FabSwingers.com forum: What do you do for YOU time?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I was thinking this morning what everyone night do to enjoy their ME time.

Now, I know I'll get the response but I'm not really talking about the sexual "me" time but anytime you get to spend just resetting your mind or have time to reflect on yourself and do something you love. X

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By *hromosexualsCouple
over a year ago

Near Abercynon

I like to ride a motorbike in lovely scenery. Not fast like a nobhead, just take in the sights and maybe stop somewhere nice for a coffee, it's good escapism.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have learned that ME time is becoming more and more important. I think I said yesterday it’s about a little win.

I’ve started reading again, phone down, and a paperback

Also if it’s not raining, try and take my morning “cuppa” outside and watch the world slowly wake up.

For me it’s not about monetary value but almost like a reset.

I read something somewhere

Remember to close the tabs in your mind not just on your computer

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By *inister_SpinsterWoman
over a year ago

Manchester(ish).

I read.

I do jewel art.

I lift heavy things.

And I cook.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

bdsm is my "me time" it's the only space I get to dip out of life and truly immerse myself into something creative

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I read.

Watch DVDs of old films/t.v. programs.

Daydream.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I read, walk my dogs, I love walking.

I find it super relaxing.

I cross stitch or knit,I might research a subject that I'm intersted in.

Sometimes, I just do some self care, paint nails,do my makeup etc.

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

I like to watch Korean dramas, I find them easy on the eye, and it relaxes me in a way that British dramas could never do.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I like to ride a motorbike in lovely scenery. Not fast like a nobhead, just take in the sights and maybe stop somewhere nice for a coffee, it's good escapism.

Mr"

I wish I had taken up riding I never got passed the CBT loop. But friends of mine do it and they swear by it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have learned that ME time is becoming more and more important. I think I said yesterday it’s about a little win.

I’ve started reading again, phone down, and a paperback

Also if it’s not raining, try and take my morning “cuppa” outside and watch the world slowly wake up.

For me it’s not about monetary value but almost like a reset.

I read something somewhere

Remember to close the tabs in your mind not just on your computer "

Great. I read to my son and love it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I read.

I do jewel art.

I lift heavy things.

And I cook. "

I need to get back to the gym. Mid the after feeling of calm

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By *umalotagainMan
over a year ago

a town called malice

In the summer months , get out on my boat and go fishing

Who’s joining me next spring

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By *asques and boxersCouple
over a year ago

Ashford and dept16

Started to do some form of art everyday sketching/drawing, painting, pastels.

Also listening to different music generes, find it allows me to find some space whilst recouping some old skills.

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By *adyluck..Woman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

I know it’s important so try to ensure do regular

Gym

Reading

And when lucky club visit

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By *dward_TeagueMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

I walk my puppy, he’s almost 9 months old and is at the age when everything he sees is new and amazing and exciting. It’s so rewarding to see the look of sheer joy on his face! After a hard day he has the ability to make my cares just disappear.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I read

I run

I practice kata

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By *hromosexualsCouple
over a year ago

Near Abercynon

"I walk my puppy, he’s almost 9 months old and is at the age when everything he sees is new and amazing and exciting. It’s so rewarding to see the look of sheer joy on his face! After a hard day he has the ability to make my cares just disappear.

Dogs are ace. Ours is almost 16 now, a proper old lady but always a massive part of the family.

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By *dward_TeagueMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

Dogs are ace. Ours is almost 16 now, a proper old lady but always a massive part of the family."

They steal our hearts!

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By *aughty but nice...Man
over a year ago

Staffs

I go home throw on some Kenny G and take a bath

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being outdoors is the key for me. Either a nine long dog walk or my passion being running. Both allow me to explore different places, be in my own thoughts and help stay in good health

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Edging mostly.

Though reading and mutt cuddles also feature occasionally

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Sit quietly alone on my sofa with the radio on low and lay back and close my eyes. This frequently involves me nodding off. But the peace, the calm, the stillness is just bliss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rarely have me time, as I'm never really alone. However my husband and I enjoy quality time together and will spend it enjoying the simple things, one of my favourites being a walk on the beach.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Walking my very energetic dog

The gym

Cooking

Wild camping with my very energetic dog

Simple stuff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I jump into the virtual ‘cockpit’ of my fighter jet, fly around, and blow shit up.

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

Run, swim, cycle.

Read.

Watch tv.

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By *esafinadOHolyNightMan
over a year ago

Belfast

My car died earlier in the year and I'm not planning on getting a new 1 till I'm back from holiday, otherwise I would have said go for a drive. Nothing resets me like a jaunt off somewhere on my own with maybe a good mountain hike or forest walk before coming home again.

Atm though, without a car, I just go for walks when I need a clear head and a little time to myself

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Stone of these are great me time ideas.

I'm realising I really don't get enough of it. I miss not having a time in the day or week that brings me a selfish joy other than my family and close friends. X

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By *an1978Woman
over a year ago

GONE/TIMEOUT (No DMs please)

I'm very rarely alone,

I have kids and a noisy Job, so my "ME" time is usually quiet things.

Sitting by the seaside, or listening to music.

Reading up on geeky things.

(Or browsing fab

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

(Ladywank)

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By *exyCarla181Couple
over a year ago

Leamington Spa

"I was thinking this morning what everyone night do to enjoy their ME time.

Macrame or some kind of craft... Or a walk or a cuddle and a film with Shane x Carla x

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I read, cross stitch or design house plans when on my own for some ME time.

Nita

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do digital sculpting in my spare time, along with learning new music on guitar and piano, or take my telescope out if the skies are clear. Those are my main hobbies.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I read, cross stitch or design house plans when on my own for some ME time.

Nita"

I design a house in my head when I walk my dog of I've forgotten my headphones.

I'm no designer or architect but love the idea of building my own home, so I try to visualise what it'll look like x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My car died earlier in the year and I'm not planning on getting a new 1 till I'm back from holiday, otherwise I would have said go for a drive. Nothing resets me like a jaunt off somewhere on my own with maybe a good mountain hike or forest walk before coming home again.

Atm though, without a car, I just go for walks when I need a clear head and a little time to myself

Sucks your car died. I haven't been for just A drive for about 20 years...

I hope you get things sorted soon.

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By *.luke7Man
over a year ago

Out on my motorbike or my jet ski.. preferably the later as anything to do with water is just so refreshing.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

I use work trips as an excuse for me time.

Today I’ve been working in Manchester, so right now I’m taking myself out for a curry and then for cocktails. I love wandering a different city and finding good places. Urban exploring is definitely me time.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"I read, cross stitch or design house plans when on my own for some ME time.

Nita

I design a house in my head when I walk my dog of I've forgotten my headphones.

I'm no designer or architect but love the idea of building my own home, so I try to visualise what it'll look like x"

Neither am I but I've always been interested in architecture.

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