FabSwingers.com forum: Stigmatised for remaining single

By *arley Quim OP Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere

I'm very happy staying single, I think I'm at the age I'll probably remain that way now... Does anyone 'middle aged', feel they get grief for being solo?

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By *use and wolfCouple
over a year ago

angus

No, i am Aromantic, our D/s relationship is well known by most of the people we know though.

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By *ylonlover87Man
over a year ago

Chelmsford

"I'm very happy staying single, I think I'm at the age I'll probably remain that way now... Does anyone 'middle aged', feel they get grief for being solo? "

I like being single. No grief for me.. I'd rather find f budy yo date ect but stay single

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am the same way. I'm genuinely very happy being single and I cannot see that changing.

Everyone that knows me understands my stance on it and they accept my choice.

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By *eliciouslyKinky41Man
over a year ago

Beccles

Hi there ive been single for a year and a half now and i like the independance. I have a regular fuck buddy though, we go out for drinks meals etc. So i get the best of both worlds lol

Would be nice to have a high heeled queen though

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By *arley Quim OP Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere

"No, i am Aromantic, our D/s relationship is well known by most of the people we know though."

But you're essentially still a 'couple' though yes?... Or are you both solo singles?

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By *rucking-HellMan
over a year ago

Northampton

Been single continuously my whole life, through choice, and never had a single negative comment about it.

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By *odevilWoman
over a year ago

exeter

When someone asks me why I haven't 'settled down', I like to fake cry and wail "because no one will have meeeeeee"

This is an enormous source if amusement to me.

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By *arley Quim OP Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere

"When someone asks me why I haven't 'settled down', I like to fake cry and wail "because no one will have meeeeeee"

This is an enormous source if amusement to me. "

Hmmm, not sure I feel the need to fake cry, nor wail. I normally just tell them to fuck off, and mind their own business

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By *eliciouslyKinky41Man
over a year ago

Beccles

"When someone asks me why I haven't 'settled down', I like to fake cry and wail "because no one will have meeeeeee"

This is an enormous source if amusement to me.

Hmmm, not sure I feel the need to fake cry, nor wail. I normally just tell them to fuck off, and mind their own business

I like that response, straight to the point! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After a short conversation, they quickly lose any confusion why I’m single. ….

If anyone does ask, I normally make a joke, or make it weird , that sorts that out.

I’m not happy being single, but I’m also not crying about it either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"After a short conversation, they quickly lose any confusion why I’m single. ….

If anyone does ask, I normally make a joke, or make it weird , that sorts that out.

I’m not happy being single, but I’m also not crying about it either. "

What would your ideal be?

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By *omanarab43287653975Woman
over a year ago

Manchester

I am 22 and never dated anyone ever so it’s abit embarrassing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"After a short conversation, they quickly lose any confusion why I’m single. ….

If anyone does ask, I normally make a joke, or make it weird , that sorts that out.

I’m not happy being single, but I’m also not crying about it either.

What would your ideal be?"

Simple answer is, not to be single

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"After a short conversation, they quickly lose any confusion why I’m single. ….

If anyone does ask, I normally make a joke, or make it weird , that sorts that out.

I’m not happy being single, but I’m also not crying about it either.

What would your ideal be?

Simple answer is, not to be single

Hahah no shit

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By *use and wolfCouple
over a year ago

angus

"But you're essentially still a 'couple' though yes?... Or are you both solo singles?

We keep telling people we're not a couple because in the traditional sense we're not. We're poly too and both free to do as we please but we find it more fun exploring together.

We're just two people who get each other really x

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By *arley Quim OP Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere

"But you're essentially still a 'couple' though yes?... Or are you both solo singles?

We keep telling people we're not a couple because in the traditional sense we're not. We're poly too and both free to do as we please but we find it more fun exploring together.

We're just two people who get each other really x"

I totally get that and I've been part of a poly thruple myself in the past... But you're still essentially a couple right?... Or else you'd just both be single?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"After a short conversation, they quickly lose any confusion why I’m single. ….

If anyone does ask, I normally make a joke, or make it weird , that sorts that out.

I’m not happy being single, but I’m also not crying about it either.

What would your ideal be?

Simple answer is, not to be single

Hahah no shit

I suppose that’s the bonus of being single. NO SHIT!!

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By *lutsfunMan
over a year ago

bedford

You only stigmatise yourself nobody gives a toss

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By *lutsfunMan
over a year ago

bedford

Are you happy? If answer is yes who gives a shit

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By *arley Quim OP Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere

To be fair I'm massively happy being single... Plus I openly chat about my socials at work as in... I online seek folk, we often meet up

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By *lutsfunMan
over a year ago

bedford

I am happy single, I like meeting men and maybe one day I will meet my dream rugby type, who knows

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Yeah my mono friends ask why I'm a longterm single, who dates at the weekends. "because I'm happy" is my answer, I've zero intention of forging a "proper" relationship. I'm loving my longterm fwb's instead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You only stigmatise yourself nobody gives a toss "

…. This is supposed to cheer us up?….

Haha. … I never wanted to drink alone so early in the day. I’ll be in the corner,,… crying and realising nobody gives a shit about me …

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope.

Majority of my friends envy I don't have a guy to deal with on a daily basis.

Some people are just meant to be alone.

Relationships suck.

Love is a crock of shit.

Men LIE!!!!

*I'm actually in a good mood though I may not seem it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I adore being single.. I only want to be responsible for my own happiness no one else's. I think of men like people think if children that aren't theirs .. It's lovely to see them but it's nice when they go home. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope.

Majority of my friends envy I don't have a guy to deal with on a daily basis.

Some people are just meant to be alone.

Relationships suck.

Love is a crock of shit.

Men LIE!!!!

*I'm actually in a good mood though I may not seem it. "

I’d like to say, love is dangerous, it’s definitely not shit, it’s powerful and has so much potential of giving you everything you need and want. A bit like uranium in a nuclear reactor …. It can also explode and kill you if handled incorrectly by someone with carelessness

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"I'm very happy staying single, I think I'm at the age I'll probably remain that way now... Does anyone 'middle aged', feel they get grief for being solo? "
nope no grief here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope.

Majority of my friends envy I don't have a guy to deal with on a daily basis.

Some people are just meant to be alone.

Relationships suck.

Love is a crock of shit.

Men LIE!!!!

*I'm actually in a good mood though I may not seem it.

Only an idiot plays with uranium...

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

I am happy to be single and I intend to stay that way. And to answer the other part of your question OP, I don’t feel stigmatised by my friends or family. They can see the reasons behind me never going to be trying to enter any “relationship”, whatever that can be and respectand and understand that.

I think it’s the societal pressure that sometimes makes us feel that way but it’s not always the simple answer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope.

Majority of my friends envy I don't have a guy to deal with on a daily basis.

Some people are just meant to be alone.

Relationships suck.

Love is a crock of shit.

Men LIE!!!!

*I'm actually in a good mood though I may not seem it.

Only an idiot plays with uranium..."

It’s normally a Russian.

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By *esafinadOHolyNightMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Friends don't mind or don't bother me anymore, they know I'm happy and that's that. Family will regularly ask, 'why don't you meet a nice girl?', as if it's essential i do or the world will break. Then I have to tell them once again that I'm not interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope.

Majority of my friends envy I don't have a guy to deal with on a daily basis.

Some people are just meant to be alone.

Relationships suck.

Love is a crock of shit.

Men LIE!!!!

*I'm actually in a good mood though I may not seem it. "

Love is everything?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"After a short conversation, they quickly lose any confusion why I’m single. ….

If anyone does ask, I normally make a joke, or make it weird , that sorts that out.

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This!

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

"I'm very happy staying single, I think I'm at the age I'll probably remain that way now... Does anyone 'middle aged', feel they get grief for being solo? "

Nope.

Never.

I'd laugh in someone's face if they thought to do it, and I bloody love a giggle, me.

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By *hrek101Man
over a year ago

Herts

I do enjoy it the majority of the time, i like not having to check with anyone and do what I want when I want. However there is a part of me that wonders why no one wants me for anything more than sex. What is so wrong with me that no one wants to love me. I often get asked about am I dating anyone. I just mumble something and they lose interest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope.

Majority of my friends envy I don't have a guy to deal with on a daily basis.

Some people are just meant to be alone.

Relationships suck.

Love is a crock of shit.

Men LIE!!!!

*I'm actually in a good mood though I may not seem it.

Love is everything?"

Er no.

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By *i68Man
over a year ago

kidderminster

it can have its benefits

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By *i68Man
over a year ago

kidderminster

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy being single

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

"I'm very happy staying single, I think I'm at the age I'll probably remain that way now... Does anyone 'middle aged', feel they get grief for being solo?

I like being single. No grief for me.. I'd rather find f budy yo date ect but stay single"

Not sure why people equate being in a relationship as having grief...that's more about finding the right person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do get some judgement to be sure, like I must have been an arsehole in every previous relationship.

Reality is I travel so much it’s hard on a relationship. It’s not like the military when there are long periods away and and long periods home, and while away the other person has all the other wives and girlfriends for support. I’m away for weeks at a time and back for days for 80% of the year.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

As a childless woman living alone in my late thirties, I quite often get those weird pitying looks from people who dont know me.

But people who know me know how fucking miserable I'd be any other way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After nearly 8 years of being single my friends and family have mostly stopped commenting on it.

I’m fairly happy and content with my single life.

I think society puts pressure on people to think they need to be in a couple as it’s the “norm”.

If you’re happy then that’s what matters the most.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Away for Christmas

I wish I were not single.

However I have accepted that I likely will remain so.

Some people drop their opinion on that in varied ways.

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
over a year ago

BRIDPORT

I used to get comments from the more mature family members, aunts mainly, at weddings.

They’d give you that look and say, ‘ahh, you’ll be next’.

Soon put a stop to that, next funeral we were at I looked at one of them and said, ‘ you’ll be next’ , with a smile.

Never heard it again

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

"I used to get comments from the more mature family members, aunts mainly, at weddings.

They’d give you that look and say, ‘ahh, you’ll be next’.

Soon put a stop to that, next funeral we were at I looked at one of them and said, ‘ you’ll be next’ , with a smile.

Never heard it again

Such a charmer

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I did before I had children.

Now I’ve got kids and I’m single everybody looks at me with a knowing glance as if to say “she can’t keep a man”

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
over a year ago

BRIDPORT

"I used to get comments from the more mature family members, aunts mainly, at weddings.

They’d give you that look and say, ‘ahh, you’ll be next’.

Soon put a stop to that, next funeral we were at I looked at one of them and said, ‘ you’ll be next’ , with a smile.

Never heard it again

Such a charmer

I am charm personified

I see you still haven’t got that dress mended

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"I'm very happy staying single, I think I'm at the age I'll probably remain that way now... Does anyone 'middle aged', feel they get grief for being solo? "

Your friends tell you that you 'deserve more/better'. Yeah, thanks

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"I did before I had children.

Now I’ve got kids and I’m single everybody looks at me with a knowing glance as if to say “she can’t keep a man”

You can.....on a chain

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

"I used to get comments from the more mature family members, aunts mainly, at weddings.

They’d give you that look and say, ‘ahh, you’ll be next’.

Soon put a stop to that, next funeral we were at I looked at one of them and said, ‘ you’ll be next’ , with a smile.

Never heard it again

Such a charmer

I am charm personified

I see you still haven’t got that dress mended "

No point, It’ll only get ripped off again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s being happy being single

And there’s being happy despite being single

Depends which you are

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

No, I have seen too many relationships fail both among family and friends.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I'm not single but of my four friends, two are and I have one 'good acquaintance ' who is too. They are asked why sometimes and people often speculate as to the reason. I wouldn't say they're stigmatised but people are very aware that they're single in a way they wouldn't be if they were partnered, this particularly applies to the guy and there has been speculation as to his sexual orientation in my ear shot...as if it matters or is anyone's business

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

Possibly wrong group of friends and/or colleagues if they stigmatise you for being single

I bet a few envy you tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am 22 and never dated anyone ever so it’s abit embarrassing

A comment that has been passed over.

Not sure why it is embarassing. Clearly you are happy to meet people, and it's up to you whether those meets become more frequent and are tgen termed dates. Just enjoy being young and having fun (and being single).

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By *enSiskoMan
over a year ago

Cestus 3

I like being single, as I am only responsible for myself.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

My partner passed away just over a year a go and I now plan on being single the rest of my life

I don't want anyone else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My partner passed away just over a year a go and I now plan on being single the rest of my life

I don't want anyone else"

Sorry to hear that.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

I think I got it more in my 30s, people would ask if I'd thought about having another child. Even though I was single, I was like why? I've had one, been there done that, don't really want to be tied down for an extra 10/15 years after the first one has left home.. certainly didn't want to be left doing it all on my own again either.

I get asked less often now I'm mid 40s.

I see what other people go through with their partners... Not that many are truly happy, I think here is a good reflection of that, the number that aren't satisfied at home and looking elsewhere.

I'd rather just be on my own, to do what I want, when I want, with who I want!

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By *uri00620Woman
over a year ago

Croydon

I love being single. I'm not keen on someone else occupying my space.

If I was to be in a rship then seeing them every 2nd or 3rd weekend and maybe a holiday once a year and a few weekends away would suffice.

No wonder I'm single really

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere else

"When someone asks me why I haven't 'settled down', I like to fake cry and wail "because no one will have meeeeeee"

This is an enormous source if amusement to me. "

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By *he Oral masterMan
over a year ago

Lytham

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By *he Oral masterMan
over a year ago

Lytham

"After nearly 8 years of being single my friends and family have mostly stopped commenting on it.

I’m fairly happy and content with my single life.

I think society puts pressure on people to think they need to be in a couple as it’s the “norm”.

If you’re happy then that’s what

matters the most."

Thats bang on.

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

My friends and family absolutely understand why I’m single and that I’m happy as I am. I find it odd that people who don’t know me think it’s appropriate to comment on it. Like the kids thing. Mind your business.

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

Wherever I lay my hat

Only time I ever feel stigmatised for being single is when I go to a table service bar and get ignored because the staff assume I'm waiting for a guy. Really grinds my gears. Otherwise everyone I know accepts and understands why I chose to be single

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By *os_GoddessofdawnWoman
over a year ago

In the clouds

I get pity... don't know why! Most people I know in relationships aren't happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men don't generally get grief but I've known plenty of single ladies talked about and family saying it's not right but it's your life do what you want as long as your enjoying it so be it.

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By *hiteWitchXXXWoman
over a year ago

North Wales

I do get asked by people who dont know me that well when am I going to get snapped up. My family and friends however know that I'm too much of a lone wolf. I'm happily single and unless I manage to find a partner who also wants to remain living separately, I shall remain that way

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By *lansmanMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

Mgtow is the way .. too many unhappy couples. Dont really think as a species we are meant to partner up long term.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am painfully sarcastic, full of inappropriate and offensive jokes and spend an unhealthy amount of time working or on holiday.

Nobody questions why I am single. They know why i am single.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am painfully sarcastic, full of inappropriate and offensive jokes and spend an unhealthy amount of time working or on holiday.

Nobody questions why I am single. They know why i am single. "

And to be fair you’re from Aylesbury?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do get asked by people who dont know me that well when am I going to get snapped up. My family and friends however know that I'm too much of a lone wolf. I'm happily single and unless I manage to find a partner who also wants to remain living separately, I shall remain that way "

Is that because you have a patio full of bodies?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am painfully sarcastic, full of inappropriate and offensive jokes and spend an unhealthy amount of time working or on holiday.

Nobody questions why I am single. They know why i am single.

And to be fair you’re from Aylesbury?"

Fantastic place I think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am painfully sarcastic, full of inappropriate and offensive jokes and spend an unhealthy amount of time working or on holiday.

Nobody questions why I am single. They know why i am single.

And to be fair you’re from Aylesbury?

Fantastic place I think"

For single people apparently.

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

"Mgtow is the way .. too many unhappy couples. Dont really think as a species we are meant to partner up long term. "

Really? An openly misogynistic community advocating for no female contact is an odd choice for someone on fab.

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By *lansmanMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

"Mgtow is the way .. too many unhappy couples. Dont really think as a species we are meant to partner up long term.

Really? An openly misogynistic community advocating for no female contact is an odd choice for someone on fab.

Not true. Not needing a partner isn't misogynistic. I would argue to opposite is true.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am painfully sarcastic, full of inappropriate and offensive jokes and spend an unhealthy amount of time working or on holiday.

Nobody questions why I am single. They know why i am single.

And to be fair you’re from Aylesbury?

Fantastic place I think

For single people apparently."

I think there's a few happy couples here too.

We have great food options. Must be why

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

"Mgtow is the way .. too many unhappy couples. Dont really think as a species we are meant to partner up long term.

Really? An openly misogynistic community advocating for no female contact is an odd choice for someone on fab.

Not true. Not needing a partner isn't misogynistic. I would argue to opposite is true."

Not needing/wanting a partner isn't misogynistic. MGTOW is misogynistic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am painfully sarcastic, full of inappropriate and offensive jokes and spend an unhealthy amount of time working or on holiday.

Nobody questions why I am single. They know why i am single.

And to be fair you’re from Aylesbury?

Fantastic place I think

For single people apparently.

I think there's a few happy couples here too.

We have great food options. Must be why"

Must be

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

if your happy being single you stay single op

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By *lansmanMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

"Mgtow is the way .. too many unhappy couples. Dont really think as a species we are meant to partner up long term.

Really? An openly misogynistic community advocating for no female contact is an odd choice for someone on fab.

Not true. Not needing a partner isn't misogynistic. I would argue to opposite is true.

Not needing/wanting a partner isn't misogynistic. MGTOW is misogynistic. "
in what way ? Men going their own way ... not requiring women to survive ? Being totally independent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"if your happy being single you stay single op"

That’s all there is to it!

Well said that chap!

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

"Mgtow is the way .. too many unhappy couples. Dont really think as a species we are meant to partner up long term.

Really? An openly misogynistic community advocating for no female contact is an odd choice for someone on fab.

Not true. Not needing a partner isn't misogynistic. I would argue to opposite is true.

Not needing/wanting a partner isn't misogynistic. MGTOW is misogynistic. in what way ? Men going their own way ... not requiring women to survive ? Being totally independent. "

Someone has been red-pilled

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By *ackdaw52Man
over a year ago

Chesterfield

Yes.

I (and the one remaining singleton from our circle of friends) have been ostracised from the group.

If you haven't got kids you get get invited.

Unless they need you for something, obviously.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I’m single and staying single. I’m really not bothered what people think.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

As well as having a Fab sex life. I’ve got female friends who I can do couples things with. Holidays and days out. I’m loving it.

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

The grief of the do-gooders, and the never ending match-making from friends & relatives who 'someone like you shouldnt be single, we know someone, recently single, great personality'...blah blah blah

We don't all have to spawn

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By *lansmanMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

"Mgtow is the way .. too many unhappy couples. Dont really think as a species we are meant to partner up long term.

Really? An openly misogynistic community advocating for no female contact is an odd choice for someone on fab.

Not true. Not needing a partner isn't misogynistic. I would argue to opposite is true.

Not needing/wanting a partner isn't misogynistic. MGTOW is misogynistic. in what way ? Men going their own way ... not requiring women to survive ? Being totally independent.

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Just go straight to Incel then ... Jesus. I'm totally independent. Don't hate women. Don't need a woman. Don't expect anything from a woman. I honestly believe long-term relationships Don't work . . A lot of women are happy alone too .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People should do what makes them happy so being single like myself Im very happy with things stand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I'm single but it's attrituble to me.being

1. Unlucky with the choice of woman

2..I'm so fucking shite at picking women up its an art form

3. Disasterous relationships.. (see no. 1)

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By *carlet SeductionWoman
over a year ago

Maidstone

No one that I knew would dare. Anyone else? Fuck em.

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

"Mgtow is the way .. too many unhappy couples. Dont really think as a species we are meant to partner up long term.

Really? An openly misogynistic community advocating for no female contact is an odd choice for someone on fab.

Not true. Not needing a partner isn't misogynistic. I would argue to opposite is true.

Not needing/wanting a partner isn't misogynistic. MGTOW is misogynistic. in what way ? Men going their own way ... not requiring women to survive ? Being totally independent.

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I'd be more careful with the acronyms you use then. MGTOW was banned from Reddit for breaking the site's policies against promotion of violence and hate. I mean banned from Reddit!

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By *ifestyle1Man
over a year ago

me171

I'm happy to be single

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By *lansmanMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

"Mgtow is the way .. too many unhappy couples. Dont really think as a species we are meant to partner up long term.

Really? An openly misogynistic community advocating for no female contact is an odd choice for someone on fab.

Not true. Not needing a partner isn't misogynistic. I would argue to opposite is true.

Not needing/wanting a partner isn't misogynistic. MGTOW is misogynistic. in what way ? Men going their own way ... not requiring women to survive ? Being totally independent.

Someone has been red-pilled

I'd be more careful with the acronyms you use then. MGTOW was banned from Reddit for breaking the site's policies against promotion of violence and hate. I mean banned from Reddit!

J"
Thats certainly news to me ... and certainly not my take on it.

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

"I'm very happy staying single, I think I'm at the age I'll probably remain that way now... Does anyone 'middle aged', feel they get grief for being solo? "

I'm not single, but we are LAT. It's perfect.

A x

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