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"Don't expect anything from anyone and you won't be disappointed... cynical but true" i could agree more! | |||
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"Men join here thinking it's sex guaranteed, then are put out when women dare to have preferences. Also, guys that are desperate, you can tell a mile off and it's not sexy. At all. " | |||
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"Dickens wrote a book on his experience on fab. He had Great Expectations " Hehehe.. He did. | |||
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"Don't expect anything from anyone and you won't be disappointed... cynical but true i could agree more! " My thoughts too | |||
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"Don't expect anything from anyone and you won't be disappointed... cynical but true i could agree more! My thoughts too " | |||
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"Men join here thinking it's sex guaranteed, then are put out when women dare to have preferences. Also, guys that are desperate, you can tell a mile off and it's not sexy. At all. " I dint think we mind testing women have preferences. I do find it interesting that women on here get much more easily trigger if a man dare have any of his own though. | |||
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"Men join here thinking it's sex guaranteed, then are put out when women dare to have preferences. Also, guys that are desperate, you can tell a mile off and it's not sexy. At all. I dint think we mind testing women have preferences. I do find it interesting that women on here get much more easily trigger if a man dare have any of his own though." I have more respect for guys that have any! | |||
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"When I joined, I was told it was a community. That hasn't changed. " It's a community for many who go to clubs, house parties. social events and perhaps even regularly chat on Forum. For a large chunk of people who do none of those things it's just a place to meet people and have sex. | |||
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"… Honestly when you joined Fab what were your expectations and have they changed?" I had no expectations of swinging then, and I have none now. But holy shit, you can tell the people who have been here for a long time, and those that haven’t. | |||
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"Men join here thinking it's sex guaranteed, then are put out when women dare to have preferences. Also, guys that are desperate, you can tell a mile off and it's not sexy. At all. I dint think we mind testing women have preferences. I do find it interesting that women on here get much more easily trigger if a man dare have any of his own though." I want men to have preferences. I want them to be interested in me outside the fact that i have holes. | |||
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"Men join here thinking it's sex guaranteed, then are put out when women dare to have preferences. Also, guys that are desperate, you can tell a mile off and it's not sexy. At all. I dint think we mind testing women have preferences. I do find it interesting that women on here get much more easily trigger if a man dare have any of his own though. I want men to have preferences. I want them to be interested in me outside the fact that i have holes. " Or where you live?? I can find 1000s of women local. But my preference is that I like them. and that’s hard to find around here. | |||
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"I wouldn't be here if i was male simple as that. I think it must be really hard to send off loads of messages and not get a single response. Having said that i get lots of messages from people who are not local and/or cannot accommodate. So those are immediate nos from me. Surely men would do better if they only messages women when they fit the profile? " As I said above I don't send messages any more and haven't in 4 years. When I did message people it was always specific to their profile and in my head I ticked all their boxes in regards to location and physical requirements. At most I sent a couple of messages a week because I was very selective. Some weeks I didn't send any if I didn't see a profile that I was compatible with. I had roughly a 20 percent return and at least half of those were to say thanks but I didn't fit what they were looking for which was fair enough. The remainder often fizzled out after a few messages. So just based on my experience of sending approx 100 very specific messages in a year I would have one meet in that time period that led to a sexual encounter. So therefore in seven years here I've had sex with 7 people, 5 of whom were one off meets and I never heard from them again for various reasons. I'm ok with those numbers but a lot of people would see that as a waste of time. From messages i have received and comments on here, other people's expectations of my level of success is totally different. Some are surprised that just because I am active on the forums and have made an effort with my profile that I have a long list of fab friends, an active fab social life and a full inbox. Nothing could be further from the truth. I haven't met anyone new in 4 years, have 6 on my friends list and can often go months without a single message. Perceptions of the site as a whole and equally of other fabbers can often be skewed. | |||
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"Gave up any expectations on this or any other site. I would dsy to any single man to avoid swingers clubs for the same reason as the OP. I use thd site for the forums and to keep up to date either parties I like going to occasionally. I certainly don't expect to meet from fabs as nice as it would be. " I will second your comments. I attended quest a few times and never had more than a few chats didn't see any other guys getting lucky either. Fabs not what it was and I stopped trying for meets ages ago. | |||
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