FabSwingers.com forum: Urgh

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Does fab, and online dating (I know it's not the same), sometimes get you down? How else do you meet people though?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes it's good to not meet people.

Most of the time actually.

Well, all the time.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

In person mostly. Friends of friends or just out and about

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

"Does fab, and online dating (I know it's not the same), sometimes get you down? How else do you meet people though?

Go Old skool, start with pubs and if you’re not lucky you’ve had a dam good night out

If you only stay on the dating sites and fab and you’re not lucky you’re missing out on life

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

You join things!

Clubs that interest you (running, cycling, whatever). Go out alone more (cinema, restaurants, galleries).

As my mum tells me, “you won’t meet anyone sat on the sofa”. I mean technically you can, via dating sites etc, but it’s good to broaden the horizons a bit. Put yourself out there!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've spent the last few months mentally preparing to dip my toe back into dating apps.

It's tiresome.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In person I meet a lot of new people. I’m a people magnet. Online I’m a people fragment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does fab, and online dating (I know it's not the same), sometimes get you down? How else do you meet people though?

Online is shit. But I don’t go out. So it’s shit.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

"Does fab, and online dating (I know it's not the same), sometimes get you down? How else do you meet people though?

Online is shit. But I don’t go out. So it’s shit. "

Maybe you should do some social things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does fab, and online dating (I know it's not the same), sometimes get you down? How else do you meet people though?

Online is shit. But I don’t go out. So it’s shit.

Maybe you should do some social things

I actually Kiev’s little. I go to the pub once scc bc week. Yes, on my own like a sad ass because I know zero people who want to go out anymore.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

It can be frustrating! Regular sites more so than here.

People put in so little effort.

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal

"Sometimes it's good to not meet people.

Most of the time actually.

Well, all the time."

True

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to go to clubs if I want to be social.

I'm quite a homebody if I'm honest.

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal

"It can be frustrating! Regular sites more so than here.

People put in so little effort.

Simple

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

I don't get to meet people. These days I feel that I want to know people closely before I meet them, but until I meet them I can't get to know them. Life is not easy.

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
over a year ago

Transsexual Transylvania

I don't meet people. Chatting here can be fun.

If I wanted to meet people, I'd put some effort into jogging joining some clubs or interest groups.

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
over a year ago

Transsexual Transylvania

"I don't meet people. Chatting here can be fun.

If I wanted to meet people, I'd put some effort into jogging joining some clubs or interest groups.

Not jogging - autocomplete strikes again.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

As was said above, join in with online social groups of your interests. If you mean just sexually, then try the fab social events, parties and clubs, lots to do out there, you just gotta attend

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"Does fab, and online dating (I know it's not the same), sometimes get you down? How else do you meet people though?

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If you meet people in life thats the way to go, you definitely can't rely on this place to meet although i do ok but i guess the younger fitter and more attractive you are you'll always do ok here

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By *esafinadOHolyNightMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Work can be good and bad. Good that you'll spend plenty of time with your colleagues and they'll be able to get a fair idea of who you are and vice versa, bad because you'll spend a lot of time with your colleagues so if you meet one and break up it could make the workplace difficult.

Taking up a hobby and finding a club to meet folks with shared interests would be a good move.

If you have a dog, walking regularly in your local park could spark conversations with other dog owners or fans of dogs.

If you have any friends who have partners then that's also a good way to be introduced to someone, plus they might have a good idea as to whether you'll be a match or not.

Find a nice bar in town, not a dive bar, stay relatively sober and try to spark up a conversation with someone you like who looks open enough to talking. If they are on their own and looking around them plenty then that might be an indication that they wouldn't mind being approached. I would say a bar is the worst of the options I've said though.

Lastly, take advice from someone else cause my track record with meeting women is awful lol

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By *hiteWitchXXXWoman
over a year ago

North Wales

I briefly given online dating a go during the summer.... absolutely hated it and won't be going back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In order of easiness

Out in real life

Dating apps

Fabs

If one isn’t working, move back up to an easier one

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