FabSwingers.com forum: Guys who don't leave veris

By *uzie_jennifer_2 OP TV/TS
over a year ago

near Wembley

Met a few guys recently who refuse to leave veris.

I suspect its because I'm a tgirl and they're emabarrased for straight females to know they enjoyed playing with a tgirl.

Either way I find this sort of behaviour quite shameful. If you have a good time it's the decent thing to veri back

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By *ickyxxx99Man
over a year ago

Lewisham . Se London

They can veri you but ask that you don't publish it that way everyone is happy.

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By *iz78Woman
over a year ago

wirral

Like with everything on fab, you are not obliged to do anything. Freedom of choice

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
over a year ago

kent

We don’t leave veris anymore, and lots of people haven’t left them for us. It has nothing to do with being ashamed and everything to do with being private. There can be a lot of politics behind the scenes on Fab. If you want to remain neutral and drama free, it’s sometimes better not to announce who you meet.

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By *uffolkcouple-bi onlyCouple
over a year ago

Cwmbran

"Met a few guys recently who refuse to leave veris.

I suspect its because I'm a tgirl and they're emabarrased for straight females to know they enjoyed playing with a tgirl.

Either way I find this sort of behaviour quite shameful. If you have a good time it's the decent thing to veri back "

Do females actually check cd/tv profiles to see who has met them? I don’t think so. It’s more an issue if you verify them as it will show on their profile. Doesn’t matter what’s on your profile. So they can verify you without fear of it costing them a meet.

We always discuss verifications before people leave and tell guys if they want a veri to verify us and we’ll reciprocate.

I get why people might not display a veri but I’m not sure why someone wouldn’t want one.

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By *ilver2000Man
over a year ago

South West

It is not very respectful to not leave a veri. As previously mentioned you don't have to publicly display the veri if you don't want to.

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By *entle_lover_xMan
over a year ago

Great Dunmow

"Met a few guys recently who refuse to leave veris.

I suspect its because I'm a tgirl and they're emabarrased for straight females to know they enjoyed playing with a tgirl.

Either way I find this sort of behaviour quite shameful. If you have a good time it's the decent thing to veri back

We always discuss verifications before people leave and tell guys if they want a veri to verify us and we’ll reciprocate.

I get why people might not display a veri but I’m not sure why someone wouldn’t want one. "

Recently met a lady who didn't want one. Actually gave her one, so to speak, and then she asked if could delete it. The reason was that her regular FB has asked her out on something that night and she didn't want him to know she had met others. She obviously didn't display but showed on veri summary and she didn't want to suddenly hide it. Think lots of people don't want veris for various reasons especially if active in local swinging scene with parties or clubs and would rather not have everyone know who else they are meeting.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden

"We don’t leave veris anymore, and lots of people haven’t left them for us. It has nothing to do with being ashamed and everything to do with being private. There can be a lot of politics behind the scenes on Fab. If you want to remain neutral and drama free, it’s sometimes better not to announce who you meet. "

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A verification from you dear squire would be a privilege. And if it lead to any drama or such thespian-like behaviour then we could always reconvene at The Gielgud Theatre, Shaftesbury Avenue. ¶¶|..|¶

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"It is not very respectful to not leave a veri. As previously mentioned you don't have to publicly display the veri if you don't want to."

It’s a personal choice. You might not want everyone knowing your sex life or who you meet on here.

Lots of men and women don’t leave veris for that reason

When you leave a veri you have no control over whether it’s shown or not other than blocking the person, which definitely is disrespectful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Veris aren't that deep. If I've had a good time with someone I tell them directly, whole of fab don't need to know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Veris aren't that deep. If I've had a good time with someone I tell them directly, whole of fab don't need to know. "

I think some guys probably prefer them to look like an attractive prospect to others. If they had no veris, then that could be seen as a red flag to some women and couples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Veris aren't that deep. If I've had a good time with someone I tell them directly, whole of fab don't need to know.

I think some guys probably prefer them to look like an attractive prospect to others. If they had no veris, then that could be seen as a red flag to some women and couples."

Fair point but most of the time they just want their dick validating in public.

And women already know you're a stud on here hardly, don't need to know you've stuffed me like a turkey do they

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Veris aren't that deep. If I've had a good time with someone I tell them directly, whole of fab don't need to know.

I think some guys probably prefer them to look like an attractive prospect to others. If they had no veris, then that could be seen as a red flag to some women and couples.

Fair point but most of the time they just want their dick validating in public.

And women already know you're a stud on here hardly, don't need to know you've stuffed me like a turkey do they

But my dick craves validation! It's not enough that we know that I've banged you like a barn door in a storm, everyone must know!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I've had a good time I'll tell the guy, not the whole of fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Veris aren't that deep. If I've had a good time with someone I tell them directly, whole of fab don't need to know.

I think some guys probably prefer them to look like an attractive prospect to others. If they had no veris, then that could be seen as a red flag to some women and couples.

Fair point but most of the time they just want their dick validating in public.

And women already know you're a stud on here hardly, don't need to know you've stuffed me like a turkey do they

But my dick craves validation! It's not enough that we know that I've banged you like a barn door in a storm, everyone must know!

Say no more

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
over a year ago

kent

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Perhaps we’ll write something just for you my dear Friend, but ask you kindly not to publish… just in case

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

It's easier without.

Socially? Fine. I'd never leave or display one from those I've had sex with. Not because I'm ashamed, not because I think bad of them or anything like that. I just like keeping things relatively simple.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

If they promise a veri, get them to write and submit it, before they've cum

. Initiate a pause in proceedings, as once they've shot their load, you may never see/hear from them again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We ask people who meet us not to leave veri's as we don't give veri's, it's up to everyone if they want advertise who they have been with or not.

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By *obyn GravesTV/TS
over a year ago

1127 walnut avenue

I ain't bothered really... I've enough already and plenty of photos to prove I'm genuine...I always leave them though... some haven't returned the favour ...I just see it they didn't like meeting me...so wont meet them again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If veris mean that much to you maybe consider not meeting guys who are going to be ashamed to admit meeting you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think verifications are a bit weird, but that's me.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

"They can veri you but ask that you don't publish it that way everyone is happy."

That's still a bit underhand.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

What’s the big thing about veris. Couldn’t think of anything worse than everyone knowing who I meet and don’t meet. It’s not compulsory and it doesn’t mean people who don’t show them are timewasters. The need and importance put on veris has always baffled me.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I've met a couple of women more than once over the years who have never verified me even though I have written them one.

They have never displayed any of my verifications.

They claim they don't write them anymore but from what I can see they are just selective in who they write them for and what ones they will display.

I always assumed they just didn't want certain others to know they had met me.

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By *oJo pornstarMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Met a few guys recently who refuse to leave veris.

I suspect its because I'm a tgirl and they're emabarrased for straight females to know they enjoyed playing with a tgirl.

Either way I find this sort of behaviour quite shameful. If you have a good time it's the decent thing to veri back "
It's not shameful to not want to advertise about every shag you have had on de tinternet.

Do you make a list for all the world to see, of every person you have booked?

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Lots of people do that OP, I like you find it distasteful and I soon become unavailable to them. If the discussion is had before hand, then fair doo's, but I'd wouldn't meet anyone who feels the need to hide that he has met me, they can go meet someone else.

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By *hortishblondeWoman
over a year ago

Essex

Not all of us want or need to show a veri. If I show give or show its my choice

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By *illy IdolMan
over a year ago

Midlands

This is bang on.

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By *hortishblondeWoman
over a year ago

Essex

This is bang on."

So true

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over a year ago

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By *uzie_jennifer_2 OP TV/TS
over a year ago

near Wembley

"If veris mean that much to you maybe consider not meeting guys who are going to be ashamed to admit meeting you.

Veris or not, I'm not keen on meeting guys who are ashamed of it.

That's out of order imo

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By *uzie_jennifer_2 OP TV/TS
over a year ago

near Wembley

"What’s the big thing about veris. Couldn’t think of anything worse than everyone knowing who I meet and don’t meet. It’s not compulsory and it doesn’t mean people who don’t show them are timewasters. The need and importance put on veris has always baffled me. "

It shows that your genuine, not a timewaster, and you get to hear what others think of your.

Everyone can toot their own horn, harder to have someone toot it for you .

The amount of guys on here who tell me all sorts of things, I prefer to hear it from a third party

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If veris mean that much to you maybe consider not meeting guys who are going to be ashamed to admit meeting you.

Veris or not, I'm not keen on meeting guys who are ashamed of it.

That's out of order imo"

It is. Maybe consider how you’re screening them. If they are meeting you they should not feel a need to hide the fact.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

You have plenty of verifications op isn't that enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I check out veri,s. I think it's nice to give one.

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By *eronicaExplorerWoman
over a year ago

London

Good Evening. When I signed here, I couldn't believe this kind of Verification-Tripadvice -Sexual-System. WTF all these guys selling you to the masses writing “Don't let pass the opportunity… treat her well…She is not going to disappoint you…” I hated it and I promised myself that I never, never, never would be verified for anybody. Well, almost true until a charming man wrote something beautiful about me, that I couldn't help to publish immediately. I'm so easy.

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By *oublesixesMan
over a year ago

Corby

It's not only men, some couples don't verify either

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

"Met a few guys recently who refuse to leave veris.

I suspect its because I'm a tgirl and they're emabarrased for straight females to know they enjoyed playing with a tgirl.

Either way I find this sort of behaviour quite shameful. If you have a good time it's the decent thing to veri back "

Why? Don't get it. Why does anyone need a veri? Nobody needs to know apart from the folks who had a nice time together.

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

Does what it says on the tin. Sucks like a pro. Treat with respect blabla..

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