FabSwingers.com forum: Is romance a dirty word?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

‘Not looking for romance’

See this quite often. Got me wondering what romance did to upset people.

. Is romance only for Feb 14th?

Musing.

Happy Monday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve never been any good at romance. I’m clumsy and it all goes wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They mean they don't want human interaction, just a fuck.

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By *hortishblondeWoman
over a year ago

Essex

Romance can be good but it don't happen much not for me.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Romance means different things to different people. I don't want hand holding, small gestures such as my favourite chocolate etc from fab meets. It doesn't mean I don't respect them

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Tonally want romance, love a bit of the boyfriend experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They mean they don't want human interaction, just a fuck.

Yes please

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By *avid 50Man
over a year ago

kendal

No romance isn’t dead, but you just do it as a matter, of course, a bunch of flowers and a bottle of Prosecco, a kiss on the cheek , a nibble on her earlobe is how I show my passion, we all do it differently.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They mean they don't want human interaction, just a fuck.

Yes please "

Hop on bbe!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Tonally want romance, love a bit of the boyfriend experience

Agreed!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Romance isn't a dirty word but not everyone wants it on a swinging site

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By *lamdaddyMan
over a year ago

London

It's fab, they don't want the drama of why didn't you text me back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would think on fab it is an inappropriate word

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By *odevilWoman
over a year ago

exeter

I'm allergic

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Vodevil is a dirty word!

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By *lamdaddyMan
over a year ago

London

"Vodevil is a dirty word!

I like her kai. How worried should I be?

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Vodevil is a dirty word!

I like her kai. How worried should I be?

You know when they say she will eat you alive, and not in the good way. That.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Romance rocks. Not necessarily hearts and flowers, but all the little bits.

Friends can give each other romance, as long as they each know where things are and aren't heading.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Vodevil is a dirty word!

I like her kai. How worried should I be?

You know when they say she will eat you alive, and not in the good way. That."

I'd pay to see this.

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

nah romance will never die

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a big softie and romantic with the right lady....just need to find the right lady....

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

It's a pristine word in my vocabulary and as welcome as Acid Jazz on a delightful summer's day.

Some others will take it or leave it.

I'll take it with relish.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tonally want romance, love a bit of the boyfriend experience

This.

Hand holding, snogging like teens, phone me because something in your day has reminded you of me, soppy messages, little gestures that make me feel that I am someone important to you, all of that. Plan activities and invite me along to be surprised by your plans. I’d do the same for you.

Please simply don’t buy me chocolates or flowers. They seem so thoughtless. As if, you googled and saw flowers and chocolates give you high marks in romantic scorekeeping.

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By *odevilWoman
over a year ago

exeter

"Vodevil is a dirty word!

And yet here you are putting it about! Filth.

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By *odevilWoman
over a year ago

exeter

"Vodevil is a dirty word!

I like her kai. How worried should I be?

You know when they say she will eat you alive, and not in the good way. That.

I'd pay to see this. "

Ooh I'd not thought of that! You get your ticket gratis since it was your idea

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

There are a lot of romantically broken folk on here.

I think they don’t want to get their fingers burnt again.

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By *esafinadOHolyNightMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I think I could be romantic on a social/meet, and not because I'm looking for anything more than just a fun night getting close to someone.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

I love a bit of romance.

I like clean romance. Cute romance. Temporary romance. Casual romance. Flirty romance and dirty romance. The sort that lasts a lifetime and the kind that lasts a night. I want it all.

And rah-rah, ah ah-ah, roma roma-ma, Gaga ooh-la-la, want your bad ro-mance.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

"Tonally want romance, love a bit of the boyfriend experience

This.

Please simply don’t buy me chocolates or flowers. They seem so thoughtless. As if, you googled and saw flowers and chocolates give you high marks in romantic scorekeeping. "

I like a bit of romance. I also like flowers. Obviously people have different boundaries and expectations.

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By *lamdaddyMan
over a year ago

London

"Vodevil is a dirty word!

I like her kai. How worried should I be?

You know when they say she will eat you alive, and not in the good way. That."

Oh she likes a nibble eh? I've had fish before I know how to deal with that

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By *odevilWoman
over a year ago

exeter

"Vodevil is a dirty word!

I like her kai. How worried should I be?

You know when they say she will eat you alive, and not in the good way. That.

Oh she likes a nibble eh? I've had fish before I know how to deal with that "

Oh yeah? Were they piranhas?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tonally want romance, love a bit of the boyfriend experience

This.

Please simply don’t buy me chocolates or flowers. They seem so thoughtless. As if, you googled and saw flowers and chocolates give you high marks in romantic scorekeeping. "

All of this...miss it...a lot.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I think it depends on what is meant by romance. I'll leave the jealousy, long term intentions, etc behind. None of those strings.

For me where it blurs is stuff like friendship. Back rubs, cuddles after the fact. Stuff I'd do with my platonic female friends - some people see that as romantic in the context of swinging. I don't, I think it makes it more fulfilling, less mechanical. (And anyone is entitled to feel differently)

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