Be into it and try and relax.

Quality condom.

Practice on your own before hand. Not right before but practice over time until you find the right person

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By *ornycougaWoman
51 weeks ago

Wherever I lay my hat

"Once you get past the stinging bit it’s fine so just grit your teeth

There's a lot to be said for this. Once the agony of the bellend popping in has passed you'll be golden

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By *inglepringlebedsukMan
29 weeks ago

Arlesey

Would anyone mind sending me a message so I can ask them some questions and get some advice? I'm in the run up to this happening myself as well but have some questions that would be good to have answered beforehand. Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

"Would anyone mind sending me a message so I can ask them some questions and get some advice? I'm in the run up to this happening myself as well but have some questions that would be good to have answered beforehand. Thank you "

Just play with yourself

you know your limits and keep testing them.. you might surprise yourself!

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By *inglepringlebedsukMan
29 weeks ago

Arlesey

Just play with yourself

you know your limits and keep testing them.. you might surprise yourself!"

I've been doing that for a while but I'm guessing there is a difference between how a dildo feels compared to an actual cock while someone is fucking you

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By *hager777Man
29 weeks ago

Hereford

Plenty of good lube and po**ers!

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By *inglepringlebedsukMan
29 weeks ago

Arlesey

"Plenty of good lube and po**ers!"

Hadn't thought of p***ers, will make sure to pick some of those up

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By *ris GrayMan
29 weeks ago

Dorchester

Try starting with fruit and work your way up to a butternut squash

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By *inglepringlebedsukMan
29 weeks ago

Arlesey

I don't think for even a second I could get up to a butternut squash lol... But fruit isn't a bad idea though. Might go to the shop tomorrow and pick up a banana, maybe even a cucumber as well

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By *ris GrayMan
29 weeks ago

Dorchester

"I don't think for even a second I could get up to a butternut squash lol... But fruit isn't a bad idea though. Might go to the shop tomorrow and pick up a banana, maybe even a cucumber as well "
exactly take the skin off the banana potassium is good for you

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By *inglepringlebedsukMan
29 weeks ago

Arlesey

Maybe after the first or second time when I don't need to worry about how messy it gets lol

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By *weet LisaTV/TS
29 weeks ago

Crawley

Put a but plug in for about twenty minutes every few days. Use a doosh first.

When it comes to the main event relaxation is going to help. If not then your arsehole may want to reject so use your arse muscles to push down, we all know how to use those muscles.

HTH someone.

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By *inglepringlebedsukMan
29 weeks ago

Arlesey

"Put a but plug in for about twenty minutes every few days. Use a doosh first.

When it comes to the main event relaxation is going to help. If not then your arsehole may want to reject so use your arse muscles to push down, we all know how to use those muscles.

HTH someone."

Hth?

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By *weet LisaTV/TS
29 weeks ago

Crawley

"HTH someone.

Hth?"

Hope this helps.

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

"I don't think for even a second I could get up to a butternut squash lol... But fruit isn't a bad idea though. Might go to the shop tomorrow and pick up a banana, maybe even a cucumber as well "

Here’s some fruit and vegetable advice that you didn’t ask for.

Corn on the cob hurts.

Plantains (smaller ones) are better than bananas.

Make sure it’s not massively curved.

Cucumbers are good.

Make anal beads with little tomatoes.

Thai aubergine if you must have aubergine tossing your salad as they’re long and thin not the bulbous massive ones.

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By *inglepringlebedsukMan
29 weeks ago

Arlesey

Ah, I see... I've been training myself with a plug and toy (using the plug at this moment) so hoping that will do the job

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By *inglepringlebedsukMan
29 weeks ago

Arlesey

"I don't think for even a second I could get up to a butternut squash lol... But fruit isn't a bad idea though. Might go to the shop tomorrow and pick up a banana, maybe even a cucumber as well

Here’s some fruit and vegetable advice that you didn’t ask for.

Corn on the cob hurts.

Plantains (smaller ones) are better than bananas.

Make sure it’s not massively curved.

Cucumbers are good.

Make anal beads with little tomatoes.

Thai aubergine if you must have aubergine tossing your salad as they’re long and thin not the bulbous massive ones.

I'm guessing this is from experience? I have never even imagined tomatoes as anal beads lol

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

"I don't think for even a second I could get up to a butternut squash lol... But fruit isn't a bad idea though. Might go to the shop tomorrow and pick up a banana, maybe even a cucumber as well

Here’s some fruit and vegetable advice that you didn’t ask for.

Corn on the cob hurts.

Plantains (smaller ones) are better than bananas.

Make sure it’s not massively curved.

Cucumbers are good.

Make anal beads with little tomatoes.

Thai aubergine if you must have aubergine tossing your salad as they’re long and thin not the bulbous massive ones.

I'm guessing this is from experience? I have never even imagined tomatoes as anal beads lol"

Pfft! Just things I’ve read or heard.

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By *oulette 2Couple
29 weeks ago

solihull

We have both of us love it must use lub

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By *achel SmythTV/TS
29 weeks ago

Farnborough

- Start small and work your way up

- practice makes perfect .. potentially helps just before .. helps you relax

- relax and don’t tense up

- stop if it hurts!

- use plenty of lube … I have an anal syringe which helps here.

…. Enjoy

R xx

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By *rgasmatron1970Man
29 weeks ago

Bromley

You have to remember that there is 3 consecutive sets of anal passage muscles. If you don't ease in gently and slowly (lube helps!) Game over as the recipient's muscles will clench up.

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By *lmost TouchingMan
29 weeks ago

Wherever I lay my hat.

Assuming the same is true for both men and women as I have only had anal with a woman, the following is my thoughts:

Does the person want to… mutual desire is not only essential and important if is a qualifier.

Trust is vital. It is going to be very slow and may stop at any time. No pressure. There is always tomorrow.

Lube. More lube. And then more lube.

Relax… no rushing.

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By *ild_oatsMan
29 weeks ago

the land of saints & sinners

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By *ild_oatsMan
29 weeks ago

the land of saints & sinners

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By *ild_oatsMan
29 weeks ago

the land of saints & sinners

Start small….

Broom handle first

Then can of deodorant or Sky remote followed by a 2 litre bottle of Coke before moving on to a full sized rugby ball….

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By *ascaIMan
29 weeks ago

Cheshire Liverpool Manchester

"Start small….

Broom handle first

Then can of deodorant or Sky remote followed by a 2 litre bottle of Coke before moving on to a full sized rugby ball….

I’ll never look at that picture in the same way again

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By *aribbean King 1985Man
29 weeks ago

South West London

Never done anal and never will

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By *lexV16Man
28 weeks ago

Welling

"Start small….

Broom handle first

Then can of deodorant or Sky remote followed by a 2 litre bottle of Coke before moving on to a full sized rugby ball….

This should be added to FAQ section of fab!

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By *herry delightWoman
28 weeks ago

Ilfracombe

It's probably because you think it's going too hurt so you tense up and there by making it hurt.

You need to relax body and mind.

Get a butt starter kit and get use to have something in your arse both physically and mentally. Once you gotta over that then work up to dildos and then the real thing.

All ways use a good quality lube and plenty of it and a bit more.

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By *rgasmatron1970Man
28 weeks ago

Bromley

"Start small….

Broom handle first

Then can of deodorant or Sky remote followed by a 2 litre bottle of Coke before moving on to a full sized rugby ball….

I'm never going to pick up a client's Sky remote ever again.

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

Me too thanks for this thread

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