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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It's Thursday so we are allowed!!

Got a wink from a local couple who were in text a good match. They had no pictures public or private. But looked interesting anyway. So we winked back.

Next we got a friend invite. Which we were not overly happy about as we sort of expected a message.

Still interested in the profile we decided to send a message. We explained we only add people to the friends list if we are intending to meet and that we sort of expected a message from them as they winked first.

Guess what. No reply!

Just so don't get the wink protocol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's Thursday so we are allowed!!

Got a wink from a local couple who were in text a good match. They had no pictures public or private. But looked interesting anyway. So we winked back.

Next we got a friend invite. Which we were not overly happy about as we sort of expected a message.

Still interested in the profile we decided to send a message. We explained we only add people tthe friends list if we are intending to meet and thatwesort of expected a message from them as

they winked first.

Guess what. No reply!

Dont waste another moment .they have an intresting profile and no pics cos they fake .thats easy to do isn't it? To have one with the pics that's hard.you look hot go for people who are teal that you can meet.poppyxx

Just so don't get the wink protocol! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Send them a nice big cock pic if poss one that's dripping a little it never fails!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lol that would do it. We used to think the "wanna fuck" messages were lazy, now it's down to a mouse click

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol that would do it. We used to think the "wanna fuck" messages were lazy, now it's down to a mouse click "

I know you can't insult people in pm's as you get a slapped bottie but if I was a couple or a female I would have a pic of a used tampon to send as it conveys a dissatisfied state of mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess you're always going to come across people like that... I quite like the wink system though :D

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Then we would have sent 2 messages!! Just ignore is better, we have a great meet lined up this weekend anyway.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We don't mind the wink system. Just expect that if the wink is acknowledged then a message should follow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We don't mind the wink system. Just expect that if the wink is acknowledged then a message should follow. "

I agree. Some guys just wink, when I wink back no message but another wink ???

I then obviously ignore, if they are too lazy to send a message, I dread to think what they'd be like in the bedroom !!!

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

They're just chancers or fakes. Ignore them. I get it all the time.

The triple is good. A wink, friend invite and a 'hi' all at the same time!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They're just chancers or fakes. Ignore them. I get it all the time.

The triple is good. A wink, friend invite and a 'hi' all at the same time!"
yep, I get that one too. or a wink and friend invite and no message.. yeah right, jog on !!

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By *ethany10Couple
over a year ago

falkirk

There are a lot of winkers around....

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By *un KnightsCouple
over a year ago

South West


"It's Thursday so we are allowed!!

Got a wink from a local couple who were in text a good match. They had no pictures public or private. But looked interesting anyway. So we winked back.

Next we got a friend invite. Which we were not overly happy about as we sort of expected a message.

Still interested in the profile we decided to send a message. We explained we only add people to the friends list if we are intending to meet and that we sort of expected a message from them as they winked first.

Guess what. No reply!

Just so don't get the wink protocol! "

Hey, at least you got the foreplay of a wink, lol. We just get the wham bam thank you mam of friend invites out of the blue.

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston


"We don't mind the wink system. Just expect that if the wink is acknowledged then a message should follow. "

I like winks and I totally get what you're saying, but people do think differently and if there is one thing you can rely on on Fab it's to expect nothing that way anything else is a bonus

Fabio will be on in a bit with his 'how people use the site tools is up to them' speech

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I suppose when its a couple you're dealing with two people. So one half might have winked then sent a friends invite, then when the other logged on they were probably wondering who you were. No history tells us who we've winked at etc, just who winks at us.

Not all couples talk to each other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

THERE'S A WINK SYSTEM? No one informed me of this. Why wasn't I told?

I never get winked, does that mean I'm fugly?

Today I wink at everybody wink wink wink wink wink xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"THERE'S A WINK SYSTEM? No one informed me of this. Why wasn't I told?

I never get winked, does that mean I'm fugly?

Today I wink at everybody wink wink wink wink wink xx"

There consider yourself winked

Good job I can spell this morning.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wink usually to see if any interest quite simply because no doubt they as couples or single females will get lots of message. I never ever send friend request to folk even if been messaging a while without asking first. Its good manners which some sadly do not have.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"THERE'S A WINK SYSTEM? No one informed me of this. Why wasn't I told?

I never get winked, does that mean I'm fugly?

Today I wink at everybody wink wink wink wink wink xx

There consider yourself winked

Good job I can spell this morning. "

That's it. You've set me off now. TODAY I'M A WINKING MACHINE x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"THERE'S A WINK SYSTEM? No one informed me of this. Why wasn't I told?

I never get winked, does that mean I'm fugly?

Today I wink at everybody wink wink wink wink wink xx

There consider yourself winked

Good job I can spell this morning.

That's it. You've set me off now. TODAY I'M A WINKING MACHINE x"

Hahaha, just one letter out.

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

I always forget about winks, then when I see them, theres so many, they just get bulk deleted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"THERE'S A WINK SYSTEM? No one informed me of this. Why wasn't I told?

I never get winked, does that mean I'm fugly?

Today I wink at everybody wink wink wink wink wink xx

There consider yourself winked

Good job I can spell this morning.

That's it. You've set me off now. TODAY I'M A WINKING MACHINE x

Hahaha, just one letter out. "

sorry I was being lazy I missed out the A

it's should have read I AM not I'M x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are a lot of winkers around...."
yes more than wankers .lol.its what the sies for winking.lol.poppyxc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never look and never send winks .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im a winker, im a winker, and it does me good like it bloody well should, im a winker...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The way i see it is someone "winks" me they must/might be interested; so i message back - if no reply, i then wonder why they bothered lol

as for friends requests - i went through a phase where i accepted near all friends requests; then chatted - but now its defiantly the other way round; as so many just sit there on your friends list but are in active

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ps;

not to contridic mysself straight away ...if someone profile says "if you like look of me WINK me" then i might ...if that made sense lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

They didn't make the block list, wasn't that annoying. Made the ignore list though which is a shame as the profile was interesting, and they were verified in person so possibly genuine

Going to go back to ignoring Winks and only checking PM's as Fabio would say the sites tools can be used however the site member wants, we choose the bulk delete tool

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

why wink when you could send mail ?

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

everyone winking me now

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By *pecifically1Woman
over a year ago

Hull


"Lol that would do it. We used to think the "wanna fuck" messages were lazy, now it's down to a mouse click

I know you can't insult people in pm's as you get a slapped bottie but if I was a couple or a female I would have a pic of a used tampon to send as it conveys a dissatisfied state of mind. "

ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwww

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We only accept friends invitations from couples with, (or who send us), face pics, cuts out a LOT of time wasters LOL!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have had this they wink end message saying thanks for the winknan short message then you get nothing back,or we had couple send wink and frein request when havent spoken an on there profile it says dont freind request if we havent spoken doh practice what you preach xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My current rant about laziness is aimed at the people in chatrooms who repeatedly post a smiley. A 'horny' smiley or whatever only tells me you can't type, and won't be much of a chat let alone a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My current rant about laziness is aimed at the people in chatrooms who repeatedly post a smiley. A 'horny' smiley or whatever only tells me you can't type, and won't be much of a chat let alone a meet."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol i can hold a conversation but was giving you the thumbs up hehe xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have only ever had 1 wink don't even know how it works really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

DON'T PANIC PEOPLE.

I have now mastered the subtle art of pesterising with the wink button x

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

I would like to clarify that I only practice safe winks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would like to clarify that I only practice safe winks. "

Or the posh wink as it was known when I was at school x

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