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By *eli OP   Woman
over a year ago

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It's a bit oh gosh sometimes isn't it?

Do you just type and send/post or do you think before you do? Are you a bit of an overthinker or do you just say fuck it and send?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck it, send, shit, block

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

Fuck it just send

What’s the worst thing that could happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the situation, work or family or people I care about, then I am a lot more thoughtful in what I say and write.

On a fuck site like Fab? Nah. Hit send and cringe at the typos and appalling grammar later

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

I overthink quite badly. Unless I don't have the time or I've had a drink - then I'm a bit of a 'fuck it'.

Each reaction has had varying results over the years

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Fab- Ah fuck it and send

Work - think and double check before pressing send

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By *eli OP   Woman
over a year ago

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"Fuck it, send, shit, block "

You shit and then block? That's an awful lot of nervous energy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But what about you, OP?

My feeling is that you’re a very thoughtful poster, but you may prove me wrong?

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By *antricSeeker60Man
over a year ago

Durham

I’m really particular about sending messages.

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By *lamdaddyMan
over a year ago

London

I nearly made a thread about the double standards of women being able to tell men they're shit here but vice versa would get fucking culled like the worst of nightmares.

But I thought better. Because some things won't change _eli!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Just send. Don't give it a second thought

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just send. Don't give it a second thought"

I send it, it just gets deleted- so fuk it. lol.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

I don’t overthink many things. Except booking hotels, weirdly. I spend ages over that. Oh, and buying cars. But when it comes to messages or emails or whatever, I just hit send.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I'm more inclined to think about light-hearted comments because it wouldn't be the first time that people are offended by humour.

Anything more than a one line response is usually a personal experience so it doesn't take much thought and I can't really be challenged on it.

Well, actually I can, and have been, but usually only by someone measuring their apendage.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a bit oh gosh sometimes isn't it?

Do you just type and send/post or do you think before you do? Are you a bit of an overthinker or do you just say fuck it and send?"

Bit of both, but these days it a bit more "fuck it".

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

I'm a sender no regrets

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By *amie HantsWoman
over a year ago

Atlantis

Ah I’m a suck it and see kind of person. Send the message and see how it works out.

I would rather do that than proof read my messages. Those who receive my messages will tell you just how bad the autocorrect is.

My voicenotes are better I don’t give them a second thought either.

The exception is calling in sick for work. That always fills me with dread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Life’s too short for thinking about what ifs. I hit that send button and don’t give it another thought

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A bit of both. It really depends on what mood I’m in.

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By *ake_or_deathMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Massive over-thinker. Gets hugely in my way. I think about messaging a person, decide against it. But if I don't contact a person I find myself thinking about what might have happened if I did, so sometimes I then do, but then overthink the subsequent interactions.

Yes ladies, I'm a total catch. Sigh.

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By *eli OP   Woman
over a year ago

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"Depends on the situation, work or family or people I care about, then I am a lot more thoughtful in what I say and write.

On a fuck site like Fab? Nah. Hit send and cringe at the typos and appalling grammar later "

A fuck site. All these years later and it's still a fuck site.

As long as it's out, fuck the typos etc. People can understand the general gist. You're kind of readable Dan.

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By *ena AmourTV/TS
over a year ago

Chard

I have been reticent to send messages on here in the past, now if I want to I do, generally find if it is sensible and not crass it will garner a positive response. Even just chatting, has helped me gain confidence and break some stereotypical views I held.

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By *a1970Man
over a year ago

East cork

Fucked... Press send

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On here, I rarely think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends on how contentious or easy to misconstrue my post may be….

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By *izandpaulCouple
over a year ago

merseyside


"It's a bit oh gosh sometimes isn't it?

Do you just type and send/post or do you think before you do? Are you a bit of an overthinker or do you just say fuck it and send?"

Depends if its just a forum comment or actually arranging a meet.

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By *aissez-faireMan
over a year ago

Right behind you…. Boo

Are we talking DM’s or thread posts?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm definitely an overthinker.

I wish we had a ten minute window to edit our post or unsend a message

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By *he AmbassadorMan
over a year ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara


"It's a bit oh gosh sometimes isn't it?

Do you just type and send/post or do you think before you do? Are you a bit of an overthinker or do you just say fuck it and send?"

Most days or most msgs im a type and send guy,, overthinking really hurts ny head

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just send it, flog it, suck it, fucxk it, shag it, press send

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I think before I send. If I'm typing in a flurry and not thinking, probably not a good idea to be online.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Check my spelling grammar, then fuck it and send

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first post was like my first time, nervous as fuck

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