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Anyone else think kissing and cuddles are very under rated?

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By *hriscooper OP   Man
over a year ago

Warrington

I know that the main purpose of this site is sex.

But does anyone else think that kissing properly and cuddles are very under rated?

Something about a sensual kiss that gets me as hard as a rock.

Eye contact is the same! Looking into someone's eye as you're going down on them, kissing their body, or slowly sliding inside them. Such a turn on.

Or am I just a weirdo? Haha.

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By *ictoria_1976TV/TS
over a year ago

Bodmin

Personally I rate kissing very highly x

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
over a year ago

Transsexual Transylvania

Oooh, I don't underrate them.

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By *oo..Woman
over a year ago

Boo's World

Kissing is a must

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By *arla SwingerWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere

Kissing is very underrated in my humble opinion. I will not meet up with anyone who states they do not. Each to obviously their own, and I fully respect folk who keep that for a partner....

But I'm sorry, if you're prepared to stick your tongue in my flange? Then on my mouth beforehand, or after would be expected from me too.

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By *hriscooper OP   Man
over a year ago

Warrington

Not heard it called a flange since I was at college.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing, eye contact, chemistry all the good stuff is a must!

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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I really don't think it's underrated. Not on the fora, not in general.

People love kissing those they want to kiss. It's hot, it's intimate. It works.

Those who don't want to kiss aren't saying it's underrated. If anything they're holding it a bit dearer to their hearts.

Cuddles are a bit. I love cuddles! Can't wait for all the cuddles with some friends in the coming weeks.

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire


"Kissing is a must"
,,,this

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

It's the beginning part of the chemistry it can either turn both on/off depending how good the kissing is

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By *arla SwingerWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere


"Not heard it called a flange since I was at college. "

I'm young at heart still apparently?

As for those who prefer to abstain. I get it, I completely get it! But it would be a firm no from me personally.

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By *ake_or_deathMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Kissing is a huge part of any meet for me. It's often the thing that gets the blood pumping - the exploration of each other's mouth, becoming more passionate, almost desperate as the lust rises...

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By *arla SwingerWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere


"I really don't think it's underrated. Not on the fora, not in general.

People love kissing those they want to kiss. It's hot, it's intimate. It works.

Those who don't want to kiss aren't saying it's underrated. If anything they're holding it a bit dearer to their hearts.

Cuddles are a bit. I love cuddles! Can't wait for all the cuddles with some friends in the coming weeks."

I get that totally too! But I mean I kiss my grandkids, I often kiss colleagues who are so inclined?...

It obviously isn't sexual at all... But it's nice, affectionate, and I could not/would not, personally have someone inside my body who didn't feel they could at least smack their lips on my face at some point?... I'm not a sex worker after all

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

I wouldn't be having sex with anyone who didn't do the kissing and cuddling, it's very important to me.

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By *rs D.Woman
over a year ago

Tyne And Wear

I love kissing its a major turn on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think most would agree.

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By *iglump23Man
over a year ago

bradford

Absolutely. I think I'm very orally inclined. L9ve kissing but I can spend hours just tasting my partners pussy until she finishes. Love it.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex

I don't think they're underrated at all. I love to kiss and cuddle the people I love

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere else


"Not heard it called a flange since I was at college. "

Got me beat. I’ve NEVER heard that one.

I’ll add it to the list

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"I really don't think it's underrated. Not on the fora, not in general.

People love kissing those they want to kiss. It's hot, it's intimate. It works.

Those who don't want to kiss aren't saying it's underrated. If anything they're holding it a bit dearer to their hearts.

Cuddles are a bit. I love cuddles! Can't wait for all the cuddles with some friends in the coming weeks.

I get that totally too! But I mean I kiss my grandkids, I often kiss colleagues who are so inclined?...

It obviously isn't sexual at all... But it's nice, affectionate, and I could not/would not, personally have someone inside my body who didn't feel they could at least smack their lips on my face at some point?... I'm not a sex worker after all "

As a slight (read huge) aside, I really like your avatar.

I think that equating not wanting to kiss someone to sex workers is a bit of a slippery slope isn't it? I can understand that on a personal level it can feel cold, I know personally it does nothing for me. I can't be aroused without kissing but it's just an incompatibility.

Also, it's a bit of a myth about sex workers being very clinical. Not kissing etc. I'm sure it can be true but I don't think it's the default.

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By *hriscooper OP   Man
over a year ago

Warrington

You can never have enough names for your bits now can you.

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By *rith47Man
over a year ago

Erith

With the right person they are hot.

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By *eandher4and9Couple
over a year ago

leeds

We love kisses and cuddles xx

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville

I wouldn't meet if kissing wasn't allowed, it's been the reason why I've not met couples in the past. I love cuddles and kisses x

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By *orphia2003Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.

Must have kisses and cwtches. Very important to me.

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By *r Cheeky cheekyMan
over a year ago

essex


"Kissing is a must"

Most definitely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is a must for me.

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By *r Cheeky cheekyMan
over a year ago

essex


"Kissing is very underrated in my humble opinion. I will not meet up with anyone who states they do not. Each to obviously their own, and I fully respect folk who keep that for a partner....

But I'm sorry, if you're prepared to stick your tongue in my flange? Then on my mouth beforehand, or after would be expected from me too. "

Kissing makes it more powerful

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By *r Cheeky cheekyMan
over a year ago

essex


"Kissing is a must for me. "

Gosh yes kissing cuddles lots of

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By *r Cheeky cheekyMan
over a year ago

essex


"I wouldn't meet if kissing wasn't allowed, it's been the reason why I've not met couples in the past. I love cuddles and kisses x"

Kissing cuddles lots of foreplay can be while watching porn the woman likes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's nice to include the kissing and cuddling. People can have this intimacy without being attached, makes meets a lot more enjoyable.

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By *arla SwingerWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere


"I really don't think it's underrated. Not on the fora, not in general.

People love kissing those they want to kiss. It's hot, it's intimate. It works.

Those who don't want to kiss aren't saying it's underrated. If anything they're holding it a bit dearer to their hearts.

Cuddles are a bit. I love cuddles! Can't wait for all the cuddles with some friends in the coming weeks.

I get that totally too! But I mean I kiss my grandkids, I often kiss colleagues who are so inclined?...

It obviously isn't sexual at all... But it's nice, affectionate, and I could not/would not, personally have someone inside my body who didn't feel they could at least smack their lips on my face at some point?... I'm not a sex worker after all

As a slight (read huge) aside, I really like your avatar.

I think that equating not wanting to kiss someone to sex workers is a bit of a slippery slope isn't it? I can understand that on a personal level it can feel cold, I know personally it does nothing for me. I can't be aroused without kissing but it's just an incompatibility.

Also, it's a bit of a myth about sex workers being very clinical. Not kissing etc. I'm sure it can be true but I don't think it's the default."

No, it's probably not, but personally I only know a very limited amount of sex workers to say my opinion, you may know more? They're mostly just been clinical to my knowledge, as in wanting to do the 'deed', for £60-80 a go for 30mins, no kissing included.. But times are hard! ...

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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne


"I know that the main purpose of this site is sex.

But does anyone else think that kissing properly and cuddles are very under rated?

Something about a sensual kiss that gets me as hard as a rock.

Eye contact is the same! Looking into someone's eye as you're going down on them, kissing their body, or slowly sliding inside them. Such a turn on.

Or am I just a weirdo? Haha. "

If a man (or woman) won't passionately kiss, it's a non-starter for me. The only exception is orgy type of parties where it's pure raw sex

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By *4bimMan
over a year ago

Farnborough Hampshire

It's nice to be nice

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By *apnDomMan
over a year ago

London | Belfast

I thought kissing is part of it?

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By *cotty_01ukMan
over a year ago

birmingham

Gotta have a good kiss

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By *iftyshadesofbrownMan
over a year ago

coventry


"Kissing, eye contact, chemistry all the good stuff is a must! "

Highly agree

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"I really don't think it's underrated. Not on the fora, not in general.

People love kissing those they want to kiss. It's hot, it's intimate. It works.

Those who don't want to kiss aren't saying it's underrated. If anything they're holding it a bit dearer to their hearts.

Cuddles are a bit. I love cuddles! Can't wait for all the cuddles with some friends in the coming weeks.

I get that totally too! But I mean I kiss my grandkids, I often kiss colleagues who are so inclined?...

It obviously isn't sexual at all... But it's nice, affectionate, and I could not/would not, personally have someone inside my body who didn't feel they could at least smack their lips on my face at some point?... I'm not a sex worker after all

As a slight (read huge) aside, I really like your avatar.

I think that equating not wanting to kiss someone to sex workers is a bit of a slippery slope isn't it? I can understand that on a personal level it can feel cold, I know personally it does nothing for me. I can't be aroused without kissing but it's just an incompatibility.

Also, it's a bit of a myth about sex workers being very clinical. Not kissing etc. I'm sure it can be true but I don't think it's the default.

No, it's probably not, but personally I only know a very limited amount of sex workers to say my opinion, you may know more? They're mostly just been clinical to my knowledge, as in wanting to do the 'deed', for £60-80 a go for 30mins, no kissing included.. But times are hard! ... "

We don't kiss our casual partners, we're not sex workers or clinical.

We don't think we're in any way better than sex workers either.

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By *lwayshornyrMan
over a year ago

Runcorn

Really have gotta have a good kiss, leads to all sorts of wandering hands!

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By *apnDomMan
over a year ago

London | Belfast


"I really don't think it's underrated. Not on the fora, not in general.

People love kissing those they want to kiss. It's hot, it's intimate. It works.

Those who don't want to kiss aren't saying it's underrated. If anything they're holding it a bit dearer to their hearts.

Cuddles are a bit. I love cuddles! Can't wait for all the cuddles with some friends in the coming weeks.

I get that totally too! But I mean I kiss my grandkids, I often kiss colleagues who are so inclined?...

It obviously isn't sexual at all... But it's nice, affectionate, and I could not/would not, personally have someone inside my body who didn't feel they could at least smack their lips on my face at some point?... I'm not a sex worker after all

As a slight (read huge) aside, I really like your avatar.

I think that equating not wanting to kiss someone to sex workers is a bit of a slippery slope isn't it? I can understand that on a personal level it can feel cold, I know personally it does nothing for me. I can't be aroused without kissing but it's just an incompatibility.

Also, it's a bit of a myth about sex workers being very clinical. Not kissing etc. I'm sure it can be true but I don't think it's the default.

No, it's probably not, but personally I only know a very limited amount of sex workers to say my opinion, you may know more? They're mostly just been clinical to my knowledge, as in wanting to do the 'deed', for £60-80 a go for 30mins, no kissing included.. But times are hard! ...

We don't kiss our casual partners, we're not sex workers or clinical.

We don't think we're in any way better than sex workers either. "

Sex workers are the ones who usually don't kiss.

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By *arla SwingerWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere


"I really don't think it's underrated. Not on the fora, not in general.

People love kissing those they want to kiss. It's hot, it's intimate. It works.

Those who don't want to kiss aren't saying it's underrated. If anything they're holding it a bit dearer to their hearts.

Cuddles are a bit. I love cuddles! Can't wait for all the cuddles with some friends in the coming weeks.

I get that totally too! But I mean I kiss my grandkids, I often kiss colleagues who are so inclined?...

It obviously isn't sexual at all... But it's nice, affectionate, and I could not/would not, personally have someone inside my body who didn't feel they could at least smack their lips on my face at some point?... I'm not a sex worker after all

As a slight (read huge) aside, I really like your avatar.

I think that equating not wanting to kiss someone to sex workers is a bit of a slippery slope isn't it? I can understand that on a personal level it can feel cold, I know personally it does nothing for me. I can't be aroused without kissing but it's just an incompatibility.

Also, it's a bit of a myth about sex workers being very clinical. Not kissing etc. I'm sure it can be true but I don't think it's the default.

No, it's probably not, but personally I only know a very limited amount of sex workers to say my opinion, you may know more? They're mostly just been clinical to my knowledge, as in wanting to do the 'deed', for £60-80 a go for 30mins, no kissing included.. But times are hard! ...

We don't kiss our casual partners, we're not sex workers or clinical.

We don't think we're in any way better than sex workers either. "

I don't think it makes any difference if that's what you don't do?... But it may feel kinda cold if someone can be penetrating your vagina, but not kiss your mouth.

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By *he ass man 666Man
over a year ago

paradise city

Love a good snog and a cuddle I do

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By *r Cheeky cheekyMan
over a year ago

essex


"I really don't think it's underrated. Not on the fora, not in general.

People love kissing those they want to kiss. It's hot, it's intimate. It works.

Those who don't want to kiss aren't saying it's underrated. If anything they're holding it a bit dearer to their hearts.

Cuddles are a bit. I love cuddles! Can't wait for all the cuddles with some friends in the coming weeks.

I get that totally too! But I mean I kiss my grandkids, I often kiss colleagues who are so inclined?...

It obviously isn't sexual at all... But it's nice, affectionate, and I could not/would not, personally have someone inside my body who didn't feel they could at least smack their lips on my face at some point?... I'm not a sex worker after all

As a slight (read huge) aside, I really like your avatar.

I think that equating not wanting to kiss someone to sex workers is a bit of a slippery slope isn't it? I can understand that on a personal level it can feel cold, I know personally it does nothing for me. I can't be aroused without kissing but it's just an incompatibility.

Also, it's a bit of a myth about sex workers being very clinical. Not kissing etc. I'm sure it can be true but I don't think it's the default.

No, it's probably not, but personally I only know a very limited amount of sex workers to say my opinion, you may know more? They're mostly just been clinical to my knowledge, as in wanting to do the 'deed', for £60-80 a go for 30mins, no kissing included.. But times are hard! ...

We don't kiss our casual partners, we're not sex workers or clinical.

We don't think we're in any way better than sex workers either.

I don't think it makes any difference if that's what you don't do?... But it may feel kinda cold if someone can be penetrating your vagina, but not kiss your mouth. "

Definitely cold sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love it

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By *tacy.TWoman
over a year ago

luton

I'd deffo say underated, I bloody love them

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By *unsexual MemelordWoman
over a year ago

Midlothian

Kissing generally rouses my nethers more than anything else. Love a good cuddle too. A cuddle nap is super relaxing!

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By *inister_SpinsterWoman
over a year ago

Manchester(ish).


"You can never have enough names for your bits now can you. "

We could draw the line at "Stamped Bat"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing beats a cuddle ??

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By *amieLDN22Man
over a year ago

London

Kissing, licking and massage are all things that get the cock hard. Essential if you seriously want to go for several rounds. Strong eye contact is also underrated.

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By *ull4youbothMan
over a year ago

march

Ooh yes, just love kissing and caressing, just love kissing a ladies all over to get her excited

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I do like a good kissing sesh

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By *verage_hotMan
over a year ago

Chester

Got to love a kiss and a cuddle

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"I really don't think it's underrated. Not on the fora, not in general.

People love kissing those they want to kiss. It's hot, it's intimate. It works.

Those who don't want to kiss aren't saying it's underrated. If anything they're holding it a bit dearer to their hearts.

Cuddles are a bit. I love cuddles! Can't wait for all the cuddles with some friends in the coming weeks.

I get that totally too! But I mean I kiss my grandkids, I often kiss colleagues who are so inclined?...

It obviously isn't sexual at all... But it's nice, affectionate, and I could not/would not, personally have someone inside my body who didn't feel they could at least smack their lips on my face at some point?... I'm not a sex worker after all

As a slight (read huge) aside, I really like your avatar.

I think that equating not wanting to kiss someone to sex workers is a bit of a slippery slope isn't it? I can understand that on a personal level it can feel cold, I know personally it does nothing for me. I can't be aroused without kissing but it's just an incompatibility.

Also, it's a bit of a myth about sex workers being very clinical. Not kissing etc. I'm sure it can be true but I don't think it's the default.

No, it's probably not, but personally I only know a very limited amount of sex workers to say my opinion, you may know more? They're mostly just been clinical to my knowledge, as in wanting to do the 'deed', for £60-80 a go for 30mins, no kissing included.. But times are hard! ...

We don't kiss our casual partners, we're not sex workers or clinical.

We don't think we're in any way better than sex workers either.

Sex workers are the ones who usually don't kiss."

And people like us. It doesn't mean I'm a sex worker though. I don't think it makes me or s X workers any less than anyone else

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"I really don't think it's underrated. Not on the fora, not in general.

People love kissing those they want to kiss. It's hot, it's intimate. It works.

Those who don't want to kiss aren't saying it's underrated. If anything they're holding it a bit dearer to their hearts.

Cuddles are a bit. I love cuddles! Can't wait for all the cuddles with some friends in the coming weeks.

I get that totally too! But I mean I kiss my grandkids, I often kiss colleagues who are so inclined?...

It obviously isn't sexual at all... But it's nice, affectionate, and I could not/would not, personally have someone inside my body who didn't feel they could at least smack their lips on my face at some point?... I'm not a sex worker after all

As a slight (read huge) aside, I really like your avatar.

I think that equating not wanting to kiss someone to sex workers is a bit of a slippery slope isn't it? I can understand that on a personal level it can feel cold, I know personally it does nothing for me. I can't be aroused without kissing but it's just an incompatibility.

Also, it's a bit of a myth about sex workers being very clinical. Not kissing etc. I'm sure it can be true but I don't think it's the default.

No, it's probably not, but personally I only know a very limited amount of sex workers to say my opinion, you may know more? They're mostly just been clinical to my knowledge, as in wanting to do the 'deed', for £60-80 a go for 30mins, no kissing included.. But times are hard! ...

We don't kiss our casual partners, we're not sex workers or clinical.

We don't think we're in any way better than sex workers either.

I don't think it makes any difference if that's what you don't do?... But it may feel kinda cold if someone can be penetrating your vagina, but not kiss your mouth. "

Hence it's on our profile so nobody needs to experience that if that's how they feel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do love a good snogging session with someone who is a really good kisser

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