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By *partharmony OP   Couple
over a year ago

Ruislip

I've just seen a video (link below) about how long penetration in sex lasts according to a study. Note that we're not including foreplay. Here are the timings:

Men take on average 5.4 to 5.7 minutes.

Women say 3-7 minutes is adequate but 7-13 minutes is desirable.

This surprised me. I wouldn't have thought women would want the penetration to last as long as that. I'd have thought it might get a bit boring.

For us it's all about the foreplay. I (Luke) thought I take a long time to cum but seeing this maybe I'm more normal than I thought. Maybe the amount of time I think I take is not the reality.

So what do you think? If you get the amount of foreplay you want (be it long or short), how long do you like penetration to last? Have you ever even thought about it in this way? All thoughts welcome. I'm curious.

Here's the video:

https://youtu.be/zkc3ohOTgxQ?si=l19KnFVH70EjYps5

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By *ouple4voyeurCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

All we can say is. We think they have been studying the wrong people lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

30 to 45 minutes

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By *partharmony OP   Couple
over a year ago

Ruislip


"30 to 45 minutes "

Of penetration? That seems like a lot to me.

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By *partharmony OP   Couple
over a year ago

Ruislip


"All we can say is. We think they have been studying the wrong people lol"

What would you say?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That study must be wrong… I can go all night and 24/7, 365 day a year… is that not what men are meant to say? Haha!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is Fab, where men (allegedly) thrust “all night long”, so surely 7 or 8 hours is the norm on here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That study must be wrong… I can go all night and 24/7, 365 day a year… is that not what men are meant to say? Haha!"

Gah! Beat me to it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Give me 3 n half minutes.

Just enough time for the ad breaks in Corrie.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That study must be wrong… I can go all night and 24/7, 365 day a year… is that not what men are meant to say? Haha!

Gah! Beat me to it! "

Haha great minds, mate

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Much longer than op says. I like a good long session. I don't mind if a guy comes quickly as long as he can repeat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure if men pounded it non stop in the same position it wouldn't take that long. But sex is about changing it up flipping from foreplay to penetration, alternating sex positions and exploring each others bodies. That's a session that lasts a hell of a lot longer than 5 minutes.

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

Chesterfield

Is this including a tea break?

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By *partharmony OP   Couple
over a year ago

Ruislip


"I'm sure if men pounded it non stop in the same position it wouldn't take that long. But sex is about changing it up flipping from foreplay to penetration, alternating sex positions and exploring each others bodies. That's a session that lasts a hell of a lot longer than 5 minutes."

That makes a lot of sense to me. When we've had others in our bed that's very much how it goes. Different people get different things at different points. Not all the penetration comes in one hit.

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London


"I'm sure if men pounded it non stop in the same position it wouldn't take that long. But sex is about changing it up flipping from foreplay to penetration, alternating sex positions and exploring each others bodies. That's a session that lasts a hell of a lot longer than 5 minutes."

Agree!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In, out get the job done. Finish first boys.

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By *partharmony OP   Couple
over a year ago

Ruislip

Shameless bump for more people's thoughts.

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
over a year ago

kent


"I'm sure if men pounded it non stop in the same position it wouldn't take that long. But sex is about changing it up flipping from foreplay to penetration, alternating sex positions and exploring each others bodies. That's a session that lasts a hell of a lot longer than 5 minutes.

Agree!"

Aye!

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
over a year ago

A den in the Glen

I'll take the shameless bump.

Depends where it is being inserted and if the 'pipes are clean'. I have been unashamedly quicker than your survey with someone who was saying and doing all the right things and a damn sight longer with a regular vanilla FB.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Well this thread has surprised me.

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By *ayHaychMan
over a year ago

Leeds (Home) / Sheffield (Work)

Depends how long it’s been since the last orgasm. I’ve not used a cock ring but I think with one on, it then mostly depends on the guys physical stamina.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

If the survey is correct I'm an outlier. Skip the foreplay and let's have the penetration last as long as possible. An hour plus and I'm happy.

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By *xfordjohnMan
over a year ago

Oxford


"I'm sure if men pounded it non stop in the same position it wouldn't take that long. But sex is about changing it up flipping from foreplay to penetration, alternating sex positions and exploring each others bodies. That's a session that lasts a hell of a lot longer than 5 minutes.

That makes a lot of sense to me. When we've had others in our bed that's very much how it goes. Different people get different things at different points. Not all the penetration comes in one hit."

I agree too. As most of my sex now is mmf, the female gets a lot of penetration but from two different guys and in a lot of different positions, so we carry on until she's had enough and asks us to cum.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

What I'd like to know is how can you have sec in a multitude of positions and have it over and done with in 5 minutes

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

sex

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By *hunky ChefMan
over a year ago

Norwich


"I've just seen a video (link below) about how long penetration in sex lasts according to a study. Note that we're not including foreplay. Here are the timings:

Men take on average 5.4 to 5.7 minutes.

Women say 3-7 minutes is adequate but 7-13 minutes is desirable.

This surprised me. I wouldn't have thought women would want the penetration to last as long as that. I'd have thought it might get a bit boring.

For us it's all about the foreplay. I (Luke) thought I take a long time to cum but seeing this maybe I'm more normal than I thought. Maybe the amount of time I think I take is not the reality.

So what do you think? If you get the amount of foreplay you want (be it long or short), how long do you like penetration to last? Have you ever even thought about it in this way? All thoughts welcome. I'm curious.

Here's the video:

https://youtu.be/zkc3ohOTgxQ?si=l19KnFVH70EjYps5"

I lasted longer than that when I lost my virginity.

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By *irtyKittenCouple
over a year ago

Southampton


"30 to 45 minutes "

I wish I can still last that long these days

But part of swinging for us is K getting what she wants ie, someone who can last long time.

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