FabSwingers.com forum: Slut

By *a1970 OP Man
over a year ago

East cork

The word slut is such a huge turn off for me... I think its degrading and I hate it been used. Anyone else feel the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think it's supposed to be degrading that's why it's used as an insult

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By *hromosexualsCouple
over a year ago

Near Abercynon

It doesn't do anything for me either, but each to their own.

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By *obilebottomMan
over a year ago

All over

"The word slut is such a huge turn off for me... I think its degrading and I hate it been used. Anyone else feel the same. "

Did someone call you that on here?

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

No. It is a word that is wrapped up in intent and context.

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I wouldn't be keen on someone directing it at me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Didn’t originally mean a woman who didn’t keep up with her housework?

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By *ealMissShadyWoman
over a year ago

St Albans/ Welsh Borders

"Didn’t originally mean a woman who didn’t keep up with her housework?"

I am definitely a slut then

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Didn’t originally mean a woman who didn’t keep up with her housework?"

Yes, dirty and untidy woman

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
over a year ago

kent

"No. It is a word that is wrapped up in intent and context."

This.

I once had a friend here who loved being called a slut. It was almost a term of endearment between us.

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
over a year ago

kent

"Didn’t originally mean a woman who didn’t keep up with her housework?"

Is this true? How interesting how the meaning of a word can shift.

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By *hiny-SinnersCouple
over a year ago

Vale of Glamorgan

I like to own the term so that it loses its negative connotation and instead becomes a statement of intent

Mrs S

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By *illy IdolMan
over a year ago

Midlands

"Didn’t originally mean a woman who didn’t keep up with her housework?"

That's a lazy slut

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By *ixie888Woman
over a year ago

Newcastle under Lyme

"Didn’t originally mean a woman who didn’t keep up with her housework?

Yes, dirty and untidy woman"

I think that's a slattern

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Didn’t originally mean a woman who didn’t keep up with her housework?

Yes, dirty and untidy woman

I think that's a slattern

Slutte

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The word slut is such a huge turn off for me... I think its degrading and I hate it been used. Anyone else feel the same. "

its the person and attitude that makes the word derogatory. the word slut is simply someone who enjoys casual sex. so it depends how you use it and the tone and context of it being used. when my lady is getting fucked she likes being a good little slut, but from someone just to call her it out of the blue is out of order.

with everything its about perception

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By *mf123Man
over a year ago

with one foot out the door

But what if it makes em wetter than the hoover dam

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

can't stand the term

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By *orphia2003Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.

Really don't like the term at all.

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By *oddess NailaWoman
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

I would hate to be labelled a slut or called one in the form of an insult however as part of consensual role play I love being called and treated like one!

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

I have zero issues with it... You can call me a slut as much as you want.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"I have zero issues with it... You can call me a slut as much as you want.

A slut for slut?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each to their own but not for me at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ehh, to me it's like skank or slag, its more of a turn off to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, I love it when he growls my little slut at me as he pounds me into oblivion.

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By *undayGirl 69Woman
over a year ago

Coalville

"But what if it makes em wetter than the hoover dam"

And it does!!

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Each person takes varying layers of offense to it, in a different ways tbf. I like to have casual sex with a variety of men, I am a promiscuous slut

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

Sorry to hear you got called a sl*t, OP.

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By *olf and RedCouple
over a year ago

Nr Cardiff or at Chams Darlaston

If Wolf calls me it , I’m all good with that. Don’t want anyone else to say it though.

Red

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By *ustincamebridgeCouple
over a year ago

manchester

"I would hate to be labelled a slut or called one in the form of an insult however as part of consensual role play I love being called and treated like one! "

This

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By *mf123Man
over a year ago

with one foot out the door

"But what if it makes em wetter than the hoover dam

And it does!! "
knew i was onto something

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By *ocoTemptationMan
over a year ago

london

I'm somewhat torn I too hate the word when it's used disrespectfully.

However on the flip side for me an ongoing situationship/relationship with a woman who has fully embraced her inner s*ut is the kind of dynamic I most desire.

I'm an out of the closet card carrying sl*t worshipper so I'm forever turn between being transparant about what I most desire and not causing offence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like it in the right context. Like if he calls me HIS slut etc

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By *aria_dreamgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

stockport

I like being slutty

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By *inkedKuntsCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

"Nope, I love it when he growls my little slut at me as he pounds me into oblivion. "

This, all of this. Mrs x

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Depends how it's being used. If it's yelled angrily in the street because that well fit bird didn't react to a wholf whistle, then yeah, not great.

If however, it's being softly growled in private while she's on her knees and worshipping a cock. Well I know some ladies who would enjoy that

LvM

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By *ocoTemptationMan
over a year ago

london

"I like it in the right context. Like if he calls me HIS slut etc

Exactly and when I'm in a group setting with a woman who embraces it I like wispering it in her ear so noone can hear....such a turn on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I call inanimate objects a slut like screws if I drop them is that ok

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By *ose manMan
over a year ago

kells

Man slut not a thing ..

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By *anniellaBiTSTV/TS
over a year ago

Bolton

It all depends on the context.

If I'm being fucked senseless, "you're a good slut, good fucking slut" will have me moaning like a... Well, good fucking slut.

Every day life, no. You will get a look that will borrow past all your defenses and make your ashamed to you're soul

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Used in the right context it's a turn on not a turn off.

Call me a dirty slut in the bedroom, turn on x

Call me a slut on the street turn off.

Call me a Lady that is a very insulting.

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By *ilBWoman
over a year ago

West Midlands

I agree with points made about being someones specific slut, it's cute, like they like you being filthy around them and they wanna call you slut because they like the work you're doing.

Someone shouting it in the street at me, nah.

Someone I barely know or just met, trying it..nah.

I'm a select slut for few.

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By *a1970 OP Man
over a year ago

East cork

Well I'm in the middle now, but I think I'd need to be asked to call a woman a slut in role play.... Maybe I'm more vanila

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

A slut is not just for Christmas. I love being a slut! (Mrs)

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By *umblefunMan
over a year ago

London/ South West (Devon, Somerset).

All depends on the context. If the moods right and you’re in the bedroom then good. If it’s in the street not good. Unless that’s your kink!

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

It doesn't have to be degrading. If it's degrading and consensual? That's absolutely fine.

I quite like being called someone's slut. It's like an affectionate term that helps me switch in to that mood. My mind is quite a busy place (understatement) but when I'm on my knees and someone tells me how good *their* pretty little slut looks? I want to be their slut more than anything in the world in that moment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It really does depend how and who is using it

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By *agebunWoman
over a year ago

Rugby

Like a lot of people have said, it's totally context dependent.

During sex it's usually a turn on. And with some people I treat it as a term of endearment from them (alongside others like pet)

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By *abrielle43Woman
over a year ago

Kildare

"The word slut is such a huge turn off for me... I think its degrading and I hate it been used. Anyone else feel the same. "

slut

noun [ C ]

/sl?t/ US

/sl?t/

slut noun [C]

(SEXUALLY ACTIVE WOMAN)

slang disapproving

a woman who has sexual relationships with a men without any emotional involvement

This particular definition is one I wouldn't find particularly derogatory, as it's true.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Would any slut like to suck my cock?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have never really done sub or slut play and I've never used the word with Penny. Tonight however I will be tying her to a chair, blind folding her and she will be my sub. She will definatley be called a slut at some point and made to orgasm watching lesbian porn, fucked with various objects and most likely made to listen to other guys tell her how dirty she is whilst they wank watching her on video call. It's all in the context and dynamic of the lifestyle people choose or the mood of the moment.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

Depends on the context. The other half calling me his slut when I'm riding him? Hell yes, probably makes me ride him after and for longer. Some random person calling me a slut and I'm not going to be happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would any slut like to suck my cock?

Have you put cream on it yet?

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I'm a happy slut. But only for the people I choose to be that way for.

People I haven't consented to that kind of thing with that try to call me that can go fuck themselves

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By *ose manMan
over a year ago

kells

Bollicks .. If you fancy the ride why not .. Women shaming .. Oh she was wearing boots or a skirt . more bollicks ... Have sum respect .. Lads ...

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By *ervice2000Man
over a year ago

derby

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By *ervice2000Man
over a year ago

derby

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By *inda May SimmonsTV/TS
over a year ago

hexham

"The word slut is such a huge turn off for me... I think its degrading and I hate it been used. Anyone else feel the same. "

I don’t mind it being used about me. I wouldn’t use it about anyone else unless they asked me to.

I mean if the cap fits and all that !

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By *hantelle-La-SlutTV/TS
over a year ago

South Birmingham

Well i have it in my name so i don't mind the word at all. I am one and proud of it.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

"It doesn't have to be degrading. If it's degrading and consensual? That's absolutely fine.

This…used in the right moment and with the right person it’s a huge turn on.

C has a trigger point where she goes from enjoying herself to a slutty stage where she wants the filthiest things

Would I say it anyone - no

Do I use it often - no

Do I use it in the moment and it excites us further? Oh yes

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By *ervice2000Man
over a year ago

derby

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It really depends on who is saying it and in what context.

Someone whispering it in my ear in particular moments yes.

A random calling me it no .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100% agree

"No. It is a word that is wrapped up in intent and context.

This.

I once had a friend here who loved being called a slut. It was almost a term of endearment between us. "

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By *ornyOAPMan
over a year ago

Fethiye

My wife is very sexy but is definitely not a slut, just enjoys sex

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By *histle do nicelyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow South

One of those words that people hate being called and can love being called..I hear more people complaining being called babe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A random calling me a slut, hell no.

But the right person, in the right scenario is a turn on for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Horrible word as an insult or to describe a woman.

However, during intense, hot sex with someone you respect and in the right moment - I love it! So does my wife.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Slut goes back centuries. Not sure why the meaning has changed because it was spelt slutte, and, meant a dirty, slovenly woman. The male version was sluttish, again to do with appearance.

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere else

"Didn’t originally mean a woman who didn’t keep up with her housework?"

That’s just FILTH, right there.

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By *r and Mrs MounCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Personally I quite like it , used in the right context, we use it in our profile , it’s a turn on and my husband loves to call me his little slut , used to be trainee but I guess that ship has now sailed

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By *hastity_roseTV/TS
over a year ago

Nowhere

I love it and need to be called it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I call myself a slut on my profile.

It all depends on the context.

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By *ddie1966Man
over a year ago

Paper Town Central, Essex.

Personally I find it derogatory and demeaning.

Sorry, but I could never utter this word to a person, no matter how much they may want me to.

Some may not agree with me and some may strongly disagree with me but I don't care.

It's just the way I roll.

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By *isterMushroomMan
over a year ago

Warrington

I love the word slut, filthy whore too. I hate the word slag and never use it

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By *ervice2000Man
over a year ago

derby

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By *ink vixenCouple
over a year ago

Medway

I hate virtue signalling.

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Think it depends on the circumstances. Mrs loves being called it durong foreplay. It's a bit like her saying use me when dirty talking during sex.

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By *inAndTonic21Couple
over a year ago

Merseyside

Just not a word we like either

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

"I hate virtue signalling. "

I hate Brussels sprouts

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By *erwentsidersCouple
over a year ago

Derwentside

"I like to own the term so that it loses its negative connotation and instead becomes a statement of intent

Mrs S"
we like this definition

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By *weetsmellingtreatsWoman
over a year ago

Gloucester

Context is key.

Messages from randoms calling me a slut wins a block.

Discussing what we like etc whilst engaging not so much of an issue, but it’s not my favourite word to be honest.

Also not keen on name calling during play either does nothing for me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s a odd one for me

Ie I am allowed to call myself it anytime I like

During the moment the people I am with are allowed to call me it

But outside off that I don’t like it

Normally you see me referring to it as the “ 4 letter bad word”

Or “5 letter bad word” for whore

I tend to refer to them as that in a public space like the forums as I know some don’t like the term

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the circumstances if im with a guy I know and he uses the word during sex then yeah it can be a turn on but to recieve a "hey slut" message from some guy whos watched too much porn then its the block list for him.. how dare he!

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By *ecretescapeCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire

Well a kink of mine during sex is being degraded so I love it.. any words like slut or worse!

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By *ecretescapeCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire

Yeah in the bedroom but if a guy just messages me hey slut.. He can fuck right off!!

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