FabSwingers.com forum: What do women look for?

By *allHandsomeJay OP Man
over a year ago

NOTTINGHAM

Hello ladies, what's the first thing you look at when you see a man at first. Whether here or real life.

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By *adyluck..Woman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

His face

says everything I feel eyes etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In real life is he attractive to me

On here the physical listings

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bookmarking.

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By *allHandsomeJay OP Man
over a year ago

NOTTINGHAM

"Bookmarking. "

Women please....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bookmarking.

Women please....

Yeah woody! Take your penis away.

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By *orny-DJMan
over a year ago

Leigh-on-Sea

Cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In answer to the question.

Everything(face,body,personality, penis) I'm observant, I notice everything.

I want it all.

And I want it now!

*Not actually right now

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By *sername2000Man
over a year ago

kings lynn

A rub out

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By *allHandsomeJay OP Man
over a year ago

NOTTINGHAM

"In answer to the question.

Everything(face,body,personality, penis) I'm observant, I notice everything.

I want it all.

And I want it now!

*Not actually right now

Timing to be decided lol

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

Height, unless you’re very tall and then some women like it and some don’t

No need to thank me, hope it helps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hello ladies, what's the first thing you look at when you see a man at first. Whether here or real life. "

His wedding ring.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Height, unless you’re very tall and then some women like it and some don’t

No need to thank me, hope it helps "

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

Youre so tall youre so tall pin me up against the wall...... In the words of the song they look for personality

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Dick. They're all cock hounds, and the bigger the better. Gents make sure you're stocked up on grey trackies this winter

LvM

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Eyes, arse, then smell him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dick. They're all cock hounds, and the bigger the better. Gents make sure you're stocked up on grey trackies this winter

LvM"

Hey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably face + height first

Then build + style/fashion/dress sense

Then a guess at his social standing/status

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

I like to see an excellent helicopter dick first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Probably face + height first

Then build + style/fashion/dress sense

Then a guess at his social standing/status "

Incorrect. Again. The correct answer is ‘all women are individuals and therefore have individual things they look for’.

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

"I like to see an excellent helicopter dick first

Do you have to lower the tone of everything?!

Are you me?!

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

How comfortable they are in themselves.

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

"Dick. They're all cock hounds, and the bigger the better. Gents make sure you're stocked up on grey trackies this winter

LvM

Hey

*adds five pairs to cart*

LvM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Probably face + height first

Then build + style/fashion/dress sense

Then a guess at his social standing/status

Incorrect. Again. The correct answer is ‘all women are individuals and therefore have individual things they look for’. "

Ok Dwight. We disagree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Probably face + height first

Then build + style/fashion/dress sense

Then a guess at his social standing/status "

You guessed wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At first glance probably it would be fashion choices, what message their outfit sends.. And I like looking at their hands.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Probably face + height first

Then build + style/fashion/dress sense

Then a guess at his social standing/status

You guessed wrong."

Didn’t you write face and body? Can’t be that wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Probably face + height first

Then build + style/fashion/dress sense

Then a guess at his social standing/status

Incorrect. Again. The correct answer is ‘all women are individuals and therefore have individual things they look for’.

Ok Dwight. We disagree "

I’m a woman. You are not. Therefore I am marginally more qualified to assist in this answer than you are, no?

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

"I like to see an excellent helicopter dick first

Do you have to lower the tone of everything?!

Are you me?!

I’m you in disguise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Probably face + height first

Then build + style/fashion/dress sense

Then a guess at his social standing/status

You guessed wrong.

Didn’t you write face and body? Can’t be that wrong

I was referring to your social standing/status bit. I didn't read the rest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Probably face + height first

Then build + style/fashion/dress sense

Then a guess at his social standing/status

Incorrect. Again. The correct answer is ‘all women are individuals and therefore have individual things they look for’.

Ok Dwight. We disagree

I’m a woman. You are not. Therefore I am marginally more qualified to assist in this answer than you are, no? "

We could argue the fisherman is better at knowing what bait to use than the fish

But mainly, it’s pretty obvious I’m not wrong. They’re pretty standard things a woman’s gonna look at when checking a guy out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Probably face + height first

Then build + style/fashion/dress sense

Then a guess at his social standing/status

Incorrect. Again. The correct answer is ‘all women are individuals and therefore have individual things they look for’.

Ok Dwight. We disagree

I’m a woman. You are not. Therefore I am marginally more qualified to assist in this answer than you are, no?

We could argue the fisherman is better at knowing what bait to use than the fish

But mainly, it’s pretty obvious I’m not wrong. They’re pretty standard things a woman’s gonna look at when checking a guy out. "

*some women

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By *hellebelleWoman
over a year ago

ashford

Face first as it holds the windows to the soul (eyes) and especially if it’s adorned with a great beard.

And weirdly their hands and forearms next.

Big strong manly forearms and nice clean hands and fingers minus a wedding band.

The rest I don’t care about as my Fanny will be fluttering enough!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Probably face + height first

Then build + style/fashion/dress sense

Then a guess at his social standing/status

Incorrect. Again. The correct answer is ‘all women are individuals and therefore have individual things they look for’.

Ok Dwight. We disagree

I’m a woman. You are not. Therefore I am marginally more qualified to assist in this answer than you are, no?

We could argue the fisherman is better at knowing what bait to use than the fish

But mainly, it’s pretty obvious I’m not wrong. They’re pretty standard things a woman’s gonna look at when checking a guy out.

*some women"

Agree to disagree

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Face

Humour/personality.

Anything else depends on the top two, if I like the above I'll like the rest, if I don't I won't.

Mrs

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

"Face

Humour/personality.

Anything else depends on the top two, if I like the above I'll like the rest, if I don't I won't.

Mrs "

You forgot boobs!

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

"Face

Humour/personality.

Anything else depends on the top two, if I like the above I'll like the rest, if I don't I won't.

Mrs "

This for me. I had exactly this conversation with Mr yesterday!

Mrs TMN x

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Personality in profile and messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bookmarking.

Women please....

I put that on my profile. It doesn’t work .

I’m a guy, *true story. And I reckon women want just about the same thing I might want to find in someone that attracts me. It’s not rocket science, it’s a matter of attraction. You either do or don’t.

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
over a year ago

Next Door

Online, it will be about the bio/pics/message. Then it will be about compatibility.

If face to face, it will be a combination of visual/energy/mannerisms.

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By *ocketrocket80Man
over a year ago

Walsall

"I like to see an excellent helicopter dick first

With airwolf music in the background

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

"Face

Humour/personality.

Anything else depends on the top two, if I like the above I'll like the rest, if I don't I won't.

Mrs

You forgot boobs! "

Only if I like the face & personality.

Mrs

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age. Older the better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Probably face + height first

Then build + style/fashion/dress sense

Then a guess at his social standing/status

Incorrect. Again. The correct answer is ‘all women are individuals and therefore have individual things they look for’. "

So a checklist lol

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"Age. Older the better."

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

Face and hair (there doesn't have to be hair but a combover would be an instant no)

If I'm attracted to their face then are our personalities compatible. (Are they nice, do we laugh at the same shite)

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

"Probably face + height first

Then build + style/fashion/dress sense

Then a guess at his social standing/status

Incorrect. Again. The correct answer is ‘all women are individuals and therefore have individual things they look for’.

So a checklist lol "

Possibly but what each individual woman is looking for will be different.

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London

What do you look for in a woman, OP?

Not specific body parts, obviously, but I think the general list is pretty similar: physical attraction, a sense of humour, not being a twat*.

(*Negotiable if they're really hot, right?

)

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

"I like to see an excellent helicopter dick first

With airwolf music in the background

Absofuckinglutely

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

"What do you look for in a woman, OP?

Not specific body parts, obviously, but I think the general list is pretty similar: physical attraction, a sense of humour, not being a twat*.

(*Negotiable if they're really hot, right?

Is the not being a twat bit negotiable? Asking for me

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By *allHandsomeJay OP Man
over a year ago

NOTTINGHAM

"What do you look for in a woman, OP?

Not specific body parts, obviously, but I think the general list is pretty similar: physical attraction, a sense of humour, not being a twat*.

(*Negotiable if they're really hot, right?

)

Is the not being a twat bit negotiable? Asking for me

I think room can be made haha

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
over a year ago

A den in the Glen

On here. Her smell. Anything by Lenthéric sends her to the top of my Hotlist.

IRL. Someone with humour and bits and bats in the right place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

His body language and mannerisms.

The way he moves in general, the way he walks, talks, how much eye contact he makes. How relaxed or anxious, fidgety or still. Arm, sitting, standing positions. If he /we mirrors.

If I like that I'll the check him out in a sexual way and look at how he's dressed and look for shapes of his body, biceps, pecs, bum if he's faces that way at all, jawline, lips, eyes, (and his bulge if visible enough though that tells me nothing really im just a perve)

I'm taking this as OP meaning just looking.

Otherwise, if in a social situation for example I'd be paying attention to what he's talking about and in great detail.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do not see men first I see randy written all over them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Probably face + height first

Then build + style/fashion/dress sense

Then a guess at his social standing/status

Incorrect. Again. The correct answer is ‘all women are individuals and therefore have individual things they look for’.

Ok Dwight. We disagree

I’m a woman. You are not. Therefore I am marginally more qualified to assist in this answer than you are, no?

We could argue the fisherman is better at knowing what bait to use than the fish

But mainly, it’s pretty obvious I’m not wrong. They’re pretty standard things a woman’s gonna look at when checking a guy out. "

Thank goodness men tell women how to be.

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By *allHandsomeJay OP Man
over a year ago

NOTTINGHAM

"His body language and mannerisms.

The way he moves in general, the way he walks, talks, how much eye contact he makes. How relaxed or anxious, fidgety or still. Arm, sitting, standing positions. If he /we mirrors.

I'm taking this as OP meaning just looking.

Otherwise, if in a social situation for example I'd be paying attention to what he's talking about and in great detail."

Thank you for this detail

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

A lovely smile and the way they carry themselves

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

Their purses, keys, scarves they're always looking for something

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By *aysOfOurLivesCouple
over a year ago

Essex

"What do women look for?"
mostly my phone

"what's the first thing you look at when you see a man at first. Whether here or real life. "

Does he look like he might know where my phone is

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By *tanley FunseekerMan
over a year ago

stanley

Dirty underwear, profile full of dick pics, preferably taken in the toilet. And most definitely the direct approach, no small talk just go straight in with “ fancy a fuck”. Guaranteed success!

In the rare occasions that first message doesn’t have them racing to meet you or god forbid they don’t reply to you at all. Simply send another calling them a bitch or a slut. Nothing turns them on faster.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What do women look for? mostly my phone

what's the first thing you look at when you see a man at first. Whether here or real life.

Does he look like he might know where my phone is"

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