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"I’m absolutely awful at that but the main reason is I don’t want to appear clingy or needy. That unfortunately backfires on me, because people think I’m no longer interested, when I’m fact, I am! For that very reason I am back on telegram and slowly catching up. " This is EXACTLY how I feel. Don’t want to come across as clingy or needy, but then if a few weks go by with no contact, then it gnaws at me haha. Work keeps me away from thinking such things, but then I am home and I overthink ![]() | |||
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"How good are you at this? In a Fab context- I am sure you’re all very good at keeping in touch with close friends and family. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() once a year whether they need it or not ![]() | |||
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"Don't put off keeping in touch else you might not get the chance again." Sorry for your loss, fella. I sympathise, having been at a funeral on Thursday for a mate I hadn’t seen in a while. Send the message. Make the call. Say hi. People are what’s important in this world. Make time for them. | |||
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"Don't put off keeping in touch else you might not get the chance again. Sorry for your loss, fella. I sympathise, having been at a funeral on Thursday for a mate I hadn’t seen in a while. Send the message. Make the call. Say hi. People are what’s important in this world. Make time for them." Sorry to hear that. Agreed RTG ![]() | |||
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"Away from Fab I tried to ring and old colleague who retired for a catch up. He rang back when I was busy and forgot to try again. I found out today he has passed away. Don't put off keeping in touch else you might not get the chance again." Ah that is sad.. I had something similar with my friends mum - she seemed to be rallying so i didn't prioritise visiting the next day.. And she passed ![]() | |||
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"Away from Fab I tried to ring and old colleague who retired for a catch up. He rang back when I was busy and forgot to try again. I found out today he has passed away. Don't put off keeping in touch else you might not get the chance again. Ah that is sad.. I had something similar with my friends mum - she seemed to be rallying so i didn't prioritise visiting the next day.. And she passed ![]() Sorry to hear that x | |||
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"Off fab... I can be excellent. And I can be awful. And I'm often worried about sending a message after some time has passed. Not because I've not been thinking of the person, but because I've over thought... more often than not, that's if the last communication we had wasn't clear if it needed a reply,or I felt like they didn't want to hear from me... and the brain goblins start telling me they don't really want to hear from me. I'm known for not going into my fab inbox. I just don't, because I haven't the spoons. Although some days I can be good at it, and have a flowing conversation. But I forget about it, because I don't always log on to fab... or I get caught up in the forum. So I tend to try and move conversations to other messaging services instead... that way I see notifications. " Get out of my brain woman cause I was going to type pretty much the same. ![]() | |||
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"Off fab... I can be excellent. And I can be awful. And I'm often worried about sending a message after some time has passed. Not because I've not been thinking of the person, but because I've over thought... more often than not, that's if the last communication we had wasn't clear if it needed a reply,or I felt like they didn't want to hear from me... and the brain goblins start telling me they don't really want to hear from me. I'm known for not going into my fab inbox. I just don't, because I haven't the spoons. Although some days I can be good at it, and have a flowing conversation. But I forget about it, because I don't always log on to fab... or I get caught up in the forum. So I tend to try and move conversations to other messaging services instead... that way I see notifications. Get out of my brain woman cause I was going to type pretty much the same. ![]() I saved your fingers! ![]() | |||
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"Off fab... I can be excellent. And I can be awful. And I'm often worried about sending a message after some time has passed. Not because I've not been thinking of the person, but because I've over thought... more often than not, that's if the last communication we had wasn't clear if it needed a reply,or I felt like they didn't want to hear from me... and the brain goblins start telling me they don't really want to hear from me. I'm known for not going into my fab inbox. I just don't, because I haven't the spoons. Although some days I can be good at it, and have a flowing conversation. But I forget about it, because I don't always log on to fab... or I get caught up in the forum. So I tend to try and move conversations to other messaging services instead... that way I see notifications. " Good to know x | |||
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"Off fab... I can be excellent. And I can be awful. And I'm often worried about sending a message after some time has passed. Not because I've not been thinking of the person, but because I've over thought... more often than not, that's if the last communication we had wasn't clear if it needed a reply,or I felt like they didn't want to hear from me... and the brain goblins start telling me they don't really want to hear from me. I'm known for not going into my fab inbox. I just don't, because I haven't the spoons. Although some days I can be good at it, and have a flowing conversation. But I forget about it, because I don't always log on to fab... or I get caught up in the forum. So I tend to try and move conversations to other messaging services instead... that way I see notifications. " Answer my message women!!! ![]() | |||
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"I get in touch with people we chat to on FAB to see how they are doing. It’s never just when I’m horny - I do enjoy building connections and friendships. I don’t buy into the ‘I’m too busy to message people’ - people will always find time to message someone if they wanted to. K " Where I come from we have a saying: “el interés tiene pies”; it rhymes beautifully in Spanish but in English it means “interest has feet”, haha- meaning that if you’re really interested, you’ll make time to at least write a short catching up message. And I totally agree! We can be really busy but if you’re interested, you’ll at least send a little hello. Maybe I should take the hint here. ![]() | |||
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"We can be really busy but if you’re interested, you’ll at least send a little hello. Maybe I should take the hint here. ![]() Hello. ![]() | |||
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"I get in touch with people we chat to on FAB to see how they are doing. It’s never just when I’m horny - I do enjoy building connections and friendships. I don’t buy into the ‘I’m too busy to message people’ - people will always find time to message someone if they wanted to. K Where I come from we have a saying: “el interés tiene pies”; it rhymes beautifully in Spanish but in English it means “interest has feet”, haha- meaning that if you’re really interested, you’ll make time to at least write a short catching up message. And I totally agree! We can be really busy but if you’re interested, you’ll at least send a little hello. Maybe I should take the hint here. ![]() What a lovely phrase and very true… ![]() | |||
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"Off fab... I can be excellent. And I can be awful. And I'm often worried about sending a message after some time has passed. Not because I've not been thinking of the person, but because I've over thought... more often than not, that's if the last communication we had wasn't clear if it needed a reply,or I felt like they didn't want to hear from me... and the brain goblins start telling me they don't really want to hear from me. I'm known for not going into my fab inbox. I just don't, because I haven't the spoons. Although some days I can be good at it, and have a flowing conversation. But I forget about it, because I don't always log on to fab... or I get caught up in the forum. So I tend to try and move conversations to other messaging services instead... that way I see notifications. Good to know x" ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Off fab... I can be excellent. And I can be awful. And I'm often worried about sending a message after some time has passed. Not because I've not been thinking of the person, but because I've over thought... more often than not, that's if the last communication we had wasn't clear if it needed a reply,or I felt like they didn't want to hear from me... and the brain goblins start telling me they don't really want to hear from me. I'm known for not going into my fab inbox. I just don't, because I haven't the spoons. Although some days I can be good at it, and have a flowing conversation. But I forget about it, because I don't always log on to fab... or I get caught up in the forum. So I tend to try and move conversations to other messaging services instead... that way I see notifications. Answer my message women!!! ![]() I already sent you the link to the mega anal hooks site I found for you... was there another message I missed? ![]() | |||
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