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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So I am struggling I have met a few guys on the site and almost all of them struggled to keep his solider in salute.Based on the attentions I receive I would like to think I am a little attractive.Other crossdresser don’t seem to be having a similar problem as I see them posting their videos getting plowed. Is there anyway I could reduce the frequency of this happening or predict which guys will be afflicted before a meet. It has started to affect my confidence.

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

You look gorgeous, it's not you.

It's not always easy keeping it up.

Personally I get distracted really easily and when my mind is elsewhere my cock usually just gives up.

Also, when it does go down it can play on a guys mind and that can make him struggle to get it up again.

All I cam suggest is that if it does happen, just make the guy feel comfortable, take his mind off it in some way and hopefully he'll get back in to it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you so much for your kind words cos I was really freaking out when I noticed the pattern. I will try and I always do try make them feel comfortable and it’s normally people we have spoken to for a while so I assumed they would be comfortable.

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By *apnDomMan
over a year ago

London | Belfast


"So I am struggling I have met a few guys on the site and almost all of them struggled to keep his solider in salute.Based on the attentions I receive I would like to think I am a little attractive.Other crossdresser don’t seem to be having a similar problem as I see them posting their videos getting plowed. Is there anyway I could reduce the frequency of this happening or predict which guys will be afflicted before a meet. It has started to affect my confidence. "

You got a dick, too. So you know just as much as we do. Honestly.

Either way... If a guy is out of shape he is obviously likely to have a flat erection.

I don't have problems (yet dreading the day that'll come... ) but even I notice the difference between now and back when I was buff.

Also some word of wisdom: Other people are full of crap sometimes, they only let you see what they want you to see. They may not seem to struggle with it, but only because they don't show you the moments when they deal with limp dicks. That's just conveniently cut out and forgotten.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

I had this issue a couple of times, one guy admitted after that he had a porn addiction and had previously masturbated far too frequently, from a young age and now there was only a 50% chance of him getting hard enough for sex. He was only 30... I thought that was quite sad, just shows how much of a problem it can be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had this issue a couple of times, one guy admitted after that he had a porn addiction and had previously masturbated far too frequently, from a young age and now there was only a 50% chance of him getting hard enough for sex. He was only 30... I thought that was quite sad, just shows how much of a problem it can be. "

Common issue now, even in young men. It’s written about more and more in psychology pieces…porn is having a devastating effect on men’s ability to not just gain and maintain and erection, but everything from delayed and premature ejaculation, expectations during sex, how sex is actually played out through to even basic stuff like forming relationships. There are a number of Reddit forums dedicated to helping men break their porn habit.

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

keep away from porn its not good

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By *apnDomMan
over a year ago

London | Belfast

Oh god, I may stop watching porn now.

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By *hriscooperMan
over a year ago

Warrington

I definitely think that 90% of the time it's all in the mind.

If you aren't relaxed, and put loads of pressure eon yourself to make it the best it can be, inevitably it's a flip.. Literally.

Then once you start to think it's gonna go limp, you can't stop yourself thinking about it and it dies a death..

I had this after I got divorced years ago because my mojo was in the gutter, and the only way to wake my mate up was to completely have a 10 minute break, have a brew or something normal and then low and behold, because your mind isn't worried about it, it's all good again.

Next time it happens, give him a massage, try to have a laugh, both will take his mind off the floppy cock syndrome and hopefully you can then turn him over and he will take your eye out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had this issue a couple of times, one guy admitted after that he had a porn addiction and had previously masturbated far too frequently, from a young age and now there was only a 50% chance of him getting hard enough for sex. He was only 30... I thought that was quite sad, just shows how much of a problem it can be.

Common issue now, even in young men. It’s written about more and more in psychology pieces…porn is having a devastating effect on men’s ability to not just gain and maintain and erection, but everything from delayed and premature ejaculation, expectations during sex, how sex is actually played out through to even basic stuff like forming relationships. There are a number of Reddit forums dedicated to helping men break their porn habit."

I dated a guy with a porn addiction and only his own hand could make him cum. He was only 26 at the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I definitely think that 90% of the time it's all in the mind.

If you aren't relaxed, and put loads of pressure eon yourself to make it the best it can be, inevitably it's a flip.. Literally.

Then once you start to think it's gonna go limp, you can't stop yourself thinking about it and it dies a death..

I had this after I got divorced years ago because my mojo was in the gutter, and the only way to wake my mate up was to completely have a 10 minute break, have a brew or something normal and then low and behold, because your mind isn't worried about it, it's all good again.

Next time it happens, give him a massage, try to have a laugh, both will take his mind off the floppy cock syndrome and hopefully you can then turn him over and he will take your eye out. "

This is great advice. This.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whatttt!!! porn can stop you getting hard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whatttt!!! porn can stop you getting hard "

More accurately, pen can stop you getting hard with a real life, walking, talking person. There are loads of studies done confirming the effects of excessive porn on men’s ability to maintain an erection…among other sexual performance issues.

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