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Presents FWB/Play partners?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Should you, would you give your FWB a present this festive season?

I’m trying to suss out what the done thing is. (Appreciate there’s no one fits all.)

Relative new FWB of a few months versus long term play partner? Is there a difference for who to give a pressie to or not?

Won’t see one another during Christmas but will week before and week after. Does that make any difference as well?

Next question, should it be a matter of chocolates and a bottle or a coupon for a blowjob that will bring in 2024 memorably be best?

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

Personally I think it depends if it’s a just sex thing or genuine friendship in the real world you do “normal” stuff with.

Id not be buying someone you’re friendly with who you have sex with on the quiet on a regular basis.

Id buy a really good friend who I spend lots of social time with and know my friends, family and real life stuff.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Personally I wouldn't but the horror of being given a gift and not having one to reciprocate with would make me keep something wrapped and ready in the car so I could rush out and get it.

I'd go for the blow job coupon option.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it matters. FWB is a relationship out of the social construct but still very important.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex-Fwb would get cross if she did not get a present.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Personally I wouldn't but the horror of being given a gift and not having one to reciprocate with would make me keep something wrapped and ready in the car so I could rush out and get it.

I'd go for the blow job coupon option. "

My exact thought. The horror makes me think about what to do in anticipation and to plan. I’d be horrified if he bought me a present and I’m empty handed.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes it matters. FWB is a relationship out of the social construct but still very important. "

I don’t consider him a FWB more so a friend. We just happen to share real life, intimacy, and fancy fucking too.

I just feel he will give this thought and bring me a present. I don’t quite know what I’d give him. I feel shite at choosing pressies best when someone says exactly what they’d like.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Personally I wouldn't but the horror of being given a gift and not having one to reciprocate with would make me keep something wrapped and ready in the car so I could rush out and get it.

I'd go for the blow job coupon option.

My exact thought. The horror makes me think about what to do in anticipation and to plan. I’d be horrified if he bought me a present and I’m empty handed. "

Wrapped and ready it is then. I have a friend who seems to know exactly what to buy people while I flounder about in shops changing my mind. I try and settle for the tried and tested, chocolate or alcohol now unless I know exactly what they want

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By *ieryfrolicksCouple
over a year ago

PETERBOROUGH

We are a FWB couple, I N will be getting a little something for A but that's just me I won't expect anything back or be one bit disappointed if I don't receive anything, I just want to show a little appreciation of having her in my life, she makes a great friend as well as a great play partner so why not. N

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

If they're a friend I'd buy a present for anyway, sure.

I don't feel more obliged to get someone a present just because I suck their dick sometimes

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By *dinburghWomanWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Would you give them a present if they were only a friend ? I won’t be giving and don’t expect to receive presents from my fbs

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Yeah I’d buy them a little gift or do something a bit sexy for them - a massage voucher - a BJ voucher - or just wearing something that you know they love you in - something that shows you’ve thought about them.

K

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By *ustamanMan
over a year ago

weymouth

The blow job timed to climax on the stroke of midnight sounds amazing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*dreams about a friend with benefits….

Yes, I would get a friend a present, I do.

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By *tephanie63Woman
over a year ago

BRIDGWATER

I used to give a former FWB a very small gift at Christmas..I probably wouldn't do the same now though .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to. However I wouldn't these days as I am not that close to anyone nor would I let anyone get that close to me. I guess only you know what the dynamic is between you both.

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By *ORBCouple
over a year ago

Dundalk

We always give each other something for birthdays and Christmas.

Just a small token of our friendship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I used to give a former FWB a very small gift at Christmas..I probably wouldn't do the same now though ."

Why not. What changed?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Treated my ex partner before to a couple nights in London during the winter. It was very pleasant and I got thanked loads lol xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have before for a friends birthday. I wouldn't be spending loads but maybe buy a token gift.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

I'll often give people gifts, wether it's Christmas or not. Usually just something small, or maybe just something I've baked. I think if you want to, you should.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Yes I would. A couple of bits. Not big value though.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Yeah we do, something sexy normally

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I never used to. I did buy one some special dark chocolate from belguim as it was his favourite but I ate it

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