FabSwingers.com forum: Punching above your weight

By *layfullsam OP Man
over a year ago

Solihull

When selecting a potential playmate to message do you

Message those you perceive to be out of your league anyway

Retire gracefully and not try your luck ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On here?

Out of my league.

Men are desperate little things on here and it works greatly in my favour.

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By *layfullsam OP Man
over a year ago

Solihull

"On here?

Out of my league.

Men are desperate little things on here and it works greatly in my favour.

Sounds like you’re winning at fab life

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

When I was meeting I'd message those whose profiles I was attracted to. I never thought anything about leagues

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By *tephanie63Woman
over a year ago

BRIDGWATER

I like men who are out of my league. I would message them on Fab xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do gauge how someone is out of your league yes can be attractive but surely you have the confidence in your own looks and body well thats my opinion

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By *layfullsam OP Man
over a year ago

Solihull

"When I was meeting I'd message those whose profiles I was attracted to. I never thought anything about leagues"

I like it

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By *layfullsam OP Man
over a year ago

Solihull

"How do gauge how someone is out of your league yes can be attractive but surely you have the confidence in your own looks and body well thats my opinion "

Sadly not everyone does and I have mates who on a night out won’t approach a hot girl for fear of rejection

I’d rather approach and be turned down than think what if

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On here?

Out of my league.

Men are desperate little things on here and it works greatly in my favour.

Any holes a goal!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On here?

Out of my league.

Men are desperate little things on here and it works greatly in my favour.

Any holes a goal!

It's awesome.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I don't believe in leagues.

I know, how fucking clichéd can a forum user be? Might as well say I love a connection and kissing as well.

I think people have different things that can make them attractive to others. It doesn't mean someone is in a lower or higher league. Maybe it's because I'm demi but I rarely experience sexual attraction immediately. Actually, maybe once in the past five years or so. I kind of view messaging people differently differently to most I imagine.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

Nobody is out of my league. I'm fucking awesome.

However, on a society level view of leagues, all the fucking time. There are extremely sexy and attractive people on here. Some would, but most wouldn't give me a second look. I know because I've lived it.

That said I'm still genuinely and pleasantly shocked by the interest, time, energy and attention I've been given by some of these women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know where I stand on the spectrum of attractiveness and don’t go too higher than what I deserve

I get matches sometimes with women quite out of my league on the apps and just unmatch before talking. It’s nice to know I might meet their physical requirements but I know where I stand

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By *assy MissWoman
over a year ago

Sent to Coventry

I recently plucked up the courage to message someone I’ve had my eye on for ages - but thought he wouldn’t be interested in me.

We met up and I had the best meet I’ve had in almost 10 years (on and off) of being here, and I’ve had some great meets over the years. This was off the scale.

Lesson learned!!! What had I got to lose really? Worst he could have said no or ignored me.

Life is too short, don’t wait around take a chance.

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

Oh there's sexy people I message sure, but not sure I'm out of their league per say...just not as ripped as they probably would like.

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By *hriscooperMan
over a year ago

Warrington

Without a doubt give it a shot!

I'm far from desperate so if its a no it a no. But if you don't try you'll never ever know.

Sometimes they'll bin you off, others havebalready liked you, and sometimes it's literally that you've caught them when they're really horny.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

"I recently plucked up the courage to message someone I’ve had my eye on for ages - but thought he wouldn’t be interested in me.

We met up and I had the best meet I’ve had in almost 10 years (on and off) of being here, and I’ve had some great meets over the years. This was off the scale.

Lesson learned!!! What had I got to lose really? Worst he could have said no or ignored me.

Life is too short, don’t wait around take a chance. "

This is it really. Nothing to lose. Years of rejection by strangers taught me that. A rejection changes nothing, it's the acceptance which makes new changes.

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By *implynaughty1Couple
over a year ago

stockport

As we say take a chance no one is out of your league

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I focus on building connections with people who share similar interests and values, making it more likely to establish meaningful connections and relationships.

If they can't forge those connections, or if they don't want to, then regretfully, I'm out of their league.

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By *tsJustKateWoman
over a year ago

London

I have never sent a message first!

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I'm not particularly interested in the aesthetics. I often think I'm incompatible with people I'm attracted to for a variety of reasons, but never because one of us is too pretty for the other.

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
over a year ago

Essex

What?!?

Am I supposed to be messaging people?

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By *he ass man 666Man
over a year ago

paradise city

Message who catches my eye and think I match with , you never know they may think the same occasionally

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By *layfullsam OP Man
over a year ago

Solihull

"What?!?

Am I supposed to be messaging people?

Noooo just lay back and offer cake, the men will come to you

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

If I’m not sure, I fab some photos or wink if I’m feeling brave.

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"What?!?

Am I supposed to be messaging people?

Noooo just lay back and offer cake, the men will come to you"

I don’t have any cake!!! Damn. The biscuit tin is empty as well.

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By *apxxxWoman
over a year ago

North Shropshire not Wales!!!ffs & Manchester

I don't consider anyone out of my league any more than I am out of theirs

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By *carlet SeductionWoman
over a year ago

Maidstone

I don't separate people into leagues. I'll message and reply to those I find super hot. *shrugs*

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By *ove2pleaseseukMan
over a year ago

Hastings

"How do gauge how someone is out of your league yes can be attractive but surely you have the confidence in your own looks and body well thats my opinion

Sadly not everyone does and I have mates who on a night out won’t approach a hot girl for fear of rejection

I’d rather approach and be turned down than think what if "

Yep that's be you don't know till you try a and I find if I get knocked back buy someone realy as you put it out of my league I do find it's less of a knock back..

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By *layfullsam OP Man
over a year ago

Solihull

"I don't consider anyone out of my league any more than I am out of theirs

Schoolgirl error saying that you’re going to be inundated now lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On here ..As most don't show their faces I message those whose pictures attract and words that interest

In the real world if I've noticed some hint(s) positive body language I'll approsch

Leagues are for sports teams

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By *hrek101Man
over a year ago

Herts

I would never msg first. Im Fab Ugly, it's only on Fab I get zero interest. I do ok on other sites.

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

Every fella in the world is punching above his weight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When selecting a potential playmate to message do you

Message those you perceive to be out of your league anyway

Retire gracefully and not try your luck ?

I never let that stop me, people all bleed and die no matter how rich or posh they claim to be, it's bullshit.

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By *hrek101Man
over a year ago

Herts

Very aware of my level of ugly. I swipe left if they are very attractive.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I message people I want to talk to. I don't give it further thought than that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one is out of my league, I'm a solid 10. (And humble AF also)

I recommend always trying your luck, you never know someone elses tastes.

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By *esafinadOHolyNightMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I don't try my luck

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By *elshcouple18Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

We do all the time.. you never know when your personality will outweigh your looks..

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By *iss_Juicy79Woman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I tend to shy away from super hot men and women and go for still attractive but not super attractive people instead with reasonable success

Not so much these days just tend to get ghosted or left waiting like a pleb

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No such thing as punching above your weight.

I judge more on whether they're a knobhead or not.

Thats the scale I use.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I like I message and they say no thanks

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By *inky ChefMan
over a year ago

Norwich

"When selecting a potential playmate to message do you

Message those you perceive to be out of your league anyway

Retire gracefully and not try your luck ?

Depends what's in their bio.

If it's the cliche hot,tall, hung, then I don't bother.

If they come across down to earth, then yes, regardless how good they look.

Majority of my ex girlfriends were really out of my league.

I mean most guys fancied them and many even prettier girls approached me.

I didn't cheat though, but I had a lot of offers.

Especially when I was with the hot milf in my 20's.

I was a pussy magnet and I look better now. Advantages of being ugly. Either look the same or look better with age. I've never been hot, tall or hung, but always had the balls to approach any woman I wanted.

They weren't with me because of my huge cock, handsome face or my height.

To be honest I have sent 1 message in the last 1 month probably.

My ego needs to heal a little bit.

Mostly feeling humiliated, ashamed, naive or stupid after messaging recently.

I even tried to aim lower.

That made me feel even worse than messaging out of my league.

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

I hate that phrase. I have really eclectic tastes. There’s no predicting who I will find attractive.

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By *r_reusMan
over a year ago

Coventry

I weigh over 16 stone so chances are few women are above my weight and as a gentleman I probably wouldn't punch them anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Attraction is the only thing that matters, there's no such thing as leagues. Same as the people who say it's their loss, no it isn't, they aren't missing out on anything extraordinary.

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

"When selecting a potential playmate to message do you

Message those you perceive to be out of your league anyway

Retire gracefully and not try your luck ?

I don't do messages to play... Occasionally I will ping someone a compliment, and almost always the ones who respond are the ones above my weight so to speak... Which is a metaphor because no way are they above my physical weight!

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By *layfullsam OP Man
over a year ago

Solihull

"Attraction is the only thing that matters, there's no such thing as leagues. Same as the people who say it's their loss, no it isn't, they aren't missing out on anything extraordinary."

I think there are leagues in a lot of peoples minds

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By *ack and jill 76Couple
over a year ago

Neath

"I have never sent a message first!"
no me when on my single profile never gad 2

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By *hrek101Man
over a year ago

Herts

Thinking about this the other day but us not so good looking tend to be very aware of it but do the attractive ones know they are and think I can do so much better?

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By *layfullsam OP Man
over a year ago

Solihull

"Thinking about this the other day but us not so good looking tend to be very aware of it but do the attractive ones know they are and think I can do so much better?

It’s tricky I’ve heard some very attractive ones don’t get approached on nights out because guys think they wouldn’t be interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've messaged "hot" men to chat about stuff from the forum, usually. I just chat because I'd never put myself with a hot guy. I'm not the type.

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By *appy HoHolly DeeWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

I haven’t been brave to message anyone yet but when I’ll finally pluck up the courage, I’ll pick the hottest ones (hottest in my opinion though, which can greatly differ from what others think is hot). Because what have I got to lose?

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By *layfullsam OP Man
over a year ago

Solihull

"I haven’t been brave to message anyone yet but when I’ll finally pluck up the courage, I’ll pick the hottest ones (hottest in my opinion though, which can greatly differ from what others think is hot). Because what have I got to lose? "

Exactly, apart from a bit of pride you’ve got nothing to lose and everything to win

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

No leagues, only incompatibility

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do you tell what league they are in? Can you tell before of after a face pic and conversation?

I think I've mirrored exactly what I did before fab on fab.

Actually no fab has been worse in one respect. A heck of a lot worse.

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By *layfullsam OP Man
over a year ago

Solihull

"How do you tell what league they are in? Can you tell before of after a face pic and conversation?

I think I've mirrored exactly what I did before fab on fab.

Actually no fab has been worse in one respect. A heck of a lot worse."

Make mates of mine go by there looks “she’s to hot for me”

It’s too long a story to tell but after one very sad experience I NEVER didn’t take a chance again

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

"How do you tell what league they are in? Can you tell before or after a face pic and conversation?"

And how does promotion/relegation work? Is there a transfer window?

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By *layfullsam OP Man
over a year ago

Solihull

"How do you tell what league they are in? Can you tell before or after a face pic and conversation?

And how does promotion/relegation work? Is there a transfer window?"

Absolutely, get hit by a bus “relegation” visit a beautician “promotion” pay for it “transfer window”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nobody is out of my league. I’ll message them and see what happens. The worst they can do is say no, which aint gonna end my world.

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

If we match on preferences then they are not out if our league.

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By *ronmant16Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

"When selecting a potential playmate to message do you

Message those you perceive to be out of your league anyway

Retire gracefully and not try your luck ?

I retire gracefully wondering what if but being blanked or just deleted is not something I care for

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By *hrek101Man
over a year ago

Herts

I usually look at the guys they have been with or describe in their profile. That is a good measure to know I don't stand a chance.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

I just assume that anyone I find attractive isn't going to be interested in me. But I'll happily message anyone for a chat.

I've always been surprised by the utter gorgeousness of the people who, as it turns out, actually are attracted to me. Who knew

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll chat to anyone there's more to ppl that just looks could be a 10 and have as much personally or charisma as a good fish

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I don't message first but if i did i would look first at their veris.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just assume that anyone I find attractive isn't going to be interested in me. But I'll happily message anyone for a chat.

I've always been surprised by the utter gorgeousness of the people who, as it turns out, actually are attracted to me. Who knew

I understand that it's the fact that you are from Sydney Uni itself that is a major factor, the boys cannot resist an academic and want to be involved in your research*

(* I was led to believe that you have the official Sydney Uni Research Dept uniform, and have issued it to other research students)

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By *JtheTomMan
over a year ago

London

Not sure can I say who is who's league. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and lust doesn't have any limits for me

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"I just assume that anyone I find attractive isn't going to be interested in me. But I'll happily message anyone for a chat.

I've always been surprised by the utter gorgeousness of the people who, as it turns out, actually are attracted to me. Who knew

I understand that it's the fact that you are from Sydney Uni itself that is a major factor, the boys cannot resist an academic and want to be involved in your research*

(* I was led to believe that you have the official Sydney Uni Research Dept uniform, and have issued it to other research students)

You would be correct!

So what you're saying is they want me for my clothes... not for me?

Aww man

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By *ake_or_deathMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I'm nothing special but occasionally I've managed to attract some very beautiful women who I would have absolutely thought were out of my league.

Have I learned anything from these experiences? Absolutely not. I still believe in leagues even though my personal experience tells me they don't exist (or at least not always).

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

i dont look at others and think they are above or below i only go with people i sexual attracted to and enjoy the messages / confidence that lead up hopefully they feel the same .... no one is above me no one is below me

im not interested in people who think they are above me or below im just looking for confident fun people so easy to spot those who think there shit dont stink or those who have zero confidence

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

Not out of my league but do often wonder what they see when they want more

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

"i dont look at others and think they are above or below i only go with people i sexual attracted to and enjoy the messages / confidence that lead up hopefully they feel the same .... no one is above me no one is below me

im not interested in people who think they are above me or below im just looking for confident fun people so easy to spot those who think there shit dont stink or those who have zero confidence "
,,, this

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

On here yes i mean the good uns are few and far between

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By *allBBWWoman
over a year ago

North Ayrshire

I've never sent a first message, as I'm not overly confident - and for the same reason I'd probably never message a 'stunner'

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By *ik MMan
over a year ago

Lancashire

For every person who’s punching there has to be another who is scrapping the barrel…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't believe anyone is out of my league. Not here or offline. Nor am I out of anyone's.

There's just preferences and likes/dislikes. It doesn't matter how amazing anyone is, they won't be everyone's cup of tea.

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
over a year ago

A den in the Glen

I'm a honking bit of kit and say so in my bio. I'm just after worse than me really. That's quite tough.

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By *r Mrs FuckableCouple
over a year ago

Stoke

We never message anyone first as we're lazy Fabbers, but we're messaged by the whole Fab spectrum of people, it's not all about looks for us though!

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"When selecting a potential playmate to message do you

Message those you perceive to be out of your league anyway

Retire gracefully and not try your luck ?

Hey… if you don’t shoot your shot you never know!

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By *layfullsam OP Man
over a year ago

Solihull

"When selecting a potential playmate to message do you

Message those you perceive to be out of your league anyway

Retire gracefully and not try your luck ?

Hey… if you don’t shoot your shot you never know!

Yep, made one huge mistake on my yoof, never again and wondering what if is worse than a bit of short term rejection pain

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By *uri00620Woman
over a year ago

Croydon

For me it's not so much the individual BUT if i look at verifications and see that previous people they've met are really hot then I wouldn't meet them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just assume that anyone I find attractive isn't going to be interested in me. But I'll happily message anyone for a chat.

I've always been surprised by the utter gorgeousness of the people who, as it turns out, actually are attracted to me. Who knew

I understand that it's the fact that you are from Sydney Uni itself that is a major factor, the boys cannot resist an academic and want to be involved in your research*

(* I was led to believe that you have the official Sydney Uni Research Dept uniform, and have issued it to other research students)

You would be correct!

So what you're saying is they want me for my clothes... not for me?

Aww man

I believe I was saying that it's your brain they are after, but your acolytes acquired the uniform in homage to your prowess!

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By *t500Man
over a year ago

Hitchin

It's obvious that the odds are stacked in the favour of single females but that's not a reason to not make the effort and take a chance with someone you think you'd get on with. Go for it, the worst you'll get is a no

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Women do this on here cause they’ve got a hole

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"I just assume that anyone I find attractive isn't going to be interested in me. But I'll happily message anyone for a chat.

I've always been surprised by the utter gorgeousness of the people who, as it turns out, actually are attracted to me. Who knew

I understand that it's the fact that you are from Sydney Uni itself that is a major factor, the boys cannot resist an academic and want to be involved in your research*

(* I was led to believe that you have the official Sydney Uni Research Dept uniform, and have issued it to other research students)

You would be correct!

So what you're saying is they want me for my clothes... not for me?

Aww man

I believe I was saying that it's your brain they are after, but your acolytes acquired the uniform in homage to your prowess!"

See... you made it better

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By *ongandharderMan
over a year ago

Rotherham

I'll message most people as I generally don't expect a response but if I get a conversation it's a bonus any more is phenomenal

I don't have the most confidence but I like to think I present myself well and can hold a conversation

So yeah not desperate but not arrogant

I treat people fairly and I hope for the same

And just have fun

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt

"When selecting a potential playmate to message do you

Message those you perceive to be out of your league anyway

Retire gracefully and not try your luck ?

I don't believe anyone is out of my league, I'm not arrogant but no one plays with my confidence.

I don't come across my type on here much either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only approach people I find attractive, here or in the real world, so I guess 100% is the answer.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

"For me it's not so much the individual BUT if i look at verifications and see that previous people they've met are really hot then I wouldn't meet them. "

But … but … you’re really hot as well! I don’t understand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't understand the surprise at/ denial of standard human behaviour. People gravitate to those they consider a similar attractiveness.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I feel like they are out of my league there’s no way I’d reach out first.

As mentioned above I’d also check out their veris to check out who they’ve met previously. I know it’s awful comparing yourself to others but I do sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't really matter you seldom get a reply anyway

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By *mf123Man
over a year ago

with one foot out the door

I dont punch weight it only leads to bruising

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By *ylonseeker2023Man
over a year ago

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"How do gauge how someone is out of your league yes can be attractive but surely you have the confidence in your own looks and body well thats my opinion

Sadly not everyone does and I have mates who on a night out won’t approach a hot girl for fear of rejection

I’d rather approach and be turned down than think what if "

Go for it! Just because a girl appears 'too hot' that doesn't mean anything.

She may turn out to be high maintenance though....haha

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over a year ago

Never get the "your to good for me" or you could do better than me expecially in this situation, if your in my bed your there cause I want you there..

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