FabSwingers.com forum: The one that got away

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Did you ever have one like that? Someone from here? Someone else? Did you get them back?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, once they’re gone, they’re gone for good.

Look forwards not back.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

No, they're probably not worth having.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

"No, once they’re gone, they’re gone for good.

Look forwards not back."

This fuck chasing dead ends, gone for a reason...

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Good god no

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Yes. Though got away isn't accurate.

Not here. And no, didn't get them back.

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

"Did you ever have one like that? Someone from here? Someone else? Did you get them back? "

Yes, and nope it never seems to work out for me

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By *ormalfornorfolkMan
over a year ago

Norwich

Yes. She was called Elle. I only ever kissed her….

Oh and Lauren, when I was a teenager….

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you love them, set them free

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By *eavilMan
over a year ago

Stalybridge

Hardy Kruger.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

I did love her. And I did set her free.

(Then I saw her on telly a few years later d*unkenly swapping her shoes for a snog.)

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By *hrek101Man
over a year ago

Herts

My only relationship regret. In my nievety I left the perfect one go

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

There are very fond memories, and good reasons why it ended. So no.

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

Yes they got away but I caught them again, I just make sure that the chain's and padlocks are secure when I open the secret room door so they can't get away again

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Yes they got away but I caught them again, I just make sure that the chain's and padlocks are secure when I open the secret room door so they can't get away again

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

Yes jane from wrexham definitely got away

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

No I never had one that got away

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

If you love someone set them free.

If they comeback, it means nobody else liked them.

Set them free again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah had one of those, great girl. Zero issues then out of the blue: her life was to busy for me.

Hard to accept, but have to respect her wishes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you love someone set them free.

If they comeback, it means nobody else liked them.

Set them free again

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By *eliciousDiva69Woman
over a year ago

Schitts Creek

Not got away as such, it was a crazy long time ago and we both wanted/needed different things from each other. We recently reconnected but still want and need different things but ironically I think if today me met his yesteryear self or vice-versa, we’d be perfect together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Things end for a reason

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By *igNick1381Man
over a year ago

BRIDGEND

No one is irreplaceable, you fell in love once you can fall in love again

It's more likely that you're in love with the idealised version of them that only exists in your head

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup 1 person. No one will ever come close to what he was. It's like he had a magnet that could and still can attract me instantly

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yup 1 person. No one will ever come close to what he was. It's like he had a magnet that could and still can attract me instantly

Lucky man

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes jane from wrexham definitely got away

Ryan Reynolds has her now

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Nope. I stuck a ring on it so she's not going anywhere

LvM

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By *tephanie63Woman
over a year ago

BRIDGWATER

Yes someone special I met got away. I don't think they will come back, although I left door open. X

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By *ormalfornorfolkMan
over a year ago

Norwich

"Yes someone special I met got away. I don't think they will come back, although I left door open. X"

I wouldn’t want to have to pay your heating bill.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More than one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe one. I didn't think he wanted to date and I didn't think he'd go for me as a girlfriend.

Then he got a girlfriend and I realised I probably came across not interested instead of not confident. Yet we had got naked with other beforehand.

But he came back again and again across decades in one way or another and still remembers every detail of our times spent together. He writes sexy stories using me and him as the characters, his fantasies, and sends them by email sometimes. They are well written.

Met him at 17, got naked with him at 18 and in my late 20's too. I'm now 45 and he still mails me.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

"Things end for a reason"

Yeah, but it’s okay to resent that reason.

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By *ilthycoupleabzCouple
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Nope. Once I detach myself from someone, there is no regret and no wanting them back.

Sounds a bit harsh but it is the way I am

MrsAbz

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, for someone i have feelings for and he returns them. But I was no good and caused drama for all involved. I was also thoroughly miserable, doubting myself, my worth and just felt shit (I only realised this after) so I walked away. I am working towards being happier in myself now and my worth, he will no doubt be happier to have that small weight he didn't realise was on his shoulder off.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

No.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope

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By *obin444Man
over a year ago

Windsor

Yes. Leaving it there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, recently; right person, wrong time.

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal

"No, once they’re gone, they’re gone for good.

Look forwards not back.

This fuck chasing dead ends, gone for a reason..."

Yup

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

No, but a fair few lucky escapes.

I have the right one now.

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By *929Man
over a year ago

bedlington

Had a few, most recent was the lass I dated after the ex, in reality it was too soon but we had fun and I was happy. Then I had my heart attack and it changed how I look dramatically physique wise and so much of how I felt was wrapped up in how I look that combined with coming off testosterone for a bit left me a depressed wreck and stoped caring about everything including her and she stuck it out for a bit but eventuslly got sick and left.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah had one of those, great girl. Zero issues then out of the blue: her life was to busy for me.

Hard to accept, but have to respect her wishes.

*Update*

The one that got away just came round to see me...

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

When you lose something good, it’s replaced with something better.

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"Yes jane from wrexham definitely got away

Ryan Reynolds has her now "
really he likes Welsh women then?

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By *hatKlungeEnigmaMan
over a year ago

St Leonards

Oooohhh...good question.

I don't go for "forever" entwining - life is enjoyably changeable, as are people.

But there was one in 2016, not from here but she'd do well here, which I ended after a few months but probably had two, three, or four very good years in it.

Cute, little, funny, intelligent, witty, cheeky, great face and eyes, ballsy, soft, adventurous, pert boobs.

She ticked so many of my boxes.

I wouldn't want to be together again, because I like change.

But that change was forced too early by me, when it had a lot more still in it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to imagine I’m the one that got away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Things end for a reason

Yeah, but it’s okay to resent that reason."

For a little while, not forever.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Things end for a reason

Yeah, but it’s okay to resent that reason.

For a little while, not forever."

How long?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Things end for a reason

Yeah, but it’s okay to resent that reason.

For a little while, not forever.

How long? "

5-10 business days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Things end for a reason

Yeah, but it’s okay to resent that reason.

For a little while, not forever.

How long?

5-10 business days"

Including bank holidays.. . It adds up.

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