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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How come when you send a message to someone they dont read it yet you can see there online and yet it goes unread for days sometimes weeks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because they may have lots to go through plus they do not have to look.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because they want to. Simples

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

They might have gone into stealth mode and looked at your profile without you knowing. If the profile doesn't grab them, they won't open your message.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

The site didn't stipulate timescales when joining up....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Because they want to. Simples

Odd

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The site didn't stipulate timescales when joining up...."

What you on about just asked a question dont get sarcastic its not big nor clever mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The site didn't stipulate timescales when joining up....

What you on about just asked a question dont get sarcastic its not big nor clever mate"

Think the sarcasm comes from answering a similar thread almost daily! Instead of focusing on your outbox maybe focus on your inbox...far less stressful and the intention of someone sending a message is often clearer than the thoughts of someone receiving one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't see why it would bother you. It just means they're not interested or...perish the thought...have a life outside fab. Move on.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Don't see why it would bother you. It just means they're not interested or...perish the thought...have a life outside fab. Move on. "

Never said it bothered me did I was just wondering why people do it of course people might not be interested but how hard is it to say yes or no and block someone or whatever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It must bother you or you wouldn't be asking the question.

Regarding how hard is to say yes or no. Picture a single female, she gets maybe 100+ messages a day, why should she spend her precious time answering them all. Instead she chooses ones she likes, responds and deletes the rest. The more popular among the membership have been know to get 2,3 or even 400+

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By *exy firemanMan
over a year ago

essex

looks like somebody is getting their panties in a twist!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Cant someone ask a simple question without the nonsense people start spouting

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By *exy firemanMan
over a year ago

essex

obviously not!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No helping some

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By *aughty_kittyWoman
over a year ago

finger licking good

i have been logged in for 7 mins, in that time i have recived 30 messages, i will not be even reading them lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Busy , can't be arsed , who knows...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i have been logged in for 7 mins, in that time i have recived 30 messages, i will not be even reading them lol"

Only 30 kitty! Slack that is lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could be a number of different reasons for it that are personal to the individual as it is their profile n therefore their business how they manage it and nobody else's. sorry if that's harsh but it's also true!

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

"The site didn't stipulate timescales when joining up....

What you on about just asked a question dont get sarcastic its not big nor clever mate"

dont see how sarcasm is in that response..

View is one of the least sarcastic posters on the site..

and what he said is correct fella, folk dont have to reply in any case..

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Cant someone ask a simple question without the nonsense people start spouting"

What was the answer you wanted - terrible women, they should answer all messages the moment they arrive to the in-box?

I often show as being on-line. Sometimes I prefer to be on the forum and don't even notice my in-box. At other times Fab is open and but I'm looking at other things on the internet. Sometimes I'm just perusing the men on the site.

I respond with a resounding no to the ones that send the stroppy message saying that I ignored their earlier message. I don't get in a strop when men don't reply to my messages. You can only control your own actions.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Could be a number of different reasons for it that are personal to the individual as it is their profile n therefore their business how they manage it and nobody else's. sorry if that's harsh but it's also true! "

How is that being harsh lol

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"The site didn't stipulate timescales when joining up....

and what he said is correct fella, folk dont have to reply in any case.."

I never bothered, I gave one of the hundred reasons why... I thought others would list a few more and they have. So he has a selection to pick from and all valid...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Im on about messages that go unread for weeks dont know what the some of you are barking about

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By *aughty_kittyWoman
over a year ago

finger licking good

"Im on about messages that go unread for weeks dont know what the some of you are barking about"

if the headline is not catchy i dont open... simple, so i have hundreds of messages that stay unopened... also i can see the first few words before i open i also dont open if i dont like the first few words lol

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Im on about messages that go unread for weeks dont know what the some of you are barking about"

When you get a lot of messages they drop off the end of the page. You can't get them back until you delete the newer messages. If you get floods of new messages even more will fall off the end of the page.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So what about the unread ones? Same reasons as the read but not replied or the deleted. Folk can do what they like with their mail

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

They didn't like the title

They have missed it in between hundred of others

They saw your bane on it, looked at your profile and might look later.

They might be waiting until they are both off for a week and go through them together

Etc etc etc etc

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Name *

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They didn't like the title

They have missed it in between hundred of others

They saw your bane on it, looked at your profile and might look later.

They might be waiting until they are both off for a week and go through them together

Etc etc etc etc "

One half of the couple will read it but not respond and the other doesn't notice it so it gets missed

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Im on about messages that go unread for weeks dont know what the some of you are barking about

Thank you a good constructive answer

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Im on about messages that go unread for weeks dont know what the some of you are barking about

Dont you even delete it or do you leave it unread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Btw OP you messaged us, I answered but you didn't respond to that message.

Should I get my knickers in a twist?

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By *aughty_kittyWoman
over a year ago

finger licking good

"Im on about messages that go unread for weeks dont know what the some of you are barking about

Dont you even delete it or do you leave it unread"

i just leave it unread, i am too lazy if i cant be arsed to read it, i cant be arsed to push the delete button either i am rude and lazy,

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By *aughty_kittyWoman
over a year ago

finger licking good

"Btw OP you messaged us, I answered but you didn't respond to that message.

Should I get my knickers in a twist? "

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

"i have been logged in for 7 mins, in that time i have recived 30 messages, i will not be even reading them lol"

Hello stranger xx

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By *aughty_kittyWoman
over a year ago

finger licking good

"i have been logged in for 7 mins, in that time i have recived 30 messages, i will not be even reading them lol

Hello stranger xx"

helllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllo xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

"Im on about messages that go unread for weeks dont know what the some of you are barking about"

There is no need to keep being so rude....you asked a question, people are answering.

My answer is because people have a choice when or if they answer mails.

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

"Don't see why it would bother you. It just means they're not interested or...perish the thought...have a life outside fab. Move on. "

A life outside Fab...really??? Does this actually happen???

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

I think it might be your pants.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Btw OP you messaged us, I answered but you didn't respond to that message.

Should I get my knickers in a twist? "

You should start a forum post about it complaining about ungrateful single guys!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op skim thru their profile you should be able to tell if they are stuck up or not just by how they word it don't waste your time messaging them

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

Oh look....the 1,275,687th similar thread....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Oh look....the 1,275,687th similar thread....

How clever and intelligent you are

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"How come when you send a message to someone they dont read it yet you can see there online and yet it goes unread for days sometimes weeks"
On this type of thread you get three types of posters.

poster a- male who wants a shag so will want to impress female posters by turning on another male poster he doesnt know to show he agrees with posters in the b category.

poster b- female posters who really cant be arsed to answer messages.

poster c- the pedants.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow, with an attitude like that, I'm surprised if you get any replies back at all..

Geez, just face it, you ain't there cup o tea and move on. Its no biggie !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And if they write a book for a profile their fingers are tired from typing and won't respond back to your message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's a lot a arrogant and bitter guys on this site...

Thank god for the decent ones that make it worth while staying. Id be long gone if it weren't for them

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Wow, with an attitude like that, I'm surprised if you get any replies back at all..

Geez, just face it, you ain't there cup o tea and move on. Its no biggie !!!

You on about me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wow, with an attitude like that, I'm surprised if you get any replies back at all..

Geez, just face it, you ain't there cup o tea and move on. Its no biggie !!!

You on about me lol"

If the shoe fits !!!

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