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By *hris55555 OP   Man
over a year ago

liverpool

For women on here to drop a message to the guys ??

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By *eardedman7Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

Only happened the once for me

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

From what is said by various men, yes.

From what is said by various women, no.

Hope that helps

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

No I don't think so. Think there are lots of women who message first, if they see a profile they like.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land


"From what is said by various men, yes.

From what is said by various women, no.

Hope that helps "

Ok she said it better

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By *andadbodMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

nope, ive had a few the past couple of months

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"From what is said by various men, yes.

From what is said by various women, no.

Hope that helps

Ok she said it better "

Aww thanks

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

Nothing wrong with ladies making the first move 2023 and all that

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

Most women won't bother. Either lazy, fear of rejection, or simply knowing they don't gave to.

With that said, some do. They wear their big boy pants and get that messaging shit done.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling


"From what is said by various men, yes.

From what is said by various women, no.

Hope that helps

Ok she said it better

Aww thanks "

I feel I said it even better

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Whether it's a message or a wink showing interest

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land


"Most women won't bother. Either lazy, fear of rejection, or simply knowing they don't gave to.

With that said, some do. They wear their big boy pants and get that messaging shit done. "

Some of just wear our big girl pants, just saying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In a blue moon used to happen more than it does now

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

Yes, it is and it has only ever happened to me once. That’s been extremely honest

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling


"Most women won't bother. Either lazy, fear of rejection, or simply knowing they don't gave to.

With that said, some do. They wear their big boy pants and get that messaging shit done.

Some of just wear our big girl pants, just saying "

Yeah but big boy pants sounds better! I mean you are doing the "fab male role" of sending a message after all.

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By *ez669Man
over a year ago

East Kilbride

They mostly only drop you a message if you have said something to anoy them

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

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By *hris55555 OP   Man
over a year ago

liverpool


"No I don't think so. Think there are lots of women who message first, if they see a profile they like. "

Just think it’s slightly rare, should be embraced

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

If I find someone I like the look of then I message

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By *hris55555 OP   Man
over a year ago

liverpool


"Nothing wrong with ladies making the first move 2023 and all that "

Should happen more often then lol

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Not at all, the thing most don't realise is when we find the right ones, we tend to keep them for a long time, so there's no need to spam other men with messages

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"From what is said by various men, yes.

From what is said by various women, no.

Hope that helps

Ok she said it better

Aww thanks

I feel I said it even better"

Obviously. Because you're awesome.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I'm sure I replied to this same question already today.

No it's not strange.

My last almost 4 years on here have been based around women sending me messages because I don't send any.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No it's not strange for a woman to message. It is however out of this world to get a message from a woman longer than 'hi'.

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

how many women do you think are on here ??

50 men 100 men 200 men per woman depending where you live ad you expect a message from women..

here's a fact lots of women on fab message first i do and i know of loads of others who do too but they message the men that catch there eye ie sexual attraction good profiles confidence but where we differer from most men we only message those we like and not like most mest who message 100s with a fanny and a pulse ..

nobody owes you a message until someone thinks oh hes a bit of ok ... but that will get you a message most never reply in a decent way anyway lol most will let themselves down from thier aswering said message

so alot do message just because your getting none means nothing

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By *hris55555 OP   Man
over a year ago

liverpool


"If I find someone I like the look of then I message "

Good to hear it does happen then

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset


"Most women won't bother. Either lazy, fear of rejection, or simply knowing they don't gave to.

With that said, some do. They wear their big boy pants and get that messaging shit done.

Some of just wear our big girl pants, just saying "

there are far more confident women on here and the scene in general compared to men even tho mens numbers severely out number women ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Yes cause they’re all pussies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most women won't bother. Either lazy, fear of rejection, or simply knowing they don't gave to.

With that said, some do. They wear their big boy pants and get that messaging shit done. "

Offended!

Ok I am lazy, but I don't care if they reject me and I really do need to! I ask for penis and instill don't get any!

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land


"Most women won't bother. Either lazy, fear of rejection, or simply knowing they don't gave to.

With that said, some do. They wear their big boy pants and get that messaging shit done.

Some of just wear our big girl pants, just saying

Yeah but big boy pants sounds better! I mean you are doing the "fab male role" of sending a message after all. "

Oh I see thanks for correcting silly old me

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling


"Most women won't bother. Either lazy, fear of rejection, or simply knowing they don't gave to.

With that said, some do. They wear their big boy pants and get that messaging shit done.

Some of just wear our big girl pants, just saying

there are far more confident women on here and the scene in general compared to men even tho mens numbers severely out number women ...

"

Of course there are. But also confident does not always equal to them notfearing rejection, plenty of women admitted to it in person, on forum, and even on their profiles.

For a lot of people, in this case and context, women. Their confidence comes from them being the centre of attention. The entire casual sex swinging world revolves around them. They are put on a pedestal and by some men, couples, and other women worshipped beyond compare, anything said to win their attention and gaze.

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

It does happen. Yes.

Do they still expect you to look like a catalogue model while also being hilarious, yet mature, and have your own place and money and charm but not too much charm because no other ladies can be interested....

Also yes

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I changed my filters to not allow first messages over three years ago. It's been a wonderful experience

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling


"Most women won't bother. Either lazy, fear of rejection, or simply knowing they don't gave to.

With that said, some do. They wear their big boy pants and get that messaging shit done.

Offended!

Ok I am lazy, but I don't care if they reject me and I really do need to! I ask for penis and instill don't get any!

"

You don't count. You are something else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most women won't bother. Either lazy, fear of rejection, or simply knowing they don't gave to.

With that said, some do. They wear their big boy pants and get that messaging shit done.

Offended!

Ok I am lazy, but I don't care if they reject me and I really do need to! I ask for penis and instill don't get any!

You don't count. You are something else "

Awwwww you say the sweetest things.

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London


"Most women won't bother. Either lazy, fear of rejection, or simply knowing they don't gave to.

With that said, some do. They wear their big boy pants and get that messaging shit done.

Offended!

Ok I am lazy, but I don't care if they reject me and I really do need to! I ask for penis and instill don't get any!

You don't count. You are something else "

Because she's so on our level?

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling


"Most women won't bother. Either lazy, fear of rejection, or simply knowing they don't gave to.

With that said, some do. They wear their big boy pants and get that messaging shit done.

Offended!

Ok I am lazy, but I don't care if they reject me and I really do need to! I ask for penis and instill don't get any!

You don't count. You are something else

Because she's so on our level?"

Yeah... Let's go with that. That's what I meant...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Of course there are. But also confident does not always equal to them notfearing rejection, plenty of women admitted to it in person, on forum, and even on their profiles.

For a lot of people, in this case and context, women. Their confidence comes from them being the centre of attention. The entire casual sex swinging world revolves around them. They are put on a pedestal and by some men, couples, and other women worshipped beyond compare, anything said to win their attention and gaze. "

Just checking sarcasm levels on this one...

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By *ts just a bit of funMan
over a year ago

Surrey

I can’t even get a message back let alone women messaging first lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Of course there are. But also confident does not always equal to them notfearing rejection, plenty of women admitted to it in person, on forum, and even on their profiles.

For a lot of people, in this case and context, women. Their confidence comes from them being the centre of attention. The entire casual sex swinging world revolves around them. They are put on a pedestal and by some men, couples, and other women worshipped beyond compare, anything said to win their attention and gaze.

Just checking sarcasm levels on this one..."

I mean. He's not wrong

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"

Of course there are. But also confident does not always equal to them notfearing rejection, plenty of women admitted to it in person, on forum, and even on their profiles.

For a lot of people, in this case and context, women. Their confidence comes from them being the centre of attention. The entire casual sex swinging world revolves around them. They are put on a pedestal and by some men, couples, and other women worshipped beyond compare, anything said to win their attention and gaze.

Just checking sarcasm levels on this one...

I mean. He's not wrong

"

He really isn't. He shouldn't be allowed to be that pretty and have a brain.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Of course there are. But also confident does not always equal to them notfearing rejection, plenty of women admitted to it in person, on forum, and even on their profiles.

For a lot of people, in this case and context, women. Their confidence comes from them being the centre of attention. The entire casual sex swinging world revolves around them. They are put on a pedestal and by some men, couples, and other women worshipped beyond compare, anything said to win their attention and gaze.

Just checking sarcasm levels on this one...

I mean. He's not wrong

He really isn't. He shouldn't be allowed to be that pretty and have a brain."

The entire swinging world revolves around women? No melodrama there.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"

Of course there are. But also confident does not always equal to them notfearing rejection, plenty of women admitted to it in person, on forum, and even on their profiles.

For a lot of people, in this case and context, women. Their confidence comes from them being the centre of attention. The entire casual sex swinging world revolves around them. They are put on a pedestal and by some men, couples, and other women worshipped beyond compare, anything said to win their attention and gaze.

Just checking sarcasm levels on this one...

I mean. He's not wrong

He really isn't. He shouldn't be allowed to be that pretty and have a brain.

The entire swinging world revolves around women? No melodrama there. "

The entire swinging world... in their world. That doesn't necessarily mean it's true of anyone else's world.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling


"

Of course there are. But also confident does not always equal to them notfearing rejection, plenty of women admitted to it in person, on forum, and even on their profiles.

For a lot of people, in this case and context, women. Their confidence comes from them being the centre of attention. The entire casual sex swinging world revolves around them. They are put on a pedestal and by some men, couples, and other women worshipped beyond compare, anything said to win their attention and gaze.

Just checking sarcasm levels on this one..."

Sarcasm, none. Applies to all women, no.

But that is how confidence works for some people. The attention, the praise, the ego boost, the power and control of selection. It's not limited to the sex world. Happens in all things. They get off on it, they gain more confidence from it. You take it away and they go back to being not noticed and not able to handle the change.

It's a common trait of human behaviour. It's not sexist, it's not any kind of bashing, just simple human behaviour within a situation.

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

What Kai's trying to say is.

Women, your vagina is why you're confident here. Fair enough let it out here but also, you're not god's fucking gift. Nor are us men. Let's all be cool.

Right Kai?

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London


"What Kai's trying to say is.

Women, your vagina is why you're confident here. Fair enough let it out here but also, you're not god's fucking gift. Nor are us men. Let's all be cool.

Right Kai? "

Are you asking women to get their vaginas out?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Of course there are. But also confident does not always equal to them notfearing rejection, plenty of women admitted to it in person, on forum, and even on their profiles.

For a lot of people, in this case and context, women. Their confidence comes from them being the centre of attention. The entire casual sex swinging world revolves around them. They are put on a pedestal and by some men, couples, and other women worshipped beyond compare, anything said to win their attention and gaze.

Just checking sarcasm levels on this one...

Sarcasm, none. Applies to all women, no.

But that is how confidence works for some people. The attention, the praise, the ego boost, the power and control of selection. It's not limited to the sex world. Happens in all things. They get off on it, they gain more confidence from it. You take it away and they go back to being not noticed and not able to handle the change.

It's a common trait of human behaviour. It's not sexist, it's not any kind of bashing, just simple human behaviour within a situation. "

I didn't suggest you were being sexist. I just didn't expect you to be someone saying that (in another way) that women have the power here. But what do I know? I'm not a swinger.

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London


"What Kai's trying to say is.

Women, your vagina is why you're confident here. Fair enough let it out here but also, you're not god's fucking gift. Nor are us men. Let's all be cool.

Right Kai?

Are you asking women to get their vaginas out?"

No, I don't think they actually look all that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What Kai's trying to say is.

Women, your vagina is why you're confident here. Fair enough let it out here but also, you're not god's fucking gift. Nor are us men. Let's all be cool.

Right Kai?

Are you asking women to get their vaginas out?

No, I don't think they actually look all that "

As long as you don't say they look like stamped bats, we are good.

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By *omanarab43287653975Woman
over a year ago

Manchester

Not at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Of course there are. But also confident does not always equal to them notfearing rejection, plenty of women admitted to it in person, on forum, and even on their profiles.

For a lot of people, in this case and context, women. Their confidence comes from them being the centre of attention. The entire casual sex swinging world revolves around them. They are put on a pedestal and by some men, couples, and other women worshipped beyond compare, anything said to win their attention and gaze.

Just checking sarcasm levels on this one...

Sarcasm, none. Applies to all women, no.

But that is how confidence works for some people. The attention, the praise, the ego boost, the power and control of selection. It's not limited to the sex world. Happens in all things. They get off on it, they gain more confidence from it. You take it away and they go back to being not noticed and not able to handle the change.

It's a common trait of human behaviour. It's not sexist, it's not any kind of bashing, just simple human behaviour within a situation.

I didn't suggest you were being sexist. I just didn't expect you to be someone saying that (in another way) that women have the power here. But what do I know? I'm not a swinger. "

Of course women have the power here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Of course there are. But also confident does not always equal to them notfearing rejection, plenty of women admitted to it in person, on forum, and even on their profiles.

For a lot of people, in this case and context, women. Their confidence comes from them being the centre of attention. The entire casual sex swinging world revolves around them. They are put on a pedestal and by some men, couples, and other women worshipped beyond compare, anything said to win their attention and gaze.

Just checking sarcasm levels on this one...

Sarcasm, none. Applies to all women, no.

But that is how confidence works for some people. The attention, the praise, the ego boost, the power and control of selection. It's not limited to the sex world. Happens in all things. They get off on it, they gain more confidence from it. You take it away and they go back to being not noticed and not able to handle the change.

It's a common trait of human behaviour. It's not sexist, it's not any kind of bashing, just simple human behaviour within a situation.

I didn't suggest you were being sexist. I just didn't expect you to be someone saying that (in another way) that women have the power here. But what do I know? I'm not a swinger.

Of course women have the power here."

Tell me why.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very rare indeed, happend just the once to me, kinda think she was just lonely it was rather late haha.

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London


"

Of course there are. But also confident does not always equal to them notfearing rejection, plenty of women admitted to it in person, on forum, and even on their profiles.

For a lot of people, in this case and context, women. Their confidence comes from them being the centre of attention. The entire casual sex swinging world revolves around them. They are put on a pedestal and by some men, couples, and other women worshipped beyond compare, anything said to win their attention and gaze.

Just checking sarcasm levels on this one...

Sarcasm, none. Applies to all women, no.

But that is how confidence works for some people. The attention, the praise, the ego boost, the power and control of selection. It's not limited to the sex world. Happens in all things. They get off on it, they gain more confidence from it. You take it away and they go back to being not noticed and not able to handle the change.

It's a common trait of human behaviour. It's not sexist, it's not any kind of bashing, just simple human behaviour within a situation.

I didn't suggest you were being sexist. I just didn't expect you to be someone saying that (in another way) that women have the power here. But what do I know? I'm not a swinger.

Of course women have the power here.

Tell me why. "

Seriously?

Over 50 percent of men will message and try to fuck anything with a vagina on here.

Thats why.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Of course there are. But also confident does not always equal to them notfearing rejection, plenty of women admitted to it in person, on forum, and even on their profiles.

For a lot of people, in this case and context, women. Their confidence comes from them being the centre of attention. The entire casual sex swinging world revolves around them. They are put on a pedestal and by some men, couples, and other women worshipped beyond compare, anything said to win their attention and gaze.

Just checking sarcasm levels on this one...

Sarcasm, none. Applies to all women, no.

But that is how confidence works for some people. The attention, the praise, the ego boost, the power and control of selection. It's not limited to the sex world. Happens in all things. They get off on it, they gain more confidence from it. You take it away and they go back to being not noticed and not able to handle the change.

It's a common trait of human behaviour. It's not sexist, it's not any kind of bashing, just simple human behaviour within a situation.

I didn't suggest you were being sexist. I just didn't expect you to be someone saying that (in another way) that women have the power here. But what do I know? I'm not a swinger.

Of course women have the power here.

Tell me why.

Seriously?

Over 50 percent of men will message and try to fuck anything with a vagina on here.

Thats why."

More like 90% mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Of course there are. But also confident does not always equal to them notfearing rejection, plenty of women admitted to it in person, on forum, and even on their profiles.

For a lot of people, in this case and context, women. Their confidence comes from them being the centre of attention. The entire casual sex swinging world revolves around them. They are put on a pedestal and by some men, couples, and other women worshipped beyond compare, anything said to win their attention and gaze.

Just checking sarcasm levels on this one...

Sarcasm, none. Applies to all women, no.

But that is how confidence works for some people. The attention, the praise, the ego boost, the power and control of selection. It's not limited to the sex world. Happens in all things. They get off on it, they gain more confidence from it. You take it away and they go back to being not noticed and not able to handle the change.

It's a common trait of human behaviour. It's not sexist, it's not any kind of bashing, just simple human behaviour within a situation.

I didn't suggest you were being sexist. I just didn't expect you to be someone saying that (in another way) that women have the power here. But what do I know? I'm not a swinger.

Of course women have the power here.

Tell me why. "

Just look at the forums. It's blatantly obvious.

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By *esafinadOHolyNightMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I imagine that women get messaged loads by guys as soon as they make their profile. Therefore, they don't need to send a first message. In saying that, on my previous profile I caught a couple of first messages through my status updates. I guess some women get fed up getting bombarded by every horny guy on the site and instead go after those they actually fancy meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Of course there are. But also confident does not always equal to them notfearing rejection, plenty of women admitted to it in person, on forum, and even on their profiles.

For a lot of people, in this case and context, women. Their confidence comes from them being the centre of attention. The entire casual sex swinging world revolves around them. They are put on a pedestal and by some men, couples, and other women worshipped beyond compare, anything said to win their attention and gaze.

Just checking sarcasm levels on this one...

Sarcasm, none. Applies to all women, no.

But that is how confidence works for some people. The attention, the praise, the ego boost, the power and control of selection. It's not limited to the sex world. Happens in all things. They get off on it, they gain more confidence from it. You take it away and they go back to being not noticed and not able to handle the change.

It's a common trait of human behaviour. It's not sexist, it's not any kind of bashing, just simple human behaviour within a situation.

I didn't suggest you were being sexist. I just didn't expect you to be someone saying that (in another way) that women have the power here. But what do I know? I'm not a swinger.

Of course women have the power here.

Tell me why.

Seriously?

Over 50 percent of men will message and try to fuck anything with a vagina on here.

Thats why.

More like 90% mate "

That makes men stupid. Not women powerful.

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London


"

Of course there are. But also confident does not always equal to them notfearing rejection, plenty of women admitted to it in person, on forum, and even on their profiles.

For a lot of people, in this case and context, women. Their confidence comes from them being the centre of attention. The entire casual sex swinging world revolves around them. They are put on a pedestal and by some men, couples, and other women worshipped beyond compare, anything said to win their attention and gaze.

Just checking sarcasm levels on this one...

Sarcasm, none. Applies to all women, no.

But that is how confidence works for some people. The attention, the praise, the ego boost, the power and control of selection. It's not limited to the sex world. Happens in all things. They get off on it, they gain more confidence from it. You take it away and they go back to being not noticed and not able to handle the change.

It's a common trait of human behaviour. It's not sexist, it's not any kind of bashing, just simple human behaviour within a situation.

I didn't suggest you were being sexist. I just didn't expect you to be someone saying that (in another way) that women have the power here. But what do I know? I'm not a swinger.

Of course women have the power here.

Tell me why.

Seriously?

Over 50 percent of men will message and try to fuck anything with a vagina on here.

Thats why.

More like 90% mate

That makes men stupid. Not women powerful. "

True, but maybe men being stupid is what makes women more powerful.

Haven't seen a student that passed no grades become president have you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Of course there are. But also confident does not always equal to them notfearing rejection, plenty of women admitted to it in person, on forum, and even on their profiles.

For a lot of people, in this case and context, women. Their confidence comes from them being the centre of attention. The entire casual sex swinging world revolves around them. They are put on a pedestal and by some men, couples, and other women worshipped beyond compare, anything said to win their attention and gaze.

Just checking sarcasm levels on this one...

Sarcasm, none. Applies to all women, no.

But that is how confidence works for some people. The attention, the praise, the ego boost, the power and control of selection. It's not limited to the sex world. Happens in all things. They get off on it, they gain more confidence from it. You take it away and they go back to being not noticed and not able to handle the change.

It's a common trait of human behaviour. It's not sexist, it's not any kind of bashing, just simple human behaviour within a situation.

I didn't suggest you were being sexist. I just didn't expect you to be someone saying that (in another way) that women have the power here. But what do I know? I'm not a swinger.

Of course women have the power here.

Tell me why.

Seriously?

Over 50 percent of men will message and try to fuck anything with a vagina on here.

Thats why.

More like 90% mate

That makes men stupid. Not women powerful.

True, but maybe men being stupid is what makes women more powerful.

Haven't seen a student that passed no grades become president have you?"

Most men will shag anything, women won't it's that simple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"nope, ive had a few the past couple of months"

I'm sure you had....all men .... with buttocks like that....

Imagine straight men wondering why...."all men are texting me".... & Ye keep wondering.........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Of course there are. But also confident does not always equal to them notfearing rejection, plenty of women admitted to it in person, on forum, and even on their profiles.

For a lot of people, in this case and context, women. Their confidence comes from them being the centre of attention. The entire casual sex swinging world revolves around them. They are put on a pedestal and by some men, couples, and other women worshipped beyond compare, anything said to win their attention and gaze.

Just checking sarcasm levels on this one...

Sarcasm, none. Applies to all women, no.

But that is how confidence works for some people. The attention, the praise, the ego boost, the power and control of selection. It's not limited to the sex world. Happens in all things. They get off on it, they gain more confidence from it. You take it away and they go back to being not noticed and not able to handle the change.

It's a common trait of human behaviour. It's not sexist, it's not any kind of bashing, just simple human behaviour within a situation.

I didn't suggest you were being sexist. I just didn't expect you to be someone saying that (in another way) that women have the power here. But what do I know? I'm not a swinger.

Of course women have the power here.

Tell me why.

Seriously?

Over 50 percent of men will message and try to fuck anything with a vagina on here.

Thats why.

More like 90% mate

That makes men stupid. Not women powerful.

True, but maybe men being stupid is what makes women more powerful.

Haven't seen a student that passed no grades become president have you?"

That last sentence makes no sense?

The idea that women hold all the power sexually/ in relationships is an incel viewpoint. Just saying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Of course there are. But also confident does not always equal to them notfearing rejection, plenty of women admitted to it in person, on forum, and even on their profiles.

For a lot of people, in this case and context, women. Their confidence comes from them being the centre of attention. The entire casual sex swinging world revolves around them. They are put on a pedestal and by some men, couples, and other women worshipped beyond compare, anything said to win their attention and gaze.

Just checking sarcasm levels on this one...

Sarcasm, none. Applies to all women, no.

But that is how confidence works for some people. The attention, the praise, the ego boost, the power and control of selection. It's not limited to the sex world. Happens in all things. They get off on it, they gain more confidence from it. You take it away and they go back to being not noticed and not able to handle the change.

It's a common trait of human behaviour. It's not sexist, it's not any kind of bashing, just simple human behaviour within a situation.

I didn't suggest you were being sexist. I just didn't expect you to be someone saying that (in another way) that women have the power here. But what do I know? I'm not a swinger.

Of course women have the power here.

Tell me why.

Seriously?

Over 50 percent of men will message and try to fuck anything with a vagina on here.

Thats why.

More like 90% mate

That makes men stupid. Not women powerful.

True, but maybe men being stupid is what makes women more powerful.

Haven't seen a student that passed no grades become president have you?

That last sentence makes no sense?

The idea that women hold all the power sexually/ in relationships is an incel viewpoint. Just saying. "

They hold the power online certainly.

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London


"

Of course there are. But also confident does not always equal to them notfearing rejection, plenty of women admitted to it in person, on forum, and even on their profiles.

For a lot of people, in this case and context, women. Their confidence comes from them being the centre of attention. The entire casual sex swinging world revolves around them. They are put on a pedestal and by some men, couples, and other women worshipped beyond compare, anything said to win their attention and gaze.

Just checking sarcasm levels on this one...

Sarcasm, none. Applies to all women, no.

But that is how confidence works for some people. The attention, the praise, the ego boost, the power and control of selection. It's not limited to the sex world. Happens in all things. They get off on it, they gain more confidence from it. You take it away and they go back to being not noticed and not able to handle the change.

It's a common trait of human behaviour. It's not sexist, it's not any kind of bashing, just simple human behaviour within a situation.

I didn't suggest you were being sexist. I just didn't expect you to be someone saying that (in another way) that women have the power here. But what do I know? I'm not a swinger.

Of course women have the power here.

Tell me why.

Seriously?

Over 50 percent of men will message and try to fuck anything with a vagina on here.

Thats why.

More like 90% mate

That makes men stupid. Not women powerful.

True, but maybe men being stupid is what makes women more powerful.

Haven't seen a student that passed no grades become president have you?

That last sentence makes no sense?

The idea that women hold all the power sexually/ in relationships is an incel viewpoint. Just saying. "

They don't. They do here on fab though.

This isn't a relationship. I don't even know you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For women on here to drop a message to the guys ??"

Actually, strangely enough we do message people we are attracted to not some kind of random person though.

Are you not getting messages?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Of course there are. But also confident does not always equal to them notfearing rejection, plenty of women admitted to it in person, on forum, and even on their profiles.

For a lot of people, in this case and context, women. Their confidence comes from them being the centre of attention. The entire casual sex swinging world revolves around them. They are put on a pedestal and by some men, couples, and other women worshipped beyond compare, anything said to win their attention and gaze.

Just checking sarcasm levels on this one...

Sarcasm, none. Applies to all women, no.

But that is how confidence works for some people. The attention, the praise, the ego boost, the power and control of selection. It's not limited to the sex world. Happens in all things. They get off on it, they gain more confidence from it. You take it away and they go back to being not noticed and not able to handle the change.

It's a common trait of human behaviour. It's not sexist, it's not any kind of bashing, just simple human behaviour within a situation.

I didn't suggest you were being sexist. I just didn't expect you to be someone saying that (in another way) that women have the power here. But what do I know? I'm not a swinger.

Of course women have the power here.

Tell me why.

Seriously?

Over 50 percent of men will message and try to fuck anything with a vagina on here.

Thats why.

More like 90% mate

That makes men stupid. Not women powerful.

True, but maybe men being stupid is what makes women more powerful.

Haven't seen a student that passed no grades become president have you?

That last sentence makes no sense?

The idea that women hold all the power sexually/ in relationships is an incel viewpoint. Just saying.

They don't. They do here on fab though.

This isn't a relationship. I don't even know you "

Hence the reason why women on her can be picky 9" + only gym bod ect ect. When in reality you take the power of fab away they are the ones left in the club at the end of the night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Of course there are. But also confident does not always equal to them notfearing rejection, plenty of women admitted to it in person, on forum, and even on their profiles.

For a lot of people, in this case and context, women. Their confidence comes from them being the centre of attention. The entire casual sex swinging world revolves around them. They are put on a pedestal and by some men, couples, and other women worshipped beyond compare, anything said to win their attention and gaze.

Just checking sarcasm levels on this one...

Sarcasm, none. Applies to all women, no.

But that is how confidence works for some people. The attention, the praise, the ego boost, the power and control of selection. It's not limited to the sex world. Happens in all things. They get off on it, they gain more confidence from it. You take it away and they go back to being not noticed and not able to handle the change.

It's a common trait of human behaviour. It's not sexist, it's not any kind of bashing, just simple human behaviour within a situation.

I didn't suggest you were being sexist. I just didn't expect you to be someone saying that (in another way) that women have the power here. But what do I know? I'm not a swinger.

Of course women have the power here.

Tell me why.

Seriously?

Over 50 percent of men will message and try to fuck anything with a vagina on here.

Thats why.

More like 90% mate

That makes men stupid. Not women powerful.

True, but maybe men being stupid is what makes women more powerful.

Haven't seen a student that passed no grades become president have you?

That last sentence makes no sense?

The idea that women hold all the power sexually/ in relationships is an incel viewpoint. Just saying.

They don't. They do here on fab though.

This isn't a relationship. I don't even know you "

But Brucey, what about the children?!!

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By *ealMissShadyWoman
over a year ago

St Albans/ Welsh Borders


"

Of course there are. But also confident does not always equal to them notfearing rejection, plenty of women admitted to it in person, on forum, and even on their profiles.

For a lot of people, in this case and context, women. Their confidence comes from them being the centre of attention. The entire casual sex swinging world revolves around them. They are put on a pedestal and by some men, couples, and other women worshipped beyond compare, anything said to win their attention and gaze.

Just checking sarcasm levels on this one...

Sarcasm, none. Applies to all women, no.

But that is how confidence works for some people. The attention, the praise, the ego boost, the power and control of selection. It's not limited to the sex world. Happens in all things. They get off on it, they gain more confidence from it. You take it away and they go back to being not noticed and not able to handle the change.

It's a common trait of human behaviour. It's not sexist, it's not any kind of bashing, just simple human behaviour within a situation. "

I agree, lots of women look for external validation, crave the attention for attention seeking sake, I guess it's a dopamine rush and in that respect Fab could crush you....so when it's taken away or the attention stops you crash...

It's a minefield.

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

I have done, and still do. Some do…some don’t.

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

Almost all of my messages were from the woman or couple first

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By *Cups32Woman
over a year ago

Colne

I message first of I feel someone fits the bill and appeals to me.

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