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By *ake_or_death OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester

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By *ake_or_death OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester

What do you use private messages for? Is it just to help decide whether you want to meet a person, or do you chat to people you're unlikely to meet due to distance/circumstances? Is it always sex chat or do you have more vanilla conversations going on?

I have had a number of conversations with people who I'm unlikely to meet but we have common interests. Some of them get flirty or even quite sexual and that's fun in itself.

What kind of messages/conversations are you open to?

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Interesting conversation about life and bdsm.

Absolutely nothing to do with sexting and will delete those who persist in pushing for it. I try to avoid the instant gratification hunters on here

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By *heGateKeeperMan
over a year ago

Stratford

To flirt uncontrollably

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By *andy CanesWoman
over a year ago

south

Chat mostly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To arrange all the meet now sex.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Usually conversation

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By *hristopherd999Man
over a year ago

Brentwood

Usually just chat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chat with people I may or may not meet.

Flirt but not sext.

Plan meets.

Flood inboxes with dick pics.

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By *ddie1966Man
over a year ago

Paper Town Central, Essex.

Just simple banter that's too boring or mundane for the site.

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

To get chat until I show my face

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I've never once had a sex chat in all the years I've been here

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By *-YourPleasureMan
over a year ago

sourhdowns

To chat and see if there are any common interests ?!

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By *educing_EmCouple
over a year ago

Tipperary


"To get chat until I show my face "

There's nothing wrong with your face!

Em x

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London


"To get chat until I show my face

There's nothing wrong with your face!

Em x"

You're just saying that cause you wanna sit on it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To get chat until I show my face

There's nothing wrong with your face!

Em x

You're just saying that cause you wanna sit on it! "

I'm jealous.

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By *panksspankedMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I'm happy to go with the flow. I like to chat about all sorts of things

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Mostly to arrange meets, I don't chat with people I'm never going to meet.

Occasionally people off the forums

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By *ie n MashCouple
over a year ago

Back in Malice

A mixture.

We’ve swapped messages with couples and men we’ve met at clubs, had horny sessions with strangers swapping fantasies and had a couple of highly engaging chats about music. The most likely meet up from all of these will be me (husband) meeting up with another lad to continue the music chat.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I rarely chat to people miles away,

I mainly chat to friends or to see if there's a spark with someone.

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Non sexual nonsense only.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use them to annoy people.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling


"I use them to annoy people."

She really does

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I don't have sex chat on here and certainly not with people I've never met.

I don't send messages but if people take the time to contact me I'm happy to chat about anything other than sex.

The vast majority of conversations will never lead to a meet, not even a social because in many cases we aren't even in the same country.

In other words I use the messaging system to have normal conversations.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In mine.. Just normal chat nothing sexual nor flirting.

I chase off the fabbers who send fuxxck me first message.

I have had some great chats some not so great. Way of the world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't have sex chat on here and certainly not with people I've never met.

I don't send messages but if people take the time to contact me I'm happy to chat about anything other than sex.

The vast majority of conversations will never lead to a meet, not even a social because in many cases we aren't even in the same country.

In other words I use the messaging system to have normal conversations."

Exactly this op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have all sorts of chats, with people I get on with and we talk about all sorts. In most cases, I'm unlikely to meet them. Very little sex chat.

I much prefer to just start chatting with a guy and we see where it goes but I haven't met anyone since I started this profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bar talk mostly. I don't expect anything to come of it.

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