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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

After reading a profile, What’s the three most important things you would need to know (and possibly tick those boxes) before you consider talking to someone online (fab etc)

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

Omg you read profiles i just look at pics thats enough

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Non smoker

Clean shaven

And only interested in vanilla activities

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice pics

Local

Thats about it, but if after seeing a face pic am not attracted to them then its a no goer

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Omg you read profiles i just look at pics thats enough "

I like to correct their spelling and grammar.

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

Not bad crazy

Hot

Not bad crazy

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By *enk15Man
over a year ago

Evesham

- They appear to be a genuine profile.

- They come across like someone I would get on with.

- I'm attracted to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I doubt really have 3 things. If I'm honest it isn't the profile that grabs me it will be there face. I can appreciate a well written profile but that alone wouldn't make me message not more than a mere compliment on the profile anyway.

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By *ee04Man
over a year ago

Essex


"Omg you read profiles i just look at pics thats enough

I like to correct their spelling and grammar. "

Being dyslexic I’ll take all the help I can get!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The profile text is probably the key thing for me.. And photos that aren't faces or nasty dick pics

Then i look to see how recent the veri is and then I look at distance... And sigh

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By *elshmumWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Interests

Expectations

Hygiene and safety

And when they send a message, a face photo and manners.

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By *illy IdolMan
over a year ago

Midlands


"The profile text is probably the key thing for me.. And photos that aren't faces or nasty dick pics

Then i look to see how recent the veri is and then I look at distance... And sigh"

What's wrong with faces?

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

1) I feel physically attracted to them.

2) Over 6’ in height. Not a dealbreaker, but definitely catches my interest.

3) They are articulate and can construct a message going beyond “any plans” or “ u free hun”

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By *illy IdolMan
over a year ago

Midlands

I'm looking for

Nice tits

Nice ass

And ermmm...a potential connection??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The profile text is probably the key thing for me.. And photos that aren't faces or nasty dick pics

Then i look to see how recent the veri is and then I look at distance... And sigh

What's wrong with faces?"

Shhhhhh. Don’t spoil it for us!!!!

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Location

Interests/within the bio

Photo's

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By *adCherriesCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire/Northwest

[Removed by poster at 17/11/23 11:16:51]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A expensive car in there profile pic or a nice pair of froppers will do it for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The profile text is probably the key thing for me.. And photos that aren't faces or nasty dick pics

Then i look to see how recent the veri is and then I look at distance... And sigh

What's wrong with faces?"

I have to have the mental connection - otherwise its a flat no, or possibly just a quick lustful splurge..... I wanna know when I'm handing control over that they can smell my skin and feel the hairs on end as i shiver

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By *adCherriesCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire/Northwest

profile text - This is important, we look for it being coherent and fun. Hidden text in a profile that you have to include in a message for a reponse is a turn off. Another turn off is all the Sydney University nonsense.

Pictures - Obviously we look for people we are attracted to but we also check the background in pictures. A messy house is a big turn off and so are dirty nails etc

If we are happy with the above we'll send a message and see what we get back.

I dont have a 3rd thing I look for but I know Mrs Cherry does, she looks to see if the guy as a big cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"1) I feel physically attracted to them.

2) Over 6’ in height. Not a dealbreaker, but definitely catches my interest.

3) They are articulate and can construct a message going beyond “any plans” or “ u free hun”"

Oh yeah height

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By *illy IdolMan
over a year ago

Midlands


"The profile text is probably the key thing for me.. And photos that aren't faces or nasty dick pics

Then i look to see how recent the veri is and then I look at distance... And sigh

What's wrong with faces?

I have to have the mental connection - otherwise its a flat no, or possibly just a quick lustful splurge..... I wanna know when I'm handing control over that they can smell my skin and feel the hairs on end as i shiver "

Can you not do this if you've seen their face?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The profile text is probably the key thing for me.. And photos that aren't faces or nasty dick pics

Then i look to see how recent the veri is and then I look at distance... And sigh

What's wrong with faces?

I have to have the mental connection - otherwise its a flat no, or possibly just a quick lustful splurge..... I wanna know when I'm handing control over that they can smell my skin and feel the hairs on end as i shiver

Can you not do this if you've seen their face?"

Nope like i say - instant deal breaker.. Dunno why, just is

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
over a year ago

Transsexual Transylvania

I almost never message people first. If they message me, I look at their profile. I've seen some shockers, or uninspiring profiles that belied the fact that the person was still perfectly nice to chat to online. I've also read great profiles that went followed up with engaging conversation. Sometimes I'm sure I've even been over of those people.

So I suppose I don't really use the profile as a guide.

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By *odevilWoman
over a year ago

exeter

- similar interests

- location

- veris (photo or otherwise)

If a bio makes me laugh though, I'll send a message regardless of the above criteria being met.

Similarly, if I find the pictures especially hot, I might send a message even of only to let the person know they're killing it (without the expectation of any further interaction) because people deserve to know that they're winning at being hot.

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
over a year ago

Transsexual Transylvania

*went = weren't

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Coherent profile text, evidence of personality, being considerate, spark I can't define

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dig bick

Princess

Chef

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport


"A expensive car in there profile pic or a nice pair of froppers will do it for me "

"froppers" - never heard them be called that before

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By *illy IdolMan
over a year ago

Midlands


"The profile text is probably the key thing for me.. And photos that aren't faces or nasty dick pics

Then i look to see how recent the veri is and then I look at distance... And sigh

What's wrong with faces?

I have to have the mental connection - otherwise its a flat no, or possibly just a quick lustful splurge..... I wanna know when I'm handing control over that they can smell my skin and feel the hairs on end as i shiver

Can you not do this if you've seen their face?

Nope like i say - instant deal breaker.. Dunno why, just is"

You're a radio presenters dream

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No veris

No dick pics

No crochet

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By *heelz69Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Can travel as I can only accommodate

If I think that they could be interested in someone with a disability

Age

Interests

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The profile text is probably the key thing for me.. And photos that aren't faces or nasty dick pics

Then i look to see how recent the veri is and then I look at distance... And sigh

What's wrong with faces?

I have to have the mental connection - otherwise its a flat no, or possibly just a quick lustful splurge..... I wanna know when I'm handing control over that they can smell my skin and feel the hairs on end as i shiver

Can you not do this if you've seen their face?

Nope like i say - instant deal breaker.. Dunno why, just is

You're a radio presenters dream"

I'm a nightmare and flakey as fuck

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London


"- similar interests

- location

- veris (photo or otherwise)

If a bio makes me laugh though, I'll send a message regardless of the above criteria being met.

Similarly, if I find the pictures especially hot, I might send a message even of only to let the person know they're killing it (without the expectation of any further interaction) because people deserve to know that they're winning at being hot.

"

I agree with this and I message mainly couples if they sound great together and look like the kind of sex I would get popcorn for.

They usually really appreciate it and it leads to good chat!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"No veris

No dick pics

No crochet"

No crochet?

Cottage core is going to be so hot in 2024. Get with the times, darling.

(Although I'll probably draw the line at the crocheted willy warmers I've seen. No, please no)

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London


"The profile text is probably the key thing for me.. And photos that aren't faces or nasty dick pics

Then i look to see how recent the veri is and then I look at distance... And sigh

What's wrong with faces?

I have to have the mental connection - otherwise its a flat no, or possibly just a quick lustful splurge..... I wanna know when I'm handing control over that they can smell my skin and feel the hairs on end as i shiver

Can you not do this if you've seen their face?

Nope like i say - instant deal breaker.. Dunno why, just is

You're a radio presenters dream

I'm a nightmare and flakey as fuck "

I love a nightmare before Christmas

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