FabSwingers.com forum: The most basic and deep one

By *ruceyy OP Man
over a year ago

London

Gooooood morning!

So, ever sit there and think, how did you get HERE. Be that a couple swinging, or single and looking here.

Is monogamy not for you? Just have a high sex drive and it's on your mind alot? Boredom to pass the time?

Do you ever wonder why the whole traditional normal settle down and have a monogamous relationship didn't work out for you personally?

And obviously this isn't a negative thread. Sexy people owning their sexuality?! Two thumbs up from Brucey!

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By *esafinadOHolyNightMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I'm not gifted in the looks department so girlfriends were few and far between. Relationships never lasted very long either as most of the women I met responded to my placid nature with craziness lol

So, I've lost interest in dating normally. I would much rather meet a likeminded woman or 2 who wants to quench the fire in their loins every now and then. Simples

Good question Brucey!

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By *hunky ChefMan
over a year ago

Norwich

I'm here for the forum only.

Who cares about sex?

No, not me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not gifted in the looks department so girlfriends were few and far between. Relationships never lasted very long either as most of the women I met responded to my placid nature with craziness lol

So, I've lost interest in dating normally. I would much rather meet a likeminded woman or 2 who wants to quench the fire in their loins every now and then. Simples

Good question Brucey! "

I love this reply

“Struggled getting one woman so thought fuck it I’ll just get 2”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been married and it just never worked out for a multitude of reasons.

I love sex, all sorts of different types of sex. I like meeting new people and swinging works for me.

I have no interest in monogomy anymore.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just really, really want sex. Don't care about who. Give me sex.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

Just here as am single. Would sack this off no problem if met someone that was serious for 1-2-1 relationship.

Fab is just a tool / distraction to get some sex for me

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By *esafinadOHolyNightMan
over a year ago

Belfast

So, I've lost interest in dating normally. I would much rather meet a likeminded woman or 2 who wants to quench the fire in their loins every now and then. Simples

Good question Brucey!

I love this reply

“Struggled getting one woman so thought fuck it I’ll just get 2”"

very good!

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By *ruceyy OP Man
over a year ago

London

So, I've lost interest in dating normally. I would much rather meet a likeminded woman or 2 who wants to quench the fire in their loins every now and then. Simples

Good question Brucey!

I love this reply

“Struggled getting one woman so thought fuck it I’ll just get 2”"

Me in the supermarket

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By *ruceyy OP Man
over a year ago

London

"Just really, really want sex. Don't care about who. Give me sex."

Well ain't you fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wanted sex - i found the forum

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
over a year ago

kent

We’ve always been this way. Took a long while to accept it, but ever since we were teenagers other people have played some kind of role in our relationship.

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

Vanilla relationships have never ticked the box in terms of what I like sexually. So here I am, meeting men who are happy to turn my bum cheeks red and tie me up with their belt.

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
over a year ago

kent

"Vanilla relationships have never ticked the box in terms of what I like sexually. So here I am, meeting men who are happy to turn my bum cheeks red and tie me up with their belt. "

Oh hello

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone told me to sign up because I'm a pervert apparently!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Friend told me about here 11 years ago. Here for forums now. Sex is a bonus. Sex should be adventurous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Someone told me to sign up because I'm a pervert apparently!

Ha same, that's how I started.

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By *hellebelleWoman
over a year ago

ashford

6 years ago A concerned friend, after hearing of my 2 year dry spell, sent me the link for this site with the words “don’t judge me” in the heading so I blame her completely! lol

Tbh, it’s mostly boredom that keeps me coming back.. as yes I’m still single.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I don’t really ponder it , feels normal.

I can comfortably do swinging, poly, mono, D/s type dynamics it all depends on the person and the adventure.

It’s not about boredom or sex , if I’m bored I’ll learn something new, and I can refrain from sex easily, it’s more about new adventures.

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By *ruceyy OP Man
over a year ago

London

"Someone told me to sign up because I'm a pervert apparently!

Apparently?!

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

Been listening to Talking Heads Brucey? And you may ask yourself, "Well, how did I get here?"

And exploration of fantasies is the short version that I'm prepared to share

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

When I was at school I knew I was different to my friends. I thought I was weird.

In my early relationships I was never faithful and couldn't understand why. Then I met my ex husband and he was bi and a dirty bustard we involved others in our marriage (this is going back 35 years) when we split up I was having sex with multiple guys 3somesome and more. I'd already had a gang bang.

Then I got the Internet and found swingers sites they where people just like me I wasn't a weirdo after all.

I did some weird, wild and crazy things for the next 20 plus years then I just stopped. Think I burnt myself out. That was about three years ago. Then my partner died last year and I don't want another man near me.

So now I'm only here for the forums with some wonderful memories

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never been one for monogamy, so much so that I have been single for 11 years! - so I come here for that itch and a little company occasionally

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By *hunky ChefMan
over a year ago

Norwich

So, I've lost interest in dating normally. I would much rather meet a likeminded woman or 2 who wants to quench the fire in their loins every now and then. Simples

Good question Brucey! "

"I'm not gifted in the looks department"

Share your secret please!

I'm struggling to find even 1 woman, let alone 2.

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

I just want all the sex before I get REALLY old.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Someone told me to sign up because I'm a pervert apparently!

Apparently?!

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Calm yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just want all the sex before I get REALLY old. "

This one is good ha ha

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

We were both here as singles, as we both didn’t want a relationship, and enjoyed that side of things.

So when we got together we decided to see what it was like as a couple as we still had a lot of fantasies - so here we are completing them and adding to them and loving it

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

I am glad I never got married. Lets leave it at that.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I just find fwbs easier than boyfriends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because I have serious trust issues and me in a relationship is not a good thing.

Plus people annoy me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Gooooood morning!

So, ever sit there and think, how did you get HERE. Be that a couple swinging, or single and looking here. "

Yes, I often think a proper dating site would be better. But I don’t trust anyone in there.

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Do you ever wonder why the whole traditional normal settle down and have a monogamous relationship didn't work out for you personally?

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No, I know exactly why that didn’t work out.

The funny thing is, I’d like a monogamous relationship, or at least to a point. (weird, I know. ) Because I can commit to one person, my soul, my heart, my love etc. but it’s the sexual fantasies and exploring together that doesnt work in that 1-1 traditional old fashioned monogamy relationship when you have a very open mind and someone’s isn’t. I dunno, I’ll figure it out one day.

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