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By *ivek68 OP   Man
over a year ago

york

How many men and women are on here without there other half knowing. Bet this is short lived lol

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By *aughtystaffs60Couple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

Eleventy leven would be my guess

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

173929.5

Mrs

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Does it matter what others are doing.

It's entirely their own choice which in turn means nobody else's business

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Plenty are.

It removes the option for informed, enthusiastic consent for me. So I prefer not to be involved

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Nope, my other half is here too so all above board.

Most women cheating, keep it on the low down op.

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By *ivek68 OP   Man
over a year ago

york

More response than I thought

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By *entle_lover_xMan
over a year ago

Great Dunmow

A lot of men and women. A lot of "couples" here too without their other halves knowing as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How many men and women are on here without there other half knowing. Bet this is short lived lol "

Op you think they will tell you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"More response than I thought "

Is that your wife in bed op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How many men and women are on here without there other half knowing. Bet this is short lived lol "

I get about 3 or 4 "do you mind I'm married/have a gf and she doesn't know?" messages a day. And that's the honest ones and messages I've actually opened/read, so we can probably double that figure at least. My rough guess based on that is 35-45% of men here. Can't say about the women. I'm ENM and always honest with my partners.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

42

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

More than will admit to it.

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By *entle_lover_xMan
over a year ago

Great Dunmow


"How many men and women are on here without there other half knowing. Bet this is short lived lol

I get about 3 or 4 "do you mind I'm married/have a gf and she doesn't know?" messages a day. And that's the honest ones and messages I've actually opened/read, so we can probably double that figure at least. My rough guess based on that is 35-45% of men here. Can't say about the women. I'm ENM and always honest with my partners."

I would have thought even a bit higher for men. Ladies not far off - maybe a touch lower but still quite high. Ladies just better at keeping it quiet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How many men and women are on here without there other half knowing. Bet this is short lived lol

I get about 3 or 4 "do you mind I'm married/have a gf and she doesn't know?" messages a day. And that's the honest ones and messages I've actually opened/read, so we can probably double that figure at least. My rough guess based on that is 35-45% of men here. Can't say about the women. I'm ENM and always honest with my partners.

I would have thought even a bit higher for men. Ladies not far off - maybe a touch lower but still quite high. Ladies just better at keeping it quiet "

This is sad but probably true. And they keep telling us humans are monogamous

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

It’s not for me.

And I was being cheated on the thought of them telling strangers they were cheating , like it’s admirable to be honest to them but not me, would just make it an even bigger betrayal

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By *ivek68 OP   Man
over a year ago

york

I was cheated on and as always the last to find out . She did eventually leave so I am definitely single

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loads. Both men and women, the men tend to be more vocal and more criticised, but there’s also a lot of “single” females on here also partnered up.

Everyone will have their own backstory / journey to being on here, you may (or may not) think some have more valid reasons than others but I guess it’s down to the individuals involved to live their lives as they please.

I think the key is to make clear to prospective meets your status up front, many people will meet cheaters, but many prefer not to. So informed choice is important.

I won’t judge anyone. Except those that think Rupauls Drag Race is elite entertainment. I’ll judge them

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