FabSwingers.com forum: Chatting site

By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

Just had a really lovely email from somebody (and I have that person's permision to say this) about whether this site is a chatting site. Well, I thin k it is whatever everybody wants it to be... what do other people think?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Certainly not a chatting site for most single guys just getting a reply is a miracle to be honest it's definitely hard work though. ????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As the saying goes.."It's good to talk"

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"Certainly not a chatting site for most single guys just getting a reply is a miracle to be honest it's definitely hard work though. ????"
Ouch, sorry to hear - with your lovely avatar you should be getting lots of mail

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"As the saying goes.."It's good to talk"

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So you are giving thumbs up to it being also good for chatting?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As the saying goes.."It's good to talk"

So you are giving thumbs up to it being also good for chatting?

Yes I do think it is good to chat, and get to know people you might not have otherwise to talk to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think this place can be whatever you want to it to be

Yes some use it just to chat with friends etc but I think the majority do use it to arrange meets etc

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By *ll-Knight-longMan
over a year ago

Derby/Notts(Long Eaton)

Chatting is the best way of getting to know people and the more relaxed and humour the chat the more likely to meet the RIGHT people

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I hardly ever chat on here like in the chat room. I message people occasionally and people message me and I post on occasion in here.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

seeings im not meeting its the only reason im here

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

I dont use the chat rooms and I dont meet at the moment so for me at the moment it is about chatting

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

A big part of this site is the 'chat' rooms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

W chats in the chatroom - i chat in here - if friends arent prepared to talk the small stuff as well as the sexy stuff we aint interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love chatting on here.... Sometimes I chat complete nonsense with certain people, but as Julie has said! It's good to talk

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"Certainly not a chatting site for most single guys just getting a reply is a miracle to be honest it's definitely hard work though. ????Ouch, sorry to hear - with your lovely avatar you should be getting lots of mail

And mum he is 6ft 4

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just had a really lovely email from somebody (and I have that person's permision to say this) about whether this site is a chatting site. Well, I thin k it is whatever everybody wants it to be... what do other people think?

a chat and meet site

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"I love chatting on here.... Sometimes I chat complete nonsense with certain people, but as Julie has said! It's good to talk

Is that just you ?

I bet they don't chat nonsense back though

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

And mum he is 6ft 4

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Now then my girl... I know you might be keen and looking. But shouold nt you get yourself better before making advances? He does look rather nice though, I must admit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's good for chatting and good for meeting.

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

I love carching up with my mates on here. It's all part of the Fab experience for me

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

And mum he is 6ft 4

Now then my girl... I know you might be keen and looking. But shouold nt you get yourself better before making advances? He does look rather nice though, I must admit

I am not meeting at the mo....just having an innocent perv

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

you make of it what you make of it...

i was talking to a nice couple in a club on saturday...

they are not really interested in the talking/getting to know people... and that is their right...

up the other end, I know of people where they want to get a better feel for people and that mean having conversations and being attracted... and that is cool...

some people work on purely the visual...... some people need mental stimulation as well...

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"It's good for chatting and good for meeting.

And for me, learning about stuff and myself and other people. Incredibly interesting. Good sex too

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By *lassic1Man
over a year ago

bellshill

Think the new style chat is OK but too fast moving in a busy room ....you soon loose interest and log out....Actually I would prefer the forums to be more of a multi user chat tool if it would not be hi-jacked with pathetic do gooders out to seek a cause.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I've met some guys I wouldn't have met without getting to know them on the forum but primarily I 'm here for the sex.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

Even oif we ignore the amount of guys who send "Fancy a chat" messages only to be deleted and/or blocked.... at the moment there are 16396 users online.

In video cam room now: 902 chatting.... and they ain't all chatting whilst tugging one off.

Then of that 16396 - 902, how many are posting on the forum?

It is pretty safe to say the stats say this isn't a chat site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

to many talkers not enough players ! to many using it like facebook now !

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

What are the other 15,000 odd doing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well thank you Aphrodite and miss cheeky chops but unfortunately I get very few or next to no replies to messages. ????

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

it is a business, first and foremost

it will adapt to secure it's future.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

"What are the other 15,000 odd doing?

Probably looking at photos and watching their messages get deleted

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

But sometimes chat can lead to other things

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

"to many talkers not enough players ! to many using it like facebook now !

I'm just washing up! Back online in 5!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It can be a chatting site if the person you mail is respectfull enough to reply.

But as a single male i have sent lots of pleasent complimentory messages only to be totally ignored or in some cases blocked!

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

"to many talkers not enough players ! to many using it like facebook now !

I talk loads on here.

....and I play plenty

...mmmm.... maybe they are related?

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

talk loads, meet a bit, play a bit, the range of topics is vast and ever changing and the friends and feedback is comforting and entertaining. true perving pix and many deletions but you gotta kiss a lot of frogs before you find your princes or princesses xx

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"to many talkers not enough players ! to many using it like facebook now !

I'm just washing up! Back online in 5!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well if as many men actually met as chatted about meeting I'd be walking funny

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"Well if as many men actually met as chatted about meeting I'd be walking funny"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"to many talkers not enough players ! to many using it like facebook now !

I'm just washing up! Back online in 5!

Can you not multi task?

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"it is a business, first and foremost

it will adapt to secure it's future."

Very true. I saw a post saying 106,000 logged in during one day. Even with a moderate take up of site supporter passes, I imagine that is quite a revenue

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"What are the other 15,000 odd doing?

Probably looking at photos and watching their messages get deleted

If they used both hands to type, their messages might be better and their messages might not be deleted.

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By *lle adie 2Woman
over a year ago

newcastle upon tyne

Nothing wrong with chatting. I find forums have many interesting and clever conversations..Not all thickos whos jump into bed and cant string a sentence together. If people say im a time waster and on wrong site because of that i dont give a sausage(pardon the punn).

But like many say - talk and see where it leads. Get a rapport first..

Not sorry if people dont agree

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

It is in a way a chatting site but its also a fun site ...i read above someone saying it was hard work ..i completely disagree ..i have been here for a good number of years and loved every second of it ... The old saying is very true ...you get out of it what you put in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nothing wrong with chatting. I find forums have many interesting and clever conversations..Not all thickos whos jump into bed and cant string a sentence together. If people say im a time waster and on wrong site because of that i dont give a sausage(pardon the punn).

But like many say - talk and see where it leads. Get a rapport first..

Not sorry if people dont agree

we totally agree

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By *lle adie 2Woman
over a year ago

newcastle upon tyne

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But sometimes chat can lead to other things

.... Scones!

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

"to many talkers not enough players ! to many using it like facebook now !

I'm just washing up! Back online in 5!

Can you not multi task?

I was... just don't ask what the other hand was doing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I chat to loads of people through messages most of who I'm probably unlikely to meet but we just have some good banter so I think its a chatty site for me. Sometimes those chats turn into meets sometimes not.

I have to say though having been a swinging site chat room moderator in the old style IRC chat rooms (those were the days) I hate the current chat room interface, and whereas back in the day you could have some really good banter about varied subject now it all seems to be about 'get your tits out luv' so a backwards step for me

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"It is in a way a chatting site but its also a fun site ...i read above someone saying it was hard work ..i completely disagree ..i have been here for a good number of years and loved every second of it ... The old saying is very true ...you get out of it what you put in

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I have been here for longer than I can remember.. and I have had a lot of fun and good chats with people, both on and off site as a result of on site chatting.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

i love chatting and making new friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well thank you Aphrodite and miss cheeky chops but unfortunately I get very few or next to no replies to messages. ????"

aw, I'd reply to you!

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"Well thank you Aphrodite and miss cheeky chops but unfortunately I get very few or next to no replies to messages. ????

aw, I'd reply to you!

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That's three already

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So basically what youre all saying is that I need to get my ass in the chatroom. But is it essential that I have to have my cock out while typing like everyone else??

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"So basically what youre all saying is that I need to get my ass in the chatroom. But is it essential that I have to have my cock out while typing like everyone else??

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Not at all. I never go to the chatrooms.. I just dont enjoy them. I like the chats on the forums and the personal email chats. Each to their own but it is a sure way of getting to know people and also give you an idea whom you might like to meet.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

can you type with your cock ?thats a good trick

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"can you type with your cock ?thats a good trick

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Personally? No - I cannot!

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By *YLINDERCouple
over a year ago

CARDIFF

"Chatting is the best way of getting to know people and the more relaxed and humour the chat the more likely to meet the RIGHT people"

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"So basically what youre all saying is that I need to get my ass in the chatroom. But is it essential that I have to have my cock out while typing like everyone else??

I never ever ever go into the chatrooms. My idea of a nice chat is a select group of people swapping messages, not a huge crowd all shrieking to be heard above each other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So basically what youre all saying is that I need to get my ass in the chatroom. But is it essential that I have to have my cock out while typing like everyone else??

I never ever ever go into the chatrooms. My idea of a nice chat is a select group of people swapping messages, not a huge crowd all shrieking to be heard above each other.

Yeah I had that trouble when I went in. Try and speak to someone and there is 20 messages inbetween replies. Maybe I just type too slow haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks again. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let's be honest, no one else is going to listen to my irrelevant nonsense

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