FabSwingers.com forum: How rough

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I would love to know your Limits how rough do you like sex to be

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

I don't like it rough at all. I prefer my sex to be exfoliated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't like it rough at all. I prefer my sex to be exfoliated."

FFS Nero.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like it when it went through a rough patch but got through with the help of sone uplifting memes and now supports other sex when the walls are closing in.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

How rough... Depends on the mood and vibe in the moment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP I think you should do a scale.

You know like a levels one to ten thing?

Just let us know what 1 would equate to and what ten would equate to.

And feel free to fill in the numbers in-between to make it easier for us all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How rough... Depends on the mood and vibe in the moment"

What sort of vibe and mood? Asking for a friend.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Depends on the mood and the situation and the dynamic.

My sadist wants to leave me black and purple and teary when the mood and location suits. Fantastic.

Some stranger trying to play rough can fuck the fuck off though

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By *eductive_chaosWoman
over a year ago

Northumberland

"I don't like it rough at all. I prefer my sex to be exfoliated."

HAHHAHAHHA That made me laugh so much!

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By *ichelle and DaveCouple
over a year ago

Tamworth

Michelle loves to be spanked to the extent where she’s asking me to do it harder, to the extent where I sometimes feel uncomfortable with how hard she’s asking for it.

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By *eliciousDiva69Woman
over a year ago

Schitts Creek

For me I don’t think it’s straightforward as it very much depends on the person I’m with, mood I’m in and the general overall vibe of the situation.

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
over a year ago

kent

As rough as she would like it to be x

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By *illy IdolMan
over a year ago

Midlands

"Michelle loves to be spanked to the extent where she’s asking me to do it harder, to the extent where I sometimes feel uncomfortable with how hard she’s asking for it. "

I have a chart for this you may find useful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP I think you should do a scale.

You know like a levels one to ten thing?

Just let us know what 1 would equate to and what ten would equate to.

And feel free to fill in the numbers in-between to make it easier for us all."

I'll wait for the scale.

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By *amuelsquestMan
over a year ago

Sutton at hone

Depends on the person you are with and that it’s all good

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"How rough... Depends on the mood and vibe in the moment

What sort of vibe and mood? Asking for a friend."

Kind of like Prey said. But not quite.

Sometimes I want the sex but my head space is not right for anything extreme. Angry sex yes please, but going in to the realms of bdsm, never a good idea when you are not level headed. Sometimes I want it a little more sensual, slower and about fully enjoying another person instead of that lust fueld need to just be rough and intense

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"OP I think you should do a scale.

You know like a levels one to ten thing?

Just let us know what 1 would equate to and what ten would equate to.

And feel free to fill in the numbers in-between to make it easier for us all.

I'll wait for the scale."

1 being light spanking

5 being choking spanking hair pulling

10 being degraded with marks left form cains ect

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

I mean, I'd prefer a high thread count Egyptian cotton situation, rather than a high grade sandpaper.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would love to know your Limits how rough do you like sex to be"

Define rough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP I think you should do a scale.

You know like a levels one to ten thing?

Just let us know what 1 would equate to and what ten would equate to.

And feel free to fill in the numbers in-between to make it easier for us all.

I'll wait for the scale.

1 being light spanking

5 being choking spanking hair pulling

10 being degraded with marks left form cains ect

10 "

10 is basically sadomasochism which for a reactivity vanilla place like fab would be way beyond the realms of rough sex.

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford

"OP I think you should do a scale.

You know like a levels one to ten thing?

Just let us know what 1 would equate to and what ten would equate to.

And feel free to fill in the numbers in-between to make it easier for us all.

I'll wait for the scale.

1 being light spanking

5 being choking spanking hair pulling

10 being degraded with marks left form cains ect

10 "

Interesting question and they joy of a woman's minds

As to the pleasure she gets .

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

10 is definitely not my cup of tea tbh

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By *inkedKuntsCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

"OP I think you should do a scale.

You know like a levels one to ten thing?

Just let us know what 1 would equate to and what ten would equate to.

And feel free to fill in the numbers in-between to make it easier for us all.

I'll wait for the scale.

1 being light spanking

5 being choking spanking hair pulling

10 being degraded with marks left form cains ect

10 "

TBH, your 10 is probably like our 3

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"OP I think you should do a scale.

You know like a levels one to ten thing?

Just let us know what 1 would equate to and what ten would equate to.

And feel free to fill in the numbers in-between to make it easier for us all.

I'll wait for the scale.

1 being light spanking

5 being choking spanking hair pulling

10 being degraded with marks left form cains ect

TBH, your 10 is probably like our 3

Love to know what your ten is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Vanilla bores me to tears. Can't do it.

Love rougher

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

"I don't like it rough at all. I prefer my sex to be exfoliated."

Smooth !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP I think you should do a scale.

You know like a levels one to ten thing?

Just let us know what 1 would equate to and what ten would equate to.

And feel free to fill in the numbers in-between to make it easier for us all.

I'll wait for the scale.

1 being light spanking

5 being choking spanking hair pulling

10 being degraded with marks left form cains ect

10 "

I might be around a five ISH. Maybe more? hair pulled, boobs slapped, bitten, clawed, nails dug in, hand round my neck pinning me, or just pinning me but fucking me hard, especially from behind. I want to hear him swear and growl, I want the spanks to sting. But I'm also the type to goad and challenge when I'm in a certain mood and tell him to 'go harder' and 'fucking give it to me', and say things like 'is that all you've got?', or 'you can do better than that'. Or I can be no words if that's his instruction and not goad him at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One question though does 5 include marks too?

Or is that only on 10?

Just curious.

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Anywhere between one and seventeen

LvM

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"OP I think you should do a scale.

You know like a levels one to ten thing?

Just let us know what 1 would equate to and what ten would equate to.

And feel free to fill in the numbers in-between to make it easier for us all.

I'll wait for the scale.

1 being light spanking

5 being choking spanking hair pulling

10 being degraded with marks left form cains ect

That's sound perfect fun

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"Anywhere between one and seventeen

LvM"

17 is our favourite number

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love wanking with sandpaper

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One persons rough is another persons normal

One persons normal is another persons kink or vanilla

You can’t put a number on it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One persons rough is another persons normal

One persons normal is another persons kink or vanilla

You can’t put a number on it "

Total agree

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"OP I think you should do a scale.

You know like a levels one to ten thing?

Just let us know what 1 would equate to and what ten would equate to.

And feel free to fill in the numbers in-between to make it easier for us all.

I'll wait for the scale.

1 being light spanking

5 being choking spanking hair pulling

10 being degraded with marks left form cains ect

The fun rough!

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Totally depends on the person and the vibe. Just read the body language.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also surely doesn’t it depend on who you are with and the dynamic of the session.

A stranger doing anything “rough” would not give me the same mental stimulation as someone you know.

It starts and ends in the head for me, a long time before anything “rough” or not happens.

Trust and communication is paramount

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Rough comes from a state of mind in my book, the rest is just add on.

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By *angero3aMan
over a year ago

swords

yes was with a married couple a few year ago and the mrs only want rough in front of her hubby .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP I think you should do a scale.

You know like a levels one to ten thing?

Just let us know what 1 would equate to and what ten would equate to.

And feel free to fill in the numbers in-between to make it easier for us all.

I'll wait for the scale.

1 being light spanking

5 being choking spanking hair pulling

10 being degraded with marks left form cains ect

10 "

What if marks are fun but degradation is always a no? Masochist does not automatically mean degradee, and vice versa, they are separate kinks.

But like others have said, "it depends". The dynamic, the day, my mood. Anything from 1-8 on the S&M only scale. Both giving and receiving as I'm switch sado-mas, you can leave the degradation at 0 always.

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By *heekyDemandCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

"Depends on the mood and the situation and the dynamic.

My sadist wants to leave me black and purple and teary when the mood and location suits. Fantastic.

Some stranger trying to play rough can fuck the fuck off though

I can imagine the scenes, when you batter them senseless. An angry 6ft Valkyrie warrior and a naked man. Fetch me the popcorn.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want him to pull my hair but not descalp me.

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By *ostindreamsMan
over a year ago

London

I love humiliation and can take it to any extreme. When it comes to pain, I love it but my pain threshold is low. Same with pegging. I love it hard and fast, but I prefer very small dildos.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Like rougher than silk but lighter than sandpaper.

Mrs

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Not one for rough but more intense equally

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

Depends if she's into it. If she is and is telling me how much she wants to be fucking fucked...well then I'll fucking fuck her if you know what I'm fucking saying.

Rawr

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

" What if marks are fun but degradation is always a no? Masochist does not automatically mean degradee, and vice versa, they are separate kinks."

This too. Impact play I can be double figures. Humiliation and degradation are zero always

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

I think when rough is used it needs to be stated if its vanilla rough, or bdsm rough. And then go from there.

Rough fucking is one thing, it's just rough vanilla with a few extras.

Bdsm rough is a whole other kind of rough that even the lower end will be too much for a lot of people.

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

"I think when rough is used it needs to be stated if its vanilla rough, or bdsm rough. And then go from there.

Rough fucking is one thing, it's just rough vanilla with a few extras.

Bdsm rough is a whole other kind of rough that even the lower end will be too much for a lot of people. "

Oh yeah fuck blood and stuff. That ain't the one for me.

It still has to be fun and playful, I would never fuck anyone that wanted me to INJURE the poor thing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think when rough is used it needs to be stated if its vanilla rough, or bdsm rough. And then go from there.

Rough fucking is one thing, it's just rough vanilla with a few extras.

Bdsm rough is a whole other kind of rough that even the lower end will be too much for a lot of people. "

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I’m often surprised how rough women actually can take and keeps upping my version of normal, then occasionally you meet someone quite vanilla and have to almost reset! I’d say 7/10 compared to others here I’ve met & played with. I don’t like surprises either! Gradual build up

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By *heekyDemandCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

" What if marks are fun but degradation is always a no? Masochist does not automatically mean degradee, and vice versa, they are separate kinks.

This too. Impact play I can be double figures. Humiliation and degradation are zero always

(Mr)

Miss and I attend kink events, she gets to mark me, it can be really intense but the pain is alongside aftercare and no humiliation at all. Everyone gets what they need, a few bruises, whip marks, cane marks, scratches, but nothing permanent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like my sex like my women…,

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By *929Man
over a year ago

bedlington

I don’t like rough prefer it passionate with one exception of having my mouth spat in (passionately though if that’s possible haha)

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

"I don't like it rough at all. I prefer my sex to be exfoliated.

FFS Nero."

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Yes! She smiled!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would love to know your Limits how rough do you like sex to be"

It depends who I'm with and what type of rough you mean. One ex liked rough sex, was enthusiastic about the BDSM, but wary too. A fwb liked sex with a bit of spice and was willing to try a bit rougher but that didn't feel right with him. My ex partner liked BDSM and could be a proper arse, lulling me into a false sense of security then bam, it wasn't, the sex though was varied it could be softer, but also have BDSM carried through there was always lots of after care hugs. My current Fwb/partner/not sure how to class it again is into the BDSM, I'm really looking forward to exploring more of this with him. The sex is a brilliant mixture again. I know I've mentioned what this partner liked or that one, what I'm trying to say is I really enjoyed it all. Lots. So I can enjoy vanilla and the BDSM. But with the BDSM my tastes will vary with who I am with, what they can get out of me, what limits they can play around but even then, I don't know how I would compare to someone else, and to be fair, without realising I've been there, done that and felt shit. I am what I am. So I could count myself as liking it rough, but not sure how rough.

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