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Does dress sense matter

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By *TG3 OP   Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

Especially on first meet, shabby chic or casual or a whistle

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By *SCouple81Couple
over a year ago

Between Edinburgh and Scottish Borders

It does for us. We are making an effort and expect the same

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Yep it matters to me

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By *mf123Man
over a year ago

with one foot out the door

Sense is overated

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By *oxesMan
over a year ago

Southend, Essex


"Especially on first meet, shabby chic or casual or a whistle "

Nope, as long as it's too over the top. That's something I would need to warmup too

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

As long as they're clean and made am effort I don't find their personal style particularly relevant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Their style doesn’t matter so much as long as they look like they have made some effort into getting ready.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

I think first impressions count but that’s not expensive clothing related

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah, they all look the same tied up in the boot.

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By *mf123Man
over a year ago

with one foot out the door

Never used to matter as they would have no clothes on not long after

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By *TG3 OP   Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"Nah, they all look the same tied up in the boot."
omg mrs west when did you get out?

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By *ostindreamsMan
over a year ago

London

Matters for a lot of people. It shows you put some effort

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is why I’ll only meet on October 31st, I can have a back up excuse if they think I look like a morgue corpse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Matters for a lot of people. It shows you put some effort "

So rocking up in leggings and a hoody is no good?

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Smartly dressed or smart casually dressed it's effort and obviously smelling nice after

brushed teeth, bath/shower and a splash of perfume

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I went what I consider smart casual to my first social meet, and was told I was overdressed. In hindsight I should have just slathered myself in marmite and held a rose between my teeth..

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By *lice AgainTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

Dressing up is pretty much the basis for my meets.

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By *lendermanMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

I personally think it matters.

If I'm meeting someone I will make sure to wear my best tracksuit, and the converse with the least amount of holes.

I expect similar effort from them too or I'll walk

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"Matters for a lot of people. It shows you put some effort

So rocking up in leggings and a hoody is no good?"

I can just imagine a guy saying to a meet sorry I know you’re stunning but the meet is off because you’re wearing leggings and a hoodie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It matters for me i think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as they are not wearing white sports socks pulled high.

Or crocs, they are half way there

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By *TG3 OP   Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"It matters for me i think"
what does? You like them to be wearing them when you meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It matters for me i thinkwhat does? You like them to be wearing them when you meet? "

I like them to be wearing clean clothes - nice shirt - not a polo shirt or sports too - and decent trousers... And most importantly.. A belt..oh yes.... A belt

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

No dress sense doesn't but dressing in clean clothes does.

There are a few styles of dress I find more attractive than others though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes but it doesn’t have to smart, you can tell when effort has been made regardless and that is what matters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Matters for a lot of people. It shows you put some effort

So rocking up in leggings and a hoody is no good?

I can just imagine a guy saying to a meet sorry I know you’re stunning but the meet is off because you’re wearing leggings and a hoodie "

I've had this! He said he'd leave if I turned up wearing that.

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By *TG3 OP   Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"It matters for me i thinkwhat does? You like them to be wearing them when you meet?

I like them to be wearing clean clothes - nice shirt - not a polo shirt or sports too - and decent trousers... And most importantly.. A belt..oh yes.... A belt "
A belt eh so they don't fall down

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

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It matters to me, in all walks of life...first impressions count and all that. When meeting, I always expected people to be dressed appropriately for the venue, as I was...thankfully it never happened, but if anyone had ever turned up to a smart bar in tracksuit bottoms and trainers I would have just left. I did meet someone wearing leggings and a hoodie, but we were going for a walk in the Peaks so I'd have looked silly turning up in a dress and heels.

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By *udandBryanCouple
over a year ago

Boston

We always make an effort and for a meet/party/club expect others to do likewise, those that don't we ignore.

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By *orl1971Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow

We had a guy who told us he would be wearing his tracksuit to a social at a nice hotel bar. We cancelled him. Either he was not making an effort or his dress sense was too young for us. Whatever it was we would not be compatible.

You should make an effort.

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By *illy IdolMan
over a year ago

Midlands


"Matters for a lot of people. It shows you put some effort

So rocking up in leggings and a hoody is no good?"

It's what's under the hood that matters

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By *illy IdolMan
over a year ago

Midlands

I couldn't give a shit what they were wearing if I like them.

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By *cunnylassCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

We had a social with a farmer who had come straight from work.Apparently there had been some sort of emergency with some escaping sheep and he didn't have time to change!

M and M

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like someone nicely dressed I'm not going to lie, but in honestly I like people to come as they are and feel comfortable in what they choose to wear. The thought of someone trying to impress me rather than just being themselves actually makes me uncomfortable.

Bonus points for jeans/trousers that are a snug fit on the guys though because the perve me in me really likes that.

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

Oh maybe that's where I went wrong the other week ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the lady turned up ….. I’m happy

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By *orny IrishMan
over a year ago

Rural Wiltshire

Does for me, which is why I will always make the effort. I turn up looking and smelling how I would expect the other person/s to be like.

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By *orny IrishMan
over a year ago

Rural Wiltshire


"Matters for a lot of people. It shows you put some effort

So rocking up in leggings and a hoody is no good?"

Depends if you are rocking said leggings.

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley

0ut shopping today I happened to notice how scruffy so many people look in jeans.

Conversely, few outfits have ever looked more incongruous than those of Andy Fairweather Low guesting, while dressed in suit and tie, for for more conventionally dressed rock stars.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

Absolutely it does. We wouldn't shag anybody who can't compete with Gyles Brandreth's 80s jumper collection.

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