FabSwingers.com forum: Put off by bad grammar/spelling

By *CBoy OP TV/TS
52 weeks ago

Tonypandy

Is it just me but if I get messages with "we're" when they mean "where" or "there" when they mean "their" etc I just get turned off . Any one else the same.

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By *ubwifecoupleCouple
52 weeks ago

Liverpool

"Is it just me but if I get messages with "we're" when they mean "where" or "there" when they mean "their" etc I just get turned off . Any one else the same. "

*anyone

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By *ubwifecoupleCouple
52 weeks ago

Liverpool

"Is it just me but if I get messages with "we're" when they mean "where" or "there" when they mean "their" etc I just get turned off . Any one else the same. "

Also, 'same' should be followed by a question mark not a full stop.

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By *acktar74Man
52 weeks ago

leeds

"Is it just me but if I get messages with "we're" when they mean "where" or "there" when they mean "their" etc I just get turned off . Any one else the same. "

Etc. needs a full stop as it's an abbreviation. Also after off no space needed between word and full stop.

Good morning.

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

Don’t worry, I won’t message you op.

*putting people off by my bad grammar for years.

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By *affeine DuskMan
52 weeks ago

Caerphilly

This entire thread is really specific porn, now.

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

"This entire thread is really specific porn, now.

It’s a hard wank that’s for sure

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By *acktar74Man
52 weeks ago

leeds

"This entire thread is really specific porn, now.

It’s a hard wank that’s for sure "

But doable.

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By *aretobareCouple
52 weeks ago

Central Portugal

Thanks to purveying your profile it has become somewhat less of a challenging walk

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By *imply DeeWoman
52 weeks ago

Wherever

Not really, no.

You never know the reason behind it, can be English is not their first language (hello there) or anything else.

No judgment needed.

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By *obyn GravesTV/TS
52 weeks ago

1127 walnut avenue

Nope.. because it don't affect their ability to suck cock it certainly don't mine...

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By *esafinadOHolyNightMan
52 weeks ago

Belfast

I'm keeping an eye on responses here because, while it doesnt really bother me if there are spelling or grammar mistakes, I've been making plenty myself lately due to rushing a forum response and not proof reading first before posting.

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By *inda May SimmonsTV/TS
52 weeks ago

hexham

I h8 bad gramma and that cos it makes you look fick and I h8 fick people don’t I

I meen its not hard to make an edit..effit… efort..

its not hard just to try is it

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By *CBoy OP TV/TS
52 weeks ago

Tonypandy

"I'm keeping an eye on responses here because, while it doesnt really bother me if there are spelling or grammar mistakes, I've been making plenty myself lately due to rushing a forum response and not proof reading first before posting. "

AUTO CORRECT EVEN WORSE

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By *layfullsamMan
52 weeks ago

Solihull

A priest, a rabbit and a minister walk into a bar.

The bartender asks the rabbit “What can I get you to drink”.

The rabbit says “I have no idea, I’m only here because of Autocarrot”.

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By *amesBeelzebubMan
52 weeks ago

norwich

Never seen it.

Bad Grandpa was ok

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By *layfullsamMan
52 weeks ago

Solihull

"Is it just me but if I get messages with "we're" when they mean "where" or "there" when they mean "their" etc I just get turned off . Any one else the same. "

It’s a preference of yours which of course you’re allowed.

I don’t tend to judge someone until I know them better, they might be an absolutely beautiful couple or woman inside and out who sometimes gets a word wrong

I wouldn’t want to miss out over something so trivial

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
52 weeks ago

Staffordshire

In my forum past I’ve been guilty of deliberately antagonising grammatical pedantry.

I’m not that childish these days?

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By *eliWoman
52 weeks ago

"In my forum past I’ve been guilty of deliberately antagonising grammatical pedantry.

I’m not that childish these days?"

Hmmm...

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
52 weeks ago

ashford

Definitely not! If I can understand the message all good! X

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By *_elia DominaTV/TS
52 weeks ago

Edinburgh (She/Her)

As a dyslexic grammar is less of an issue than the content of the message.

But even though grammar is not important, as a Dominant, I expect a certain level of communication, so I will correct those who have bad grammar as part of their application of submission.

A_elia

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
52 weeks ago

Next Door

I have dyslexia, so often make grammar or spelling mistakes.

If it didn't make sense or lots of errors, then I would just delete

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By *naswingdressWoman
52 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

"This entire thread is really specific porn, now.

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

"Is it just me but if I get messages with "we're" when they mean "where" or "there" when they mean "their" etc I just get turned off . Any one else the same.

Also, 'same' should be followed by a question mark not a full stop.

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By *partharmonyCouple
52 weeks ago

Ruislip

We don't criticise anybody for bad spelling and grammar but it is a factor that can put us off somebody.

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By *orny-DJMan
52 weeks ago

Leigh-on-Sea

I'm so glad I'm not the only one.

Really makes me worry about the standard of education in this country, especially as these are some of the earliest things that we're taught.

I see so many people getting 'his' and 'he's' mixed up, writing 'women' when they actually mean 'woman', 'are' instead of 'our' and the latest, mixing 'as' and 'has' around and also 'an' and 'and'

And,bof course, if we say anything about it, we're made out to be the ones with an problem, being given labels like 'grammar police'

I mean, for goodness sake, we have standards in our language for a vety good reason - so that we can be understood.

Many who are guilty of these simple errors may give the excuse of 'it's only social media', blah, blah, blah, but do thrley really not consider, for one second, the impression they are giving of themselves?

Personally, I don't want people believing me to be an uneducated idiot

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By *ustBoWoman
52 weeks ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

"I'm so glad I'm not the only one.

Really makes me worry about the standard of education in this country, especially as these are some of the earliest things that we're taught.

I see so many people getting 'his' and 'he's' mixed up, writing 'women' when they actually mean 'woman', 'are' instead of 'our' and the latest, mixing 'as' and 'has' around and also 'an' and 'and'

And,bof course, if we say anything about it, we're made out to be the ones with an problem, being given labels like 'grammar police'

I mean, for goodness sake, we have standards in our language for a vety good reason - so that we can be understood.

Personally, I don't want people believing me to be an uneducated idiot"

Hmm in trying to work out if this is a piss take or if someone should have maybe checked before they posted a comment giving out about what others write

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

"I'm so glad I'm not the only one.

Really makes me worry about the standard of education in this country, especially as these are some of the earliest things that we're taught.

I see so many people getting 'his' and 'he's' mixed up, writing 'women' when they actually mean 'woman', 'are' instead of 'our' and the latest, mixing 'as' and 'has' around and also 'an' and 'and'

And,bof course, if we say anything about it, we're made out to be the ones with an problem, being given labels like 'grammar police'

I mean, for goodness sake, we have standards in our language for a vety good reason - so that we can be understood.

Personally, I don't want people believing me to be an uneducated idiot

Hmm in trying to work out if this is a piss take or if someone should have maybe checked before they posted a comment giving out about what others write

was thinking the same

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By *emorefridaCouple
52 weeks ago

La la land

I try to an extent to write clearly, without spelling and grammar mistakes but it happens.

I prefer a message that has errors but had good content Vs perfectly written what the size of your boobs message.

And good or bad grammar and spelling isn't indicative of intelligence. From a dyslexic that has bits of paper that says she's intelligent.

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By *layfullsamMan
52 weeks ago

Solihull

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By *ustBoWoman
52 weeks ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

No it doesn't really bother me as long as I can understand what is written.

I don't assume that English is everyone's first language and there are quite a lot of people who have dyslexia etc.

I will never forget a thread on here where a man was asking for advice he was absolutely ripped to shreds because what he posted had some mistakes in the text. It was horrible to see such a pile on and people completely ignored what he had asked. But no,so many had to point out how clever they were and make smart ass comments to him. A few of us did actually try and help him but he left that day and I can't say I blamed him.

Not everyone has perfect grammar or spelling,it does not however make them any less of a person than someone that does. And while yes everyone has the right to not want to interact with someone for whatever reasons they see fit. I do find the people who seem to take look down on others due to mistakes made in text to be patronising and that is never a good look, I think anyhow.

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By *hagTonightMan
52 weeks ago

From the land of haribos.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
52 weeks ago

little house on the praire

No as long as I can understand it and it's not text speak

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By *hagTonightMan
52 weeks ago

From the land of haribos.

No, it doesnt, but when I write I cant use a comma before the and like this ",and" whilst it should be so, it doesnt feel right to do it

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By *obilebottomMan
52 weeks ago

All over

I make plenty of typing mistakes in the forum. I have autocorrect off as it was even worse with that. It used to worry me and deleted posts but no longer worry about it. It often has nothing to do with anyone's knowledge or grammar skills, just typing errors. It certainly is that in my case so I apologise to anyone who finds typing mistakes a big irritation. I promise to try and do better. Also as others said, people may have dyslexia or other conditions. It really is not that important if you can uderstand the message/post, certainly not enough to critisise anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

"Is it just me but if I get messages with "we're" when they mean "where" or "there" when they mean "their" etc I just get turned off . Any one else the same. "

Is it just me, but,

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By *eronicaExplorerWoman
52 weeks ago

London

"Not really, no.

You never know the reason behind it, can be English is not their first language (hello there) or anything else.

No judgment is needed."

Thank you gorgeous

I'm a foreigner. I just learned the language five years ago, still struggling. I love the Forum so I have to make an extra effort every day to try to avoid grammar mistakes. Still trying. On the contrary, what put me on is a gracefully written message. I admire English, such a beautiful language for descriptions and irony. X

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
52 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

My favourite person regularly uses your when he should use you're.

Does it grate on me sometimes? Sure. Is it reason enough to dismiss someone who is otherwise fucking amazing? No.

Not everyone has the same grasp of English language or grammar. It's pretty irrelevant to how interesting or intelligent they are

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
52 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

Know, not really. Its not there fault.

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By *imply DeeWoman
52 weeks ago

Wherever

"Not really, no.

You never know the reason behind it, can be English is not their first language (hello there) or anything else.

No judgment is needed.

Thank you gorgeous

Thank you x

I am in exact same position (also a foreigner) and I am very self conscious about it. I think in my native language and I try to translate it to English in the same time, and it doesn’t always work. Plus I have a very strong accent and sometimes I just choose to stay silent, risking coming across as an uncheerful grump in many social situations. I can only hope people aren’t put off by it, and if they are, I can only try to give them my own perspective on this.

On the side note, having met you in person, I can honestly say you’re absolutely gorgeous and if someone is put off by your grammar, then it’s on them.

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By *eronicaExplorerWoman
52 weeks ago

London

"Not really, no.

You never know the reason behind it, can be English is not their first language (hello there) or anything else.

No judgment is needed.

Thank you gorgeous

Thank you x

On the side note, having met you in person, I can honestly say you’re absolutely gorgeous and if someone is put off by your grammar, then it’s on them.

Oh, so you were there… weren't you? Hello

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By *imply DeeWoman
52 weeks ago

Wherever

"Not really, no.

You never know the reason behind it, can be English is not their first language (hello there) or anything else.

No judgment is needed.

Thank you gorgeous

Thank you x

On the side note, having met you in person, I can honestly say you’re absolutely gorgeous and if someone is put off by your grammar, then it’s on them.

Oh, so you were there… weren't you? Hello

Yes, hello

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By *aomilatteCouple
52 weeks ago

Midlands

Big love to any dyslexic people, people who struggle with grammar, and those for whom English isn't their first language

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By *layfullsamMan
52 weeks ago

Solihull

"Big love to any dyslexic people, people who struggle with grammar, and those for whom English isn't their first language

This exactly, to be rejected on looks, personality, height, weight, age etc is bad enough but for the odd missing comma etc it’s crazy

However it is a preference and as always that’s cool

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By *eroLondonMan
52 weeks ago

Covent Garden

It puts me off, but I can easily discern and empathise with those who are genuinely dyslexic and those who are downright lazy and careless with their grammatical anomalies.

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By *odgers and PartingCouple
52 weeks ago

edinburgh

Rodger’s has an eagle eye for good spelling and grammar.

Unfortunately for him I’m 100% a numbers girl, I’d be lost without my spell check etc.

We’re the Ying and Yang of language and spelling

P x

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

No it really doesn't bother me. People can make mistakes. Grammar can be tricky, the rules to remember etc.

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By *izandpaulCouple
52 weeks ago

merseyside

Wouldn't say it turns me off but I do notice.

The word "So" at the beginning of a sentence or response to a question, boils my piss.

It seems everyone on TV starts a reply with "So".

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By *weetsmellingtreatsWoman
52 weeks ago

Gloucester

Typos on these things I let slip, you can see when autocorrect may have had a part to play.

However, using totally wrong words winds me up and puts me off.

Such as draw when it should be drawer!

Of course as it’s not a spelling error checkers won’t pick it up.

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

"Typos on these things I let slip, you can see when autocorrect may have had a part to play.

However, using totally wrong words winds me up and puts me off.

Such as draw when it should be drawer!

Of course as it’s not a spelling error checkers won’t pick it up.

Chester draws

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By *aidForSharingWoman
52 weeks ago

Lancashire

Very used to bad spelling and it's no indication of level of intelligence or manners. My son's dad was practically illiterate but one of the smartest men I know.

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By *weetsmellingtreatsWoman
52 weeks ago

Gloucester

"Typos on these things I let slip, you can see when autocorrect may have had a part to play.

However, using totally wrong words winds me up and puts me off.

Such as draw when it should be drawer!

Of course as it’s not a spelling error checkers won’t pick it up.

Chester draws

Oh yes, seen that on many an advert.

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By *avexxMan
52 weeks ago

cheshire

tbh my spelling is awful

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By *exySenseiCouple
52 weeks ago

"Is it just me but if I get messages with "we're" when they mean "where" or "there" when they mean "their" etc I just get turned off . Any one else the same. "

Autocorrect the problem is, young Jedi. Asshat and ungracious comments costs a Jedi meet-ups. Just a thought…

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By *izandpaulCouple
52 weeks ago

merseyside

"Typos on these things I let slip, you can see when autocorrect may have had a part to play.

However, using totally wrong words winds me up and puts me off.

Such as draw when it should be drawer!

Of course as it’s not a spelling error checkers won’t pick it up.

Sorry, no clean knickers, will have to where a pear of my nans draws.

Hope I can find some in her chest of draws.

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By *enatton2Couple
52 weeks ago

West Midlands

No, I understand some people struggle in those areas, so I’ll try to figure out what they meant and reply, however if I’m totally stumped then I tend to delete and move on.

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By *ellhungvweMan
52 weeks ago

Cheltenham

The occasional typo/spelling mistake is fine but if a message is riddled with mistakes then it is a no.

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By *teveuk77Man
52 weeks ago

I prefer a message that has errors but had good content Vs perfectly written what the size of your boobs message.

Sometimes there is nothing else to say about boobs other than "yum yum"! Now is one of those times

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

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By *yesgreenMan
52 weeks ago

north and south

"[Removed by poster at 19/11/23 22:39:31]"
Am dyslexic but don’t ask me to spell it

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By *penbicoupleCouple
52 weeks ago

Northampton

I get turned-off by them, but then Alice slaps me and says, "But look at his cock!" or, "But those tits!" and I soon get over it.

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By *oofy321Man
52 weeks ago

moon base zero

Oh dear,what a bunch of stuck up snobs,if grammar is so important then maybe this site is not for you...maybe hang around a library.

Its just another excuse to judge people and shame people.most words are learnt by reading them alone and not knowing how to pronounce them or use them correctly.

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By *arl17Man
52 weeks ago

Central Portugal

"Not really, no.

You never know the reason behind it, can be English is not their first language (hello there) or anything else.

No judgment is needed.

Thank you gorgeous

Sometimes Spellcheck automatically fucks it up... Just saying x

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By *ucka39Man
52 weeks ago

Newcastle

If grammar turns you on theirs no need to go ahead and have sex unless it's bad grammar and you can start by using the belt

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By *hiteWitchXXXWoman
52 weeks ago

North Wales

No not really but the purposely lazy text talk does.... half the time I cant make it out !

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By *arl17Man
52 weeks ago

Central Portugal

"No not really but the purposely lazy text talk does.... half the time I cant make it out !"

Me to..

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By *eroLondonMan
52 weeks ago

Covent Garden

"Oh dear,what a bunch of stuck up snobs"

Charming.

"...this site is not for you...maybe hang around a library."

We've tried that. Fortunately I much prefer the quinny in the Fab Bibliothèque

"Its just another excuse to judge people and shame people"

There's no shaming here. Just frustration, preferences and empathy dear fellow.

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By *potter123Man
52 weeks ago

Near

"No not really but the purposely lazy text talk does.... half the time I cant make it out !"

Wot u on bout, nout rong wiv keepin it short luv.........

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By *hiteWitchXXXWoman
52 weeks ago

North Wales

"No not really but the purposely lazy text talk does.... half the time I cant make it out !

Wot u on bout, nout rong wiv keepin it short luv.........

Personally for me the lack of effort suggests laziness. I have no issue with people who struggle with spelling or grammar but if you cant be arsed to talk properly then what else are you going to cut corners with???? Certainly wouldn't be hanging around to find out

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By *arl17Man
52 weeks ago

Central Portugal

"No not really but the purposely lazy text talk does.... half the time I cant make it out !

Wot u on bout, nout rong wiv keepin it short luv.........

Yup

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By *tsJustKateWoman
52 weeks ago

London

"Is it just me but if I get messages with "we're" when they mean "where" or "there" when they mean "their" etc I just get turned off . Any one else the same. "

As a mum of two dyslexic sons and grandsons, NO!!

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By *potter123Man
52 weeks ago

Near

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By *potter123Man
52 weeks ago

Near

"No not really but the purposely lazy text talk does.... half the time I cant make it out !

Wot u on bout, nout rong wiv keepin it short luv.........

I couldn't agree more, I was just messing about

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By *trideMan
52 weeks ago

Plymouth

On a dating website, I‘m looking for a potential partner for a long-term relationship. There, spelling and grammar are important because I want someone who has a similar level of education to mine. We would be more likely to have interests in common.

On this website, I’m looking for enjoyable sex. Spelling and grammar are irrelevant as long as I can make sense of what is written.

Different ships, different long-splices.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
52 weeks ago

chichester

No I am just looking to get laid not worry about people’s education level

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By *ornucopiaMan
52 weeks ago

Bexley

I would like to see dyslexia classified into two versions:

Type 1 being a medical condition relating to a problem with the brain having difficulty processing information where reading and writing are concerned.

Type 2 being a handy, feeble excuse for laziness, poor education and a readiness to be influenced by peer group bad habits in spoken and written language.

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By *ustBoWoman
52 weeks ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

"I would like to see dyslexia classified into two versions:

Type 1 being a medical condition relating to a problem with the brain having difficulty processing information where reading and writing are concerned.

Type 2 being a handy, feeble excuse for laziness, poor education and a readiness to be influenced by peer group bad habits in spoken and written language.

Well the second isn't dyslexia but the way you put it is patronising and uncalled for. Especially if people are genuinely struggling with how they reading and writing.

It is no wonder some people don't want to post on the forums.

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

I is just wantin ma dick wet, me no interest in heducation.

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By *ornucopiaMan
52 weeks ago

Bexley

"Oh dear,what a bunch of stuck up snobs,if grammar is so important then maybe this site is not for you...maybe hang around a library.

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Funny that you should say that.

I'm off to the library cafe shortly. although I do come across a few linguistic perfectionists there, I am more likely to hear frequent use of "E done wot E done" and "I was like one them".

Perhaps, providing a social area in such a haven of perfection was a retrograde step.

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By *immyinreadingMan
52 weeks ago

henley on thames

"Nope.. because it don't affect their ability to suck cock it certainly don't mine...

Yeah, but if they have misspelled it, saying they want to sock a cuck, you can see how misunderstandings could arise.

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By *immyinreadingMan
52 weeks ago

henley on thames

"If grammar turns you on theirs no need to go ahead and have sex unless it's bad grammar and you can start by using the belt

There’s

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By *immyinreadingMan
52 weeks ago

henley on thames

"Oh dear,what a bunch of stuck up snobs,if grammar is so important then maybe this site is not for you...maybe hang around a library.

Its just another excuse to judge people and shame people.most words are learnt by reading them alone and not knowing how to pronounce them or use them correctly. "

Snobs?

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

In the context of a casual chat, I don’t mind it. I look for the content.

A correctly composed message does not equate to an engaging person with any substance behind the facade of a clever wordsmith.

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By *ornucopiaMan
52 weeks ago

Bexley

"I would like to see dyslexia classified into two versions:

Type 1 being a medical condition relating to a problem with the brain having difficulty processing information where reading and writing are concerned.

Type 2 being a handy, feeble excuse for laziness, poor education and a readiness to be influenced by peer group bad habits in spoken and written language.

Well the second isn't dyslexia but the way you put it is patronising and uncalled for. Especially if people are genuinely struggling with how they reading and writing.

It is no wonder some people don't want to post on the forums."

I am now wondering whether the antitheses of 'patronising and uncalled for' might be 'defensive and predictable'!

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By *ornucopiaMan
52 weeks ago

Bexley

"Oh dear,what a bunch of stuck up snobs,if grammar is so important then maybe this site is not for you...maybe hang around a library.

Its just another excuse to judge people and shame people.most words are learnt by reading them alone and not knowing how to pronounce them or use them correctly.

Snobs?

It has been said that a snob is a person who wants to know people who don't want to know him/her.

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By *r TriomanMan
52 weeks ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

At my age, a bad Grandma would be greatly appreciated... Any offers?

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By *ortyairCouple
52 weeks ago

Wallasey

I hate it when people ask us 'how are yous', 'youse', or even worse 'use".

It puts me off them straight away, Mrs x

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

"Is it just me but if I get messages with "we're" when they mean "where" or "there" when they mean "their" etc I just get turned off . Any one else the same. "

Nope

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
52 weeks ago

Leeds

"Is it just me but if I get messages with "we're" when they mean "where" or "there" when they mean "their" etc I just get turned off . Any one else the same.

*anyone

and this is the reason it doesn't bother me much, anyone can make a little mistake I hardly judge them for it.

Text speak on the other hand no need!

Mrs

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By *ustBoWoman
52 weeks ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

"I would like to see dyslexia classified into two versions:

Type 1 being a medical condition relating to a problem with the brain having difficulty processing information where reading and writing are concerned.

Type 2 being a handy, feeble excuse for laziness, poor education and a readiness to be influenced by peer group bad habits in spoken and written language.

Well the second isn't dyslexia but the way you put it is patronising and uncalled for. Especially if people are genuinely struggling with how they reading and writing.

It is no wonder some people don't want to post on the forums.

I am now wondering whether the antitheses of 'patronising and uncalled for' might be 'defensive and predictable'!"

No it's just patronising and uncalled for.

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By *oneybee1001Woman
52 weeks ago

Around and about

"Know, not really. Its not there fault. "

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

"Is it just me but if I get messages with "we're" when they mean "where" or "there" when they mean "their" etc I just get turned off . Any one else the same. "

I am the same

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By *ora the explorerWoman
52 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

Yes it puts me off if it’s really bad.

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

"I would like to see dyslexia classified into two versions:

Type 1 being a medical condition relating to a problem with the brain having difficulty processing information where reading and writing are concerned.

Type 2 being a handy, feeble excuse for laziness, poor education and a readiness to be influenced by peer group bad habits in spoken and written language.

Well the second isn't dyslexia but the way you put it is patronising and uncalled for. Especially if people are genuinely struggling with how they reading and writing.

It is no wonder some people don't want to post on the forums.

I am now wondering whether the antitheses of 'patronising and uncalled for' might be 'defensive and predictable'!"

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

"Not really, no.

You never know the reason behind it, can be English is not their first language (hello there) or anything else.

No judgment is needed.

Thank you gorgeous

English is not my first language either. I'm being extra careful all the time.

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By *alandNitaCouple
52 weeks ago

Scunthorpe

"Is it just me but if I get messages with "we're" when they mean "where" or "there" when they mean "their" etc I just get turned off . Any one else the same. "

In messages and on forums, no, unless I can't understand it. I often make mistakes on forum posts and messages.

However, I'm less likely to be interested in someone who didn't bother to make any attempt at decent spelling and grammar in their profile.

Nita

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

And sweet baby Jesus, looks like some people see judgement, snobbism, offence and negativity everywhere. Relax, take it easy.

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By *yesgreenMan
52 weeks ago

north and south

"And sweet baby Jesus, looks like some people see judgement, snobbism, offence and negativity everywhere. Relax, take it easy.

"
Thats what coffee dates are about, being able to talk eloquently on lots of subjects

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By *arl17Man
52 weeks ago

Central Portugal

"No not really but the purposely lazy text talk does.... half the time I cant make it out !

Wot u on bout, nout rong wiv keepin it short luv.........

Yup

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This

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By *izandpaulCouple
52 weeks ago

merseyside

"Oh dear,what a bunch of stuck up snobs,if grammar is so important then maybe this site is not for you...maybe hang around a library.

Its just another excuse to judge people and shame people.most words are learnt by reading them alone and not knowing how to pronounce them or use them correctly. "

I disagree.

There is absolutely nothing wrong with good grammar and the beautiful use of words.

Should we judge people by their use of grammar?

Of course not, just like you shouldn't judge others when you mention snobs etc

There is no need to be ashamed of using nice language, kind words or a good education.

We are all different, come from different backgrounds, different values, different parents and homes but all have a contribution.

We don't judge folks we meet unless they are rude and inconsiderate.

Why would FAB not be a place for all types of people, I think your statement is showing you are a snob in your own right and quite disingenuous to some folks who like good grammar.

Maybe this site isn't for judgemental men like yourself.

You should give some of the big libraries a whirl, they are fabulous places and open to all.

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

It doesn't put me off, I know that my grammar isn't the best, but it does irk me sometimes I just want to message them and point it out, here's a couple I've seen recently that I've wanted to correct.

Well when it should be while

Wears instead of where's or where are

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By *mber SkiesWoman
51 weeks ago

Cwmderi

"Oh dear,what a bunch of stuck up snobs,if grammar is so important then maybe this site is not for you...maybe hang around a library.

Its just another excuse to judge people and shame people.most words are learnt by reading them alone and not knowing how to pronounce them or use them correctly. "

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