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"Welcome to the internet " I know there are crazy people saying crazy things all over the internet but no where else have I known it go completely ignored and normalised, with people even posting in agreement to something absurd. It’s not the craziness I’m questioning, it’s the complete acceptance of craziness. | |||
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 , write huge statements about how weird random people are 
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"Does anyone else read through the forum….on other sites, I’m definitely not talking about this site…..and find themselves thinking ‘What is actually going on here? Is this place for real?’ because there’s so much craziness going on that never gets pointed out as being crazy and is just considered normal? For instance……on other sites, I’m definitely not talking about this site……people will post a statement claiming something to be true that is absolute nonsense and obviously not true but no one questions it, and if someone does ever question it that person gets vilified for being overly picky. I don’t mean someone making out something happened that is obviously a fantasy, I mean someone saying something as fact that everyone should know is false, like the moon rises in the morning and sets at night. And following on from that, loads of people do claim things have actually happened to them that are way too far fetched and completely fantastical to be true but obviously it’s wrong to accuse someone of being a liar without proof, but when the person is questioned further about the subject they either get defensive, contradict themselves, say something else equally as far fetched, or anything else apart from being able to say anything to make it more believable. And these forums…..on other sites, definitely not this site…..are full of threads that are all about the same topics and are full of completely pointless posts, for instance starting a thread saying ‘who loves *insert something that 90% of people like*?’ And then there will be loads of replies just saying ‘I like it’ in various different ways, and the next day there will be the same thread with the same replies. I could give many more examples of craziness that goes on in these forums….definitely not this forum though……because the list is so long. I’m just wondering if I’m the only person who notices this or do most people also notice it? I feel like most of the people in the forum….on other sites, definitely not this site…..are either a bit crazy or they’re in on a joke or secret that I’m not in on….or the other explanation is that everyone in the forum is totally sane and normal and I’m the crazy one. " Kindly define crazy op | |||
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"Some people on the internet, not on this site , write huge statements about how weird random people are
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"Does anyone else read through the forum….on other sites, I’m definitely not talking about this site…..and find themselves thinking ‘What is actually going on here? Is this place for real?’ because there’s so much craziness going on that never gets pointed out as being crazy and is just considered normal? For instance……on other sites, I’m definitely not talking about this site……people will post a statement claiming something to be true that is absolute nonsense and obviously not true but no one questions it, and if someone does ever question it that person gets vilified for being overly picky. I don’t mean someone making out something happened that is obviously a fantasy, I mean someone saying something as fact that everyone should know is false, like the moon rises in the morning and sets at night. And following on from that, loads of people do claim things have actually happened to them that are way too far fetched and completely fantastical to be true but obviously it’s wrong to accuse someone of being a liar without proof, but when the person is questioned further about the subject they either get defensive, contradict themselves, say something else equally as far fetched, or anything else apart from being able to say anything to make it more believable. And these forums…..on other sites, definitely not this site…..are full of threads that are all about the same topics and are full of completely pointless posts, for instance starting a thread saying ‘who loves *insert something that 90% of people like*?’ And then there will be loads of replies just saying ‘I like it’ in various different ways, and the next day there will be the same thread with the same replies. I could give many more examples of craziness that goes on in these forums….definitely not this forum though……because the list is so long. I’m just wondering if I’m the only person who notices this or do most people also notice it? I feel like most of the people in the forum….on other sites, definitely not this site…..are either a bit crazy or they’re in on a joke or secret that I’m not in on….or the other explanation is that everyone in the forum is totally sane and normal and I’m the crazy one. Kindly define crazy op" Thanks for proving my point | |||
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"Yes and tbh life is getting like one of those forums Yeah, at least most of it is make believe, there’s too much craziness going on that is very real unfortunately " Craziness.. Is what to you op? | |||
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"Does anyone else read through the forum….on other sites, I’m definitely not talking about this site…..and find themselves thinking ‘What is actually going on here? Is this place for real?’ because there’s so much craziness going on that never gets pointed out as being crazy and is just considered normal? For instance……on other sites, I’m definitely not talking about this site……people will post a statement claiming something to be true that is absolute nonsense and obviously not true but no one questions it, and if someone does ever question it that person gets vilified for being overly picky. I don’t mean someone making out something happened that is obviously a fantasy, I mean someone saying something as fact that everyone should know is false, like the moon rises in the morning and sets at night. And following on from that, loads of people do claim things have actually happened to them that are way too far fetched and completely fantastical to be true but obviously it’s wrong to accuse someone of being a liar without proof, but when the person is questioned further about the subject they either get defensive, contradict themselves, say something else equally as far fetched, or anything else apart from being able to say anything to make it more believable. And these forums…..on other sites, definitely not this site…..are full of threads that are all about the same topics and are full of completely pointless posts, for instance starting a thread saying ‘who loves *insert something that 90% of people like*?’ And then there will be loads of replies just saying ‘I like it’ in various different ways, and the next day there will be the same thread with the same replies. I could give many more examples of craziness that goes on in these forums….definitely not this forum though……because the list is so long. I’m just wondering if I’m the only person who notices this or do most people also notice it? I feel like most of the people in the forum….on other sites, definitely not this site…..are either a bit crazy or they’re in on a joke or secret that I’m not in on….or the other explanation is that everyone in the forum is totally sane and normal and I’m the crazy one. " You mean plain old bullshizzle. Yes, here is full of the above. People say things but in reality do not mean it. Codswallop is that the crazy. People talking about things they know about kind of crazy but basically its bs. Way of the world op | |||
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"Yes and tbh life is getting like one of those forums Yeah, at least most of it is make believe, there’s too much craziness going on that is very real unfortunately Craziness.. Is what to you op? " Well, every time I’m one here someone at some point will start a thread with a post saying ‘who likes naughty wives’ or something very similar to that, and then loads of people will reply saying either ‘I like them’ or ‘I am one’ or ‘I wish I had one’. Is that not crazy to you? | |||
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"Does anyone else read through the forum….on other sites, I’m definitely not talking about this site…..and find themselves thinking ‘What is actually going on here? Is this place for real?’ because there’s so much craziness going on that never gets pointed out as being crazy and is just considered normal? For instance……on other sites, I’m definitely not talking about this site……people will post a statement claiming something to be true that is absolute nonsense and obviously not true but no one questions it, and if someone does ever question it that person gets vilified for being overly picky. I don’t mean someone making out something happened that is obviously a fantasy, I mean someone saying something as fact that everyone should know is false, like the moon rises in the morning and sets at night. And following on from that, loads of people do claim things have actually happened to them that are way too far fetched and completely fantastical to be true but obviously it’s wrong to accuse someone of being a liar without proof, but when the person is questioned further about the subject they either get defensive, contradict themselves, say something else equally as far fetched, or anything else apart from being able to say anything to make it more believable. And these forums…..on other sites, definitely not this site…..are full of threads that are all about the same topics and are full of completely pointless posts, for instance starting a thread saying ‘who loves *insert something that 90% of people like*?’ And then there will be loads of replies just saying ‘I like it’ in various different ways, and the next day there will be the same thread with the same replies. I could give many more examples of craziness that goes on in these forums….definitely not this forum though……because the list is so long. I’m just wondering if I’m the only person who notices this or do most people also notice it? I feel like most of the people in the forum….on other sites, definitely not this site…..are either a bit crazy or they’re in on a joke or secret that I’m not in on….or the other explanation is that everyone in the forum is totally sane and normal and I’m the crazy one. You mean plain old bullshizzle. Yes, here is full of the above. People say things but in reality do not mean it. Codswallop is that the crazy. People talking about things they know about kind of crazy but basically its bs. Way of the world op" As I mentioned earlier, it’s the fact that it’s become so normal here and people accept it without question and only question the people who question the craziness…..exactly like you did to me. | |||
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"Yes and tbh life is getting like one of those forums Yeah, at least most of it is make believe, there’s too much craziness going on that is very real unfortunately Craziness.. Is what to you op? Well, every time I’m one here someone at some point will start a thread with a post saying ‘who likes naughty wives’ or something very similar to that, and then loads of people will reply saying either ‘I like them’ or ‘I am one’ or ‘I wish I had one’. Is that not crazy to you?" You said op.. Not this forum so who is bs who here. Not sure where you going with this op | |||
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"Yes and tbh life is getting like one of those forums Yeah, at least most of it is make believe, there’s too much craziness going on that is very real unfortunately Craziness.. Is what to you op? Well, every time I’m one here someone at some point will start a thread with a post saying ‘who likes naughty wives’ or something very similar to that, and then loads of people will reply saying either ‘I like them’ or ‘I am one’ or ‘I wish I had one’. Is that not crazy to you? You said op.. Not this forum so who is bs who here. Not sure where you going with this op" I think everyone knew I was talking about this forum, you’re really accusing me of talking BS? I thought I made it pretty clear that I was talking about this forum whilst protecting myself from getting in trouble from the mods by not actually saying I was talking about this site. If you think I was talking BS then you’ve taken what I said way too literally. I’m not going anywhere with it, I was just asking if it’s just me that notices it as no one ever comments on it. | |||
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"Does anyone else read through the forum….on other sites, I’m definitely not talking about this site…..and find themselves thinking ‘What is actually going on here? Is this place for real?’ because there’s so much craziness going on that never gets pointed out as being crazy and is just considered normal? For instance……on other sites, I’m definitely not talking about this site……people will post a statement claiming something to be true that is absolute nonsense and obviously not true but no one questions it, and if someone does ever question it that person gets vilified for being overly picky. I don’t mean someone making out something happened that is obviously a fantasy, I mean someone saying something as fact that everyone should know is false, like the moon rises in the morning and sets at night. And following on from that, loads of people do claim things have actually happened to them that are way too far fetched and completely fantastical to be true but obviously it’s wrong to accuse someone of being a liar without proof, but when the person is questioned further about the subject they either get defensive, contradict themselves, say something else equally as far fetched, or anything else apart from being able to say anything to make it more believable. And these forums…..on other sites, definitely not this site…..are full of threads that are all about the same topics and are full of completely pointless posts, for instance starting a thread saying ‘who loves *insert something that 90% of people like*?’ And then there will be loads of replies just saying ‘I like it’ in various different ways, and the next day there will be the same thread with the same replies. I could give many more examples of craziness that goes on in these forums….definitely not this forum though……because the list is so long. I’m just wondering if I’m the only person who notices this or do most people also notice it? I feel like most of the people in the forum….on other sites, definitely not this site…..are either a bit crazy or they’re in on a joke or secret that I’m not in on….or the other explanation is that everyone in the forum is totally sane and normal and I’m the crazy one. You mean plain old bullshizzle. Yes, here is full of the above. People say things but in reality do not mean it. Codswallop is that the crazy. People talking about things they know about kind of crazy but basically its bs. Way of the world op" The way of the world is that when someone says something that isn’t true or is obviously a lie people comment on it and either correct them or question them. That never happens here. For instance, when ever there’s a conversation about circumcision there’s always a few people who say they’ve had it done and they’re more sensitive afterwards. I know from personal experience that this isn’t true, in facts the absolute opposite is true, and basic knowledge of biology and nerves would tell you that. So why am I the only person who ever corrects them for saying it and why does the same untruth get said multiple times in every thread? | |||
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"Is this one of the crazy threads as your not making much sense" What doesn’t make sense to you? I’m happy to explain. | |||
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"Is this one of the crazy threads as your not making much sense What doesn’t make sense to you? I’m happy to explain. " well first of all you was saying that it wasn't a out this site and now your saying it is. You've lost me | |||
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"Is this one of the crazy threads as your not making much sense What doesn’t make sense to you? I’m happy to explain. well first of all you was saying that it wasn't an out this site and now your saying it is. You've lost me" If I’d made it obvious that I was talking about this site then I thought i might have got in trouble with the mods for being overly critical (I’ve been banned for that before) so I attempted to say i wasn’t talking about this site in a way that made it clear I was talking about this site….. Similar to when someone says ‘asking for a friend’ when they’re really asking for themselves but don’t want to make it obvious. Im sure there’s a word for it but i don’t know what it is. | |||
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"This is exactly what I mean, I’m questioning why it’s just accepted that people are going to say things that are factually incorrect, or blatant lies, I’m asking why people don’t question this, and now I’m the one who’s getting questioned. What’s the point of a forum that’s full of posts that are factually untrue or lies?" It would be useful if you perhaps gave an example of what is factually incorrect that is bothering you so much. The lounge contains lots of nonsense and lots of actual conversation. There are morning threads, evening threads and various themed threads on different days. The forum evolves as people leave and new people join. You either join in or don’t. The choice is yours. On some days I have nothing to contribute, other days I might have a chat, or drop a nonsense comment. But if it bugs me I switch off. I don’t see the problem. It’s voluntary you know… | |||
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"This is exactly what I mean, I’m questioning why it’s just accepted that people are going to say things that are factually incorrect, or blatant lies, I’m asking why people don’t question this, and now I’m the one who’s getting questioned. What’s the point of a forum that’s full of posts that are factually untrue or lies?" People are full of shit. Tis the way of the world. | |||
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"Yes and tbh life is getting like one of those forums Yeah, at least most of it is make believe, there’s too much craziness going on that is very real unfortunately Craziness.. Is what to you op? " Oh I got you first time.. Bs supporter | |||
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"This is exactly what I mean, I’m questioning why it’s just accepted that people are going to say things that are factually incorrect, or blatant lies, I’m asking why people don’t question this, and now I’m the one who’s getting questioned. What’s the point of a forum that’s full of posts that are factually untrue or lies? It would be useful if you perhaps gave an example of what is factually incorrect that is bothering you so much. The lounge contains lots of nonsense and lots of actual conversation. There are morning threads, evening threads and various themed threads on different days. The forum evolves as people leave and new people join. You either join in or don’t. The choice is yours. On some days I have nothing to contribute, other days I might have a chat, or drop a nonsense comment. But if it bugs me I switch off. I don’t see the problem. It’s voluntary you know… " I gave an example above. And again, it doesn’t bother me that people post things that are factually incorrect, I just think it’s weird that no one ever corrects people who do post things that are factually incorrect or question people who say things that are obviously made up fantasies. All I’m doing is asking why it’s so accepted here that people are going to tell lies, make up fantasies as if they’re true etc, why doesn’t anyone ever question them? That is all I’m asking, im not criticising anyone, im not saying it annoys me, im not saying I want to leave, I was just asking that question and explaining why I was asking it. Why am I getting so much hassle for asking that and someone can post that a circumcised dick is more sensitive than an uncut dick without getting questioned? You’re basically proving my point. | |||
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"This is exactly what I mean, I’m questioning why it’s just accepted that people are going to say things that are factually incorrect, or blatant lies, I’m asking why people don’t question this, and now I’m the one who’s getting questioned. What’s the point of a forum that’s full of posts that are factually untrue or lies? It would be useful if you perhaps gave an example of what is factually incorrect that is bothering you so much. The lounge contains lots of nonsense and lots of actual conversation. There are morning threads, evening threads and various themed threads on different days. The forum evolves as people leave and new people join. You either join in or don’t. The choice is yours. On some days I have nothing to contribute, other days I might have a chat, or drop a nonsense comment. But if it bugs me I switch off. I don’t see the problem. It’s voluntary you know… I gave an example above. And again, it doesn’t bother me that people post things that are factually incorrect, I just think it’s weird that no one ever corrects people who do post things that are factually incorrect or question people who say things that are obviously made up fantasies. All I’m doing is asking why it’s so accepted here that people are going to tell lies, make up fantasies as if they’re true etc, why doesn’t anyone ever question them? That is all I’m asking, im not criticising anyone, im not saying it annoys me, im not saying I want to leave, I was just asking that question and explaining why I was asking it. Why am I getting so much hassle for asking that and someone can post that a circumcised dick is more sensitive than an uncut dick without getting questioned? You’re basically proving my point." A lot of people are here for light hearted chat so can’t be arsed with threads that don’t interest them or arguments not worth starting. It’s an escape for many. You will see many disputes on threads. Just not all. I’ve only skimmed tonight as not much is making sense to me. But I do a lot of eye rolling and logging off. | |||
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"This is exactly what I mean, I’m questioning why it’s just accepted that people are going to say things that are factually incorrect, or blatant lies, I’m asking why people don’t question this, and now I’m the one who’s getting questioned. What’s the point of a forum that’s full of posts that are factually untrue or lies? It would be useful if you perhaps gave an example of what is factually incorrect that is bothering you so much. The lounge contains lots of nonsense and lots of actual conversation. There are morning threads, evening threads and various themed threads on different days. The forum evolves as people leave and new people join. You either join in or don’t. The choice is yours. On some days I have nothing to contribute, other days I might have a chat, or drop a nonsense comment. But if it bugs me I switch off. I don’t see the problem. It’s voluntary you know… I gave an example above. And again, it doesn’t bother me that people post things that are factually incorrect, I just think it’s weird that no one ever corrects people who do post things that are factually incorrect or question people who say things that are obviously made up fantasies. All I’m doing is asking why it’s so accepted here that people are going to tell lies, make up fantasies as if they’re true etc, why doesn’t anyone ever question them? That is all I’m asking, im not criticising anyone, im not saying it annoys me, im not saying I want to leave, I was just asking that question and explaining why I was asking it. Why am I getting so much hassle for asking that and someone can post that a circumcised dick is more sensitive than an uncut dick without getting questioned? You’re basically proving my point." But people do correct people, all the time, when it comes to facts. Whether the person being corrected believes them is another matter. But if someone says something has happened to them, how are we to know it's not true? The point about repetitive posts is a little different... I may be inadvertently proving your point, as I'm not really sure what it is! | |||
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"This is exactly what I mean, I’m questioning why it’s just accepted that people are going to say things that are factually incorrect, or blatant lies, I’m asking why people don’t question this, and now I’m the one who’s getting questioned. What’s the point of a forum that’s full of posts that are factually untrue or lies? It would be useful if you perhaps gave an example of what is factually incorrect that is bothering you so much. The lounge contains lots of nonsense and lots of actual conversation. There are morning threads, evening threads and various themed threads on different days. The forum evolves as people leave and new people join. You either join in or don’t. The choice is yours. On some days I have nothing to contribute, other days I might have a chat, or drop a nonsense comment. But if it bugs me I switch off. I don’t see the problem. It’s voluntary you know… I gave an example above. And again, it doesn’t bother me that people post things that are factually incorrect, I just think it’s weird that no one ever corrects people who do post things that are factually incorrect or question people who say things that are obviously made up fantasies. All I’m doing is asking why it’s so accepted here that people are going to tell lies, make up fantasies as if they’re true etc, why doesn’t anyone ever question them? That is all I’m asking, im not criticising anyone, im not saying it annoys me, im not saying I want to leave, I was just asking that question and explaining why I was asking it. Why am I getting so much hassle for asking that and someone can post that a circumcised dick is more sensitive than an uncut dick without getting questioned? You’re basically proving my point." Op what is your exact point you not going to win this battle and repeat you said not this forum.. Bs | |||
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"Yes and tbh life is getting like one of those forums Yeah, at least most of it is make believe, there’s too much craziness going on that is very real unfortunately Craziness.. Is what to you op? Oh I got you first time.. Bs supporter "Sorry, I didn’t see this question. The craziness I was referring to there is war, innocent people getting killed, kidn@pp€d, starved, blown up. Finding out the government was in a shambles during covid and didn’t follow the rules that they put in place, Home Secretary calling people living on the streets is a lifestyle choice and that the police force is biased…..stuff like that. What’s a ‘bs supporter’? | |||
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"Another thread my brain isn't processing...!
Get with the programme!
(What IS the programme? I was late )
I DON'T KNOW! I'M STILL LOST! HELP!
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"This is exactly what I mean, I’m questioning why it’s just accepted that people are going to say things that are factually incorrect, or blatant lies, I’m asking why people don’t question this, and now I’m the one who’s getting questioned. What’s the point of a forum that’s full of posts that are factually untrue or lies? It would be useful if you perhaps gave an example of what is factually incorrect that is bothering you so much. The lounge contains lots of nonsense and lots of actual conversation. There are morning threads, evening threads and various themed threads on different days. The forum evolves as people leave and new people join. You either join in or don’t. The choice is yours. On some days I have nothing to contribute, other days I might have a chat, or drop a nonsense comment. But if it bugs me I switch off. I don’t see the problem. It’s voluntary you know… I gave an example above. And again, it doesn’t bother me that people post things that are factually incorrect, I just think it’s weird that no one ever corrects people who do post things that are factually incorrect or question people who say things that are obviously made up fantasies. All I’m doing is asking why it’s so accepted here that people are going to tell lies, make up fantasies as if they’re true etc, why doesn’t anyone ever question them? That is all I’m asking, im not criticising anyone, im not saying it annoys me, im not saying I want to leave, I was just asking that question and explaining why I was asking it. Why am I getting so much hassle for asking that and someone can post that a circumcised dick is more sensitive than an uncut dick without getting questioned? You’re basically proving my point. Op what is your exact point you not going to win this battle and repeat you said not this forum.. Bs " Is it a battle? I thought it was a conversation, why are you turning it into a battle. Win what exactly? I know what I meant, everyone else except you knows what I meant, I’ve explained it to you very clearly but you still don’t understand so I don’t know what else I can do to help you, sorry. If not being able to understand something that everyone else understands means you win then congratulations on your victory. | |||
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"This is exactly what I mean, I’m questioning why it’s just accepted that people are going to say things that are factually incorrect, or blatant lies, I’m asking why people don’t question this, and now I’m the one who’s getting questioned. What’s the point of a forum that’s full of posts that are factually untrue or lies? It would be useful if you perhaps gave an example of what is factually incorrect that is bothering you so much. The lounge contains lots of nonsense and lots of actual conversation. There are morning threads, evening threads and various themed threads on different days. The forum evolves as people leave and new people join. You either join in or don’t. The choice is yours. On some days I have nothing to contribute, other days I might have a chat, or drop a nonsense comment. But if it bugs me I switch off. I don’t see the problem. It’s voluntary you know… I gave an example above. And again, it doesn’t bother me that people post things that are factually incorrect, I just think it’s weird that no one ever corrects people who do post things that are factually incorrect or question people who say things that are obviously made up fantasies. All I’m doing is asking why it’s so accepted here that people are going to tell lies, make up fantasies as if they’re true etc, why doesn’t anyone ever question them? That is all I’m asking, im not criticising anyone, im not saying it annoys me, im not saying I want to leave, I was just asking that question and explaining why I was asking it. Why am I getting so much hassle for asking that and someone can post that a circumcised dick is more sensitive than an uncut dick without getting questioned? You’re basically proving my point. Op what is your exact point you not going to win this battle and repeat you said not this forum.. Bs " Why do you just keep replying to say you don’t understand what my point is? I’m writing in English so why can’t you understand? You’re writing messages without any punctuation, grammar or constructed sentences and I’m managing to understand what your point is so I think you should be able to understand what I’m saying. | |||
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"This is exactly what I mean, I’m questioning why it’s just accepted that people are going to say things that are factually incorrect, or blatant lies, I’m asking why people don’t question this, and now I’m the one who’s getting questioned. What’s the point of a forum that’s full of posts that are factually untrue or lies? It would be useful if you perhaps gave an example of what is factually incorrect that is bothering you so much. The lounge contains lots of nonsense and lots of actual conversation. There are morning threads, evening threads and various themed threads on different days. The forum evolves as people leave and new people join. You either join in or don’t. The choice is yours. On some days I have nothing to contribute, other days I might have a chat, or drop a nonsense comment. But if it bugs me I switch off. I don’t see the problem. It’s voluntary you know… I gave an example above. And again, it doesn’t bother me that people post things that are factually incorrect, I just think it’s weird that no one ever corrects people who do post things that are factually incorrect or question people who say things that are obviously made up fantasies. All I’m doing is asking why it’s so accepted here that people are going to tell lies, make up fantasies as if they’re true etc, why doesn’t anyone ever question them? That is all I’m asking, im not criticising anyone, im not saying it annoys me, im not saying I want to leave, I was just asking that question and explaining why I was asking it. Why am I getting so much hassle for asking that and someone can post that a circumcised dick is more sensitive than an uncut dick without getting questioned? You’re basically proving my point. But people do correct people, all the time, when it comes to facts. Whether the person being corrected believes them is another matter. But if someone says something has happened to them, how are we to know it's not true? The point about repetitive posts is a little different... I may be inadvertently proving your point, as I'm not really sure what it is! "If I see a post that is obviously a lie then I ask them questions about it so that they have to expand on their lie and they pretty much always end up contradicting themselves or get very angry and defensive. That’s what happens in the real world but it doesn’t happen here. Do you just accept everything everyone says as the truth even if it obviously isn’t just because you can’t prove it’s a lie? Don’t you ever get the feeling that someone is lying to you and question them about it? | |||
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"This is exactly what I mean, I’m questioning why it’s just accepted that people are going to say things that are factually incorrect, or blatant lies, I’m asking why people don’t question this, and now I’m the one who’s getting questioned. What’s the point of a forum that’s full of posts that are factually untrue or lies? It would be useful if you perhaps gave an example of what is factually incorrect that is bothering you so much. The lounge contains lots of nonsense and lots of actual conversation. There are morning threads, evening threads and various themed threads on different days. The forum evolves as people leave and new people join. You either join in or don’t. The choice is yours. On some days I have nothing to contribute, other days I might have a chat, or drop a nonsense comment. But if it bugs me I switch off. I don’t see the problem. It’s voluntary you know… I gave an example above. And again, it doesn’t bother me that people post things that are factually incorrect, I just think it’s weird that no one ever corrects people who do post things that are factually incorrect or question people who say things that are obviously made up fantasies. All I’m doing is asking why it’s so accepted here that people are going to tell lies, make up fantasies as if they’re true etc, why doesn’t anyone ever question them? That is all I’m asking, im not criticising anyone, im not saying it annoys me, im not saying I want to leave, I was just asking that question and explaining why I was asking it. Why am I getting so much hassle for asking that and someone can post that a circumcised dick is more sensitive than an uncut dick without getting questioned? You’re basically proving my point. Op what is your exact point you not going to win this battle and repeat you said not this forum.. Bs " Like why is no one else except me questioning what this person’s saying? Surely everyone else realises that I meant this forum so why isn’t anyone telling her that she can’t see what’s obvious to everyone else? That’s the real world, when people start talking shit they get laughed at and told to shut up | |||
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"This is exactly what I mean, I’m questioning why it’s just accepted that people are going to say things that are factually incorrect, or blatant lies, I’m asking why people don’t question this, and now I’m the one who’s getting questioned. What’s the point of a forum that’s full of posts that are factually untrue or lies? It would be useful if you perhaps gave an example of what is factually incorrect that is bothering you so much. The lounge contains lots of nonsense and lots of actual conversation. There are morning threads, evening threads and various themed threads on different days. The forum evolves as people leave and new people join. You either join in or don’t. The choice is yours. On some days I have nothing to contribute, other days I might have a chat, or drop a nonsense comment. But if it bugs me I switch off. I don’t see the problem. It’s voluntary you know… I gave an example above. And again, it doesn’t bother me that people post things that are factually incorrect, I just think it’s weird that no one ever corrects people who do post things that are factually incorrect or question people who say things that are obviously made up fantasies. All I’m doing is asking why it’s so accepted here that people are going to tell lies, make up fantasies as if they’re true etc, why doesn’t anyone ever question them? That is all I’m asking, im not criticising anyone, im not saying it annoys me, im not saying I want to leave, I was just asking that question and explaining why I was asking it. Why am I getting so much hassle for asking that and someone can post that a circumcised dick is more sensitive than an uncut dick without getting questioned? You’re basically proving my point. Op what is your exact point you not going to win this battle and repeat you said not this forum.. Bs Like why is no one else except me questioning what this person’s saying? Surely everyone else realises that I meant this forum so why isn’t anyone telling her that she can’t see what’s obvious to everyone else? That’s the real world, when people start talking shit they get laughed at and told to shut up " Because people let others have their conversation without lots of others jumping in too… I know what you mean but, having been here donkeys I see daily arguments so I’m not sure where this nobody challenges anything comes from. It’s not a serious place the lounge. It’s full of nonsense. | |||
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"This is exactly what I mean, I’m questioning why it’s just accepted that people are going to say things that are factually incorrect, or blatant lies, I’m asking why people don’t question this, and now I’m the one who’s getting questioned. What’s the point of a forum that’s full of posts that are factually untrue or lies? It would be useful if you perhaps gave an example of what is factually incorrect that is bothering you so much. The lounge contains lots of nonsense and lots of actual conversation. There are morning threads, evening threads and various themed threads on different days. The forum evolves as people leave and new people join. You either join in or don’t. The choice is yours. On some days I have nothing to contribute, other days I might have a chat, or drop a nonsense comment. But if it bugs me I switch off. I don’t see the problem. It’s voluntary you know… I gave an example above. And again, it doesn’t bother me that people post things that are factually incorrect, I just think it’s weird that no one ever corrects people who do post things that are factually incorrect or question people who say things that are obviously made up fantasies. All I’m doing is asking why it’s so accepted here that people are going to tell lies, make up fantasies as if they’re true etc, why doesn’t anyone ever question them? That is all I’m asking, im not criticising anyone, im not saying it annoys me, im not saying I want to leave, I was just asking that question and explaining why I was asking it. Why am I getting so much hassle for asking that and someone can post that a circumcised dick is more sensitive than an uncut dick without getting questioned? You’re basically proving my point. But people do correct people, all the time, when it comes to facts. Whether the person being corrected believes them is another matter. But if someone says something has happened to them, how are we to know it's not true? The point about repetitive posts is a little different... I may be inadvertently proving your point, as I'm not really sure what it is!
If I see a post that is obviously a lie then I ask them questions about it so that they have to expand on their lie and they pretty much always end up contradicting themselves or get very angry and defensive. That’s what happens in the real world but it doesn’t happen here. Do you just accept everything everyone says as the truth even if it obviously isn’t just because you can’t prove it’s a lie? Don’t you ever get the feeling that someone is lying to you and question them about it?"No, of course not. If someone says black is white, I'll tell them otherwise. But if they're talking about their personal experience, that's on them - I probably don't care enough to challenge or to rain on their parade. I might internally roll my eyes, but if they want to pretend they played slept with Margot Robbie, they can crack on. People challenge people all the time on here so I'm surprised you've not seen it. | |||
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"This is exactly what I mean, I’m questioning why it’s just accepted that people are going to say things that are factually incorrect, or blatant lies, I’m asking why people don’t question this, and now I’m the one who’s getting questioned. What’s the point of a forum that’s full of posts that are factually untrue or lies? It would be useful if you perhaps gave an example of what is factually incorrect that is bothering you so much. The lounge contains lots of nonsense and lots of actual conversation. There are morning threads, evening threads and various themed threads on different days. The forum evolves as people leave and new people join. You either join in or don’t. The choice is yours. On some days I have nothing to contribute, other days I might have a chat, or drop a nonsense comment. But if it bugs me I switch off. I don’t see the problem. It’s voluntary you know… I gave an example above. And again, it doesn’t bother me that people post things that are factually incorrect, I just think it’s weird that no one ever corrects people who do post things that are factually incorrect or question people who say things that are obviously made up fantasies. All I’m doing is asking why it’s so accepted here that people are going to tell lies, make up fantasies as if they’re true etc, why doesn’t anyone ever question them? That is all I’m asking, im not criticising anyone, im not saying it annoys me, im not saying I want to leave, I was just asking that question and explaining why I was asking it. Why am I getting so much hassle for asking that and someone can post that a circumcised dick is more sensitive than an uncut dick without getting questioned? You’re basically proving my point. Op what is your exact point you not going to win this battle and repeat you said not this forum.. Bs Like why is no one else except me questioning what this person’s saying? Surely everyone else realises that I meant this forum so why isn’t anyone telling her that she can’t see what’s obvious to everyone else? That’s the real world, when people start talking shit they get laughed at and told to shut up Because people let others have their conversation without lots of others jumping in too… I know what you mean but, having been here donkeys I see daily arguments so I’m not sure where this nobody challenges anything comes from. It’s not a serious place the lounge. It’s full of nonsense. " To be honest I’m not actually talking about the lounge specifically, I rarely post in it, it’s the swingers room I’m talking about but this seemed like the correct place to post as it wasn’t about swinging. I’m not on about causing arguments either, just correcting untruths and questioning blatant lies, it doesn’t have to be an argument. Nonsense is different from untruths and lies. Maybe I’m a bit over sensitive about people telling lies, i really hate it in every walk of life, not just here, and I think that when people are blatantly lying they should be challenged rather than just accept it. Go to the thread about family members knowing that you’re a swinger and read the bit where I questioned someone who claimed that his mom found out he’s a swinger because he didn’t go home after a night out and you’ll see what I mean. | |||
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"This is exactly what I mean, I’m questioning why it’s just accepted that people are going to say things that are factually incorrect, or blatant lies, I’m asking why people don’t question this, and now I’m the one who’s getting questioned. What’s the point of a forum that’s full of posts that are factually untrue or lies? It would be useful if you perhaps gave an example of what is factually incorrect that is bothering you so much. The lounge contains lots of nonsense and lots of actual conversation. There are morning threads, evening threads and various themed threads on different days. The forum evolves as people leave and new people join. You either join in or don’t. The choice is yours. On some days I have nothing to contribute, other days I might have a chat, or drop a nonsense comment. But if it bugs me I switch off. I don’t see the problem. It’s voluntary you know… I gave an example above. And again, it doesn’t bother me that people post things that are factually incorrect, I just think it’s weird that no one ever corrects people who do post things that are factually incorrect or question people who say things that are obviously made up fantasies. All I’m doing is asking why it’s so accepted here that people are going to tell lies, make up fantasies as if they’re true etc, why doesn’t anyone ever question them? That is all I’m asking, im not criticising anyone, im not saying it annoys me, im not saying I want to leave, I was just asking that question and explaining why I was asking it. Why am I getting so much hassle for asking that and someone can post that a circumcised dick is more sensitive than an uncut dick without getting questioned? You’re basically proving my point. Op what is your exact point you not going to win this battle and repeat you said not this forum.. Bs Like why is no one else except me questioning what this person’s saying? Surely everyone else realises that I meant this forum so why isn’t anyone telling her that she can’t see what’s obvious to everyone else? That’s the real world, when people start talking shit they get laughed at and told to shut up Because people let others have their conversation without lots of others jumping in too… I know what you mean but, having been here donkeys I see daily arguments so I’m not sure where this nobody challenges anything comes from. It’s not a serious place the lounge. It’s full of nonsense. To be honest I’m not actually talking about the lounge specifically, I rarely post in it, it’s the swingers room I’m talking about but this seemed like the correct place to post as it wasn’t about swinging. I’m not on about causing arguments either, just correcting untruths and questioning blatant lies, it doesn’t have to be an argument. Nonsense is different from untruths and lies. Maybe I’m a bit over sensitive about people telling lies, i really hate it in every walk of life, not just here, and I think that when people are blatantly lying they should be challenged rather than just accept it. Go to the thread about family members knowing that you’re a swinger and read the bit where I questioned someone who claimed that his mom found out he’s a swinger because he didn’t go home after a night out and you’ll see what I mean. " See… if you’d said swingers chat we’d have got it!!!! Totally different ballgame. I don’t go in there. I’m going to have to look now… | |||
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"This is exactly what I mean, I’m questioning why it’s just accepted that people are going to say things that are factually incorrect, or blatant lies, I’m asking why people don’t question this, and now I’m the one who’s getting questioned. What’s the point of a forum that’s full of posts that are factually untrue or lies? It would be useful if you perhaps gave an example of what is factually incorrect that is bothering you so much. The lounge contains lots of nonsense and lots of actual conversation. There are morning threads, evening threads and various themed threads on different days. The forum evolves as people leave and new people join. You either join in or don’t. The choice is yours. On some days I have nothing to contribute, other days I might have a chat, or drop a nonsense comment. But if it bugs me I switch off. I don’t see the problem. It’s voluntary you know… I gave an example above. And again, it doesn’t bother me that people post things that are factually incorrect, I just think it’s weird that no one ever corrects people who do post things that are factually incorrect or question people who say things that are obviously made up fantasies. All I’m doing is asking why it’s so accepted here that people are going to tell lies, make up fantasies as if they’re true etc, why doesn’t anyone ever question them? That is all I’m asking, im not criticising anyone, im not saying it annoys me, im not saying I want to leave, I was just asking that question and explaining why I was asking it. Why am I getting so much hassle for asking that and someone can post that a circumcised dick is more sensitive than an uncut dick without getting questioned? You’re basically proving my point. Op what is your exact point you not going to win this battle and repeat you said not this forum.. Bs Like why is no one else except me questioning what this person’s saying? Surely everyone else realises that I meant this forum so why isn’t anyone telling her that she can’t see what’s obvious to everyone else? That’s the real world, when people start talking shit they get laughed at and told to shut up Because people let others have their conversation without lots of others jumping in too… I know what you mean but, having been here donkeys I see daily arguments so I’m not sure where this nobody challenges anything comes from. It’s not a serious place the lounge. It’s full of nonsense. To be honest I’m not actually talking about the lounge specifically, I rarely post in it, it’s the swingers room I’m talking about but this seemed like the correct place to post as it wasn’t about swinging. I’m not on about causing arguments either, just correcting untruths and questioning blatant lies, it doesn’t have to be an argument. Nonsense is different from untruths and lies. Maybe I’m a bit over sensitive about people telling lies, i really hate it in every walk of life, not just here, and I think that when people are blatantly lying they should be challenged rather than just accept it. Go to the thread about family members knowing that you’re a swinger and read the bit where I questioned someone who claimed that his mom found out he’s a swinger because he didn’t go home after a night out and you’ll see what I mean. "  | |||
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"This is exactly what I mean, I’m questioning why it’s just accepted that people are going to say things that are factually incorrect, or blatant lies, I’m asking why people don’t question this, and now I’m the one who’s getting questioned. What’s the point of a forum that’s full of posts that are factually untrue or lies? It would be useful if you perhaps gave an example of what is factually incorrect that is bothering you so much. The lounge contains lots of nonsense and lots of actual conversation. There are morning threads, evening threads and various themed threads on different days. The forum evolves as people leave and new people join. You either join in or don’t. The choice is yours. On some days I have nothing to contribute, other days I might have a chat, or drop a nonsense comment. But if it bugs me I switch off. I don’t see the problem. It’s voluntary you know… I gave an example above. And again, it doesn’t bother me that people post things that are factually incorrect, I just think it’s weird that no one ever corrects people who do post things that are factually incorrect or question people who say things that are obviously made up fantasies. All I’m doing is asking why it’s so accepted here that people are going to tell lies, make up fantasies as if they’re true etc, why doesn’t anyone ever question them? That is all I’m asking, im not criticising anyone, im not saying it annoys me, im not saying I want to leave, I was just asking that question and explaining why I was asking it. Why am I getting so much hassle for asking that and someone can post that a circumcised dick is more sensitive than an uncut dick without getting questioned? You’re basically proving my point. Op what is your exact point you not going to win this battle and repeat you said not this forum.. Bs Like why is no one else except me questioning what this person’s saying? Surely everyone else realises that I meant this forum so why isn’t anyone telling her that she can’t see what’s obvious to everyone else? That’s the real world, when people start talking shit they get laughed at and told to shut up Because people let others have their conversation without lots of others jumping in too… I know what you mean but, having been here donkeys I see daily arguments so I’m not sure where this nobody challenges anything comes from. It’s not a serious place the lounge. It’s full of nonsense. To be honest I’m not actually talking about the lounge specifically, I rarely post in it, it’s the swingers room I’m talking about but this seemed like the correct place to post as it wasn’t about swinging. I’m not on about causing arguments either, just correcting untruths and questioning blatant lies, it doesn’t have to be an argument. Nonsense is different from untruths and lies. Maybe I’m a bit over sensitive about people telling lies, i really hate it in every walk of life, not just here, and I think that when people are blatantly lying they should be challenged rather than just accept it. Go to the thread about family members knowing that you’re a swinger and read the bit where I questioned someone who claimed that his mom found out he’s a swinger because he didn’t go home after a night out and you’ll see what I mean. See… if you’d said swingers chat we’d have got it!!!! Totally different ballgame. I don’t go in there. I’m going to have to look now… " Sorry, I didn’t make that clear at all and I can see that i should have. | |||
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"This is exactly what I mean, I’m questioning why it’s just accepted that people are going to say things that are factually incorrect, or blatant lies, I’m asking why people don’t question this, and now I’m the one who’s getting questioned. What’s the point of a forum that’s full of posts that are factually untrue or lies? It would be useful if you perhaps gave an example of what is factually incorrect that is bothering you so much. The lounge contains lots of nonsense and lots of actual conversation. There are morning threads, evening threads and various themed threads on different days. The forum evolves as people leave and new people join. You either join in or don’t. The choice is yours. On some days I have nothing to contribute, other days I might have a chat, or drop a nonsense comment. But if it bugs me I switch off. I don’t see the problem. It’s voluntary you know… I gave an example above. And again, it doesn’t bother me that people post things that are factually incorrect, I just think it’s weird that no one ever corrects people who do post things that are factually incorrect or question people who say things that are obviously made up fantasies. All I’m doing is asking why it’s so accepted here that people are going to tell lies, make up fantasies as if they’re true etc, why doesn’t anyone ever question them? That is all I’m asking, im not criticising anyone, im not saying it annoys me, im not saying I want to leave, I was just asking that question and explaining why I was asking it. Why am I getting so much hassle for asking that and someone can post that a circumcised dick is more sensitive than an uncut dick without getting questioned? You’re basically proving my point. Op what is your exact point you not going to win this battle and repeat you said not this forum.. Bs " You’ve gone quiet?? | |||
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"I just think it’s disrespectful to the site when people talk about fantasies as if they’re real and talk about doing things that no one ever does. It gives an inaccurate reflection of the lifestyle and turns it into something it isn’t. If I was on a football forum and someone posted about a goal they scored for their Sunday league team where they dribbled past every opposition player 3 times and then scored with a shot from the half way line everyone would tell them to shut up. But if someone here with a blatantly fake couples profile posts about inviting 20 men to his house to fuck his wife people reply saying how cool it is and they wish they were there. " I'd say chill out. People exaggerate all the time. Most people can see through it. You'll drive yourself mad being a one-man truth enforcer. | |||
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"This is exactly what I mean, I’m questioning why it’s just accepted that people are going to say things that are factually incorrect, or blatant lies, I’m asking why people don’t question this, and now I’m the one who’s getting questioned. What’s the point of a forum that’s full of posts that are factually untrue or lies? It would be useful if you perhaps gave an example of what is factually incorrect that is bothering you so much. The lounge contains lots of nonsense and lots of actual conversation. There are morning threads, evening threads and various themed threads on different days. The forum evolves as people leave and new people join. You either join in or don’t. The choice is yours. On some days I have nothing to contribute, other days I might have a chat, or drop a nonsense comment. But if it bugs me I switch off. I don’t see the problem. It’s voluntary you know… I gave an example above. And again, it doesn’t bother me that people post things that are factually incorrect, I just think it’s weird that no one ever corrects people who do post things that are factually incorrect or question people who say things that are obviously made up fantasies. All I’m doing is asking why it’s so accepted here that people are going to tell lies, make up fantasies as if they’re true etc, why doesn’t anyone ever question them? That is all I’m asking, im not criticising anyone, im not saying it annoys me, im not saying I want to leave, I was just asking that question and explaining why I was asking it. Why am I getting so much hassle for asking that and someone can post that a circumcised dick is more sensitive than an uncut dick without getting questioned? You’re basically proving my point. Op what is your exact point you not going to win this battle and repeat you said not this forum.. Bs Like why is no one else except me questioning what this person’s saying? Surely everyone else realises that I meant this forum so why isn’t anyone telling her that she can’t see what’s obvious to everyone else? That’s the real world, when people start talking shit they get laughed at and told to shut up Because people let others have their conversation without lots of others jumping in too… I know what you mean but, having been here donkeys I see daily arguments so I’m not sure where this nobody challenges anything comes from. It’s not a serious place the lounge. It’s full of nonsense. To be honest I’m not actually talking about the lounge specifically, I rarely post in it, it’s the swingers room I’m talking about but this seemed like the correct place to post as it wasn’t about swinging. I’m not on about causing arguments either, just correcting untruths and questioning blatant lies, it doesn’t have to be an argument. Nonsense is different from untruths and lies. Maybe I’m a bit over sensitive about people telling lies, i really hate it in every walk of life, not just here, and I think that when people are blatantly lying they should be challenged rather than just accept it. Go to the thread about family members knowing that you’re a swinger and read the bit where I questioned someone who claimed that his mom found out he’s a swinger because he didn’t go home after a night out and you’ll see what I mean. See… if you’d said swingers chat we’d have got it!!!! Totally different ballgame. I don’t go in there. I’m going to have to look now… Sorry, I didn’t make that clear at all and I can see that i should have. " It’s ok we get it now. Jesus it makes less sense than in here. .. you’ll find lots of stuff people say that really doesn’t ring true but it’s the nature of the beast here because people are talking to photos of knobs and undies. There’s lots of fantasist stuff. If I questioned everything I read I’d have a miserable time. So maybe just avoid certain rooms or threads. | |||
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"I just think it’s disrespectful to the site when people talk about fantasies as if they’re real and talk about doing things that no one ever does. It gives an inaccurate reflection of the lifestyle and turns it into something it isn’t. If I was on a football forum and someone posted about a goal they scored for their Sunday league team where they dribbled past every opposition player 3 times and then scored with a shot from the half way line everyone would tell them to shut up. But if someone here with a blatantly fake couples profile posts about inviting 20 men to his house to fuck his wife people reply saying how cool it is and they wish they were there. " ...says the guy with no verification...? | |||
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"This is exactly what I mean, I’m questioning why it’s just accepted that people are going to say things that are factually incorrect, or blatant lies, I’m asking why people don’t question this, and now I’m the one who’s getting questioned. What’s the point of a forum that’s full of posts that are factually untrue or lies? It would be useful if you perhaps gave an example of what is factually incorrect that is bothering you so much. The lounge contains lots of nonsense and lots of actual conversation. There are morning threads, evening threads and various themed threads on different days. The forum evolves as people leave and new people join. You either join in or don’t. The choice is yours. On some days I have nothing to contribute, other days I might have a chat, or drop a nonsense comment. But if it bugs me I switch off. I don’t see the problem. It’s voluntary you know… I gave an example above. And again, it doesn’t bother me that people post things that are factually incorrect, I just think it’s weird that no one ever corrects people who do post things that are factually incorrect or question people who say things that are obviously made up fantasies. All I’m doing is asking why it’s so accepted here that people are going to tell lies, make up fantasies as if they’re true etc, why doesn’t anyone ever question them? That is all I’m asking, im not criticising anyone, im not saying it annoys me, im not saying I want to leave, I was just asking that question and explaining why I was asking it. Why am I getting so much hassle for asking that and someone can post that a circumcised dick is more sensitive than an uncut dick without getting questioned? You’re basically proving my point. Op what is your exact point you not going to win this battle and repeat you said not this forum.. Bs Like why is no one else except me questioning what this person’s saying? Surely everyone else realises that I meant this forum so why isn’t anyone telling her that she can’t see what’s obvious to everyone else? That’s the real world, when people start talking shit they get laughed at and told to shut up Because people let others have their conversation without lots of others jumping in too… I know what you mean but, having been here donkeys I see daily arguments so I’m not sure where this nobody challenges anything comes from. It’s not a serious place the lounge. It’s full of nonsense. To be honest I’m not actually talking about the lounge specifically, I rarely post in it, it’s the swingers room I’m talking about but this seemed like the correct place to post as it wasn’t about swinging. I’m not on about causing arguments either, just correcting untruths and questioning blatant lies, it doesn’t have to be an argument. Nonsense is different from untruths and lies. Maybe I’m a bit over sensitive about people telling lies, i really hate it in every walk of life, not just here, and I think that when people are blatantly lying they should be challenged rather than just accept it. Go to the thread about family members knowing that you’re a swinger and read the bit where I questioned someone who claimed that his mom found out he’s a swinger because he didn’t go home after a night out and you’ll see what I mean. See… if you’d said swingers chat we’d have got it!!!! Totally different ballgame. I don’t go in there. I’m going to have to look now… Sorry, I didn’t make that clear at all and I can see that i should have. It’s ok we get it now. Jesus it makes less sense than in here. .. you’ll find lots of stuff people say that really doesn’t ring true but it’s the nature of the beast here because people are talking to photos of knobs and undies. There’s lots of fantasist stuff. If I questioned everything I read I’d have a miserable time. So maybe just avoid certain rooms or threads. " Best Way | |||
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"I just think it’s disrespectful to the site when people talk about fantasies as if they’re real and talk about doing things that no one ever does. It gives an inaccurate reflection of the lifestyle and turns it into something it isn’t. If I was on a football forum and someone posted about a goal they scored for their Sunday league team where they dribbled past every opposition player 3 times and then scored with a shot from the half way line everyone would tell them to shut up. But if someone here with a blatantly fake couples profile posts about inviting 20 men to his house to fuck his wife people reply saying how cool it is and they wish they were there. I'd say chill out. People exaggerate all the time. Most people can see through it. You'll drive yourself mad being a one-man truth enforcer." I’m perfectly chilled, i actually enjoy picking them up on it and imagining them panicking as they try to explain their way out of a lie. I don’t get angry about it, I just want to make it uncomfortable for them when they lie so that they think twice about doing it again. I’m not an angry person and I certainly don’t let a stranger on the internet affect my mood but when someone calls me a ‘BS supporter’ (I don’t really know exactly what that is but I know it’s intended as an insult) and tries to twist what im saying then I’ll stand my ground. I won’t be losing any sleep over it though | |||
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"I just think it’s disrespectful to the site when people talk about fantasies as if they’re real and talk about doing things that no one ever does. It gives an inaccurate reflection of the lifestyle and turns it into something it isn’t. If I was on a football forum and someone posted about a goal they scored for their Sunday league team where they dribbled past every opposition player 3 times and then scored with a shot from the half way line everyone would tell them to shut up. But if someone here with a blatantly fake couples profile posts about inviting 20 men to his house to fuck his wife people reply saying how cool it is and they wish they were there. ...says the guy with no verification...?" What’s that got to do with it? Am I only allowed to question someone who’s blatantly lying once I’m verified? Do verified people have more authority here? I can recognise a fake account and a lie as well as someone who’s verified. | |||
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"I just think it’s disrespectful to the site when people talk about fantasies as if they’re real and talk about doing things that no one ever does. It gives an inaccurate reflection of the lifestyle and turns it into something it isn’t. If I was on a football forum and someone posted about a goal they scored for their Sunday league team where they dribbled past every opposition player 3 times and then scored with a shot from the half way line everyone would tell them to shut up. But if someone here with a blatantly fake couples profile posts about inviting 20 men to his house to fuck his wife people reply saying how cool it is and they wish they were there. I'd say chill out. People exaggerate all the time. Most people can see through it. You'll drive yourself mad being a one-man truth enforcer. I’m perfectly chilled, i actually enjoy picking them up on it and imagining them panicking as they try to explain their way out of a lie. I don’t get angry about it, I just want to make it uncomfortable for them when they lie so that they think twice about doing it again. I’m not an angry person and I certainly don’t let a stranger on the internet affect my mood but when someone calls me a ‘BS supporter’ (I don’t really know exactly what that is but I know it’s intended as an insult) and tries to twist what im saying then I’ll stand my ground. I won’t be losing any sleep over it though " Ok... | |||
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"This is exactly what I mean, I’m questioning why it’s just accepted that people are going to say things that are factually incorrect, or blatant lies, I’m asking why people don’t question this, and now I’m the one who’s getting questioned. What’s the point of a forum that’s full of posts that are factually untrue or lies? It would be useful if you perhaps gave an example of what is factually incorrect that is bothering you so much. The lounge contains lots of nonsense and lots of actual conversation. There are morning threads, evening threads and various themed threads on different days. The forum evolves as people leave and new people join. You either join in or don’t. The choice is yours. On some days I have nothing to contribute, other days I might have a chat, or drop a nonsense comment. But if it bugs me I switch off. I don’t see the problem. It’s voluntary you know… I gave an example above. And again, it doesn’t bother me that people post things that are factually incorrect, I just think it’s weird that no one ever corrects people who do post things that are factually incorrect or question people who say things that are obviously made up fantasies. All I’m doing is asking why it’s so accepted here that people are going to tell lies, make up fantasies as if they’re true etc, why doesn’t anyone ever question them? That is all I’m asking, im not criticising anyone, im not saying it annoys me, im not saying I want to leave, I was just asking that question and explaining why I was asking it. Why am I getting so much hassle for asking that and someone can post that a circumcised dick is more sensitive than an uncut dick without getting questioned? You’re basically proving my point. Op what is your exact point you not going to win this battle and repeat you said not this forum.. Bs Like why is no one else except me questioning what this person’s saying? Surely everyone else realises that I meant this forum so why isn’t anyone telling her that she can’t see what’s obvious to everyone else? That’s the real world, when people start talking shit they get laughed at and told to shut up Because people let others have their conversation without lots of others jumping in too… I know what you mean but, having been here donkeys I see daily arguments so I’m not sure where this nobody challenges anything comes from. It’s not a serious place the lounge. It’s full of nonsense. To be honest I’m not actually talking about the lounge specifically, I rarely post in it, it’s the swingers room I’m talking about but this seemed like the correct place to post as it wasn’t about swinging. I’m not on about causing arguments either, just correcting untruths and questioning blatant lies, it doesn’t have to be an argument. Nonsense is different from untruths and lies. Maybe I’m a bit over sensitive about people telling lies, i really hate it in every walk of life, not just here, and I think that when people are blatantly lying they should be challenged rather than just accept it. Go to the thread about family members knowing that you’re a swinger and read the bit where I questioned someone who claimed that his mom found out he’s a swinger because he didn’t go home after a night out and you’ll see what I mean. See… if you’d said swingers chat we’d have got it!!!! Totally different ballgame. I don’t go in there. I’m going to have to look now… Sorry, I didn’t make that clear at all and I can see that i should have. It’s ok we get it now. Jesus it makes less sense than in here. .. you’ll find lots of stuff people say that really doesn’t ring true but it’s the nature of the beast here because people are talking to photos of knobs and undies. There’s lots of fantasist stuff. If I questioned everything I read I’d have a miserable time. So maybe just avoid certain rooms or threads. Best Way "Best way to be is to let people tell lies and untruths and not question them? I don’t have a miserable time if I question them though. | |||
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"I just think it’s disrespectful to the site when people talk about fantasies as if they’re real and talk about doing things that no one ever does. It gives an inaccurate reflection of the lifestyle and turns it into something it isn’t. If I was on a football forum and someone posted about a goal they scored for their Sunday league team where they dribbled past every opposition player 3 times and then scored with a shot from the half way line everyone would tell them to shut up. But if someone here with a blatantly fake couples profile posts about inviting 20 men to his house to fuck his wife people reply saying how cool it is and they wish they were there. I'd say chill out. People exaggerate all the time. Most people can see through it. You'll drive yourself mad being a one-man truth enforcer. I’m perfectly chilled, i actually enjoy picking them up on it and imagining them panicking as they try to explain their way out of a lie. I don’t get angry about it, I just want to make it uncomfortable for them when they lie so that they think twice about doing it again. I’m not an angry person and I certainly don’t let a stranger on the internet affect my mood but when someone calls me a ‘BS supporter’ (I don’t really know exactly what that is but I know it’s intended as an insult) and tries to twist what im saying then I’ll stand my ground. I won’t be losing any sleep over it though Ok... "Don’t patronise me please. | |||
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"I just think it’s disrespectful to the site when people talk about fantasies as if they’re real and talk about doing things that no one ever does. It gives an inaccurate reflection of the lifestyle and turns it into something it isn’t. If I was on a football forum and someone posted about a goal they scored for their Sunday league team where they dribbled past every opposition player 3 times and then scored with a shot from the half way line everyone would tell them to shut up. But if someone here with a blatantly fake couples profile posts about inviting 20 men to his house to fuck his wife people reply saying how cool it is and they wish they were there. ...says the guy with no verification...? What’s that got to do with it? Am I only allowed to question someone who’s blatantly lying once I’m verified? Do verified people have more authority here? I can recognise a fake account and a lie as well as someone who’s verified. " Apologies but not fake...please see my verifications... Doesn't happen overnight my friend x | |||
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"I just think it’s disrespectful to the site when people talk about fantasies as if they’re real and talk about doing things that no one ever does. It gives an inaccurate reflection of the lifestyle and turns it into something it isn’t. If I was on a football forum and someone posted about a goal they scored for their Sunday league team where they dribbled past every opposition player 3 times and then scored with a shot from the half way line everyone would tell them to shut up. But if someone here with a blatantly fake couples profile posts about inviting 20 men to his house to fuck his wife people reply saying how cool it is and they wish they were there. I'd say chill out. People exaggerate all the time. Most people can see through it. You'll drive yourself mad being a one-man truth enforcer. I’m perfectly chilled, i actually enjoy picking them up on it and imagining them panicking as they try to explain their way out of a lie. I don’t get angry about it, I just want to make it uncomfortable for them when they lie so that they think twice about doing it again. I’m not an angry person and I certainly don’t let a stranger on the internet affect my mood but when someone calls me a ‘BS supporter’ (I don’t really know exactly what that is but I know it’s intended as an insult) and tries to twist what im saying then I’ll stand my ground. I won’t be losing any sleep over it though " Cool. You don't sound too chilled, and maybe don't take such relish in making people feel uncomfortable. Live and let live, I say. Anyway, I'll wish you good night as I've got to attend to the pet monkey I inherited from Michael Jackson. | |||
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"I just think it’s disrespectful to the site when people talk about fantasies as if they’re real and talk about doing things that no one ever does. It gives an inaccurate reflection of the lifestyle and turns it into something it isn’t. If I was on a football forum and someone posted about a goal they scored for their Sunday league team where they dribbled past every opposition player 3 times and then scored with a shot from the half way line everyone would tell them to shut up. But if someone here with a blatantly fake couples profile posts about inviting 20 men to his house to fuck his wife people reply saying how cool it is and they wish they were there. ...says the guy with no verification...? What’s that got to do with it? Am I only allowed to question someone who’s blatantly lying once I’m verified? Do verified people have more authority here? I can recognise a fake account and a lie as well as someone who’s verified. Apologies but not fake...please see my verifications... Doesn't happen overnight my friend x" I didn’t say you were fake, you questioned how someone with no verifications can question someone with a fake couples profile and making up stories. I meant I can tell that their profiles are fake. | |||
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"I just think it’s disrespectful to the site when people talk about fantasies as if they’re real and talk about doing things that no one ever does. It gives an inaccurate reflection of the lifestyle and turns it into something it isn’t. If I was on a football forum and someone posted about a goal they scored for their Sunday league team where they dribbled past every opposition player 3 times and then scored with a shot from the half way line everyone would tell them to shut up. But if someone here with a blatantly fake couples profile posts about inviting 20 men to his house to fuck his wife people reply saying how cool it is and they wish they were there. I'd say chill out. People exaggerate all the time. Most people can see through it. You'll drive yourself mad being a one-man truth enforcer. I’m perfectly chilled, i actually enjoy picking them up on it and imagining them panicking as they try to explain their way out of a lie. I don’t get angry about it, I just want to make it uncomfortable for them when they lie so that they think twice about doing it again. I’m not an angry person and I certainly don’t let a stranger on the internet affect my mood but when someone calls me a ‘BS supporter’ (I don’t really know exactly what that is but I know it’s intended as an insult) and tries to twist what im saying then I’ll stand my ground. I won’t be losing any sleep over it though Cool. You don't sound too chilled, and maybe don't take such relish in making people feel uncomfortable. Live and let live, I say. Anyway, I'll wish you good night as I've got to attend to the pet monkey I inherited from Michael Jackson." Cant resist.. Enjoy fucking Bubbles...enjoy | |||
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"This is exactly what I mean, I’m questioning why it’s just accepted that people are going to say things that are factually incorrect, or blatant lies, I’m asking why people don’t question this, and now I’m the one who’s getting questioned. What’s the point of a forum that’s full of posts that are factually untrue or lies?" You are aware this is a swinging site forum? Not Wikipedia? People gonna people | |||
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"Does anyone else read through the forum….on other sites, I’m definitely not talking about this site…..and find themselves thinking ‘What is actually going on here? Is this place for real?’ because there’s so much craziness going on that never gets pointed out as being crazy and is just considered normal? For instance……on other sites, I’m definitely not talking about this site……people will post a statement claiming something to be true that is absolute nonsense and obviously not true but no one questions it, and if someone does ever question it that person gets vilified for being overly picky. I don’t mean someone making out something happened that is obviously a fantasy, I mean someone saying something as fact that everyone should know is false, like the moon rises in the morning and sets at night. And following on from that, loads of people do claim things have actually happened to them that are way too far fetched and completely fantastical to be true but obviously it’s wrong to accuse someone of being a liar without proof, but when the person is questioned further about the subject they either get defensive, contradict themselves, say something else equally as far fetched, or anything else apart from being able to say anything to make it more believable. And these forums…..on other sites, definitely not this site…..are full of threads that are all about the same topics and are full of completely pointless posts, for instance starting a thread saying ‘who loves *insert something that 90% of people like*?’ And then there will be loads of replies just saying ‘I like it’ in various different ways, and the next day there will be the same thread with the same replies. I could give many more examples of craziness that goes on in these forums….definitely not this forum though……because the list is so long. I’m just wondering if I’m the only person who notices this or do most people also notice it? I feel like most of the people in the forum….on other sites, definitely not this site…..are either a bit crazy or they’re in on a joke or secret that I’m not in on….or the other explanation is that everyone in the forum is totally sane and normal and I’m the crazy one. " If that forum is so crazy and troubles you so much perhaps you should just leave it. | |||
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"I just think it’s disrespectful to the site when people talk about fantasies as if they’re real and talk about doing things that no one ever does. It gives an inaccurate reflection of the lifestyle and turns it into something it isn’t. If I was on a football forum and someone posted about a goal they scored for their Sunday league team where they dribbled past every opposition player 3 times and then scored with a shot from the half way line everyone would tell them to shut up. But if someone here with a blatantly fake couples profile posts about inviting 20 men to his house to fuck his wife people reply saying how cool it is and they wish they were there. " Because stupid people attract those like themselves. Those with any degree of sense can't be arsed dealing with stupid. | |||
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"I just think it’s disrespectful to the site when people talk about fantasies as if they’re real and talk about doing things that no one ever does. It gives an inaccurate reflection of the lifestyle and turns it into something it isn’t. If I was on a football forum and someone posted about a goal they scored for their Sunday league team where they dribbled past every opposition player 3 times and then scored with a shot from the half way line everyone would tell them to shut up. But if someone here with a blatantly fake couples profile posts about inviting 20 men to his house to fuck his wife people reply saying how cool it is and they wish they were there. Because stupid people attract those like themselves. Those with any degree of sense can't be arsed dealing with stupid. "Agree..  | |||
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" If I see a post that is obviously a lie then I ask them questions about it so that they have to expand on their lie and they pretty much always end up contradicting themselves or get very angry and defensive. That’s what happens in the real world but it doesn’t happen here. Do you just accept everything everyone says as the truth even if it obviously isn’t just because you can’t prove it’s a lie? Don’t you ever get the feeling that someone is lying to you and question them about it?" Well plenty do question things and end up in debate. However, a large chunk of people can't be bothered most of the time. This is a swinging site for swinging escapades. Life is too short for constant intellectual debate and argument on things that don't matter with online strangers. Most just want a simple life and lots of great sex. Time issues aside, trying to win a point the whole time is not a sexy look. Perhaps join a debating society. | |||
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" If I see a post that is obviously a lie then I ask them questions about it so that they have to expand on their lie and they pretty much always end up contradicting themselves or get very angry and defensive. That’s what happens in the real world but it doesn’t happen here. Do you just accept everything everyone says as the truth even if it obviously isn’t just because you can’t prove it’s a lie? Don’t you ever get the feeling that someone is lying to you and question them about it? Well plenty do question things and end up in debate. However, a large chunk of people can't be bothered most of the time. This is a swinging site for swinging escapades. Life is too short for constant intellectual debate and argument on things that don't matter with online strangers. Most just want a simple life and lots of great sex. Time issues aside, trying to win a point the whole time is not a sexy look. Perhaps join a debating society. " ? | |||
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"!namyzarcstI." I should probably elaborate on this before it is challenged. 1. What some people see as lies is often personal experience for others. 2. What some people see as truth is often true to them. 3. What random people post on the internet has no bearing on most people's lives. 4. What has no bearing on other people's lives is ignored rather than challenged by them. 5. Ignoring is not the same as ignorance. It's loosely translated as can't be arsed. 6. Challenging "facts" with different "facts" more often than not causes the challenger to be challenged by the "fact" checkers and suddenly we are playing Chinese whispers. 7. While we are distracted, some people are swinging and having sex. 8. Some of those have been 'napped by aliens and sex involves anal probing which is a pain in the arse or so I've been told by those who escaped and returned to tell their tale. !namyzarcstI | |||
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"Does anyone else read through the forum….on other sites, I’m definitely not talking about this site…..and find themselves thinking ‘What is actually going on here? Is this place for real?’ because there’s so much craziness going on that never gets pointed out as being crazy and is just considered normal? For instance……on other sites, I’m definitely not talking about this site……people will post a statement claiming something to be true that is absolute nonsense and obviously not true but no one questions it, and if someone does ever question it that person gets vilified for being overly picky. I don’t mean someone making out something happened that is obviously a fantasy, I mean someone saying something as fact that everyone should know is false, like the moon rises in the morning and sets at night. And following on from that, loads of people do claim things have actually happened to them that are way too far fetched and completely fantastical to be true but obviously it’s wrong to accuse someone of being a liar without proof, but when the person is questioned further about the subject they either get defensive, contradict themselves, say something else equally as far fetched, or anything else apart from being able to say anything to make it more believable. And these forums…..on other sites, definitely not this site…..are full of threads that are all about the same topics and are full of completely pointless posts, for instance starting a thread saying ‘who loves *insert something that 90% of people like*?’ And then there will be loads of replies just saying ‘I like it’ in various different ways, and the next day there will be the same thread with the same replies. I could give many more examples of craziness that goes on in these forums….definitely not this forum though……because the list is so long. I’m just wondering if I’m the only person who notices this or do most people also notice it? I feel like most of the people in the forum….on other sites, definitely not this site…..are either a bit crazy or they’re in on a joke or secret that I’m not in on….or the other explanation is that everyone in the forum is totally sane and normal and I’m the crazy one. " My advice, Stop reading American forums! | |||
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"!namyzarcstI. I should probably elaborate on this before it is challenged. 1. What some people see as lies is often personal experience for others. 2. What some people see as truth is often true to them. 3. What random people post on the internet has no bearing on most people's lives. 4. What has no bearing on other people's lives is ignored rather than challenged by them. 5. Ignoring is not the same as ignorance. It's loosely translated as can't be arsed. 6. Challenging "facts" with different "facts" more often than not causes the challenger to be challenged by the "fact" checkers and suddenly we are playing Chinese whispers. 7. While we are distracted, some people are swinging and having sex. 8. Some of those have been 'napped by aliens and sex involves anal probing which is a pain in the arse or so I've been told by those who escaped and returned to tell their tale. !namyzarcstI " lol yep this is a good summary. Particularly when it comes to swinging and sex our "truth" is often shaped by our own experiences. Some of the things I've done won't be believable to some others. Ditto some of things others claim to have don't seem that believable to me but who knows. And when it comes to sex there is thing called fantasy Best to focus on meeting people for lots of great sex and not worry too much about online intellectual masturbation. | |||
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