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By *anessa_feltch OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

northwest

Anyone else think fab should get rid of these profiles that have been on over a year and haven't been verified.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why?

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Lanzarote

Not at all. Some people just come on for a nosey and chat. No harm in that.

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By *rivervaderMan
over a year ago

bolton

Do you know how hard it is to get a meet

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By *andadbodMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Not everyone on here wants to meet, they enjoy chatting with the like minded peeps, they may get their kicks at clubs or other outlets.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

No!

Not everyone is here to meet, and of those who are, some take a very long time to get a meet. It doesn't make them timewasters or fakes.

Cal

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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No. Let people be. You don't have to interact with them. Sometimes people have met others and don't want verifying. Or they just want to talk to people. Those things aren't hurting anyone.

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire


"Why?"
,,, this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I don't see why people can't use the sore as they wish.

Some people are not looking to meet, some find it hard to meet, some don't like verifications etc etc. I do wonder sometimes why people have issues with what really doesn't concern them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone else think fab should get rid of these profiles that have been on over a year and haven't been verified."

Hmmm…not very inclusive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not everyone wants to broadcast who they’ve met and what they’ve done.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

On Holibobs

Nope, people meet and don't want veris for certain reasons, just avoid/block those not fitting your criteria, it's a useful tool to take them out of your searches

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By *hagTonightMan
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.


"No!

Not everyone is here to meet, and of those who are, some take a very long time to get a meet. It doesn't make them timewasters or fakes.

Cal"
This .

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What about the people that just wanted a break?

What about the people not here to meet? This site ain't just about finding stuff to stick your dick into, some people are simply here for the forums or for other reasons.

What if people don't get verified, people might meet but not ask for a verification or the other person might just forgot to give one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely not.

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

There are many people who cannot meet for health reasons, sometimes it takes over a year to get back to meeting, I think it’s unfair for them.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

No

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By *coobyBoobyDooWoman
over a year ago

Markfield

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By *coobyBoobyDooWoman
over a year ago

Markfield


"Anyone else think fab should get rid of these profiles that have been on over a year and haven't been verified."

If you don’t want to connect with people who haven’t been verified you can change your message settings so that you only accept messages from people with veris.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks like it’s just you so far OP.

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By *ts just a bit of funMan
over a year ago

Surrey

I have met with a couple on here that didn’t want to verify as male wasn’t their preference it was just a one off and they didn’t want to attract other single guys/pests lol

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By *hagTonightMan
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

This shows the big problem with the verification system, should they remove it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone else think they should just get rid of entitled profiles?

Yep

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By *untimes wantedMan
over a year ago

Huddersfield


"Anyone else think fab should get rid of these profiles that have been on over a year and haven't been verified."

Just what would a veri prove your not photo verified yet got a meet veri soon as you joined but decided to hide the text ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, any reason you feel they should?

Not everyone wants to be verified, one of mine didn't want me to verify them back. Some aren't here to gain notches on the bedpost.

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By *obyn GravesTV/TS
over a year ago

1127 walnut avenue

No of course not.. it's a lot easier for a trannie to get verified by a dirty old man..than it is for a straight guy looking for women...

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By *ermite12ukMan
over a year ago

Solihull and Brentwood

If the vomen, who I'm deep in clunge vith. Would pull their damm fingers out, and organise a meat. Or at the very least reply to my deeply inappropriate messaging, along with my attached obligatory cock pic.

I could look in my calendar and maybe fit one or seven in, in a month or two's time and get the verifications you require, not to have me banned. Jus sayin.

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By *ddie1966Man
over a year ago

Paper Town Central, Essex.

I'm photo verified

Isn't that enough?

It was tough enough doing that. 4 attempts to be precise. Hands must be visible holding the sign straight not wearing glasses...

Now you want me to have intimate knowledge of someone who might not even want to write a very and price I'm a man of questionable morals?

Sorry, but it's attitudes like that, that make me want to go elsewhere.

In fact, as my membership is up for renewal, I may just do that now.

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By *esafinadOHolyNightMan
over a year ago

Belfast

First of all, if I had been paying for full access to site features every month for a year only to then be kicked off, for having no luck, I'd be pissed off. Secondly, some would just make a brand new profile right away, others might be put off the site for good and never come back. Lastly, I can imagine the last night for some users being spent bombarding others with hateful messages or pleading all over the site for veris(this happens already no doubt but the amount doing it would surely rise), and as every day would see at least 1 head the ball on their final day, people would be tortured which would put other verified users off the site.

So no, let people be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plenty of people meet but just don't feel the need to verify.

I buy stuff off Amazon all the time but never leave a review. Now I'd be pissed off if I got kicked off there.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"This shows the big problem with the verification system, should they remove it? "

... No?

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By *olf and RedCouple
over a year ago

Nr Cardiff or at Chams Darlaston

If you did that, how about those who have a veri but haven’t had a new one for 5 years. It’s no different really.

Some just like to chat or view web cams and won’t meet, that’s how I see those with no veris after a long time. It’s their choice.

Red

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok ban me now!

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By *reen as JadeCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire

If the person who verifies you leaves the verification comes off your profile. We have had that happen x

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

No.

However, can I just say how much I enjoy your username. Very witty!

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By *esthetic21Man
over a year ago

Birmingham/Bristol

If you're unsure of someone just ask them to write your name on their had and take a pic with it in. Simple as that

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"Anyone else think fab should get rid of these profiles that have been on over a year and haven't been verified."
For what reason many meet and don't like the verification system

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By *entle_lover_xMan
over a year ago

Great Dunmow


"Anyone else think fab should get rid of these profiles that have been on over a year and haven't been verified."

Yes if not Fab pic verified. I know it's not perfect but better than nothing. This is particularly true of "couples" and ladies. If a year and not even Fab verified highly likely to be a man pissing about.

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By *hrek101Man
over a year ago

Herts

Why don't you verify us all then OP or alternatively mind your business. I've met people but I don't think who I have met is anyone's business.

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By *orYourThighsOnlyMan
over a year ago

Midlands

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

No, at the moment I'm here for the forums not much else, I'm sure others are the same, when I want to I'll maybe look to meet again.

Does that mean I should leave until I want to fuck someone?

Mrs

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London


"No, at the moment I'm here for the forums not much else, I'm sure others are the same, when I want to I'll maybe look to meet again.

Does that mean I should leave until I want to fuck someone?

Mrs "

Sounds like we have to do it Mrs...for the cause!

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By *orYourThighsOnlyMan
over a year ago

Midlands

No. One thing I love about fab is the raw pics. The forums a close second. Meets come and go in unpredicted blasts.

But I get your frustration or annoyance with people with no verifications or indeed those that do have verifications that are only here to tease, chat , organise meets then chicken out. Had it happen last week a no show. Block , report and move on to the next person is your best bet. Any better ways feel free to let me know.

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By *imisugarWoman
over a year ago

Rugby

No I don't.

You don't have to interact with their profile but why should they be excluded ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you know how hard it is to get a meet"

Second that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone else think fab should get rid of these profiles that have been on over a year and haven't been verified.For what reason many meet and don't like the verification system "

I objectify too but each to their own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone else think fab should get rid of these profiles that have been on over a year and haven't been verified."

Yes and no.

if they are pretending they meet but just on for multiple wanking opportunities then yes, if they honest in their profile I don’t have a problem with it.

It’s the ones who say they will only meet verified people when they don’t have any themselves! What’s that about?

We steer clear of profiles that have been on over a year with no veris. The reality is more often then not they don’t have the balls to do this. Each to their own but just don’t waste people’s time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone else think fab should get rid of these profiles that have been on over a year and haven't been verified."

Hi op. Which are you referring to. Photo or a shag.. I do not see a photo verification on your profile. So a bit confused as to why you want rid of yourself...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why, I find verifications a turn off look at me 143 veris no thanks there’s a place for everyone as long as they aren’t bullying or being a tit

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By *ad_DriverMan
over a year ago

Driffield

Maybe some people don't need verifications to feel part of this community

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Maybe some people don't need verifications to feel part of this community "

Some people watch cam or enjoy the content. Meeting isn't compulsory. Some people have to warm up to the idea of meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No. One thing I love about fab is the raw pics. The forums a close second. Meets come and go in unpredicted blasts.

But I get your frustration or annoyance with people with no verifications or indeed those that do have verifications that are only here to tease, chat , organise meets then chicken out. Had it happen last week a no show. Block , report and move on to the next person is your best bet. Any better ways feel free to let me know. "

Yep, had same thing from a quite a long chat telling me this that and wants the chase, arranges to meet and as it gets nearer ghosts me. So it is not just you. Still cannot dwindle on it. Plenty of fish in sea mean oops sea

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

I've met many over the years and only possess one veri, its as easy as you make it but definitely not cause for ejection from the site

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By *tanley FunseekerMan
over a year ago

stanley

No, I’m sure you would be the first to scream “discrimination “ if someone tried to arbitrarily apply a ban/purge based on a factor that applies to you.

Live your own life and quit trying to make decisions about others.

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By *umagain58Man
over a year ago

London

Absolutely not. We are all different and just because not verified it does not mean anything to you unless you know circumstances

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By *uri00620Woman
over a year ago

Croydon

I haven't met for a year from here, I don't intend to in the near future. I only have a green tick thing bc I think that displays but I'm not bothered about it showing or verifications. Not everyone is.

But even if it isn't that, people use the site for a range of purposes and aren't necessarily less fake than those who might appear to be more active on here.

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere else


"No. Let people be. You don't have to interact with them. Sometimes people have met others and don't want verifying. Or they just want to talk to people. Those things aren't hurting anyone."

This. I don’t give or accept verifications anymore and I haven’t in a really long time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've met many over the years and only possess one veri, its as easy as you make it but definitely not cause for ejection from the site "

Only need one to say yes, seen them in flesh on cam or for a social. To verify who they are. I prefer to not list mine. Once blocked veri goes or if they or you leave site.

Each to our own on how we use Fab swingers

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere else


"If you're unsure of someone just ask them to write your name on their had and take a pic with it in. Simple as that"

Hand or head?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm verified my birth certificate says so anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No replies for clarification from the OP on this so guess it can be filed under trolling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've still not been banned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm waiting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.

Or at least make them upload a picture holding a spoon to their nose while sticking their tongue out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had naughty Skype calls with quite a few guys that didn't want me to verify them.

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By *ermite12ukMan
over a year ago

Solihull and Brentwood


"I'm verified my birth certificate says so anyway "

Think I should be certified.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think they should just ban all Fabs profiles.

Everyone.

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By *ortyairCouple
over a year ago

Wallasey

Don't think they should be removed, like others have said, people come on here other than to meet.

However we would be quite sceptical about such profiles. But that said we are sceptical about verified profiles that say they want to meet.

Such as only Web cam verifications, with not actually meets is a bit of a red flag.

Another is those with loads of verifications from people who have met in person but only have socials or attended a social event.

The other main one are those profiles saying they are verified but not showing verifications or a summary at the very least.

Just had a message from a nice couple, who say they are verified. No verifications or summary posted. They have loads of pics of themselves, portrait style, showing both their faces. Nothing rude about any of these 'family album' pics. The only rude ones are a pair of cock pics. This makes us think the 'wife' has no idea she is on here. It looks like a big red flag.

So verifications for us are not necessarily always as genuine in certain circumstances. We may be totally wrong but it's our choice to read them however we want.

So don't remove anyone's profiles for lack of verisimilitude, after all they may have a great reason for not having them. You can use other methods to prove people are genuine.

Happy fabbing everyone Mrs x

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By *entle_lover_xMan
over a year ago

Great Dunmow

I see a lot of comments with reasons for no meet veris. That is understandable in some cases and we draw our own conclusions on that one depending on the person.

However, hard to see any excuse for not being Fab pic verified after a year even if not meet verified. It doesn't really matter for men that much as not many ladies will pretend to be a man but it matters a lot for couples and ladies. So many men pretending to be ladies and couples where just one half (usually the man). If you've been here a while as a man or couples tend to discount any lady or couples not Fab or meet verified as vast majority of the time they are not real. I think it would be much better if everybody had to be Fab pic verified. It's not perfect but better than nothing and it's really not a high bar. You don't even need to show face if you don't want to.

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By *iss_Juicy79Woman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

No not at all my partner was on here 4 years before he got his first meet.

The profiles they should delete are fakes and timewasters

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By *iss_Juicy79Woman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Why, I find verifications a turn off look at me 143 veris no thanks there’s a place for everyone as long as they aren’t bullying or being a tit "

What if most of those 143 verifications are from social events is that still a turn off?

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By *hagTonightMan
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

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By *hagTonightMan
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.


"This shows the big problem with the verification system, should they remove it?

... No?"
Yes. I have noticed that this seems to just be a problem with sites that use this kind of system.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meet would be good.

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

No.

Everyone can use fab how they like. They might not want to meet.

They might not want to be verified if they do meet.

No big deal. Everyone can use fab however they wish

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Just filter them out from messaging

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Person 1. Joins, has hundreds of meets, goes to parties, is a thoroughly decent person but doesn't seek verifications.

Person 2. A timid pretender who seldom ventures out, has very little experience and is a nasty little git under it all ..... gets verified by cam or after a ten minute meet for coffee and never shows the veri.

You choose.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see a lot of comments with reasons for no meet veris. That is understandable in some cases and we draw our own conclusions on that one depending on the person.

However, hard to see any excuse for not being Fab pic verified after a year even if not meet verified. It doesn't really matter for men that much as not many ladies will pretend to be a man but it matters a lot for couples and ladies. So many men pretending to be ladies and couples where just one half (usually the man). If you've been here a while as a man or couples tend to discount any lady or couples not Fab or meet verified as vast majority of the time they are not real. I think it would be much better if everybody had to be Fab pic verified. It's not perfect but better than nothing and it's really not a high bar. You don't even need to show face if you don't want to. "

They might not want to show their body either.

If people need veris to baby sit them they're not adult enough for an adult site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why, I find verifications a turn off look at me 143 veris no thanks there’s a place for everyone as long as they aren’t bullying or being a tit "

Same. I don't want to see any veris at all.

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By *rigbyMan
over a year ago

Skelmersdale

People who have veris,great...post them and be happy to

But there's plenty people who are nice decent members who just can't get a meet, or a veri

I know what's coming...you can be verified by a can session, or from a social... But its not always that simple,

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By *urious couple22Couple
over a year ago

Derby

Normally if they haven't met anybody in a year we will block them or just not respond same as if they've been verified once like 5 years ago.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve been here for around 4 months now, no veris although I have had meets with other non veried.

I’m photo verified, have public face pics, an open and honest bio too

So if people choose not to meet me because I haven’t been verified by meet, that’s their choice

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By *ustJ69Man
over a year ago

Warrington

I can't get verified to save my life.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

No. How ridiculous. I don’t leave or show veris. Not everyone does. If people don’t want to meet me just because of that they really wouldn’t be for me anyway. It’s not compulsory to meet on here either!

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By *weetiepie99Woman
over a year ago

cardiff

No. I hate verifications, or lots of them. They mean nothing.

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By *aughtyhub80Man
over a year ago

Wallasey

Don't I need to have a meeting before being verified

I can swap number

I want genuine meet up and to be verified

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve been in here over a year and no verification, I’ve met people for socials, never seen the need to be confirmed as anything, fourth time in here and after over ten years the verification bit you could literally wipe your arse with it, I’ve met both verified and unverified, an asshole is still an asshole, cue Eddie izzard jokes ….. do you have a flag

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By *lansmanMan
over a year ago

Sheffield


"No of course not.. it's a lot easier for a trannie to get verified by a dirty old man..than it is for a straight guy looking for women... "

So funny , yet so true ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s a continual profile that joins and leaves pretty much the same day, ‘she’ has two or three usernames, sometimes ‘she’ joins and then within an hour she’s meet verified, now this is ok I hear you all cry, the same profile has popped up and rejoined over 60 times this year alone, now tell me they sound like meet worthy swingers because ‘she’ is verified, it’s either kids or someone with more time than sense

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By *rozac_fairyCouple
over a year ago

tamworth

I don't really understand why tbh.

Lots of people use the site for various reasons, not everyone wants to meet, it's noone else's business why they're here.

If it bothers you, or anyone else block the profiles as you come across them and use tour message filters to cut as many as possible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been here for over a year, no veris - not felt the need only met 3/4 times just being picky! Mostly love having a browse ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well straight guys often can’t get meets so they’re stuffed.

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By *alifaxLovemachineMan
over a year ago

Halifax


"Anyone else think they should just get rid of entitled profiles?

Yep

"

Perhaps people could try to apply judgements to where they belong not on innocent parties... everyone should be given a chance until they themselves act In a manner that warrants said judgement... not be judged on the back of someone else's actions as a time waster....

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By *hiregirl76Woman
over a year ago

Scotland

I'm one of those. I was verified on my previous profile which I deleted in 2019. I came back Nov 2021 but kept my profile hidden as I'm only back to chat to previous friends and for the forums. Obviously I had to photo verify to do the latter but I've no intentions of meeting from here again. People should be able to use the site as they please so long as they don't try to mislead anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah let people use the site how they wish. Not everyone wants to meet, plenty use the chat rooms, forums or just browse hot photos/videoes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There’s a continual profile that joins and leaves pretty much the same day, ‘she’ has two or three usernames, sometimes ‘she’ joins and then within an hour she’s meet verified, now this is ok I hear you all cry, the same profile has popped up and rejoined over 60 times this year alone, now tell me they sound like meet worthy swingers because ‘she’ is verified, it’s either kids or someone with more time than sense "

Similar to this there are 2 local profiles, different names, exact same wording and even upload the same pictures...both are allegedly single women, can't understand how admin haven't picked up on this as last pics uploaded were within minutes of each other because they appeared in my local updates one after the other...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nah let people use the site how they wish. Not everyone wants to meet, plenty use the chat rooms, forums or just browse hot photos/videoes. "
love the chats pics even better get a meet.

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

No.

Everyone uses this site as they see fit.

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

Chesterfield


"Anyone else think fab should get rid of these profiles that have been on over a year and haven't been verified."

What’s with the gatekeeping?

Fabs is full of profiles who would be better off on FabGuys, but I have never seen anyone suggest purging those.

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By *ayHaychMan
over a year ago

Leeds (Home) / Sheffield (Work)


"Anyone else think fab should get rid of these profiles that have been on over a year and haven't been verified.

What’s with the gatekeeping?

Fabs is full of profiles who would be better off on FabGuys, but I have never seen anyone suggest purging those. "

Many pretend they’re not already on fabguys because the veris from other men put some people off .

I was chatting to a woman on here, it was going very well, she was happy that I am bisexual. Many messages in I said I mentioned fabguys and how the dynamics on there are different. She said I had been disrespectful to her and had treated her disgustingly. When I said no worries, we can leave it there, wishing you all the best, I got further abuse saying I was being condescending and rude as well as being called other expletives

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

No. Make your own filters work and it's easy

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

Chesterfield


"I got further abuse saying I was being condescending and rude as well as being called other expletives "

Dodged a bullet there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone else think fab should get rid of these profiles that have been on over a year and haven't been verified."

Why? You want to force people to meet?

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By *jorkishMan
over a year ago

Seaforth

Some don't want to give or receive verifications, although unlikely they could have met 100's lol. As some have said some use the site just to chat with no intention of meeting anyone. It only becomes a problem if they pretend they do want a meet

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By *illan-KillashMan
over a year ago

London/Sussex/Surrey/Berks/Hants


"Anyone else think fab should get rid of these profiles that have been on over a year and haven't been verified."

No.

Only the ones who moan about how other people run their profiles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone else think fab should get rid of these profiles that have been on over a year and haven't been verified.

What’s with the gatekeeping?

Fabs is full of profiles who would be better off on FabGuys, but I have never seen anyone suggest purging those.

Many pretend they’re not already on fabguys because the veris from other men put some people off .

I was chatting to a woman on here, it was going very well, she was happy that I am bisexual. Many messages in I said I mentioned fabguys and how the dynamics on there are different. She said I had been disrespectful to her and had treated her disgustingly. When I said no worries, we can leave it there, wishing you all the best, I got further abuse saying I was being condescending and rude as well as being called other expletives "

She sounds lovely!

Did she explain what her problem was?

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

I’d sooner get rid of judgemental people who think people without veris are low life’s.

I’ve no veris for longer than a year (not through lack of trying) but I enjoy the forums l,don’t send out sh1tty messages and I’m always polite and respectful of couples and women.

Live and let live unless someone is a repeat offender then ban them

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By *tephanie63Woman
over a year ago

BRIDGWATER

I don't have any verifications but I have done meets. I don't care much for verifications...

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

People use the site for all kinds of reasons not always to meet or they meet and don't show verifications. I've not been meeting for a long time now I'm just here for the forums. What difference does it make to you op how others use the site

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By *ayHaychMan
over a year ago

Leeds (Home) / Sheffield (Work)


"

She sounds lovely!

Did she explain what her problem was? "

Nope. She just said fabguys was disgusting and that I had been disrespectful by talking to her and being on that site. I mean my profile is quite clear…

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By *ambridgezwingerMan
16 weeks ago

Cambridge

Non-verified looks as dodgy as blank profiles...

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By *agic johnsonMan
16 weeks ago

morden

Can't wait till you get a dry spell that lasts over a year ,

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By (user no longer on site)
16 weeks ago


"Non-verified looks as dodgy as blank profiles..."

Single profiles with all action shots of women look dodgy

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By (user no longer on site)
16 weeks ago

Yes they should definitely delete all profiles that have been verified for over a year.

Especially women and couples profile. Get rid of a lot of time wasters that way and people that say they are swinger's because they sit around talking.

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By (user no longer on site)
16 weeks ago


"Anyone else think fab should get rid of these profiles that have been on over a year and haven't been verified."

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
16 weeks ago

No.

People have reasons why they may not have been verified like they have been unwell, they don't want to have veris, they've met but had bad experiences so they haven't wanted to put negative veris

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By *indergirlWoman
16 weeks ago

somewhere, someplace


"No.

People have reasons why they may not have been verified like they have been unwell, they don't want to have veris, they've met but had bad experiences so they haven't wanted to put negative veris"

Or a non veri has met another non veri therfore no veri can be made 🤔

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By *naswingdressWoman
16 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Can't wait till you get a dry spell that lasts over a year , "

Charming

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By *mackwaterjack1701Man
16 weeks ago

Moray and Highlands

How else do you get rid of the fakes, timewasters and such like?

How do you stop poor single lasses getting mobbed??

Needs to be something done.. 🤷

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By *ora the explorerWoman
16 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

No! 🤣. People don’t have to verify. I don’t think I’ve had one for over a year. I don’t want them. Doesn’t mean I don’t meet anyone.

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By *punk n gushCouple
16 weeks ago

Lyndhurst

No we don't see it as a problem when we first joined we didn't want or do verifications from our meets

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By *illan-KillashMan
16 weeks ago

London/Sussex/Surrey/Berks/Hants


"Non-verified looks as dodgy as blank profiles...

Single profiles with all action shots of women look dodgy"

I see what you did there.

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By *icolerobbieCouple
16 weeks ago

walsall

I don’t always verify. I don’t want to be verified. I think the whole verification thing oozes poor taste. I don’t want to be rated like a product and I don’t feel the need to tell everyone who is involved in my private life.

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By (user no longer on site)
16 weeks ago

What’s the rush?

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By *ealitybitesMan
16 weeks ago

Belfast

My last verification was over 2 years ago.

The last time I met someone new for anything more than coffee was almost 5 years ago.

If anyone has an issue with that they are free to pass on by and find someone who ticks their boxes.

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By (user no longer on site)
16 weeks ago

This is why I leave all the time, I'll never get to a full year so I'm safe from the culling.

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By (user no longer on site)
16 weeks ago

Speaking from someone who hasn't got any verifications ..

Although I've meet up with a few people since being on here whether they are single or they are couple , I've never asked them for a review at the end of the meet

don't get me wrong id love a verification to prove who I say I am

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By *hitetornadoMan
16 weeks ago

Rotherham

I kinda agree with this comment because let’s face it fab is inundated atm with fake profiles … at least the verifications prove that they’ve at least met someone at some point

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By (user no longer on site)
16 weeks ago


"I kinda agree with this comment because let’s face it fab is inundated atm with fake profiles … at least the verifications prove that they’ve at least met someone at some point "

Not having a verification doesn’t mean they’re fake. Just don’t interact with them if it concerns you. Simple.

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By (user no longer on site)
16 weeks ago

Not everyone on fab swingers are swingers. Some are just lonely and want the forums. When coming across a profile that has been on for over a year with no verification then just block them and they wont show up again.

Leave the non swingers to their own devices and focus on the ones that do meet

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By *ittle Miss TinkerbellWoman
16 weeks ago

your head


"I kinda agree with this comment because let’s face it fab is inundated atm with fake profiles … at least the verifications prove that they’ve at least met someone at some point "

Veris can be faked, they really don't prove anything.

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By *layfullsamMan
16 weeks ago

Solihull

Not my circus, not my monkeys

Unless the accused people are causing hassle then live and let live

There are so many other worse things in life to get judgemental about

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By *ora the explorerWoman
16 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts


"I don’t always verify. I don’t want to be verified. I think the whole verification thing oozes poor taste. I don’t want to be rated like a product and I don’t feel the need to tell everyone who is involved in my private life. "

100 percent this

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By *ruceyyMan
16 weeks ago

London

I got verified within 2 weeks of my first profile.

Then I made another, that wasn't verified at all for about a year and a half.

Then another... That one got banned quick

Then this one! And on this it took about 7 months before I finally decided to do the webcam and club thing. Then I stopped again.

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By *uzzleMan
16 weeks ago

Hastings

I'd be deleted then!

On and off here for 3 years, sent one message without a response.

No verifications whatsoever!

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