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By *uffolkcouple-bi only OP   Couple
over a year ago

West Suffolk

You hear on here of a lot of guys saying their wife/gf/partner has gone off sex etc and that’s why they are on here blah blah blah…. It got me wondering just how many times a week do people have sex, regardless of if they are in a relationship or not, me and Mr have sex about 4/5 times a week (with each other) so how many times do you?

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Um. Depends how much time I get to spend with the people that matter to me.

Could be multiple times every day for a week. Could be once a fortnight. Once this year it was over a month without because life is a dick sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we are busy and on opposing shifts then we can go a couple of weeks without sex. If the stars align and we get free time together it can be 3 times a day, everyday.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Tbh half the time I think if these blokes spent the time and effort they do chatting to random strangers & perving pics on their wife then they'd probably get more sex, a change in attention and distracted is easily noticeable and doesn't make us want to drop our knickers.

As for the actual question (sorry I went off on a rant)

The actual sex probably once or twice every couple of weeks but blow jobs, oral, hand jobs and all the other sexual activity probably 3-5 times a week depending.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s changed over time : early days all the time, like most couples, then frequency varies as life changes happen, work gets more intense / stressful etc, then settled into a routine of averaging about once a week for quite a long time.

As you turn 50 more stresses such as ailing family and life changes such as menopause etc and it’s more irregular .. it is what it is and can kind of become less important as other stuff happens around you

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By *apnDomMan
over a year ago

London | Belfast

As a single guy with only 2-3 fwbs, I have sex like twice a week.

Mostly a thing about needing to arrange, people are so unspontaneous.

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By *uffolkcouple-bi only OP   Couple
over a year ago

West Suffolk


"Tbh half the time I think if these blokes spent the time and effort they do chatting to random strangers & perving pics on their wife then they'd probably get more sex, a change in attention and distracted is easily noticeable and doesn't make us want to drop our knickers.

As for the actual question (sorry I went off on a rant)

The actual sex probably once or twice every couple of weeks but blow jobs, oral, hand jobs and all the other sexual activity probably 3-5 times a week depending.

Mrs "

I totally agree about not putting the effort in and spending more time looking elsewhere perving

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By *uffolkcouple-bi only OP   Couple
over a year ago

West Suffolk


"It’s changed over time : early days all the time, like most couples, then frequency varies as life changes happen, work gets more intense / stressful etc, then settled into a routine of averaging about once a week for quite a long time.

As you turn 50 more stresses such as ailing family and life changes such as menopause etc and it’s more irregular .. it is what it is and can kind of become less important as other stuff happens around you"

I can understand that to some extent, personally I feel the stresses of family life, work, money etc were worse with young children and not so much now they are older, yes we are grandparents and we still have a teenager at home but life in general is easier now the children have grown up (to a degree lol)

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

All my past relationships were 24/7 7days a week which actually had more sex than communication at times

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By *amuelsquestMan
over a year ago

Sutton at hone

A big ZERO the moment

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

"Sexual activity" is generally 6 nights a week, though not always intercourse

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By *avid 50Man
over a year ago

kendal

Before we were married and up to having children, we enjoyed sex every day. Sometimes more often, when the children arrived, it was down to twice a week . Sex was more frequent during summer than winter because we both enjoyed outdoor sex, but as her menopause took hold her desire dwindled until she really couldn’t be bothered, so I joined fabswingers. Probably the same as most men on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we’re only counting penetration, I average 3-5 days a week. There are times it’s more and others where it’s less.

If we’re talking sexual activities excluding penetration once a day every day minimum.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

At the moment, about 2-3 times a year

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