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By *aitonel OP Man
over a year ago

Travelling

Is it wise to give a woman free reign to let her crazy out?

Unchained, no holds barred, full on crazy.

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Um... How would you propose to keep it in?!

Mrs TMN x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sure, it's fun - but you can't put the toothpaste back in the tube.

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By *lendermanMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

Situational

If you enjoy crazy unchained women.. go nuts

If you enjoy calm.. don't stick your dick in crazy. Avoid

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

Only if you can deal with it, luckily I've found that person I can do that with

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

If someone has to hold themselves back around you that's not a good thing

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it not up to the woman to decide?

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By *ACOLCouple
over a year ago

limerick

"Is it wise to give a woman free reign to let her crazy out?

Unchained, no holds barred, full on crazy. "

I believe so, instead of free reign call it, the art of being passionate and in sinc with our deepest desires!

Then you will know her truest self.

Lina.

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By *aitonel OP Man
over a year ago

Travelling

"If someone has to hold themselves back around you that's not a good thing

It was a choice given

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By *ACOLCouple
over a year ago

limerick

"If someone has to hold themselves back around you that's not a good thing

100!

Lina.

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By *aitonel OP Man
over a year ago

Travelling

"Um... How would you propose to keep it in?!

Mrs TMN x"

A plug?

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By *eliciousDiva69Woman
over a year ago

Schitts Creek

Think we may need some context here OP!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as her craziness isn't dangerous or illegal than yes, let her be free with it.

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By *aitonel OP Man
over a year ago

Travelling

"Is it not up to the woman to decide?"

Her words though. "do not give me free reign"

So if I say free reign is fine, and then the crazy comes...

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By *amantha_JadeWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle

Just tell us to calm down… that always helps to keep the crazy at bay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it not up to the woman to decide?

Her words though. "do not give me free reign"

So if I say free reign is fine, and then the crazy comes...

Sounds like passing responsibility onto someone else imo

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By *carlet SeductionWoman
over a year ago

Maidstone

Sounds complicated

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By *aitonel OP Man
over a year ago

Travelling

"Think we may need some context here OP!"

No, can't do that. Vagueness is what I do best. Cryptic and riddles in the dark.

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

If a woman wants to go batshit crazy then I wouldn’t stop her. Whether I hang around is a totally different question.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sounds complicated"

Only because you can't turn yours off.

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By *odevilWoman
over a year ago

exeter

"Is it wise to give a woman free reign to let her crazy out?

Unchained, no holds barred, full on crazy. "

Wise? Depends on your constitution.

Fun? A different matter entirely.

No good story starts with a salad.

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By *aitonel OP Man
over a year ago

Travelling

"Think we may need some context here OP!

No, can't do that. Vagueness is what I do best. Cryptic and riddles in the dark. "

Okay, a little context

It's not about angry, temperament, or emotional.

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By *carlet SeductionWoman
over a year ago

Maidstone

"Sounds complicated

Only because you can't turn yours off.

I've even read the manual. There are no instructions anywhere

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

She might give you the ride of your life.

She may also turn up dancing with dog poop bags in her hands.

It's a risk bro.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Think we may need some context here OP!

No, can't do that. Vagueness is what I do best. Cryptic and riddles in the dark.

Okay, a little context

It's not about angry, temperament, or emotional."

Shopping in Asda?

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

"Think we may need some context here OP!

No, can't do that. Vagueness is what I do best. Cryptic and riddles in the dark. "

Beneath the full moon's gaze, follow the shadow's dance. Seek the forgotten whispers where the river meets the ancient oak. Embrace the echoes of time, and unveil the concealed truth within the mirror's reflection.

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

And some of you wonder why it often all goes wrong

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By *odevilWoman
over a year ago

exeter

"Think we may need some context here OP!

No, can't do that. Vagueness is what I do best. Cryptic and riddles in the dark.

Okay, a little context

It's not about angry, temperament, or emotional."

Omg if we're not talking bunny boiler crazy, just stop being a baby and brace yourself.

What's the worst that can happen?

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
over a year ago

Essex

Free rein all the way.

What other way is there to live??

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

I read a short story today which was about exactly this. A woman being given permission to let her crazy out. It didn’t end well. There was a sword, and it was pushed all the way through her man’s leg and out the other side. Things escalated and she ended up shooting her long-lost father by accident.

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By *odevilWoman
over a year ago

exeter

"I read a short story today which was about exactly this. A woman being given permission to let her crazy out. It didn’t end well. There was a sword, and it was pushed all the way through her man’s leg and out the other side. Things escalated and she ended up shooting her long-lost father by accident."

This actually happened to me last Monday.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"Um... How would you propose to keep it in?!

Mrs TMN x"

Put a plug in it?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you have a safe word, go for it

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By *eliciousDiva69Woman
over a year ago

Schitts Creek

"Think we may need some context here OP!

No, can't do that. Vagueness is what I do best. Cryptic and riddles in the dark. "

Yeah, so true - how could I forget

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Boundaries, boundaries, boundaries... Your's and her's.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

"This actually happened to me last Monday.

Is it wrong that this makes me kinda want to meet you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say no.. You can't close Pandoras box

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

"Is it wise to give a woman free reign to let her crazy out?

Unchained, no holds barred, full on crazy. "

Ask Mindy Hammond

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

"Um... How would you propose to keep it in?!"

"Put a plug in it?! "

Wait, is *that* what buttplugs are really for?

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

"Um... How would you propose to keep it in?!Put a plug in it?!

Wait, is *that* what buttplugs are really for?

Yep. I keep the crazy in my butthole.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"Um... How would you propose to keep it in?!Put a plug in it?!

Wait, is *that* what buttplugs are really for?

Didn't you know? They say every day is a school day!

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By *inky ChefMan
over a year ago

Norwich

"Is it not up to the woman to decide?

Her words though. "do not give me free reign"

So if I say free reign is fine, and then the crazy comes...

Specify crazy please.

Bite your cock crazy?

Tie you up and fuck you from behind crazy?

Possibly break your bed or your boner crazy?

Several personalities with 1 body kind?

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Ugh can't think of anything worse.

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

"Um... How would you propose to keep it in?!Put a plug in it?!

Wait, is *that* what buttplugs are really for?

Yep. I keep the crazy in my butthole. "

Taylor Swift's Karma isn't quite how I remember it!

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Carlisle

I think we all know that women need the firm hand if a man to keep them on the straight and narrow… let her be herself and if she gets ideas above herself - take her to one side and say something calming like ‘ look here you batshit crazy fire breathing harpy… just get a grip and stop the nonsense or I shall suspend any smashing of your back doors until you do!!! ( remember and wave your finger in her face - they appreciate the dominance!!)

** Todgermoore …. Shit stirring in every pot on fab since 2010

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By *use and wolfCouple
over a year ago

angus

Highly recommend

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By *odevilWoman
over a year ago

exeter

"I think we all know that women need the firm hand if a man to keep them on the straight and narrow… let her be herself and if she gets ideas above herself - take her to one side and say something calming like ‘ look here you batshit crazy fire breathing harpy… just get a grip and stop the nonsense or I shall suspend any smashing of your back doors until you do!!! ( remember and wave your finger in her face - they appreciate the dominance!!)

** Todgermoore …. Shit stirring in every pot on fab since 2010

I can conclusively say that this will definitely work

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By *odevilWoman
over a year ago

exeter

"This actually happened to me last Monday.

Is it wrong that this makes me kinda want to meet you?"

I mean... isn't this the whole topic under discussion?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it wise to give a woman free reign to let her crazy out?

Unchained, no holds barred, full on crazy. "
Tequila crazy or sober crazy

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Is it wise to speak in riddles if you truly seek an answer ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well ye what's worst that going to happen? Most of them their barks worse than their bite anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stay behind just in case. You will touch the fire, maybe even burn. How long you'll stay, who you'll end up like after, and how you'll get out (if you ever want to)- these are the questions. Do it, let her flames out.

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By *inx and NymphCouple
over a year ago

bristol

"Is it not up to the woman to decide?

Her words though. "do not give me free reign"

So if I say free reign is fine, and then the crazy comes...

I can relate to this, I feel like there’s a feeling of safety in that

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Everybody is assuming this is about sex!

But what if it’s about the Build-a-Bear shop?

Think outside the box people!!

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By *ickyKlungespeareMan
over a year ago

St Leonards

I'd have a few questions about the homonym, and who spelt it incorrectly - you or her?

"Free rein" - freedom to go crazy.

"Free reign" - giving all the power to a tyrant/dictator.

And if there's a combination of the two going on in someone's unconscious, I'd want to make sure they had the intelligence (emotional and traditional) to cope with the games they want to play.

Because they probably can't, which ends up being really boring.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Think we may need some context here OP!

No, can't do that. Vagueness is what I do best. Cryptic and riddles in the dark.

Okay, a little context

It's not about angry, temperament, or emotional."

If it is none of those things and you have a safe word or signal already, then go for it

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By *he ass man 666Man
over a year ago

paradise city

"Is it wise to give a woman free reign to let her crazy out?

Unchained, no holds barred, full on crazy. "

Fuck no , you mental lol

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By *ickyKlungespeareMan
over a year ago

St Leonards

"Think we may need some context here OP!

No, can't do that. Vagueness is what I do best. Cryptic and riddles in the dark.

Okay, a little context

It's not about angry, temperament, or emotional.

If it is none of those things and you have a safe word or signal already, then go for it

Yup - context of the whole thing (you might just both be so horny you should do it anyway...sometimes a fuck is just needed), and safe word/signal as back-up if it drifts too far away from mutually beneficial.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve a thing for crazy chics.

Ever since I was little, it looked fun … * one for the music nerds.

Let her let it out.

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By *ose and her beastCouple
over a year ago

Watford

To what degree lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Crazy ones are the best ones.

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By *esafinadOHolyNightMan
over a year ago

Belfast

It's best to encourage everyone to be themselves, I reckon anyway

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Not if she’s on top !

I know someone who loves to have conversations about rules and boundaries and expectations and yet her favourite phrases is …sorry I just don’t know what happened

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it wise to give a woman free reign to let her crazy out?

Unchained, no holds barred, full on crazy. "

If you're confident enough you can meet and exceed expectations, why not. Sounds like a wild ride

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's best to encourage everyone to be themselves, I reckon anyway

Go and enjoy someone exactly as they are. And then watch them transform into the greatest, truest version of themselves.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Free rein?

Of course. Obviously not bad crazy but a bit of kooky crazy or you know, a woman just existing. That's absolutely fine.

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By *aitonel OP Man
over a year ago

Travelling

"Everybody is assuming this is about sex!

But what if it’s about the Build-a-Bear shop?

Think outside the box people!!

Exactly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you wanna deal with crazy then crack on

If you don’t, don’t. Dont lower your standards for pussy

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

Coming back to this one, because I wanted to clarify my opinion.

Free reign to be crazy, what does that mean to me?

In my previous relationship I had to be the epitome of a stepford wife. Had to be a perfect wife at all costs, over 20 years I performed that task quite brilliantly.

But it was wasn't me, I started this relationship where I was given free reign to do all the crazy things I wasn't allowed to do before. I mean go out with my friends dancing all night, totally crazy right? Have the ability to talk and discuss doing things that the ex would deem as crazy is now allowed. Actually do some of that crazy kinky fuckery stuff is also, yay. Crazy, as all other things is subjective. I do crazy within our defined boundaries, luckily my idea of crazy aligns with the other half ideas too.

"Normal is an allusion. What is normal for the spider is chaos for the fly" Charles Addams

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By *illy IdolMan
over a year ago

Midlands

It's not wise for you to believe you have a choice. In fact, it's crazy of you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Embrace the crazy. If it's not for you, it's your problem, not hers.

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere else

"Um... How would you propose to keep it in?!

Mrs TMN x"

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By *dquestCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

Key wrong word in the question - "let." It really isn't your choice.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

You just need to find one in the sweet spot on the hot/crazy matrix.

Its just science see

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By *inacolada3Couple
over a year ago

kettering

I love my wife because she is unchained and as mad as a hatter, if i said she could or could not do something i would be dumped like a big turd !

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By *aitonel OP Man
over a year ago

Travelling

I do enjoy vagueness.

Seeing the assumptions and conclusions people jump to is not only fascinating but also entertaining and very telling.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

I had a little uneasiness with the whole thread because of that hoary old ‘crazy women’ cliché. But as it turns out, nobody has taken it too seriously and it’s actually been kinda fun so far. Long may it continue.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

"I had a little uneasiness with the whole thread because of that hoary old ‘crazy women’ cliché. But as it turns out, nobody has taken it too seriously and it’s actually been kinda fun so far. Long may it continue.

That was my first thought.

If you can make a woman feel safe enough, to completely let go, then do it. We're not often afforded that.

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

Bitches do be crazy though Rose.

Most people are to be fair but I am particularly laid back and not give a shit like.

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By *ervent X KissMan
52 weeks ago

Portsmouth

Obviously a control freak

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

"I do enjoy vagueness.

Seeing the assumptions and conclusions people jump to is not only fascinating but also entertaining and very telling. "

Add some detail then!

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By *aitonel OP Man
52 weeks ago

Travelling

"I do enjoy vagueness.

Seeing the assumptions and conclusions people jump to is not only fascinating but also entertaining and very telling.

Add some detail then!

Why!? Then it's not vague and I don't get to witness the assumptions! That's the best part.

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By *ddie1966Man
52 weeks ago

Paper Town Central, Essex.

How the he'll are you going to stop her!

You made your bed, now sleep in it.

I'm sure you'll enjoy it anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

Have you let the crazy out?

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By *ustamanMan
52 weeks ago

weymouth

I say enjoy the ride

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