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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What are they?

Am I here looking for unbuckled steam trains,and, why is everyone screaming is my carriage connected to your nuts and bolts. What is this connection fab swingers scream more about?

Do you really know what your connection is?

I know of connect 4.

My struggle with connection more than conversation. How can I connect with people, what is it am I needing to spot amongst needles in haystack.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

For me yes it's part conversation but it's also how much I can relax and enjoy the other person's company, if I can let myself be myself around them & not feel awkward which for me is tricky.

A good laugh, similar sense of humour, easy to be around that's my connection & what I look for.

I guess it's different for everyone.

Mrs

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I think you either connect or you don't. Its basically whether you get on with someone you find attractive. I don't think there's any more to it than that

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By *hriscooperMan
over a year ago

Warrington

Mine is that I love to please others, it's an amazing feeling to make someone cum or to show them something they've been missing.

Also like that feeling of being wanted too!

Nothing quite like that feeling of when you can literally tell by the look in their face that they are dying to tear your clothes off.

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By *4bimMan
over a year ago

Farnborough Hampshire

Just relax see where it goes with no pressure.

If you want to meet both should get to that stage when happy. If not don't worry.

Don't put to much pressure on yourself

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset


"I think you either connect or you don't. Its basically whether you get on with someone you find attractive. I don't think there's any more to it than that"

100% this

some under think it and alot over think it .. attraction is key as is getting on but its swinging not dating you just dont need to know the full ins n out that some seems to want to know rhat have you running for the hills.

sexual attraction is everything if its not there then we are deffo not meeting

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I think you either connect or you don't. Its basically whether you get on with someone you find attractive. I don't think there's any more to it than that

100% this

some under think it and alot over think it .. attraction is key as is getting on but its swinging not dating you just dont need to know the full ins n out that some seems to want to know rhat have you running for the hills.

sexual attraction is everything if its not there then we are deffo not meeting"

Some people seem to want far more from me than I'm prepared to give. Back in the late 70s when we were in our twenties we would meet someone in a bar or club, have a couple of drinks, a chat and a laugh and if we found each other attractive spend the night together. No fuss, no drama.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are on the same wavelength, want the same things.. They dig you, you sub them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Vibe is a better word for it, connection is more relationship based. Someone who is basically your bro but also want to rip their clothes off.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Common ground, shared life experience, I need something I can relate to. I need to feel safe.

That "connection" is quite rare.

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By *esafinadOHolyNightMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"Vibe is a better word for it, connection is more relationship based. Someone who is basically your bro but also want to rip their clothes off. "

This sounds about right

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Can’t put your finger on it but you know it when you see it. It’s a meeting of minds. Pure fire.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Vibe is a better word for it, connection is more relationship based. Someone who is basically your bro but also want to rip their clothes off. "

This works.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling


"Vibe is a better word for it, connection is more relationship based. Someone who is basically your bro but also want to rip their clothes off. "

Somewhere between the two for me. I agree connection can feel a bit to much in a lot of cases. But for me vibe feels just a little less personal than I require too.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

For one to ones connection was Good but for multiples and gangbangs it was just about the fucking

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By *illy IdolMan
over a year ago

Midlands

I'm just happy if they laugh at my jokes to be honest

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