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"..how do you get away with it 1)..did you marry a really stupid woman..? 2)..are you just really clever at hiding it ..so much so you could probably work as an undercover op for special branch ? 3)..are you really stupid.. your woman actually knows all about you and while you're sneaking off .. she's servicing all of the local rugby club..?.." They could be married to a someone very lazy who doesn't notice because they are too busy watching EastEnders and stuff like that... | |||
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"Like hubby all dressed up in heels with full make up, says "I,m off out now luv" Wife can't tear her eyes away from TV and just says ' bye' xxx" ...huh, this must be why I always hear the outro drums when I walk into a hotwife's gaff, it's really odd entrance music, makes me say words like 'gaff' which is weird | |||
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"..how do you get away with it 1)..did you marry a really stupid woman..? 2)..are you just really clever at hiding it ..so much so you could probably work as an undercover op for special branch ? 3)..are you really stupid.. your woman actually knows all about you and while you're sneaking off .. she's servicing all of the local rugby club..?.." 4) moaning how it’s all so unfair when the wife divorces them | |||
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"Like hubby all dressed up in heels with full make up, says "I,m off out now luv" Wife can't tear her eyes away from TV and just says ' bye' xxx" I have this image of a guy dressed with a beard speaking in a thick northern accent. " Eyup luv just poppin down pub have a few jars with the lads, see you later" "Ok sweetheart have a nice time,oh you look nice that colour eye shadow really makes your eyes stand out,is Brain going to be there, I hear he got a new pair of Louboutins the other day?" | |||
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"Like hubby all dressed up in heels with full make up, says "I,m off out now luv" Wife can't tear her eyes away from TV and just says ' bye' xxx" | |||
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"Imagine hiding your dressing all of your married life and on your death bed, she leans over tells you she knew and would’ve been fine with it. Told all of my previous partners and in general modern women tend to be understanding about it. No guarantee she’ll stay in the relationship or be 100% supportive but at least she knows that you were always/ are honest. You never know she could love the idea and become the best ally you’ll ever have. But I’ll always be honest and open about my dressing as I’m not ashamed about it. " | |||
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"Imagine hiding your dressing all of your married life and on your death bed, she leans over tells you she knew and would’ve been fine with it. Told all of my previous partners and in general modern women tend to be understanding about it. No guarantee she’ll stay in the relationship or be 100% supportive but at least she knows that you were always/ are honest. You never know she could love the idea and become the best ally you’ll ever have. But I’ll always be honest and open about my dressing as I’m not ashamed about it. " | |||
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"..how do you get away with it 1)..did you marry a really stupid woman..? 2)..are you just really clever at hiding it ..so much so you could probably work as an undercover op for special branch ? 3)..are you really stupid.. your woman actually knows all about you and while you're sneaking off .. she's servicing all of the local rugby club..?.." LOVE IT!!! | |||
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"I told my now 2 ex wives.. 1st didn't wonna k ow but let me get on with it. 2nd knew from start. She used it in court when we divorced.. So even if you are straight up from the start doesn't always guarantee a good outcome. " if it went to court today the fact she has an issue with it would be grounds for your side. It's a mixed up world with a whole bunch of views changing | |||
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"I told my now 2 ex wives.. 1st didn't wonna k ow but let me get on with it. 2nd knew from start. She used it in court when we divorced.. So even if you are straight up from the start doesn't always guarantee a good outcome. if it went to court today the fact she has an issue with it would be grounds for your side. It's a mixed up world with a whole bunch of views changing " Agree I was divorced and was advised it wasn’t a good idea for her to use it against me. It had no worth as it’s not illegal or even as an unreasonable behaviour clause due to its no longer seen as a perversion. | |||
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"We were talking about men who dress at work once and without fail all the women said they'd consider divorce if they discovered their husband did. I said it would be something I'd be happy with if it made him happy and they all looked at me as if I'd lost my mind. I'm not surprised men hide it after that revealing conversation and I feel sorry that they have to. " I think it is often easy to forget for us here on fab how narrow minded the general population can be when it comes to sexual preferences. Because most people on this site approach sex in a mature way and are exposed to such a variety of sexual preferences we learn that a persons beauty has little to do with what they like in bed. | |||
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"We were talking about men who dress at work once and without fail all the women said they'd consider divorce if they discovered their husband did. I said it would be something I'd be happy with if it made him happy and they all looked at me as if I'd lost my mind. I'm not surprised men hide it after that revealing conversation and I feel sorry that they have to. " Had a similar situation at work only a couple of weeks ago. I just did my shocked face. Didn't tell them about our ex colleague who has many sexy outfits. | |||
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"Until I got caught, I was a definite stealth merchant. Always dressed in an empty house, until one night I was stupid & she'd gone to bed early so I chanced it. Only for her to get up feeling ill & come downstairs. Things were never right after & it ended in divorce, she couldn't handle it. She wasn't stupid, I was just an ace at covering my tracks & making sure nothing was out of place afterwards. Only myself to blame. There were other mundane life factors that contributed, but Gemma was the straw that sadly broke the camels back. Luckily I had concrete evidence of her playing about with a married bloke, so I was able to tip the upper hand she'd have held over me back level & we mutually agreed that neither would blow the others cover or face the consequences in return. It worked quite nicely! I decided never to risk hiding again & crazily thought this place might offer an opportunity to meet a local lady who was open minded enough to accept both sides of me & everything would be open from the off. A dangerous tactic incase I picked up a nutter who'd out me, but a risk i felt I had to take. I trust my gut instincts with people & my inbuilt idiot detection system works well in sussing them out quickly. Friends on here told me politely it was wishful thinking & wouldn't happen & after a couple of years & thru lockdowns etc, I'd given up & settled into assuming I'd be staying single for a long time. Anyway, without boring the tits off everyone, remarkably fab came good & brought me a gorgeous older lady, widowed & free of tie, with a naughty adventurous streak a mile wide & she adores girl me & loves dressing up together. I'd hoped but never expected & she's the best thing ever to happen to me. I wish I'd had earlier in life what I have now in her, God we'd have had fun. But I'm grabbing this & her with both hands & living for the now & no regrets, no looking back. She's my world, she's rebuilt the damaged me & taught me a closeness I've never known before & yeah, she's pretty amazing & a total keeper! So never give up, chase your dreams & believe in yourself. I remain here to keep in touch with friends I've made, perv the gorgeous lady bumps & occasionally prat about on cam in chat. But otherwise I'm happily taken!" | |||
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"Until I got caught, I was a definite stealth merchant. Always dressed in an empty house, until one night I was stupid & she'd gone to bed early so I chanced it. Only for her to get up feeling ill & come downstairs. Things were never right after & it ended in divorce, she couldn't handle it. She wasn't stupid, I was just an ace at covering my tracks & making sure nothing was out of place afterwards. Only myself to blame. There were other mundane life factors that contributed, but Gemma was the straw that sadly broke the camels back. Luckily I had concrete evidence of her playing about with a married bloke, so I was able to tip the upper hand she'd have held over me back level & we mutually agreed that neither would blow the others cover or face the consequences in return. It worked quite nicely! I decided never to risk hiding again & crazily thought this place might offer an opportunity to meet a local lady who was open minded enough to accept both sides of me & everything would be open from the off. A dangerous tactic incase I picked up a nutter who'd out me, but a risk i felt I had to take. I trust my gut instincts with people & my inbuilt idiot detection system works well in sussing them out quickly. Friends on here told me politely it was wishful thinking & wouldn't happen & after a couple of years & thru lockdowns etc, I'd given up & settled into assuming I'd be staying single for a long time. Anyway, without boring the tits off everyone, remarkably fab came good & brought me a gorgeous older lady, widowed & free of tie, with a naughty adventurous streak a mile wide & she adores girl me & loves dressing up together. I'd hoped but never expected & she's the best thing ever to happen to me. I wish I'd had earlier in life what I have now in her, God we'd have had fun. But I'm grabbing this & her with both hands & living for the now & no regrets, no looking back. She's my world, she's rebuilt the damaged me & taught me a closeness I've never known before & yeah, she's pretty amazing & a total keeper! So never give up, chase your dreams & believe in yourself. I remain here to keep in touch with friends I've made, perv the gorgeous lady bumps & occasionally prat about on cam in chat. But otherwise I'm happily taken!" Wow thats wonderful to hear im so happy things worked out for you. I love a happy ending xx | |||
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"Until I got caught, I was a definite stealth merchant. Always dressed in an empty house, until one night I was stupid & she'd gone to bed early so I chanced it. Only for her to get up feeling ill & come downstairs. Things were never right after & it ended in divorce, she couldn't handle it. She wasn't stupid, I was just an ace at covering my tracks & making sure nothing was out of place afterwards. Only myself to blame. There were other mundane life factors that contributed, but Gemma was the straw that sadly broke the camels back. Luckily I had concrete evidence of her playing about with a married bloke, so I was able to tip the upper hand she'd have held over me back level & we mutually agreed that neither would blow the others cover or face the consequences in return. It worked quite nicely! I decided never to risk hiding again & crazily thought this place might offer an opportunity to meet a local lady who was open minded enough to accept both sides of me & everything would be open from the off. A dangerous tactic incase I picked up a nutter who'd out me, but a risk i felt I had to take. I trust my gut instincts with people & my inbuilt idiot detection system works well in sussing them out quickly. Friends on here told me politely it was wishful thinking & wouldn't happen & after a couple of years & thru lockdowns etc, I'd given up & settled into assuming I'd be staying single for a long time. Anyway, without boring the tits off everyone, remarkably fab came good & brought me a gorgeous older lady, widowed & free of tie, with a naughty adventurous streak a mile wide & she adores girl me & loves dressing up together. I'd hoped but never expected & she's the best thing ever to happen to me. I wish I'd had earlier in life what I have now in her, God we'd have had fun. But I'm grabbing this & her with both hands & living for the now & no regrets, no looking back. She's my world, she's rebuilt the damaged me & taught me a closeness I've never known before & yeah, she's pretty amazing & a total keeper! So never give up, chase your dreams & believe in yourself. I remain here to keep in touch with friends I've made, perv the gorgeous lady bumps & occasionally prat about on cam in chat. But otherwise I'm happily taken!" | |||
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