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Personally attacked or confirmation bias?

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By *ulieAndBeef OP   Couple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

Sometimes I log in here and it feels like half the threads are entirely too relevant!

Is that the case or is it just that you notice what you're already thinking about? Either way, please stop!

J

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its what you do when you recognise the behaviour that is important

Maybe we are all misfits and degenerates

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London

Trying to work out which threads apply. Embrace your pointless knowledge, J!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Not aimed at the OP or anyone else, if anything laughing at myself

"you're so vain, you probably think this thread is about you, don't you don't you"

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

The need to say 'no' is real

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By *ulieAndBeef OP   Couple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish


"Not aimed at the OP or anyone else, if anything laughing at myself

"you're so vain, you probably think this thread is about you, don't you don't you""

Yeah, it's not so much that I ever think a thread would be written with me in mind. That's not remotely likely. More that the subject of thread hits too close to home!

J

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By *ulieAndBeef OP   Couple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish


"

Its what you do when you recognise the behaviour that is important

Maybe we are all misfits and degenerates "

That's very sensible Midnight! I just dance with the brain goblins

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Not aimed at the OP or anyone else, if anything laughing at myself

"you're so vain, you probably think this thread is about you, don't you don't you"

Yeah, it's not so much that I ever think a thread would be written with me in mind. That's not remotely likely. More that the subject of thread hits too close to home!

J

"

You gave me the earworm and I needed to share, that's all. You're welcome

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Yeahhhhhhhhhhh.

Bit of both, I reckon! If there's something on your mind, the relevant threads and posts jump out at you. Other times - and these are my favourites - something gets you thinking.

Mrs TMN x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes I log in here and it feels like half the threads are entirely too relevant!

Is that the case or is it just that you notice what you're already thinking about? Either way, please stop!

J"

But the other half aren't. Are they the ones by Brucey?

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

Sometimes a thread will really resonate with me. I tend to avoid those as I can be an oversharer

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By *ulieAndBeef OP   Couple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish


"Not aimed at the OP or anyone else, if anything laughing at myself

"you're so vain, you probably think this thread is about you, don't you don't you"

Yeah, it's not so much that I ever think a thread would be written with me in mind. That's not remotely likely. More that the subject of thread hits too close to home!

J

You gave me the earworm and I needed to share, that's all. You're welcome "

Weirdly the earworm you've given me is from Moana.

What can I say except "You're welcome"...

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By *ulieAndBeef OP   Couple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish


"Sometimes a thread will really resonate with me. I tend to avoid those as I can be an oversharer "

Definitely. I've been avoiding a few

J

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Sometimes a thread will really resonate with me. I tend to avoid those as I can be an oversharer

Definitely. I've been avoiding a few

J"

I tend to avoid anything too close to home.

But statistically there'll always be someone going through the same experiences as you, so it's inevitable that some threads will resonate more.

There's always plenty of other inane stuff to use as a distraction though.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

I kind of like when I can relate... Makes me feel in not so weird after all!

And also when other people are having the same experience, I realise it's not me or my problem

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru


"Sometimes a thread will really resonate with me. I tend to avoid those as I can be an oversharer

Definitely. I've been avoiding a few

J

I tend to avoid anything too close to home.

But statistically there'll always be someone going through the same experiences as you, so it's inevitable that some threads will resonate more.

There's always plenty of other inane stuff to use as a distraction though. "

The inane stuff keeps me coming back

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