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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

When your feeling pretty shit n down on stuff what do you do to give yourself that much needed and vital kick up the arse?

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By *r mrs pCouple
over a year ago

taunton


"When your feeling pretty shit n down on stuff what do you do to give yourself that much needed and vital kick up the arse?"

Remember that there are people far worse off than us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I take myself off for a long walk, clears my mind and relaxes me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A large jamesons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When your feeling pretty shit n down on stuff what do you do to give yourself that much needed and vital kick up the arse?"
well it can take months ,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go out for a walk or just go for a night out or at a friends house it will get better

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By *ub bbwWoman
over a year ago

oldbury

I tend to have a day of snuggling up and thinking about things then tell myself tomorrow's another day and I will before motivated. If I get up and I'm not then I make myself start a job then normally I'm motivated to continue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think best thing is to mix with people who care for you ... do things that make you happy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just take my dogs out for a long walk, no idea why but always feel better when ive been on a long walk and had time to think

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

Make a voodoo doll of the person who's upset you. Buy a giant box of pins and your off!

Failing that face pic on a dartboard works well!

Honestly tho... If something or someone has really upset me I try not to bottle it up, chick flick, tub of ice cream, have a good cry and tomorrow is a new day xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Make a voodoo doll of the person who's upset you. Buy a giant box of pins and your off!

Failing that face pic on a dartboard works well!

Honestly tho... If something or someone has really upset me I try not to bottle it up, chick flick, tub of ice cream, have a good cry and tomorrow is a new day xx "
my god you really know how to get it out , lol no bottling for you ,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I give my head a shake and think things could always be worse and crack on with life.

Oh and ice cream whilst im thinking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A hot bath, a defuzz, wash my hair, do my skincare regime and tell myself that enough is enough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A long walk or some exercise helps to clear my head... That and chocolate or cake!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I just take a few extra tablets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Make a voodoo doll of the person who's upset you. Buy a giant box of pins and your off!

Failing that face pic on a dartboard works well!

Honestly tho... If something or someone has really upset me I try not to bottle it up, chick flick, tub of ice cream, have a good cry and tomorrow is a new day xx "

AWWWW how could anyone upset someone as cute as that i'll come and cuddle you

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By *rsIdiotWoman
over a year ago

Bedworth


"I just take my dogs out for a long walk, no idea why but always feel better when ive been on a long walk and had time to think"

I take my dog for a long walk too. It helps me clear my head and always lifts my mood

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When your feeling pretty shit n down on stuff what do you do to give yourself that much needed and vital kick up the arse?"

I don't tend to get down about things! I always think about the positive things in my life, and there is always someone worse of somewhere in the world

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By *exy firemanMan
over a year ago

essex


"When your feeling pretty shit n down on stuff what do you do to give yourself that much needed and vital kick up the arse?

I don't tend to get down about things! I always think about the positive things in my life, and there is always someone worse of somewhere in the world "

i put my running shoes on and push myself to my limits! always works for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spring/cleaning....seems so trivial but it keeps me and my mind occupied

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

if i need a cry i have a film i now will do the trick every time

if i just need to smile i will spend time with my niece and nephew

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try thinking of a children's hospice. That will soon put your very small troubles into perspective

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Long walks or quiet time usually works for me.. Gives me time to reflect and mull over issues, so I can de clutter my head !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a rant on here tends to help me as I don't have many friends in Surrey and can't travel that well at the moment but things always look worse than they really are and yes there are people a lot worse off. Talking helps me. Here if you ever want a chat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Watching Jeremy Kyle always works for me!!

Or sending long, well thought out and devastatingly witty 3 page replies to shite 4 word messages from the occasional moron on here and waiting to see if they reply back! Most don't !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get out and see my friends, always cheers me up and takes my mind off everything, and sometimes they might be going through stuff as well and that reminds me I'm not the only one going through stuff.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Watching Jeremy Kyle always works for me!!

Or sending long, well thought out and devastatingly witty 3 page replies to shite 4 word messages from the occasional moron on here and waiting to see if they reply back! Most don't ! "

What they put please after fancy a shag , wow at least they were polite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Try thinking of a children's hospice. That will soon put your very small troubles into perspective"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I have just received some good news of a friend.... That's always a good pick me up!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A drive in my car along twisty roads with the stereo blasting out songs from Queen, so loud that I cannot hear myself sing let alone think.

It clears my head and I feel a lot better after that.

A brisk walk with the dog or a cuddle with the cat will always cheer me up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Watching Jeremy Kyle always works for me!!

Or sending long, well thought out and devastatingly witty 3 page replies to shite 4 word messages from the occasional moron on here and waiting to see if they reply back! Most don't ! "

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me music is like a medicine I can control a lot of how I feel and my motivation using it. Very strange but works very well for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Counting my blessings always helps, as I am very fortunate when compared with many others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's true, six corona and an episode of Jeremy Kyle will make you laugh till your face nearly falls off........ Ah wan a dee enn yay test fi ma buby, I slept with ma boyfriends brother, but my da has got so ethi g te dee with it, and ma neighbours dogs on smack....... It's amazingly comical to think the peoe on that show have survived unaided in this world for as long as they have!!!! Staggering intact. Failing that, watch the lorax, the fish get me every time !! Lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exercise, music up loud and remembering that every time I have felt the same in the past I have survived it and moved on to happier times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

New socks hair cut 3.5 grams of pure base go for a weekend out. Now I remind myself that what goes around comes around so whoever has done some upsetting can one day have a big fall and I will be. There laughing the loudest.

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