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Whats considered kinky these days

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By *G Lana OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Gosport

Out of interest there is an equivalent post in the forums on FabGuys and I was interested to see if there was a lot of difference in responses shown here, so the question posed was:

I don’t think I know what that (kinky) is anymore as most guys seem pretty open minded and so I thought you guys could help me figure out where vanilla ends and kink starts?

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By *G Lana OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Gosport

Oh and to get things started my response was:

Probably a lot of the stuff in bdsm that hasn't become mainstream (yet?). My first thought went to sounding, e-stim and vacuum milking, especially if you manage all three simultaneously, which I understand is possible.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I guess kinky can mean different things to different people. I used to hate being asked what's kinks I had as one persons kink is another's.vanilla

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

It varies from person to person.

One persons extreme kink is someone else's vanilla Friday night.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Anything harder than a gentle spank... Like caning, flogging, paddles.

Definitely electrics

Pet play

Vac beds

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By *dd_soxMan
over a year ago

Suffolk

It's only kinky the first time - then it's normal

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By *G Lana OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Gosport

Thank you Diamondsmiles and PreyToTheFairies the fact that it varies from person to person is partly why I am interested. If it didn't it would be a far less interesting question. It is one I am actually expecting a lot of variance on as I would imagine with have quiet a diverse range of experiences across the fourm users.

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By *aisy WamTV/TS
over a year ago

Swansea

I love getting dressed uo in a new outfit and doing my makeup etc and then ruining it all with a good sploshing session . Is that considered kinky ( or just wierd lol )

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I knew a woman who considered oral sex kinky

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By *G Lana OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Gosport


"Anything harder than a gentle spank... Like caning, flogging, paddles.

Definitely electrics

Pet play

Vac beds

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I have some virtual friends, in that I have only ever interacted with them through Discord, who are into pet play. It amazed me how much they were spending and the range and complexity of some of the gear.

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By *G Lana OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Gosport


"It's only kinky the first time - then it's normal "

I get the sentiment but feel it takes a few times to become normal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I not have kinks only in the new clothes I bought.. No not anne summers.

Like most of the forum have said we are all different in what kibd of sex kinks we behold.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Vanilla ends and kinky starts wherever each individual puts those flags. It's only a matter of perception.

I don't actively think of anything I do as kinky, because it's just normal happy fun for me. But I know there are people who think it's on the extreme end.

To be fair. I think I only ever use the word kinky when I'm taking the piss. Or saying your kink is not my kink I guess.

It's one of those words that just bugs me. Like tabboo or forbidden fruit style language use. Fuck that shit. Do the fun things because they're fun, not because they're some variation of 'naughty.'

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I guess some of the things I was into could be considered kinky. For example I was into gangbangs all my adult life so where just the norm but to others not so

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"Anything harder than a gentle spank... Like caning, flogging, paddles.

Definitely electrics

Pet play

Vac beds

I have some virtual friends, in that I have only ever interacted with them through Discord, who are into pet play. It amazed me how much they were spending and the range and complexity of some of the gear."

Some people go all out. Same with Sissy's, they have incredible outfits if they're really into it.

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By *G Lana OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Gosport


"Vanilla ends and kinky starts wherever each individual puts those flags. It's only a matter of perception.

I don't actively think of anything I do as kinky, because it's just normal happy fun for me. But I know there are people who think it's on the extreme end.

To be fair. I think I only ever use the word kinky when I'm taking the piss. Or saying your kink is not my kink I guess.

It's one of those words that just bugs me. Like tabboo or forbidden fruit style language use. Fuck that shit. Do the fun things because they're fun, not because they're some variation of 'naughty.'"

Sorry I didn't mean to pick on sometging that bugs people. I am very happy for consenting people to do what they enjoy, perhaps with the proviso that I struggle a bit with the things that cause lasting scarring, but is just one of my limits.

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