FabSwingers.com forum: Cancelled hotel meet

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So, what do you do when you have a meet planned and you have the hotel booked, but they have cancelled? (Non refundable hotel…)

Do you go anyway and enjoy having a night in the hotel by yourself? Find a last minute meet? Stay home and learn for next time?

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By *inkForLifeCouple
over a year ago

North Shields

Depends what your desires are, but I'd say find a last minute meet. They are the best often!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So, what do you do when you have a meet planned and you have the hotel booked, but they have cancelled? (Non refundable hotel…)

Do you go anyway and enjoy having a night in the hotel by yourself? Find a last minute meet? Stay home and learn for next time?

Definitely go anyway and make the most of it. Who knows who you might meet in the bar downstairs

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By *ilthycoupleabzCouple
over a year ago

Aberdeen

"So, what do you do when you have a meet planned and you have the hotel booked, but they have cancelled? (Non refundable hotel…)

Do you go anyway and enjoy having a night in the hotel by yourself? Find a last minute meet? Stay home and learn for next time?

Take a friend and have a nice night anyway?

Seems a shame to waste a night away

MrsAbz

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely do not stay at home ! Take a pampering kit and some bath salts - make it your evening. Check out what's on in the area - any events of your liking. Or ask some girl friend on a TV show binge overnight!

Enjoy

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By *irtydaddy and joMan
over a year ago

corby

Would go spend time in the bar, and see what happens, you may strike lucky, and good luck

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By *melie LALWoman
over a year ago

Peterborough

"So, what do you do when you have a meet planned and you have the hotel booked, but they have cancelled? (Non refundable hotel…)

Do you go anyway and enjoy having a night in the hotel by yourself? Find a last minute meet? Stay home and learn for next time?

Definitely go, waste of money otherwise.

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By *undayGirl 69Woman
over a year ago

Coalville

"So, what do you do when you have a meet planned and you have the hotel booked, but they have cancelled? (Non refundable hotel…)

Do you go anyway and enjoy having a night in the hotel by yourself? Find a last minute meet? Stay home and learn for next time?

I’d go, change my location n see who else is staying there. N if nothing happened I’d have a long bath… but then I don’t have a bath at my house so that would be luxury for me x

I wouldn’t pay for a room again though x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stay in the hotel yourself, go eat somewhere nice, pamper yourself and enjoy it.

Don't place your enjoyment in the hands of others, your plan B should always be you.

And if you want to get royally fucked by someone else and that's your treat...bloody go for it.

Don't let the sod make you stay in.....that's just wrong on so many levels. You're better than that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go and treat yourself and enjoy the stay as much as you can. Then arrange to meet him again and but say that he has to pay for the hotel to make amends and then you no-show. Or maybe I'm just being petty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same happened to me - planning to pamper myself get takeout

Hope you make the most of it xxx

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By *aughtyhub80Man
over a year ago

Wallasey

Go to the hotel and find another guy

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Either try and arrange a last minute meet. Still go to the hotel.

I'd probably hit the night life.

Check out what's going on within the hotel as we all use them

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

If it's a nice hotel and you've paid for breakfast then definitely go. Have that date with yourself

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By *moothCriminal_xMan
over a year ago

Redditch

I VOLUNTEER AS TRIBUTE

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By *TaR105Man
over a year ago

Birkenhead

"So, what do you do when you have a meet planned and you have the hotel booked, but they have cancelled? (Non refundable hotel…)

Do you go anyway and enjoy having a night in the hotel by yourself? Find a last minute meet? Stay home and learn for next time?

Let me know where and when, and lets have fun.

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By *ilverjagMan
over a year ago

swansea

Shame that I'm not in your preferred age range, as I could have said that you could send for me! XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First off, what a prick for standing you up

Go to the hotel and have a "you" night, if you are comfortable being by yourself then go out, have some food and have a fun night, if you're not that person then just have a relaxing bath, films, chat to mates or have a friend over for company, learn from it but please don't stay at home you're worth more than that xx

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

I would go anyway. Enjoy a change from your own 4 walls.

I'm not so sure sitting in the bar is a good idea, you never know who you're going to meet and what people are like after a few drinks.

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Have a night away and chill, have a meal have a few drinks in the hotel or a local bar, I am sure you would find company very easily.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I'd be in the hotel and getting my money's worth

. I usually have too much to do on a stay, so a cancellation means I can relax and enjoy things more.

I always research other things to do, including museums, nature and a little shopping may be helpful. Or get a 100 man gangbang

. I occasionally do an alternative meet check and it can work. But it depends on my levels of faff tolerance etc

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Take a female friends with you and unleash

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By *nebworthMan
over a year ago

Knebworth

"So, what do you do when you have a meet planned and you have the hotel booked, but they have cancelled? (Non refundable hotel…)

Do you go anyway and enjoy having a night in the hotel by yourself? Find a last minute meet? Stay home and learn for next time?

Find another meet.

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

"So, what do you do when you have a meet planned and you have the hotel booked, but they have cancelled? (Non refundable hotel…)

Do you go anyway and enjoy having a night in the hotel by yourself? Find a last minute meet? Stay home and learn for next time?

Been there done that. Go and make the best of it... And sadly learn for next time. Don't pay for a hotel depending on a random stranger to show up.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Yeah definitely go…use the room to take some nice pics.

Turn it around so that you get some benefit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of non refundable hotels will still let you amend the date of your stay either online or over the phone so it's not always a lost cause.

Plan something for a different date instead?

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By *andadbodMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

for a women? a last minute meet.

for a man? enjoy an evening alone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd still go to the hotel....maybe someone you've met already might step in & meet you....defo don't waste the hotel room....even if it's just you staying there....get a nice munch in & binge watch your fav programmes ...spoil yourself in every way you can

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Happened to me a few years ago in Wigan, I ended up spending most of the night with a very sexy young lady I met in the bar who had also been stood up (not by a fab meet).

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

Take your partner?

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

"Don't place your enjoyment in the hands of others, your plan B should always be you."

Everything Ananke said sounds right to me, but this part especially.

That’s a fucking motivational poster, right there. Your plan B should always be yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So, what do you do when you have a meet planned and you have the hotel booked, but they have cancelled? (Non refundable hotel…)

Do you go anyway and enjoy having a night in the hotel by yourself? Find a last minute meet? Stay home and learn for next time?

School boy error.

On a chance encounter on here always pay the late cancellation price, might cost you £30 more but if it goes head what’s £30 between sex mates. If it doesn’t you get your money back. Most of the major travel tavern hotels allow you to do that.

Lonely hotel rooms late at night can be a very difficult wank sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey

I know he is a little younger than your filter but a lovely guy with an awesome profile posted a thread

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/support/1537126

I think he would be worth a chat to and maybe he could be the silver lining

(I don’t know him btw- just think he comes across really well)

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