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By *illy Idol OP   Man
over a year ago

Midlands

Has a lady made the first move here where she's read you profile carefully, studied your photos and composed a beautifully written message which is witty, charming and personal to you?

If so, how did it feel?

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

The last time I sent a first contact message was in January 2020.

Every conversation I've had since then has been started by women choosing to get in touch.

Some have read my profile and understood it why some haven't.

My best friend contacted me this way 4 years ago so it's not unusual.

I feel fine about all those conversations because they have seen something in my profile or my forum posts that encourages them to get in touch and have a normal conversation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She’s clearly fake

That level of effort from a woman is so rare it’s going to 99% of the time be a fake/scam

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By *ilthycoupleabzCouple
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"She’s clearly fake

That level of effort from a woman is so rare it’s going to 99% of the time be a fake/scam "

Hey, it was a different site/app but I messaged Mr first... and I'm real. It does happen.

MrsAbz

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She’s clearly fake

That level of effort from a woman is so rare it’s going to 99% of the time be a fake/scam "

I've definitely messaged hiya before now. I am a proactive sort.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had a couple of msgs from two ladies, and its a bit of a confidence booster for me, so all good.

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Not that I can remember Most of my messages come from forum interaction so there's already some rconnection. The handful of "out of the blue" messages that I have had are from profiles that outline their specific requirements, that I don't fit into

LvM

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
over a year ago

kent

From non forum members, only once. She was so dreamy if I described her she’d sound like a cliche. The three of us spent a year seeing each other, and then she vanished as mysteriously and unexpectedly as she appeared.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

If we exclude private messaging between forumites via forum games, general threads, photo challenges and whatnots, I've only sent handful of messages to women in the last 2½ years.

All my dates and romantic encounters have been on the back of women sending the first message. Therefore women do indeed send the first message.

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By *hunky ChefMan
over a year ago

Norwich


"Has a lady made the first move here where she's read you profile carefully, studied your photos and composed a beautifully written message which is witty, charming and personal to you?

If so, how did it feel?"

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It's extremely rare and usually just:

" Hi! How are you?"

" What are you up to?"

" Are you free now?"

When I ask something then:

" I dunno"

" Maybe r u hung"

" yep/ok " ***Then disappears***

Maybe a vag pic, BJ pic or fuck pic.

Yes, women send this kind of messages too.

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